Tag: child

  • Netizens Lash Out At Woman Who Suggested The Lower Income Should Not Give Birth To Too Many Children

    Netizens Lash Out At Woman Who Suggested The Lower Income Should Not Give Birth To Too Many Children

    A lady by the name of Syazwani decided to post her rant on Facebook regarding family planning in Malaysia. In her rant, she even backed it up with a couple of research articles as she wanted to spread an intellectual advice to others.

    She said, “You know your husband’s income is RM800-RM1000, then don’t give birth to so many children until 5-6 kids la. Until you trouble yourself, until you don’t even have money for food and drinks. Then, you blame the government.” “In these times, if your pay is below RM1000, it is only enough to sustain one child. No need to make a whole team of children. Be smart in planning (on having) children.”

    To ensure that people truly understand her message, she even broke down the cost of living with only RM1000 as income. House: RM400 Transportation: RM200 (perhaps only a motorbike) Water and Electricity Bills: RM200 Total so far: RM800 Remaining: Only RM200 Syazwani, who is a Economics degree holder, goes on to explain this is why many people only eat rice and budu without other side dishes. “It is burdensome for a person with RM1000 salary to share food with 7 other people.”

    The Universiti Sains Malaysia graduate even included what the possible negative outcome of this life quality could bring. 1. More robbery or stealing cases because it is difficult to find proper income. 2. Children grow up in unhealthy conditions due to lack of nutrition as their diet is not according to the food pyramid. 3. Too many (negative) social cases because there isn’t enough time to too many children.

    To further validate her message, she added steps to solving this problem. 1. Government should implement a ONE child to ONE family law. 2. Control your lust or consume birth control pills 3. If you want many children then find a better paying job before doing so, so that later it is easier to bring them up. 4. Do two jobs. 5. Wife has to work too. The young graduate also mentioned some typical methods used in family planning such as Intrauterine Contraceptive Device (IUCD), condoms, birth control or contraceptive pills, etc.

    Although there were some who agreed to her post, shockingly, most netizens disagreed with her, even to the point of calling her ideas stupid and backwards. A lot more others started to spread hate towards her. “What a stupid woman. Did she put her brains in her butt or what?” “Talk without using your brains!” One very angry man even condemned her intelligence, while many others criticised her for saying such statements because she is not married. “You memang don’t have brains. Your parents sent you to study so that you’ll be intelligent in both religion and knowledge in this world. But you put your intelligence beneath your feet, bodoh.” Not sure about you but her statement makes a lot of sense to me.

    Source: www.worldofbuzz.com

     

  • Another Helpless Mom: Stranger Appeared At Our Home Asking About My Children, Already Reported To Police

    Another Helpless Mom: Stranger Appeared At Our Home Asking About My Children, Already Reported To Police

    I just called 999. Someone at my door.

    Knocking very hard.

    Hubby open and he gave Salam.

    He told my hubby, “Abang Saya haus, bole Saya mintak air segelas….”

    Dengan Pantas Aku bangun Dari Sofa terus, tolak Hubby and told that guy, “Abg Jangan Marah, air dalam rumah Saya baru habis. Depan tu Ada 7eleven. Jangan marah Abg. Dah malam, Suami Saya Tak sihat…”

    He andswered, “Takpe Dik, Adia Ada anak2?” Than I remembered and came across Someone post abt the Similar incident.

    Sambil nak tutup pintu, he push our door back and say something nasty to us.

    Alhamdulillah I managed to close the door fast and locked from inside.

    I still can feel that he’s still outside.

    That’s why I called the Police

     

    Source: Aida Mahat

  • Mother Of Baby With Congenital Heart Disease: Help Us Give My Little Angel Noor A Shot At Life

    Mother Of Baby With Congenital Heart Disease: Help Us Give My Little Angel Noor A Shot At Life

    Hello Everyone Out there

    I am Baby Noor’s Mummy Lena, Baby Noor Was born on the 1st of March 2016 @ NUH.

    These donations are going to help my family and I on our hospital bills/check-ups/pampers/medications for baby Noor.  Baby Noor Was Diagnosed with Tricuspid atresia is a form of congenital heart disease whereby there is a complete absence of the tricuspid valve. Therefore, there is an absence of right atrioventricular connection. This leads to a hypoplastic (undersized) or absent right ventricle when she was still in my tummy at 24 weeks. I was in shock. I did not know what to do. I was given the choice to keep the pregnancy or abort it. I was given 2 weeks to choose. I sat myself down got myself thinking what would be the best for my family and I. Will I be able to cope. Having 3 other kids whom one of them is an asthmatic. Can I handle this? will I give up? Am I emotionally prepared? Well I stuck to my Decision to Keep Her. When She was born via an emergency c sec the nurse brought her to me I kissed her forehead and she was wisped away to Neonatal ICU. On the 2nd day of my stay in hospital I pushed myself to get up and walk down to see her. I cried in happiness thinking if I were to abort her would I ever get to see this beautiful angel

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    On the 4th of March baby noor would go through her First major op to insert The Blalock–Thomas–Taussig shunt (commonly called the Blalock–Taussig shunt) is a surgical procedure used to increase pulmonary blood flow for palliation in duct dependent cyanotic heart defects like pulmonary atresia, which are common causes of blue baby syndrome. She took a month or so to recover and be discharged. She came home to us she has been living life to the fullest without any complications till yesterday 29/9/2016 she went for a ct scan as well as 2d scan to dertermine if she should go for another BT SHUNT or go for her 2nd stage major operation. The docs came and spoke to me about this they was talking about reconstructing the LEFT artery which was now small and giving problem. So they decided to do another shunt.

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    She is currently in ICU under sedation and morphine to ease her pain. As Well as she is on the breathing tube with abt 80% of oxygen helping her. My husband has given up his job. To help me out running up and down to the hospital as well as looking after our other 3 kids.

    I am appealing to the public to help us ease our financially tight situation. As well as help cover some of the coming bills and as well as for up coming appointments for baby noor. We are aiming for $5k. Once we have reached that amount we will stop the drive. We will also keep a close update on baby noor’s condition over here as well keep an update on bills and appointments over here. We Also need donations of Pampers as rations if anyone do have spare at home. Visiting for baby noor is welcome only during visiting hours and when we the parents are there.

    Baby noors face has been blured out to protect her. Do hope you guys understand for those whom wish to contact me do drop me an email @ [email protected]

    Your prayers are also greatly needed.

    if there are any donations to go directly or personally  please bank in to

    248-85690-4 POSB Savings
    Bank Holder Wan

    Source: https://give.asia

  • Boy Rescued, Mother And Man Both Arrested

    Boy Rescued, Mother And Man Both Arrested

    A 17-hour stand-off between police and a man who had locked himself in a Sembawang flat with a two-year-old boy ended at noon on Wednesday (Sept 28) when police broke into the fifth floor unit.

    The 39-year-old man was arrested for wrongful confinement and drug-related offences, while the boy – who was unharmed – is now in the custody of the authorities.

    The boy’s mother, who was involved in an alleged dispute with the man before the stand-off occurred, was also arrested at the scene for drug-related offences.

    Officers from Special Operations Command broke into the unit at 12.03pm, police said in an update on its Facebook page.

    The dramatic stand-off at Block 462, Sembawang Drive, started when police received a call at 6.44pm on Tuesday.

    The Straits Times understands that the man and the boy’s mother are friends.

    The man (on the boot of the car) is placed in a police car shortly after his arrest. ST PHOTO: ALPHONSUS CHERN
    The man (in white shirt) who locked himself in the flat can be seen standing behind the gate. ST PHOTO: ONG WEE JIN
    The situation at Block 462, Sembawang Drive on Wednesday (Sept 28). ST PHOTO: ALPHONSUS CHERN

    A resident of the block, Mr Adam Bhai, 33, a personal trainer, said he heard the loud cries of a child coming from the flat at around 8pm.

    “The man refused to open the door to police,” a police spokesman had said.

    The Singapore Civil Defence Force (SCDF) said that it set up a safety life air pack at the foot of the block on Tuesday evening.

    SCDF also dispatched a fire engine, a red rhino, two fire bikes, an ambulance, and three support vehicles.

    Its Disaster Assistance and Rescue Team was also put on standby.

    Sembawang GRC MP Lim Wee Kiak, who was at the scene earlier, said the police had been working hard to negotiate with the man and their most pressing concern was the safety of both the individual and the child.

    He said they were trying to resolve the family dispute and based on database checks, the family was not on the Government’s ComCare financial assistance.

    Dr Lim said the mother has three other children, who are with their grandmother in Woodlands.

     

    Source: www.straitstimes.com

  • Boy Missing Since 6 Aug, Inform Parents If You See Him

    Boy Missing Since 6 Aug, Inform Parents If You See Him

    Please help us if u have seen this boy do call us at 96654414 / 90710790 or u can straight bring him to the nearest police post.

    My son Muhadmmad Shahridzmie bin Salleh have been missing since yesterday (saturday 6 aug 2016) Last seen before going to his Mendaki tuition, wearing mendaki polo tshirt and long pants.. report done yesterday

    do help us share this post so that others cn update us his wereabout, thank you…

    Source: www.allsingaporestuff,com