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  • My Religion Says To Look After Your Neighbour, Says A Muslim

    My Religion Says To Look After Your Neighbour, Says A Muslim

    A hero neighbour, a Muslim, has told UK’s Manchester Evening Times of the terrifying moment he rescued a teenage girl and a woman after a suspected arson attack on a house.

    Hichem Haddad kicked the front door down before dragging the pair to safety during the ferocious fire in Rochdale on Monday morning.

    At its height flames could been seen shooting out of an upstairs window as 25 firefighters battled the blaze on Lloyd Street, Sudden.

    Mr Haddad, 51, said:

    “I was in my front room and I could hear someone shouting ‘Help me’, so I ran outside.

    “The girl was jumping up and down on the living room windowsill shouting out of the open window, but it was too small to climb out of. She was saying there was a fire upstairs so I shouted ‘Where are the keys?’, but she didn’t know.

    “I started kicking the door. It was a heavy wooden door and it took me three goes to kick it in. I grabbed the girl and dragged her out then got the woman out.

    “I’ve not done it to be a hero. My religion (Islam) says you look after your neighbour so that is what I did.

    “I would hope if I’m ever in a situation like this someone would do the same for me.”

    Mr Haddad also praised firefighters for bringing the blaze under control.

    He said: “The fire brigade did a fantastic job. I’d like to thank them for what they did, because this could have been a really terrible situation.”

    Houses on the street were evacuated as firefighters, who spent most of the day at the scene, feared the flames could spread.

    Families sheltered at Sudden and Brimrod Community Centre on nearby Cheltenham Street until it was safe to return to their homes.

    Melissa Walsh, of Bosworth Street, whose home backs onto Lloyd Street, said: “I heard an explosion, which I think was the window blowing out, and saw a red flash through the kitchen blinds.

    “I opened the back door and smoke just came pouring into the house.

    “The flames were just roaring out of the window. It was really scary.”

    Neighbour Tiffany Kay added: “I woke up and all I could smell was smoke, so I looked out the window and just saw flames shooting out.

    “I got everyone out of the house as quickly as possible and all the neighbours were on the street. There are lots of kids living here and it is half term so everyone was worried the fire would spread.”

    Greater Manchester Police said an investigation into the cause of the fire had been launched.

    A 35-year-old woman has been arrested on suspicion of arson with intent to endanger lives in connection with the incident.

     

    Source: Muslim Council of HK

  • No Proper Support For Muslim Converts After Conversion to Islam

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    Terence Helikaon Nunis
    Terence Helikaon Nunis

    This is more for the converts. In coming to Islam, we still have family and friends of our prior faith. Just as we want them to respect our spiritual path, we must also respect their beliefs. It is never acceptable to condemn them because they did not find what Allah (s.w.t.) had Allotted for you. Your role is to be an example in this world, not so much in terms of knowledge, but more in terms of adab. And strive to be one of those Granted the Gift of interceding before Allah (s.w.t.) on the Day of Judgement.

    It is also important that we do not tolerate disrespect of the faith of our family from the Muslims, just as we do not condone disrespect of Islam from the non-Muslims. Islam is about justice. We must be fair. And we cannot allow ourselves to be turned into performing monkeys by Muslims who feel the need to parade a convert condemning a prior spiritual path to feed their collective egos.

    In every convert story, we speak and we hear about those who found Islam after study, after discovery after a epiphany. In reality, it was Allah (s.w.t.) Removing His Veil so that we could find Him.

    Hakim ibn Hizam (r.a.) was a relative of Khadijah (r.a.), the wife of the Prophet (s.a.w.). He was renowned for his mercy and generosity. Before the rise of Islam, he used to buy the daughters of those families who wanted to bury them alive and graciously assumed the responsibility of taking care of them. Hakim ibn Hizam (r.a.) asked the Prophet (s.a.w.) about these good deeds which he had done prior to his declaration of faith in Islam.

    The Prophet (s.a.w.) replied, “These good deeds are but the reasons that brought you the honour of being Blessed with Islam.”

    Being Given Islam is a tremendous Honour. The shahadah is the Key to Paradise. Just as it is Given, it can be taken away. So we must consider why we are Muslim. And never think we are better than those who are not.

    As a Muslim, I still have a great love of Catholicism. And spending time with both the Catholics and the Muslims, the Catholics are superiors to the Muslims in my eyes. If the Catholics were all Muslims and the Muslims were all Catholics, the ummah of Muhammad (s.a.w.) would not be in this sorry state.

    The one thing that disgusts me about many Muslims is how they are so sure they alone are going to Heaven, or how they are full of triumphalism when someone converts as if it validates their ego. Aside from that, they do nothing for the converts. Or how they disparage the beliefs of the Christians when they only have kindergarten knowledge, but when a non-Muslim were to do that, they want to claim injury. Hypocrites.

    If I were to look at the Muslims and confuse it with Islam, I would never have converted. The average Muslim is not a good example of the sunnah of the Prophet (s.a.w.). There is only affected piety, arrogance and cultural imperialism. As an ‘alim once said, “Islam is in the books and the Muslims are in the graves.” The ummah of Muhammad (s.a.w.) is dust and we are left with arrogant, self-righteous pretenders.

    Authored by Terrence Helikaon Nunis*

    *Terrence Helikaon Nunis used to be Catholic and belonged to a missionary organisation. After his conversion to Islam, he sat on the board of a Muslim converts’ organisation and specialised in da’wah programmes, convert management, interfaith issues and apostasy cases. He is also an initiate of a Sufi order.

     

    EDITOR’S NOTE

    What a brave guy. 

    Life stories and testimonies from Muslim converts are always interesting because they come from different backgrounds and colourful cultures. Adapting to Islam can be quite challenging but all challenges bear fruits of joy at the end of sheer determination and perseverance. 

    People who are born into Islam have the benefit of having a foundation with their parents and family. The Qur’an is on their bookshelf, Arabic words are mixed into conversation without needing definition, and there is an environment of tradition that provides a reference point for looking at the world. A convert is experiencing the total opposite. He or she doesn’t have any sort of religious connection with their family anymore, and there is sometimes backlash from parents and extended family about the decision to become a Muslim.

    Even if there’s no significant backlash, there are no blood relatives to talk to about Islam, no one to clarify things, and no family support to be offered in the entire process. All of these things can cause an immense amount of stress and disillusionment. It’s common for converts to have moments of breakdown where they feel like nobody is on their side. For those who are lucky enough to have a close friend or mentor to help them in situations like this, it’s still not the same as having family help. Converts need an exceptionally good amount of emotional support from individuals in their community to feel empowered as Muslims. This doesn’t require a full-time therapist, but just people to make them feel at home.