Tag: forbidden

  • Reasons Why Islam Forbids Anal Sex

    Reasons Why Islam Forbids Anal Sex

    Bagi anda yang teringin nak melayari bahtera rumah tangga tu, boleh la ambil informasi ni sebagai satu pengetahuan dalam kehidupan seks anda nanti..Bukan apa, mungkin ada antara anda yakni lelaki yang teringin nak cuba-cuba masuk ikut “pintu belakang” ni kan? Mungkin selepas membaca informasi ini nanti, anda akan fikirkan “rancangan” anda itu semula..Apa-apa pun, jom baca dahulu cerita kat bawah ni..

    Imam Syafie berkata dari Khuzaimah bin Thabit: “Seorang lelaki bertanya kepada Rasulullah S.A.W tentang menggauli isteri dari belakang (dari arah dubur). Rasulullah S.A.W menjawab: “Itu halal”. Apabila orang itu hendak pulang, Rasulullah S.A.W memanggilnya dan bertanya: “Apa yang kau tanyakan tadi? Pada lubang mana antara dua lubang? Pada lubang yang mana? Pada yang mana? Apakah dari belakang (tapi) farajnya? Itu memang halal, ataukah dari belakang duburnya? Maka itu tidak boleh (haram). Sesungguhnya Allah tidak malu terhadap kebenaran, janganlah menggauli wanita dari duburnya.”

    Menurut Ibnu Qayyim, larangan berjimak melalui dubur kerana:

    1. Tempat terjadinya janin pada rahim dan bukannya dubur, iaitu tempat najis.
    2. Isteri tidak dapat haknya menikmati jimak sepenuhnya.
    3. Dubur diciptakan oleh Allah bukan untuk disetubuhi.
    4. Air mani tidak dapat keluar sepenuhnya.
    5. Ia menyakitkan wanita kerana jauh daripada tabiat semula jadi.
    6. Mendatangkan fobia kepada pasangan.
    7. Merosakkan jiwa kecuali bertaubat.
    8. Wajah tidak berseri.
    9. Mewarisi kehinaan dan kerendahan diri.
    10. Menimbulkan kebencian.

     

    Source: Islam Itu Indah

  • Fed-Up With Malay-Muslim Personalities Drinking Alcohol To Fit In Non-Muslims’ Networking And Celebratory Events

    Fed-Up With Malay-Muslim Personalities Drinking Alcohol To Fit In Non-Muslims’ Networking And Celebratory Events

    I was at a celebratory event a couple of days ago and the waiters were offering wine. ‘oh I don’t drink alcohol’ – a simple reply that I’ve said time and time again but this time, I hear a new acquaintance pip in ‘oh not just a little? but (insert name of successful Malay person) does!’.

    this is why I’m disappointed with us. Not the ignorant friend I had just made – us, the Malay Muslim community.

    alcohol is almost always associated with celebrations and networking. I know this because for most of my career, I’ve been offered it and I’ve had to spend quite a bit of time explaining the reason why I don’t drink – I’m a Muslim and the Quran forbids it’s consumption.

    In the Qur’an Surat Al-Baqarah [2:219] it says “They ask thee concerning wine and gambling. Say: ‘In them is great sin, and some profit, for men; but the sin is greater than the profit.’”

    this is why I get disappointed in the success of Malay Muslim professionals/success stories who choose to drink. I do not applaud their success because you are one more person who is saying ‘it’s okay, I’ll bend the rules so that I can succeed’ and that sucks. it paints a picture of me (not successful yet but working towards it) being inflexible when really, there is no room for flexibility in this matter – it’s a great sin. not a small one, a great one.

    I’m sure there are many success stories of people who have achieved their amazing careers without ‘bending the rules’ and I want to meet these people. i want these people to be applauded and to be identified as role models. I want the future business/accountancy/law/whatever other fields that require networking graduates to know that it’s possible – to be successful in your career while not having to compromise on your beliefs.

     

    Source: Nur’Ashikin Ahmad

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