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  • Man Sentenced To 45 Months Jail For Sexually Abusing Stepdaughter When She Was 6

    Man Sentenced To 45 Months Jail For Sexually Abusing Stepdaughter When She Was 6

    She was just six years old when her stepfather began sexually abusing her.

    He even preyed on the girl on the night his wife was in hospital giving birth to their first daughter.

    Out of love for him and not wanting her mother and half-sisters to hate her, the girl kept quiet for about eight years.

    But this came at a cost to her own emotional and psychological state. She became deeply affected and would inflict injuries on herself.

    She eventually confided in a school counsellor as she did not want her stepfather to perform the same sordid acts on her half-sisters.

    These details were revealed in the grounds of decision by District Judge Lee-Khoo Poh Choo, who sentenced the stepfather to 45 months’ jailon seven charges of sexual exploitation on Wednesday.

    The accused is now in his 50s and his trial lasted two years. He is appealing against his conviction and sentence.

    The judge said in her grounds of decision that the accused got to know the girl’s mother in 1998. They were married in 2002.

    The couple cannot be named to protect the girl’s identity.

    Judge Lee-Khoo said that the girl, now 21, had testified during the trial that her stepfather first had sex with her when she was six years old.

    This continued for about six years until she was in Primary 6, when they stopped for fear she would get pregnant.

    It was during this period that the stepfather would also perform obscene acts on her.

    Sometime between Sept 7 and 8, 2005, the then 11-year-old girl was asleep in her home when her stepfather touched her private parts.

    The girl’s mother was in hospital giving birth, noted the judge.

    The accused would repeat the act on the girl six more times until March 2010, when the girl was 14.

    She testified he would sometimes tell her he was going to touch her when he picked her up after school in his lorry.

    AFRAID

    She kept mum about the abuse because she was afraid her mother and half-sisters would turn on her and that no one would believe her.

    She shared what had happened with a school counsellor she had been seeing due to her poor grades.

    It was later discovered the girl had harmed herself because she had physical urges as a result of the abuse, the judge said.

    The girl underwent counselling and therapy for two years – delaying the trial till 2014, the judge said.

    In court, the stepfather, who worked as a construction site project supervisor, had claimed that his stepdaughter lied about the abuse as she was angry at him for punishing her for her high phone bill.

    But Judge Lee-Khoo said in her grounds of decision that she found the girl forthright, coherent and credible.

    She added that the girl had nothing to gain and instead, lost the love and warmth of her family.

    After finding the stepfather guilty, the judge said: “His depraved, immoral acts left their marks on the young and vulnerable victim forever.

    “He had destroyed the warm, close-knit family life that the victim had with her mother and half-sisters.”

    His depraved, immoral acts left their marks on the young and vulnerable victim forever.

    – District Judge Lee-Khoo Poh Choo on the stepdad

     

    Source: www.tnp.sg

  • F1: The Glamour Is Gone So Let’s Move On

    F1: The Glamour Is Gone So Let’s Move On

    F1 supremo Bernie Whatshisnamestone said that Singapore might withdraw from the F1 circuit because we treated the F1 like a used tissue paper or something to that effect.

    He was telling the truth, you know.

    F1 is nothing but a glamour sport. In its heyday back in the 70’s, everyone was enthralled by the playboy lifestyle of the F1 drivers and the decadence and excesses of the spectators. It was a sport for the rich and famous and poor plebs like me could only sniff at the images of racing cars on the pages of soiled magazines on the library stands. Don’t judge me.

    But not anymore. The current champion, Lewis Hamilton is more pristine than a Greek virgin……oil. The cars they drive are so computerised that they are better off driving on the arcade machines and we are better off watching that.

    Even when Singapore first mooted the idea of hosting the F1, the excitement of the race was already on the wane. But we decided to proceed because we had a point to make. We wanted Singapore to be known as a global city to attract real foreign talents to work and live here and F1 could provide that pull. And consequently by successfully organising what was and still is a complex night race in the middle of a city, Singapore has shown to the world our innovation, creativity and never-say-die attitude.

    And so having achieved all that and our money-shot (see pic above), it is now about dollars and cents. If we are not making money out of F1, we should just stop hosting it.

    Uncle Bernie should understand all about money. He single-handedly polished a turd to sell it as a multi-billion dollar diamond.

    Seriously. Who would sit in the heat, breathing in the toxic exhaust fumes just to watch a bunch of racing cars zooming past in split-seconds forty-nine4 times? Unless it was all about hype.

    But the hype is gone now.

    So we should just say thank you to Uncle Bernie. All good things will come to an end. And the era of F1 in Singapore is truly over.

     

    Source: https://thesingaporebeacon.com

  • Elected Presidency – PAP ‘Elite’ Treating Us Like Children, Don’t Trust Our Choice

    Elected Presidency – PAP ‘Elite’ Treating Us Like Children, Don’t Trust Our Choice

    Some so called “smart” leaders think we should get Malays as PE since abt 50yrs, Malays is not being elected Singapore’s President. Some others think ‘Nah! We should not choose based on races, we should choose more on their credibilities etc…

    Who are you to decide for us?

    None of you has the right to decide for us.

    For myself, I feel more disappointed for PE not because of Malays or not but more because we don’t get our rights and our own freedom to choose our own future elected President. I will miss that moment to watch the rallies and watching many Singaporeans gather in crowd and concern of their future. As though the government doesn’t trust our choice. So please stop taking us as a child, as though we are so ignorant not to know who and who to choose as a President… Self elected President to me will only show your side of weakness, lack of confidence and competitive! When US past candidates had fought vigorously for about more than a year… Here we in Singapore being one of the most expensive and competitive country in most countries, we are stuck with back dated minded and lack of confidence leaders. It’s a shame and a big turn off! “Democracy” practice indeed!! Go and sell Koyok elsewhere!

     

    Source: AR Haroun

  • Ismail Kassim: Grading Your Leaders

    Ismail Kassim: Grading Your Leaders

    Lately I have been thinking about the nature of political leadership.
    What is the difference, I ask myself, between good leaders and great leaders and between the former and those regarded as average, ‘’Ok, can-do or so-so’’ leaders?
    I think we can all agree that good leaders are good managers. They are relatively hard-working, efficient, and to some extent, able to deliver the promised material goods to the people.
    Great leaders, on the other hand, need not necessarily be good at managing, but they have a grand vision and the ability to inspire their people towards a common goal.
    They are leaders who are ready to sacrifice their lives for a cause they believe in. They become great only after emerging victorious after a struggle against great odds.
    History is replete with such great leaders: Mao, Nehru, Uncle Ho, Thatcher, Reagan, Mandela, Deng Xiaoping and our very own LKY. I will also put Mahathir and Putin, despite their shortcomings, in the same category.
    In short, the underlying common factor is struggle. It is only through a tough battle that a leader can stamp his authority and forge group cohesion and solidarity around him.
    There is no other way. Camaraderie cannot arise in the absence of a battle against deadly opponents and certainly not through devious means to achieve victory without fighting.
    How about good leaders who lived in stable, post-revolutionary times? Is there any hope of them becoming great?
    Of course – lots of hopes. One way is to create your own challenges through manipulating the internal or external landscape.
    Abe, I think, is on the way to greatness if his efforts to remould the Japanese mind after the traumas of WW11 succeed.
    Duterte and Modi too have a chance if they could last the distance in their valiant goal to reshape their nations.
    So good leaders can become great, but if they are not careful they can also be downgraded one rung down to the level of the ‘’so-so’’ leaders.
    Badawi is a fine example of a leader considered good initially but later downgraded. He had great dreams and goals, but he could not control the greedy warlords and also the religious misogynists in and out of his party. Under their combined onslaught, his vision evaporated into thin air.
    Cameron, after winning a second term, was on the road to greatness, but then he stumbled badly over the Brexit issue. After his defeat in the referendum and subsequent resignation, history will put him under the ‘’so-so’’ category.
    Other leaders who are currently classified as good will also meet the same fate as Cameron if they mishandle or spurn the challenges facing them.
    Actually, leaders who have to face tough but winnable challenges during their rule should consider themselves lucky. They do not have to manufacture a crisis. All they need is to brace themselves and rally their good-minded people to battle.
    But if they take the soft or easy option, shifting the goalpost and disqualifying their opponents through dubious constitutional manoeuvres, then they risk slipping from good to the ‘’so-so’’ category.
    Such ‘’so-so’’ leaders, of course, can still console themselves. At least they are one rung above the bottom group of rotten leaders; the corrupt who steal their people’s money to feed their family frenzied overseas shopping sprees and bribe or buy political support from friends and foes alike.
    There are so many of these rotten apples, near and far, that I don’t think it is necessary for me to mention any by name.
    Readers should not have any problems in identifying at least some of them. What, if in the process of dodging a fight, a good leader makes a monumental blunder, an error of judgement, with grave consequences for his people in the coming years?
    Will he just be demoted to ‘’so-so’’ or kick down two rungs to join the rotten lot? I will let history make that call.
    spurns greatness
    falls from good to rotten
    ah! what a fate
  • Madrasah Irsyad Principal To Students: Leave The Madrasah As Good Human Beings Who Contribute To Society

    Madrasah Irsyad Principal To Students: Leave The Madrasah As Good Human Beings Who Contribute To Society

    Quoted from Mr. Noor Isham Sanif (Principal Of Madrasah Irsyad Zuhri):

    “I don’t want you to leave Madrasah Irsyad with just a piece of paper qualification but I want you to leave this place having contributed to the society and with good characteristics”

    Bye Muhd Danial Husaini. Lucky of you to get this opportunity to contribute back to the society no matter how big or small it is and even if it means having to travel elswhere to do good. Alhamdullillah.

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    Ps/- Mana nak cari principal species macam ni kalau tidak di Madrasah Irsyad? The best learning institution for OUR COMMUNITY’s primary school education.

     

    Source: Mariah Amri

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