Tag: Indian

  • Indian Foreign Worker Devastated By Death Of Wife During Childbirth Wandered Around Bukit Timah Aimlessly In Early Morning

    Indian Foreign Worker Devastated By Death Of Wife During Childbirth Wandered Around Bukit Timah Aimlessly In Early Morning

    My first passenger today brought me to tears and I had to hold it back till I dropped him off.

    At 5.46am, I got a booking from Bt Timah Road. It didn’t state what number, just the road name. I called him, he said he didn’t know what number or where he was. He just said he was sitting at a bus stop at Bt Timah Road.
    Bt Timah Road is so long. I asked him to describe what he saw nearby. He said cars, trees, at a bus stop. I asked him to look for the bus stop number, I got silence and muffling sounds.
    Sensing something very wrong,
    I said…just sit there and wait for me. I will find you!

    From where I was, I thought…if the booking came to me. He must be at the few bus stops nearest to me, but Bt Timah Road was left and right. So I tried the right side first.

    There he was… a lone Indian foreign worker sitting at the bus stop, looking around aimlessly.

    I stopped my car, asked him if he had booked a car. He nodded. He opened the front door and asked if he could sit in front politely as he will vomit if he sit behind(his words).
    He got in, I offered him a plastic bag and a sweet which he politely declined.

    I confirmed his dropoff address, he nodded. He was upset. So I drove on, leaving him to calm down.

    Halfway through, I asked him if he was okay. He nodded.

    So I asked why he was at that bus stop (very quiet corner) so early that morning. He said he walked there.
    I said from where.
    He said from home.

    Apparently home was where I was sending him now….very far from where he was.

    So I casually mentioned…. wow that’s a very long walk.

    So the talk continues…

    Me: So where are you from?
    He: India.
    Me: U ok?
    Silence.
    Me: U work here?
    He: Ya.
    Me: How long?
    He: 6 months now.

    I then offered him some tissues and he took to wipe his tears…

    Me: It’s ok. You can talk.
    Silence then…..then he spoke.
    (After this, I was quiet for a long time while he spoke)
    His next words:
    my wife die after born my baby girl.

    In that little bit of English that he could speak….
    He went on to say he and his wife were orphans at an orphanage and grew up together and fell in love.
    They had to “betroth”(his word “sell”) their baby girl to a family in their village so they had money to pay for doctor visits for her pregnancy. The baby was supposed to be turned over to the family at age 12.
    His wife died during childbirth and the family had claimed the baby girl after the hospital turned her over to them.

    This man sitting next to me now will never have the chance to see his baby girl or even put his wife to rest.

    After I dropped him off, I declined to take his fare and even wanted to give him money for an airfare home.
    He simply refused to take it and said no use go home.

    He just said “Thank you for hear me” and left.
    He probably needed to be alone now.

    4 hours later when I finished my driving…. as I was clearing my things, I found 2 $10 notes in a slot on the passenger door. He had stuck them there after I refused to take his fare.

    I tried calling him on the same number…. it has been off the last many hours.

    My dear friends, give your kids and partner a good cuddle and many kisses today please!

    *Update* 21/11/116

    I managed to call through the phone this morning. It was picked up by another Indian man who said the phone is actually his and the man (his friend) had left this morning for home.
    I asked how?
    He said “Boss give money send”.

    He told me also….no call here again.

    I hope he will be blessed and find peace within himself soon.

    I didn’t expect this post to go viral but thank you to everyone who shared to let people know what some of our foreign workers face.

     

    Source: Cassandra Tan

  • Walid J. Abdullah: Thank You To The Malay Community For Your Quiet Sacrifice And Compromises

    Walid J. Abdullah: Thank You To The Malay Community For Your Quiet Sacrifice And Compromises

    As someone of Indian descent, i would like to thank my Malay friends. In spite of them being the indigenous people of Singapore, they have welcomed the rest of us with open arms. Indeed, they rarely ever mention the fact that our constitution explicitly recognizes their indigenous status. They almost never mention their ‘sacrifices’ to us. Now that, my friends, is truly in line with the multi-racial spirit.

    And I hope we all can be wary of people who play the race card.

     

    Source: Walid J. Abdullah

  • ME3 Silvakumar S/O Utharapathy – Signals Specialist Is Serangoon Road Hero

    ME3 Silvakumar S/O Utharapathy – Signals Specialist Is Serangoon Road Hero

    Seen the reports (http://ebx.sh/2eB9o9I) on how a group of men returning from a ceremonial procession helped administer CPR to an unconscious elderly man on Sunday?

    Meet ME3 Silvakumar s/o Utharapathy! The 58-year old Signals specialist was on his way to the temple for a fire-walking ceremony when he came across the elderly man lying on the ground at a Shell station along Serangoon Road. Instinctively, he stepped forward and helped to resuscitate him before the SCDF ambulance arrived.

    ME3 Silvakumar’s act of kindness embodies the Soldier Strong spirit, and we salute him for his selflessness! We caught up with him today to find out more.

    ME3 Silvakumar shared that he had learned CPR in the Army back in 1982 and is a skill that he keeps refreshed constantly. However, he highlights that learning how to perform CPR was one thing, but deciding to act when the moment required it was a different thing altogether. He adds, “I hope people will learn to not be afraid of helping others in public, especially when a life is at stake, because sometimes it might be too late waiting for the authorities.” Ultimately, ME3 Silvakumar is humbled by the inadvertent publicity garnered, but hopes that through this incident, people will be inspired to step forward when they know that they can make a difference.

    When asked to describe her father in a word, Ms Aishwaryaa Kumar (left), daughter of ME3 Silvakumar, said “selfless”. His tendency to go above and beyond self was not isolated to this incident, and she described various other occasions during which he demonstrated such courage. A significant incident occurred in 2009 when ME3 Silvakumar rushed into the Marriott Hotel in Jakarta shortly after it was bombed by terrorists. He was near the hotel when he heard an explosion and saw the smoke, and within minutes, he was on his bicycle racing over. He ran into the hotel and eventually brought out two injured victims and sent them to the hospital.

    Of his selflessness, Ms Kumar adds, “He doesn’t ask for anything in return. He reminds us that it doesn’t matter if we are unappreciated; what matters most is that it doesn’t stop you from helping and making a difference to someone’s life.”

    Well done, ME3 Silvakumar!

    #SoldierStrong
    #SGSecure

    Photos by: REC Tan Jit Jenn (Army News)

     

    Source: The Singapore Army

  • Unfair NTUC Put Halloween Decoration But Not Deepavali

    Unfair NTUC Put Halloween Decoration But Not Deepavali

    A reader shared this post.

    “I am clearly disappointed at the sight of a Halloween decoration taking precedence over the Deepavali displays at your Sportshub branch.

    May I humbly know when did a commercial celebration that’s not even been recognised as a public holiday in Singapore has become a festivity that overshadows our Ethnic & Cultural importance in Singapore? Is this how you advocate racial respect & harmony of Singapore to visitors & residents in our country?

    I’m extremely disheartened that a country that’s hailed for it’s diverse races, in the recent years has become a more greedy commercial hub with focus on main ethnic groups and forgetting the minorities.

    Do you know what’s the meaning of Deepavali & Halloween? Deepavali’s not a new year as widely misinterpreted. It’s a Festival of Lights (bringing in joy, happiness & peace to our family) whereas Halloween is dedicated to remembering the dead. Even the meaning of Halloween has been lost over the years & it’s being celebrated as a day to invoke fun, fear & tricks.

    Fairprice is a well known local groceries merchant with multiple branches throughout Singapore. Being part of the National Trade Union Congress I’m ashamed to say you have failed to show unity in our National Celebration. I’ve always been proud of my country & always will be. Therefore I hope you will also learn to take pride in giving equal importance to all ethnic celebrations. I hope our Citizen’s pledge is not only remembered by it words but by it’s meaning.

    ‎Puvaneswari Alagan”

    Source: www.allsingaporestuff.com

  • Balestier Khalsa Suspends Winger Zulkiffli Hassim For Allegedly Racially Abusing Referee

    Balestier Khalsa Suspends Winger Zulkiffli Hassim For Allegedly Racially Abusing Referee

    Balestier Khalsa winger Zulkiffli Hassim will not turn out for his club any more in the 2016 season.

    The Football Association of Singapore (FAS) Disciplinary Committee (DC) has found him guilty of making derogatory racial remarks.

    The incident occurred in Balestier’s 2-1 loss to Geylang International in a Great Eastern-Yeo’s S.League match on Aug 25, with the 30-year-old allegedly making remarks of a racial nature against assistant referee Y Sathyakumar in the 90th minute.

    This is not the first incident Zulkiffli has been mired in that saw racial undertones. He was hauled up for a similar incident four years ago.

    In April 2012, the DC threw the book at Zulkiffli, after he pleaded guilty to charges of making racial remarks against Woodlands Wellington’s Trinidadian defender Fabian Lewis.

    He was banned for five games and received a suspended fine of $1,000.

    This time around, he could see graver punishment.

    Balestier, of their own accord, have suspended him without pay from Sept 8, and will hold a hearing of their own tomorrow.

    Zulkiffli has not turned out for Balestier since Aug 25, missing one game – last week’s 1-1 draw with Warriors FC – and will play no part in the Tigers’ last four league games of the season.

    He will also sit out Balestier’s play-off for third place in the RHB Singapore Cup on Oct 29.

    “Racial abuse has no place in the S.League and in Singapore, and for a club this is an extremely serious issue that is not to be treated lightly,” said Balestier chairman S Thavaneson.

    “We don’t want to pre-judge him, but we decided to suspend him pending his DC hearing, and in that letter to him told him that the club reserve the right to take (further) disciplinary action against him.

    “The first time (Zulkiffli was found guilty for a similar offence) we were sympathetic but firm, and told him that the club would not tolerate any form of racial abuse, against a player, official or fan. He agreed and realised the seriousness of his undertaking.”

    Balestier stood by their man in 2012, pointing to the fact that this was the first instance of such an offence, and while it would not be tolerated, was an isolated incident that happened in the heat of the moment in a match.

    But, with the club hauling him up for a hearing of their own this time, the signs are not good for Zulkiffli.

    “We want to follow due process, but the message must be clear and it must go down not just to players of Balestier, but to everyone,” said Thavaneson.

    “Racial abuse can lead to uglier things, and there is no place for it here.”

    A contrite Zulkiffli told The New Paper that he has missed being involved with his team.

    “I regret what I did, it was in the heat of the moment, and I couldn’t control my anger then,” he said, revealing that he has been going for runs, and playing social football on weekends to stay in shape.

    “I have to apologise to the club and my team. We don’t have a very big squad, and with some of the players out injured, I really feel guilty that I cannot help them out on the pitch.”

     

    Source: www.tnp.sg