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  • Owners Of T Bob’s Corner Donating Some Earnings To Help Autistic 11 Year Old Boy

    Owners Of T Bob’s Corner Donating Some Earnings To Help Autistic 11 Year Old Boy

    The owners of a Western food restaurant are donating part of its proceeds to help an 11-year-old boy who has autism.

    Miss Nurul Jannah Saharuddin, 23, and Miss Indah Nabielah Zulkarnain, 24, who run T Bob’s Corner in Bedok, are giving up 30 per cent of the eatery’s takings from Oct 18 to 23 to help the boy, Akid, after hearing about his plight from a musician who performed at their restaurant recently.

    Earlier this year, The New Paper reported on how Akid had become more aggressive and violent because of his condition. (See report below.)

    The women bought over the business at Block 527, Bedok North Street 3, two months ago with the help of their fathers.

    Miss Indah said that donating a sizeable chunk of their week-long revenue would hit their take-home income, but both of them shrugged it off.

    Miss Jannah told The New Paper: “We thought 30 per cent was a good number. If you want to help, it has to be a substantial amount, even if it hurts a little.”

    Miss Indah said: “Well, businesses come with risks, right?”

    Miss Indah Nabielah Zulkarnain TNP PHOTOS: AHMAD FARUQ ROZALI

     

    Only their income will be affected as their staff of two chefs and three part-time waiters will continue to draw their full wages.

    Miss Jannah, an RMIT University business management graduate, said: “It would demoralise them otherwise. So we both decided we would make the sacrifice so Akid can benefit from it.”

    They estimate that they will lose about 15 to 20 per cent of their take-home income for that week.

    It’s their way of giving back, they said.

    VOLUNTEER WORK

    Miss Indah, a life sciences graduate, became involved in fund-raising activities while studying at the National University of Singapore.

    Her experience in volunteering at an orphanage in Indonesia five years ago also played a part in making her want to help Akid.

    “Five years later, the children (at the orphanage) are still messaging me on Facebook, asking me when I’m returning to visit. The fact that these kids remember us means that they treasure every little bit we do, even if we didn’t do much,” she said.

    Agreeing, Miss Jannah said: “My parents told me, ‘You don’t need money to be nice’.

    “(Indah) didn’t have to fork out a million dollars to have the kids remember her. It’s just the things we do that matter.”

    Miss Jannah’s path to volunteering was more personal.

    A decade ago, she was a beneficiary of a South East Community Development Programme financial aid programme.

    Her mother, who has fought thyroid cancer for close to two decades, was also a source of inspiration.

    “She never saw her condition as something to hold her back. She still gave back by volunteering on weekends,” Miss Jannah said.

    She plans to ask her musician father, Mr Saharuddin Jalil, to invite some bands to perform at the restaurant next week in the hope of attracting more customers.

    Asked if they are worried about coping with the expected crowd, Miss Indah said with a smile: “That will be a good problem.”

     

    Source: www.tnp.sg

  • Son Inspired Mother To Start Special Needs School

    Son Inspired Mother To Start Special Needs School

    Her own experience gave her the drive to help others.

    In 2003, Madam Faraliza Zainal’s firstborn was diagnosed with Asperger syndrome, a form of autism.

    Her son Mohd Ashraf Mohd Ali was three.

    For Madam Faraliza, as with the many other caregivers in her shoes, it was the start of a journey of ups and downs, especially when it came to her son interacting with other people.

    Madam Faraliza told The New Paper of a hurtful incident when her son was six.

    The Cast of Redha Visit MIJ Education Hub

    He had disturbed another child during a visit to the zoo.

    Madam Faraliza, 45, recalled: “The father told me angrily, ‘Can you teach your son some manners?’

    “That was extremely upsetting.”

    Madam Faraliza admitted that the early days were tough for her and her husband.

    During an MP home visit in 2006, Mohd Ashraf spat at the MP.

    But raising a child with autism led Madam Faraliza to realise the importance of education specifically tailored for children with special needs.

    She left her high-flying job with Dow Jones in 2011 to set up My Islamic Journey Education Hub (MIJ).

    It started as a weekend madrasah for students with special needs, aged between five and 30.

    POPULAR

    The school proved popular and it began a full-time English-language holistic programme last year, combining religious education with numeracy, literacy and life skills.

    The weekday programme is endorsed by the Singapore Islamic Scholars & Religious Teachers Association, and it caters to students aged between 17 and 30.

    Before founding MIJ, Madam Faraliza earned an advanced diploma in special needs education, became a certified play therapist, and researched other methods of therapy.

    “Being a mother of an autistic child helps because you need hands-on experience,” said Madam Faraliza, who also provides on-the-job training fir her five full-time teachers and 19 part-time teachers.

    Her son is among those enrolled. They include students with Down syndrome, dyslexia, and attention deficit hyperactivity disorder.

    The school now has 180 students.

    Lessons at MIJ take a more practical approach.

    “We take them to the supermarket and give them a list of things to purchase. They also carry calculators with them to calculate the price,” said Madam Faraliza.

    Other activities include baking, gardening and even self-defence lessons, courtesy of a mixed martial arts studio.

    For MIJ’s special educators, such as Miss Nur Faezah Misngadi, 25, shaping the minds of the students every day is not an easy feat and requires plenty of patience.

    “We need support from all facets of society. There is always talk of help for those with special needs, but how exactly are you helping them? You need to walk the talk,” she said.

     

    Source: www.tnp.sg