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  • Beware Of This Hougang Nanny, Our Baby Became Drowsy And Sick After Her Care

    Beware Of This Hougang Nanny, Our Baby Became Drowsy And Sick After Her Care

    <Facebook complaint by Clara Ong>

    PLEASE TAKE NOTE ON NANNY (DIAH JAMARI) staying at Blk 446 Hougang ave 8 #XX-XXXX. My Daughter had been hospitalise for 4 days after sending to her. Because she’s sick and Super drowsy. Nanny claims that baby’s tired just not enough sleep. But Doctors told us baby’s behaving this way not due to not enough sleep.

    Today, police IO called me and told me that they will need to come down to speak to us to further investigate because they just checked and found out that multiple reports was Made against this nanny over the same reason that babies got drowsy after sending to Nanny’s place. When admitted my baby girl to hospital, nanny doesn’t response or reply any of our messages.

    When we go down her house and confronted nanny about it, she keep changing her story and say that this is due to baby not enough sleep. As a parent, how can we not be worried about our baby girl as she’s barely one year old and yet she have to go thru so many scans and X-ray, whereby is harmful to her body because the radiation is strong. When we told nanny about the scan and X-ray that baby’s going thru, nanny still can replied us with a inhuman reply “is only one time scan so nevermind”. What kind of reply is that.

    When we asked nanny what did she do to my baby girl. Nanny claims that she did nothing and even start giving excuse say that baby’s all the way playing on her own and she didn’t carry our baby at all BECAUSE SHE CLAIMS THAT MY BABY GIRL IS TOO HEAVY FOR HER TO CARRY. if you are telling me that the nanny is big and heavy can’t carry I could understand but you are telling me a small baby you can’t carry? Then why do you even agree to take care of babies or even being a babysitter or nanny? Nanny even called police and claims that we accused her. And even slam her door on us.

    When police arrived at the doorstep, she became another person, she came down and wear make up and even dress up herself and talk so nicely and politely to the police. Really didn’t know what Did she do to my baby girl and cause her this way but currently we are waiting for her blood test result to be out. And also just received news of another baby just took blood test and under investigate because of this nanny.

    P.S:// Please kindly share around to promote awareness of this to prevent innocent babies from getting hurt again.

    Source: www.allsingaporestuff.com

  • Mother And 3-Month-Old Baby Daughter Found Dead At Foot Of Fajar Road Flat

    Mother And 3-Month-Old Baby Daughter Found Dead At Foot Of Fajar Road Flat

    A mother and her baby daughter were found dead at the foot of Block 443B Fajar Road in Bukit Panjang on Wednesday (Nov 23) morning.

    Police told The New Paper (TNP) they were alerted to the case at around 6.40am.

    Officers found them motionless and paramedics pronounced them dead at the scene.

    The mother was 29 years old while the baby was about three months old.

    When TNP arrived at the scene, a neighbour said she had heard a loud sound in the morning.

    Neighbours said they later saw a blue tent and a white canvas sheet covering the bodies.

    Police have classified the case as an unnatural death.

     

    Source: www.tnp.sg

     

  • Pelarian Mahu Jual Bayi Berusia 1 Bulan Di eBay Dengan Harga S$7,600

    Pelarian Mahu Jual Bayi Berusia 1 Bulan Di eBay Dengan Harga S$7,600

    Seorang pendatang asing ke Jerman yang memuat naik gambar bayinya ke laman eBay untuk dijual, dilarang berjumpa dengan anaknya yang baru berusia enam minggu tanpa penyeliaan.

    Bayi yang bernama Maria itu dijual di laman bidaan online tersebut oleh bapanya. Bayi itu kini sudahpun berada di bawah unit jagaan khas di Duisburg di North Rhine-Westphalia, Jerman Barat, lapor Daily Mail.

    Mahkamah kelurga di bandar itu mengarahkan ibu bayi berkenaan supaya berpindah ke unit yang sama namun bapanya hanya dibenarkan berjumpa dengan mereka di bawah penyeliaan yang ketat.

    Maria ditawarkan dengan harga €5,000 (S$7,600) dengan kapsyen: “Bayi berusia 40 hari ini bernama Maria…untuk dijual”.

    Daily Mail melaporkan, bapa bayi itu yang berusia 28 tahun dan berpindah ke Jerman sebagai pelarian baru-baru ini, menyerahkan dirinya kepada polis dan bayi tersebut diambil dan diletakkan di bawah jagaan unit khas sementara keputusan dibuat, sama ada keluarga bayi itu akan dikenakan hukuman jenayah.

    Iklan, yang memaparkan gambar-gambar Maria di laman eBay itu dipadam dalam masa 30 minit kemudian sebelum lelaki tersebut menyerah diri.

    Pihak pendakwa raya kini sedang menyiasat sama ada lelaki itu perlu dihukum atau tidak setelah dia mendakwa tidak serius dengan iklan tersebut.

    Pengarah Kesatuan Demokratik-Kristian di daerah Rheinhausen, Duisburg di mana keluarga mereka tinggal berkata: “Saya berpendapat perbuatan lelaki itu mesti dikenakan tindakan undang-undang”.

    “Jika ibu bapa bayi itu tidak mampu menanggung anak mereka dan menjaganya, kami ada menyediakan kemungkinan di Jerman supaya bayi itu diberikan sebagai anak angkat kepada keluarga lain.”

    Menurut seorang jurucakap khidmat belia di Duisburg: “Bayi itu sekarang diletakkan di bawah keluarga jagaan, di mana dia akan menetap sehingga keadaan lebih jelas.”

    Kedua ibu bapa bayi berkenaan pula kini berada di bawah pemantauan khidmat sosial, lapor Daily Mail.

    “Pihak berkuasa perubatan juga menyatakan masih ada kemungkinan Maria dikembalikan kepada ibu bapanya – jika dapat dibuktikan mereka tidak melakukan sebarang jenayah.”

    Source: Berita MediaCorp

  • Woman Gave Birth To Stillborn, SGH Refuse To Accept Responsibility

    Woman Gave Birth To Stillborn, SGH Refuse To Accept Responsibility

    I have a story to share.. something that i need to tell the world, it has been bothering me.. Every night before i sleep i have tears rolling down my cheeks. No im not going to hide this anymore. Its time i tell everyone, time for me to let out this anger that has been within me. I was confused all this while. Lost.. worried.. devastated. I thought this is it. My life is over.. This is going to be a long story, pardon me if my english is not so fantastic. For those who wants to read it go ahead.. for those who is just going to curse me.. i think it best if u dont waste your time..

    I got married to the love of my life on 6th June 2015, that was the happiest day of my life.. somewhere in late June, i got to know i was pregnant.. Wow! I felt amazing! Im pregnant!! I never thought i would be a mother.. Me and my husband were so thankful. On july… things started to get a little bit out of hands.. i started bleeding, having cramps.. it was unbearable.. i couldnt walk or stand.. it was so painful. My mom n husband called the ambulance and i was brought to SGH ..It was on 28th July 2016 i got a miscarriage. I cried and cried. My husband my family console me.. i know this is not the end. I recovered fully and got back on my feet!

    September 2016 came.. my period did not. I was worried because my period have not been coming, i need to have my period to get the eggs right.. i was lost i tod i could never get pregnant again. I went to the clinic. Told the doctor what happened, had a pregnancy test it negative. I wasnt pregnant i looked fine.. but i wasnt, i was actually hoping to be pregnant. Doctor gave me a medicine.. and told me to eat it and it will make my period come. Days passed… i just looked at the medicine.. i felt like something was not right i didnt ate the medicine. I took 3 pregnancy test.. its all negative. My period didnt come. What the hell is wrong with me! Within me i felt that i was pregnant.. i told my husband how i felt, he didnt want to give me hope. He say no you are not pregnant. I agreed. Months passed.. i decided to do a test again! Im not satisfied.. i had a positive! Im pregnant!! Im really pregnant!! Yey!!!! Omg!! Went to SGH.. baby is healthy, mommy is healthy. Baby growing perfectly fine! Everything was fabulous. Its a baby girl! Pretty little baby girl. Did a 3d scan, doc say baby has a beautiful structure and a thick hair, happily saying to myself .. i made that. Hehe.. Got my baby name.. Shereena Esha’al, beautiful name for a beautiful girl .. Shereena was a very happy baby.

    EDD 15th June 2016. Days goes on.. Shereena still didnt want to come out! Baby why? Mummy wants to see you.. Had all her stuff ready. Everything so well prepared just to welcome my angel..

    16th June 2016 i called my husband telling him i was in pain. My mother in law took leave to accompany me at home.. my husband rushed back home.. i went to bath. Thinking this is it. Today is the day. Shereena is coming to see the world.. Yey!!! Brought my hospital bag. Me n my husband made our way to SGH.. weeee…
    In the labour ward, doctor checked.. saying im only 1cm dilated. Weally?.. only 1cm.. i was upset.. Doctor told me to go home first, i refused. I said im really in pain. I want to stay in the hospital. My guts is telling me im going to give birth.. He agreed and allowed me to stay, put me in the normal ward. I was resting on my bed because i didnt sleep the whole night.. i was so exhausted. Came a nurse who told me.. i cant just lie around i need to walk around to open my cervix so i can give birth. Mind you. I was a very active pregnant women who dont stop walking even after carrying my baby for 10month. As usual i listen to her. Because she is more experienced and she is a “Nurse” she should know better.. so i walked around SGH from 1130am, 16th June 2016 until 12plus 17th June 2016. Let me tell you this .. not a single doctor came to check how i was progressing. C’mon i walked the whole hospital how can my cervix not opened right.. i mean thats what the nurse told me…

    17th June 2016 ard 12plus.. i think its time for bed.. husband had to wait outside the waiting area. I couldnt sleep.. i was in pain.. went in out of the ward. Went to the nurse counter.. told them im in pain.. they said ok go back to your bed. I went back. A nurse came. She said “rate your pain scale from 1-10” i said 8.. she say ok your pain scale is not so bad. U should go get some rest. I listen to her. I tried to sleep i couldnt. I was in so much pain.

    17th June 2016 ard 3am, a nurse came asked if i want to check how many cm dilated, i agreed.. Cmon check me. I should be like 5cm dilated, since i walked around the hospital. Again its still 1cm.. Hey! What happened to your walk around theory. Seems like it didnt work. It made me more tired! .. duuhh!!

    17th June 2016 ~ 6.30
    Nurse came in to do a round check. She put the heartbeat belt around me.. my baby heartbeat is still there.. only….that It looks different from the day i walked in.. but at that point of time, i couldn’t see my baby’s heartbeat.. so i just wait patiently. I mean im in the hospital what could go wrong right..
    The machine started to have a loud beeping sound it didnt stop the nurse was just a few steps away. Attending to other patients. The beeping sound continued. . It didn’t stop. The nurse ignored. I was thinking that it was nothing serious since the nurse didnt came to attend to me..
    A few long minutes later.. she came. Adjusting the heartbeat belt. No heartbeat. She slowly tried to find a heartbeat.. no heartbeat.. i looked at her. I felt like pulling the doppler from her and finding my baby’s heartbeat.. but then again.. i put my trust in her. She’s the nurse. She knows better. I started to feel something not right. Suddenly so many people in my ward. My husband is still outside. Not knowing what happened. I dont know what they were doing. I was asking for explaination. Is my baby still there?? Wheres my baby’s heartbeat. Everyone just kept quiet.. looking at me. “Hey don’t look at me. I not the nurse or doctor. Im the patient. Tell me now. What happened!”.. i said in my heart.. they say they couldn’t find a heartbeat. They need to bring me to the labour ward to confirm. Oh .. now only bring me to labour ward. Come i clap for you! Very good!! .. They brought me to the labour ward. Confirmed no heartbeat found. They assumed, my baby passed away because of my baby cord wrapped around her neck. There was no urgency in the hospital. No one tried to do a immediate csec or maybe a thought to revive my baby. I felt that, my baby life was nothing to them. I was lifeless.. i was lost. I looked at my husband. We were so confused. Its this true. Am i dreaming. If i am. Enough. Its time to wake up. No this can’t be true! My baby is 40weeks 2 days. She is fully developed. She is healthy. She cant leave me! No.. its impossible. I think they made a mistake. I told them i felt something still in my tummy. They said its just my placenta. Im having contraction. What?? Are u kidding me?? Where’s the playful kicks?? .. where??? I killed my own child?? My child was suppose to be safe in my womb??.. im not a mother. I killed my own child?? Again?! This is the 2nd time! Im a effing failure! Such a failure. I lost it. I really lost it. I dont know how to react? What should i do now. How should i face the world. Everyone will think i kill my own child a mother who cant keep her own baby safe! I remembered i kept apologizing to my husband. I felt like a failure. A wife who cant give the husband a child.

    I was then sent back to my ward, My baby passed away around 7am on 17th June 2016 . From 7am to 1130am not a single doctor came to me. My mom had to go out looking for a doctor to induce me so i can go in labour and deliver Shereena Esha’al, they still want me to go through natural labour and they say labour will kick in 2-3days. What the hell! Eh wake up your idea. I have a lifeless baby in my womb la,what are u all waiting for??? Deepavali isit??. Only around 1130am a junior doctor came to induce me.. a while later a Doc and a senior nurse came to explained the situation. My sister was questioning them so many questions none of it was answered properly with justification , there was 1 question which is still palying in my mind. My sister asked why was there a beeping sound for 10min but the nurse did not came to attend to me sister. They senior nurse then answered ” we also have other patients to attend to! Power la macha!! U confirm pass one!! ” at the point of time, i crushed even more.. my hard was so painful. Am i not as important as other patients, is my baby life not as important. All this questions have been playing in my mind. Im upset. I regret for choosing SGH for the place for me to give birth to my daughter.

    17th June 2016 ~ 11:42pm
    I was having interval 3mins contraction. Its time for me to give birth.. i was sent down to labour ward. Shereena is coming.. i pushed and pushed. I really had no energy. I didnt eat or drink. I just couldnt. Push.. and push..

    18th June 2016 12.06am

    I gave birth to a beautiful baby. Stillborn but still born. I didnt tear. Not a bit. The room was so quiet. No sound of baby cries. Nothing.. i hold my baby first time in my arms. So soft.. so beautiful.. so perfect.. she look just like me.. im strong. I always tell myself that. Just to make myself feel better. I kissed my baby. Played with cheeks, her pouty red lips. Her chin.. her eyes which is closed. She smells like heaven. In my heart i have broken into million pieces.. i stayed strong for my husband.. for my family. My baby died due to meconium aspirations. My baby have been in my womb too long. I was told that my amniotic fluid was already low. Which the hospital failed to detect. If they have done a proper check i believed this would have not happened. Their answered will alwaysbe, usually other women give birth naturally, normally its not like this.. so many excuses..

    Not a single day goes by without tears rolling down my cheeks. My daughter would have been 4months now. Playing and lauging with me.. but no. Due to the poor management of SGH. I lost my child. They refused to accept that there’s a lapse on their end. They said, their staffs are competent… Define competent. Until today they have not reverted back to me..

    I am not asking for sympathy. I have alot of people asking me what actually happened to me baby. Here i am, telling everyone what actually happened. I hope all this can be avoided. The doctors and nurses who was involve would go back home happily with their family laughing and having fun. When i am here traumatised every single day remembering what happened..

    For those who are still worried about my wellbeing, dont worry. Im fine. Thanks for all the concern. Im back on my feet. Not going through depression. Im blessed with awesome husband and my beautiful family.. i just miss my little munchkin Shereena Esha’al. . Assalamualaikum..

    Source: Sulastri Binte Abdul Salam

  • Coroner Records Open Verdict On Case Of Infant Found Dead In Tampines MRT Station Toilet

    Coroner Records Open Verdict On Case Of Infant Found Dead In Tampines MRT Station Toilet

    The unidentified male infant who was found dead in a sanitary bin in a toilet at Tampines MRT Station four months ago was linked to three Indonesian women who had visited Singapore earlier, with one of them likely to be his mother.

    However, the infant’s cause of death could not be ascertained by the Coroner’s Court, said State Coroner Marvin Bay on Thursday (Oct 20) as he recorded an open verdict in the case.

    The male infant of unknown race and age was pronounced dead at 1.49pm on June 3, after he was discovered in the toilet.

    A cleaner there had found the infant’s body inside a red plastic bag, which was marked with the word “Tampines”, the court heard.

    She had last cleaned the toilet at 11am that same day but did not notice anything suspicious, noted investigation officer Sanjeewani Panday when she took the stand on Thursday.

    Based on CCTV footage and witness accounts, the police found that three Indonesian women, who were believed to have entered Singapore to help out at a Hari Raya bazaar held in the open field near Tampines MRT station, were involved in abandoning the infant.

    At 8.12am, two women identified as Ms A, 31, and Ms I, 26, had entered the toilet. Ms A was seen carrying a pink bag that appeared to contain a heavy load. But the bag seemed lighter and swayed slightly when they left the toilet some 20 minutes later.

    A third woman wearing a black headscarf, identified as Ms M, 35, was seen walking from the bazaar to the toilet at about 10am and left at about 11.10am.

    Further enquiries at the bazaar led the police to a stall helper who knew Ms I. Facebook exchanges between them later revealed that Ms M had admitted to Ms I that she “threw away a baby” in the women’s toilet at the train station.

    The three women had entered Singapore on May 25. Ms M, who appeared pregnant in the arrival CCTV footage, left the country on June 5, while the other two left two days later.

    Delivering his findings, Mr Bay said there was no basis to suspect foul play, despite the “rather callous and sadly unceremonious manner” the infant was found.

    His body, which still had the umbilical cord and placenta intact, did not show signs of any deliberate traumatic injury that could have led to the infant’s death.

    Post-mortem findings had estimated that the gestational age of the deceased was about 38 to 42 weeks, where the full-term infant was capable of being born alive.

    Yet, the pathologist could not rule out a stillbirth and could not ascertain the cause of death.

    “(This) would necessarily constrain me to deliver an open verdict for this case,” said Mr Bay.

    Given the chronological sequence of the trips made to the toilet, Mr Bay noted that it was likely that Ms M’s visit there was to address and alleviate the after-effects of childbirth, and not to actually give birth to the child in the toilet.

    While the evidence strongly pointed to Ms M being most likely the mother, her absence from Singapore’s jurisdiction had made it impossible to confirm her maternity as the DNA samples collected required a reference sample from her, he said.

    It is understood that the three Indonesian women remain as persons of interest.

     

    Source: TODAY Online