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  • Maid Fed Baby Milk Contaminated With Her Urine

    Maid Fed Baby Milk Contaminated With Her Urine

    The maid was unhappy that her employer’s mother-in-law had scolded her.

    She decided to get back at the family – by feeding their four-year-old a bottle of milk mixed with her urine.

    She also mixed her urine into a flask of water that the family later drank from.

    Her employer thought the water tasted odd and grew more suspicious after noticing her taking the flask out of a bedroom and washing it.

    He took the maid back to the agency, where she eventually confessed to her deeds.

    She told the authorities that she did so as she wanted the family to listen and be obedient to her.

    On Monday, the maid, Ela, 27, an Indonesian who goes by only one name, was jailed six weeks for mischief.

    Court papers said Ela started working for her employer, his wife, and two children, aged four and eight, in September last year.

    We are not naming them due to a gag order to protect the children’s identities.

    Sometime in October, Ela was scolded by her employer’s mother-in-law.

    TAINTED

    On Oct 16, she urinated into a small plastic cup and added the urine into a bottle containing milk.

    She fed her employer’s younger child the tainted milk.

    Court papers said Ela also mixed the urine with some drinking water in a flask.

    That day, her employer’s wife returned home and poured some water from the flask to drink.

    She took a sip of the water, which appeared to be slightly yellow.

    She showed it to her husband, who took a sip and found that it tasted odd.

    The employer decided to keep the flask in his bedroom to observe the water the next day.

    He found that the contents of the flask smelled pungent the next day.

    But when asked if anything had happened to the water, Ela said no.

    On Oct 18, the employer found her washing the flask that she had taken from his bedroom and he made a police report.

    It is not the first time that maids have been convicted of tainting food or drinks.

    In May 2012, a 24-year-old Indonesian maid was jailed a month for tainting her employer’s coffee with her menstrual discharge because she believed that he would be nice to her after consuming the drink.

    Last April, another Indonesian maid was jailed three years for adding eucalyptus oil into packs of stored breast milk that were meant for her employer’s two-month-old son.

    She did so as she wanted to be scolded and sent back home.

    The court at the time heard that the Health Sciences Authority advises against feeding children eucalyptus oil as it contains terpineol, which has been known to cause fatalities.

     

    Source: www.tnp.sg

  • Youth Puts Studies On Hold To Care For Cancer-Stricken Maid In At Her Own Home

    Youth Puts Studies On Hold To Care For Cancer-Stricken Maid In At Her Own Home

    He dreams of pursuing circus arts in an overseas university.

    But Mr Marshall Lim, 22, has put his plans on hold, all so he can accompany his maid home to Indonesia to look after her.

    The helper, Ms Jariyah, 40, has Stage 4 cancer and has decided to return to her hometown in Central Java to reunite with her family after working for Mr Lim’s family for 15 years.

    She has taken care of Mr Lim since she joined the household in 1996 when he was two years old. She also took care of his brother, Mayor, who is now 19 and a polytechnic student.

    Mr Lim said of Ms Jariyah: “She’s my other mother. She treats me and my brother like her sons.”

    Affectionately calling her “Auntie Jar”, he added: “Once Auntie Jar is settled down and better, I can always come home to continue my physical training to audition for circus school.”

    His mother, Ms Margaret Tan, 49, let Ms Jariyah return to her family in Cilacap once it became clear she has only months to live.

    Said Ms Tan, a divorcee: “I discussed with my boys about Jariyah returning home, and we decided Marshall could accompany her back.”

    They left on Sunday.

    Ms Tan made arrangements to pay for her hospital bills using insurance payouts when Ms Jariyah was diagnosed with Stage 4 cancer.

    She even raised funds by asking friends to contribute.

    FAMILY

    Breaking down as she spoke to The New Paper on Tuesday, Ms Tan, who would only say she worked in the medical field, said Ms Jariyah had become family.

    She was her pillar of support when Ms Tan got her divorce in 2005.

    Said Ms Tan: “She was in a divorce once too, so I think she understands how it’s like. We bonded over this and found support in each other.

    “She took good care of the family during my divorce. She would give me advice and even talk to the boys.

    “I’m very grateful for that. She even made sure I was eating well. She went through a lot of hard times with me.”

    When money got tight in 2009, Ms Tan could not keep Ms Jariyah.

    Ms Tan said: “I found a good employer for her. She visited at least once every two months when she was with her second employer.”

    Ms Jariyah returned to Indonesia in 2012 but came back to work for Ms Tan in 2014.

    What would have been a happy-ever-after was cut short when Ms Jariyah started getting sick a year later, often running fevers.

    Eventually, she was diagnosed with cancer of the liver last month. It has spread to the lungs and uterus.

    In tears, Ms Tan said: “She’s not my domestic helper, she’s my closest friend. I just can’t accept the fact that she has cancer.”

    They tried treatments and herbal remedies, but ultimately Ms Jariyah decided treatment was “too expensive”.

    She then asked Ms Tan to let her return home to her parents.

    From Cilacap, Mr Lim told The New Paper on Wednesday that he has been looking after Ms Jariyah.

    She has fevers several times a day. He sometimes takes her out, like to the beach, for fresh air.

    Mr Lim said Ms Jariyah’s new house, which she hoped to build with her salary, had been under renovation since January. Due to lack of funds, the work stopped.

    He said: “Auntie Jar and I want to concentrate on getting well first before continuing renovations.”

    His bigger concern now is getting “healthy food” for her.

    MAKING DO

    “There’s a lack of variety in terms of fruit and vegetables, and berries – which are good for fighting cancer but are not available. I buy what is available and make do with what I have.

    “We also brought some quinoa from Singapore.”

    He has been helping with the chores at Ms Jariyah’s house.

    He said: “Auntie Jar’s daughter is still making food for me, so I have to force her to let me do chores or I’ll do it myself.”

    He has not planned when he will be returning to Singapore and does not have a long-term visa to stay in Indonesia.

    Said Mr Lim: “I guess I’ll stay for a month. Longer if possible, I’m not really too sure.

    “I just want her to be happy and healthy. If she’s happy with her family here, then I’ll be happy for her.”

    I’m very grateful for that. She even made sure I was eating well. She went through a lot of hard times with me.

    – Ms Margaret Tan, Ms Jariyah’s employer

     

    Source: www.tnp.sg

  • SAF – Integrating The Newcomers

    SAF – Integrating The Newcomers

    How has National Service (NS) — which has been described as a social glue — brought new citizens and permanent residents closer to Singaporeans, and shaped their lives? PIONEER speaks to three to find out.

    2LT Scott Alexander
    Permanent Resident / Country of origin: United Kingdom

    How come angmo (Hokkien for Caucasian) need to do NS? This is a question that 2nd Lieutenant (2LT) Alexander often gets from taxi drivers.

    The 20-year-old London-born is a second-generation Permanent Resident (PR) who came to Singapore as a toddler. His father and mother are PRs working here.

    Despite growing up in Singapore, he did not interact much with the locals, having studied in an international school since Primary 3. Imagine the kind of culture shock he had when he enlisted for NS in 2014!

    “Obviously I was very nervous,” he recalled. “It was a big culture shock, but in a good way. I’ve met people from all over Singapore, from all different walks of life.”

    For 2LT Alexander, NS has helped to build his character. The most challenging experience for him so far was the nine-day Jungle Confidence Course where he had to survive on just two days’ worth of combat rations. “I’d never felt so hungry before,” he recalled. “But it helped to build my mental strength. I learnt that if I set my mind on something, I can do it.”

    Now a staff officer in the Training and Development Branch, Officer Cadet School, he cherishes the special bonds and friendships that he has developed in the Army.

    “I feel that NS has brought me closer to Singaporeans. It is a common ground for everyone. No matter if you are a junior college or polytechnic student, or from any background, everybody serves two years,” said 2LT Alexander, who hopes to get his citizenship in the near future.

    “If you run out of conversation topics at a dinner table, you always have NS to fall back on — the times you had to crawl in the mud and dig trenches.”

    CFC Anuraj Rajesh
    New Citizen / Country of origin: India

    When Corporal First Class (CFC) Anuraj enlisted for NS in 2014, he got to know a different world — one that was markedly different from the one he grew up in.

    The 20-year-old comes from a well-off family, and studied in the United World College of Southeast Asia, an international school. In contrast, one of his section mates had to juggle work and studies in order to support his family. Another was already a father of a baby.

    Living and training with them enabled him to understand the struggles of people of different backgrounds. “In NS, they put you right in the middle of it. You start to understand and appreciate the hardship that others go through,” said CFC Anuraj, who came to Singapore at the age of four, and became a citizen in 2013.

    On one occasion, CFC Anuraj, an assistant investigation officer in the Military Police Command, escorted a drug offender for a house search.

    Upon entering the house, the offender collapsed to his knees and apologised to his mother for what he had done. She was crestfallen to see him in handcuffs, but there was no scolding — just tears and hugs from mother and son. “I couldn’t show my emotions as I needed to remain professional, but I was tearing inside,” he recalled.

    Part of his job requires him to assure the accused that they have a future if they learn from their mistakes. “My biggest takeaway from NS is having the chance to understand the different backgrounds that people come from, and being able to make an effort to help them in any way possible,” he said.

    LTA Tee Chze Hao
    New Citizen / Country of origin: Malaysia

    During his Full-time NS, booking out from camp meant a long journey across the Causeway. Lieutenant (LTA) Tee was then a second-generation PR, but resided in Johor Bahru. His Malaysian parents are PRs who have been working in Singapore for decades.

    “The journey didn’t bother me. I see meaning in NS. This country has given so much to me, it is only natural that I serve,” said the 26-year-old, who graduated from the National University of Singapore last year.

    He came to Singapore to study when he was in Secondary 3. So when he enlisted in 2009, LTA Tee did not have any problem integrating with the locals. He was clueless about the Army though. “I was very focused on my studies and didn’t know much about what’s Basic Military Training or command school.”

    However, the Army is where he found his calling. LTA Tee excelled in the School of Infantry Specialists (now Specialist Cadet School), and received the Silver Bayonet. He also received the NSF of the Year award in 2011 when he was a platoon sergeant in 4th Battalion, Singapore Infantry Regiment (4 SIR).

    After getting his citizenship in 2012, he became a career soldier. He was commissioned earlier this January, and received the Sword of Honour for being the top officer cadet in the Infantry Formation.

    One of his reasons for signing on was so that he could make an impact on the lives of others. He broke into a wide smile when he shared stories about how some of his former 4 SIR soldiers — delinquents with troubled pasts — went on to become better sons, and husbands, with successful careers.

    “That’s what we, as commanders, want to see. These are examples that make us feel that we have done a good job,” said the Company 2nd-In-Command in 5 SIR.

     

    Source: www.mindef.gov.sg

  • Singaporean Returned For NS 17 Years After Leaving For Australia

    Singaporean Returned For NS 17 Years After Leaving For Australia

    National service was made more difficult for 33-year-old Mark Adam Collins, who served it when he was 26.

    He moved to Australia when he was nine and grew up thinking he was Australian.

    That changed when he came here at 25 to work as a part-time English language trainer.

    His then employer applied a work permit for Mr Collins – only to discover that he did not need one because he was still considered a Singaporean.

    A week later, Mr Collins received a letter informing him that he had to report for a medical check-up and enlist for NS.

    The stark change in his lifestyle hit him hard at first. He says: “While people my age were building their careers or getting married, I had to wear a uniform for the next two years.”

     

    Source: www.tnp.sg

  • Lee Hsien Loong: New Citizens Can Help Write The Singapore Story Together

    Lee Hsien Loong: New Citizens Can Help Write The Singapore Story Together

    Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong has called on new Singapore citizens to play their part, as they now help to write the Singapore story together.

    He was speaking at a citizenship ceremony held at the Teck Ghee Community Club, in his Ang Mo Kio constituency this morning (Oct 24), where about 200 new citizens from Ang Mo Kio and Sengkang West received their citizenship certificates.

    “Add your own distinct experiences, skills, abilities – contribute to the Singapore story and together, make a better future here for all of us,” said Mr Lee, as he addressed the new citizens.

    The Prime Minister noted that many of the new citizens come from different backgrounds, but spent time in the country and decided to make Singapore home.

    Mr Lee said that he hoped that this was not just because Singapore is a comfortable or safe place to bring up their families, but because they believe in what Singapore stands for: A multi-racial society, a nation of opportunity, a fair and just society, and a place where tomorrow will always be better than today.

    “This is what we have been celebrating this year at SG50,” said Mr Lee, who pointed out how the country’s forefathers slogged so that the next generation can have better lives.

    “We commit ourselves to continue to build on what they have done, to continue striving always to do better, always to take Singapore forward.”
    Source: www.todayonline.com