Tag: Islam

  • Catholic Girl: Children To Be Raised As Muslims, So Why Boyfriend’s Family Still Oppose Our Union?

    Catholic Girl: Children To Be Raised As Muslims, So Why Boyfriend’s Family Still Oppose Our Union?

    I understand you’re also a malay but I hope you can allow me to share my broken heart on this platform and I really wish for more religious tolerance and consistency from MUIS and Darul Arqam in applying islamic religious laws here!

    I am a Catholic girl who has been dating a malay muslim guy for the past 5 years and we were about to get married after reaching a consensus that I can remain a Catholic while our children will be raised muslim and follow their dad’s religion as per the allowance of the prophet muhammad.

    But we afterwards faced fierce objection from not only his relative’s side who obtained a fatwa stating that I must convert or our marriage will be considered “haram” by MUIS and Darul Arqam.

    Sharlene Tan
    A.S.S Contributor

    Source: All Singapore Stuff

  • Ainon Mohd: Berfikir Gaya Nabi

    Ainon Mohd: Berfikir Gaya Nabi

    Saya berkesempatan ke kelas Pn Ainon Mohd. mendalami ilmu cara berfikir secara Design by Thinking. 4 jam bersama Pn Ainon menyebabkan saya tak boleh tidur malam memikirkan ilmu yang saya baru dapat beberapa hari lepas.

    Penulisan ini adalah bagi kita sama-sama refleks diri kita, supaya kita dapat memperbaiki dan mencontohi kaedah berfikir cara Rasulullah saw.

    Kita adalah pemikir Analytical dan Critical. Malah, di universiti dulu pun saya memang ambil subjek Critical Thinking dalam semester 2.

    Dunia persekolahan dan universiti kita hari ini mengajar kita berfikir secaraanalytical dan critical thinking.

    Apa itu analytical thinking?

    Secara mudahnya adalah cara berfikir melalui analisa perkara yang sudah pun berlaku.

    Apa pula critical thinking?

    Secara mudahnya adalah, ‘i am right, and you are wrong’.

    Sekolah antara tempat yang mengasah otak kita berfikir gaya analytical dancritical. Sekolah mengajarkan kita hanya ada satu sahaja jawapan yang betul dan kita diberi pengiktirafan yang baik pada jawapan yang betul itu.

    Sebab itu, bila kita besar, kita menjadi golongan pemikir yang sangat rigid kepada sesuatu perkara. Apa yang kita buat semua betul, apa yang orang buat kita nampak semua salah. Kita jadi sukar menerima segala idea baru dan jawapan orang lain yang mungkin betul.

    Kita lebih suka mengkritis, berdebat dan berusaha menegakkan pendirian bagi jawapan yang kita rasa kita betul hingga menyalahkan orang lain. Kita merendah-rendahkan jawapan orang lain, kita memperkecil usahanya dengan idea yang diberikan. Kita memburukkan orang lain, membuka aib dirinya dengan menyatakan kitalah yang betul.

    Kita menjadi golongan pemikir yang sangat judgemental dan cepat menghukum atas sesuatu perkara.

    Sebab itu, segala keburukan lebih mudah ter-viral dan lahir ramai para juri dan hakim yang mengukum dan mengadili bagi setiap perkara yang berlaku.

    You cannot dig a hole in a different place by digging the same hole deeper – Edward De Bono

    Tak mungkin kita jumpa satu lubang baru dengan menggali lubang yang sedia ada dengan lebih dalam. Kita mula mengorek segala history lama, kononnya mencariroot cause dan mahu menyelesaikan segala perkara itu.

    Kesan berfikir gaya ini (analytical) adalah:

    1. Kita akan banyak mengungkit perkara yang telah terjadi.
    2. Kita mula mengaitkan nama orang lain.
    3. Kita mudah menyalahkan dan menuduh. judge people.
    4. Kita menjadi sangat defensif.
    5. Kita sebenarnya mengusutkan lagi masalah tu.
    6. Timbul pula masalah baru.
    7. Rosakkan hubungan yang harmoni.

    Critical Thinking

    Tradisi critical thinking datang dari Socrates, plato, aristotles. mereka mencipta seni berdebat. Kita berbangga pula menayangkan kehebatan siapa lebih jauh lebih hebat berdebat? Hujah siapa paling hebat? Allah.

    Nabi Muhammad S.A.W bersabda;

    “Aku menjamin sebuah rumah di Syurga bagi orang yang meninggalkan debat meskipun dia berada dalam pihak yang benar. Dan aku menjamin sebuah rumah di tengah syurga bagi orang yang meninggalkan dusta meskipun dalam keadaan bercanda. Dan aku menjamin sebuah rumah di bahagian teratas Syurga bagi orang yang memperelokkan akhlaknya.”
    (HR. Abu Dawud dalam Kitab al-Adab, hadits no 4167. Dihasankan oleh al-Albani dalam as-Shahihah [273] as-Syamilah)

    Jadi, adakah kita sebenarnya pemikir generasi Aristotle? Kita bermegah dengan kehebatan siapa hujahnya paling hebat? Sedangkan Rasulullah saw semasa hayatnya tak pernah berdebat. Allah. Hinanya kita ini.

    Ideologi pemikir Critical Thinking dari Aristotle ini diterima baik dalam kehidupan kita masa kini. Betul? Antara salah satu yang boleh kita lihat adalah secara mudah adalah Politik.

    Mari kita susuri sejarah Nabi Muhammad saw. Hebatnya Rasulullah saw. Baginda tak pernah menyalahkan orang lain, tak pernah menuduh dan menghukum pendosa dan pesalah. Baginda tak pernah berdebat melawan hujah-hujah orang yang melemparkan segala bentuk kritikan buruk dan caci maki. Allah.

    Jadi, bagaimana cara Rasulullah saw berfikir dalam menyelesaikan masalah?

    Rasulullah saw tak buat post mortem selepas perang Uhud. Baginda tak mencari salah punca kekalahan dalam perang Uhud. Baginda tak menyalahkan sesiapa.

    Rasulullah saw tak beri komen dan kritikan pada idea yang ditolak. Baginda tak cakap pun idea tu salah. Atas dasar inilah semua golongan bebas memberi idea dan seronok kerana Rasulullah saw meraikan segala bentuk pendapat dan idea dari semua golongan.

    Kalau kita pula, orang baru bagi idea, terus hukum dan hina pula ideanya secara umum. Kita bukan sahaja membuka aibnya, malah kita membunuh psikologi dalamannya kerana menyekat dirinya memberikan buah fikiran bersama.

    Baginda tak memilih pun hanya bertanya pendapat pada sahabatnya semata-mata. Baginda mengumpulkan semua jenis golongan meskipun golongan bawahan.

    Kita pula kalau meeting, asyik dengan orang yang sama ja. Pilih bulu. Kalau orang tu baru masuk kerja, ditentangnya idea baru malah tak beri peluang mengemukakan idea pula. Orang yang lama pula diagung-agungkan ideanya.

    Apabila ada dua orang bergaduh dan mereka datang mengadu, sebut jasa mereka pada pihak berlawanan dan jangan menyakiti antara satu sama lain. Rasulullah saw tidak menyakiti dan menghukum pesalah.

    Contoh kita ni, kalau ada konflik adik beradik, mak biasanya akan cakap “Along, kau dah besar, mengalahlah..” Ini adalah contoh ibu yang berfikir secara critical.

    Rasulullah handle emosi dengan memuji dan memberikan khabar gembira meskipun siapa pun orang yang memberi masalah tu. Hebatnya Rasulullah saw dalam menyelesaikan masalah dan konflik.

    Kita pula mengagung-agungkan cara fikir barat dan bangga pula dengan menjadi pemikir seperti ini. Allah.

    Terima kasih Puan Ainon Mohd kerana mengajarkan kami ilmu yang sangat luar biasa. Sepanjang kelas hati bagai dihiris-hiris. Tak cukup dengan itu, memang tak boleh tidur malam memikirkan kata-kata Puan Guru.

     

    Source: www.thevocket.com

  • Please Donate, Sahabat Sedunia Needs 50 More Hampers

    Please Donate, Sahabat Sedunia Needs 50 More Hampers

    Sahabat Sedunia next charity door knock will be at Avenue 9 on 4 June 2016, this Saturday.

    We need another 50 hampers to give away to the poor/needy ppl with complete packaging and delivering with the cost of $20.40, in which consists of the below groceries. If you are interested to donate please transfer your cash into posb saving bank 064 382 055 with transaction/receipt no. before this Wednesday. Your support and contribution is muchly appreciated! Any enquiries can pm me or call me 90600109.

    Thank you,

    Arbaah Bte Haroun

    Condensed milk-2tin
    Moonstar sardine-2 tin
    Duck oil 2 litres- 1 bottle
    Biscuit Cream Crackers- 1 pkt
    Dried Bee Hoon 400grm- 1 pkt
    Fine salt-1pkt
    Milo-1tin
    Oats-1 pkt

     

    Source: AR Haroun

  • When Religion Becomes  A Commodity

    When Religion Becomes A Commodity

    Living as we do at a time when identity-based politics has become the norm the world over, it is hardly a surprise that religious identity has likewise been commodified.

    Since the 1970s, we have witnessed the rise of a form of identity politics where the attachment to, and promotion of, one’s own ethno-cultural identity has become commonplace – from the promotion of “negritude” by Francophone African intellectual-activists such as Aime Cesaire and Leon Damas; to the “Asian values” debate of the 1980s-90s.

    The global marketplace has been able to adapt itself to these new trends and developments with ease, and so by now it is hardly a novel thing to encounter expressions of Asian or African essentialism in commodified form: We talk about “Asian food”, “Asian fashion”, “Asian architecture” et cetera in a manner that somehow presupposes there is such a thing as an ostensibly-definable “Asia” to begin with. And having presented “Asia” as a “thing”, it is just a simple logical step away to state that there are also “things” that are Asian, and can be marketed as such.

    This poses a particularly tricky question that needs to be addressed: In an age of near-global commodification, how do we study cultural and ethnic difference, and how do we navigate the complicated map of plural multiculturalism?

    The irony of multiculturalism today is that in many multicultural contexts, groups demand universal recognition of their particular identities, and seek to foreground the particular on universal terms. And so, community A – which may hold certain cultural practices to be unique and essential to it – demands that all other communities respect their values, though that same community may not be able to deal with, or accept, the values and norms of communities B, C and D.

    PIETY ON THE MARKET

    It was just a matter of time before the same logic of commodified identity-politics moved on to the domain of religion and religious practice as well; and today, we see around us the unmistakable signs of a plurality of “religious markets” on offer. This has become a phenomenon that is truly global, and which cuts across the religious spectrum worldwide.

    Religious behaviour and norms – which include dress, symbols, rites and rituals but not the essential core of the religious practice itself, namely faith – have all been rendered commodities in a world that is already saturated by over-determined identity-markers. On a daily basis, we see mundane examples of this: From the sale of “religious” symbols such as prayer beads to the phenomenon of “religious” TV channels, fashion items, holiday tours and so on, promoted by a class of “religious entrepreneurs” who combine the skills of preachers and businessmen together.

    Some scholars have taken a dim view of these developments, reading them as signs of growing conservatism in society, particularly across Asia. While it is true that across the Asian continent, religiously-inspired politics is and has been on the rise since the 1980s, I would argue that the emergence of such “religious markets” is not new and does not necessarily lead us to some dystopian world of religious obscurantism in the future. But they do point to the manner and extent to which our societies have become susceptible to the charms of the market, and the logic of commodification.

    After all, if ethnic identities could be so easily commodified – to the point where one can literally “self-exoticise” oneself and “buy” one’s ethnic identity off the rack – then why shouldn’t the same happen to religious identities? If a person can render himself or herself “Asian” by buying all things “Asian”, then surely one can also become visibly Christian, Muslim, Hindu or Buddhist by buying the trappings of religious identity as well.

    Making sense of these developments means having to take a step back from the contested terrain of identity-politics, and taking a wider look at the broader landscape of society as a whole. And this means analysing society as it is today, in an age of late industrial capitalism where the logic of commodification is, for all intents and purposes, hegemonic. But there are two hurdles that need to be overcome if we are to understand this phenomenon in an objective manner.

    THE TWO CHALLENGES

    Firstly, we need to get over the hang-up that any expression of identity – be it ethnic, cultural, linguistic or religious – is necessarily divisive. Identity politics may rest on the premise that each group/community is particular or different, but that does not necessarily suggest that all such claims are detrimental to the greater good of society.

    But we also need to recognise that these claims are being made in the marketplace of ideas and the public domain where commodification is the norm. If that be the case, then the second hurdle to overcome is the tendency to see expressions of religious identity politics through the lens of religion or theology.

    To put it somewhat bluntly, just because a product or totem is “sold” as a religious item does not make it so. What really happens is that it becomes a commodity. We can purchase symbols of religious identity, but what is really taking place is a commercial exchange where something is bought: One can buy a religious icon or religious text, but one never “buys” piety – for faith remains something that cannot be objectified and put in a can or shopping bag.

    The commodification of religious identity is no different from the commodification of ethnic-linguistic-cultural identity, or any kind of commodification for that matter. To analyse such developments through the lens of religious studies or theology would be to give spiritual/religious value to something that has been rendered a commodity/product with a price; and that would validate only the claims of the “religious entrepreneurs” who say their products have a higher transcendental value, when they are simply goods that can be traded on the market like any other.

    Thus the emergence of this market of ‘religious products” (that may range from clothes to music to food to package tours deemed religious) ought to be studied through the lens of political economy instead, where we will see the emergence of new markets within markets, enclaves within enclaves and the creation of different communities that are busy with the task of identifying themselves and reproducing that identity again and again.

    If this be the state of identity-politics today – and no nation or religious community seems to be immune to the lure of commodification – then it poses a challenge for states that wish to somehow retain the positive aspect of multiculturalism without going to the other extreme of having identity politics become divisively centrifugal.

    I would argue that this is precisely why a humanities approach – using the tools of socio-economic analysis – is called for at this juncture, to give us a different way of understanding this unfolding phenomena without the trappings of paranoia or anxiety that so often accompany cursory observations of contemporary society.

    When security analysts try to be theologians and explain the appeal of groups like the Islamic State in Iraq and Syria through the lens of religious studies, they miss the point that the propagandists for ISIS are really religious entrepreneurs themselves, who have created a more radical narrative that competes against other forms of mainstream Islam.

    Understanding its appeal means looking beyond scripture and having to consider the socio-economic context that has made this radical and reactive narrative appealing to those who otherwise feel marginalised in wealthy societies.

    But it takes off only when we see religious commodities as commodities, and religious markets as markets – mundane things in the world of the free market today.

    •Farish A. Noor is an associate professor at the S. Rajaratnam School of International Studies, Nanyang Technological University.

     

    Source: www.straitstimes.com

  • RRG Lancarkan Aplikasi Baru Demi Bantu Cegah Ideologi Radikal

    RRG Lancarkan Aplikasi Baru Demi Bantu Cegah Ideologi Radikal

    Satu aplikasi telefon bimbit dilancarkan hari ini (31 Mei) sebagai sebahagian usaha mencegah penyebaran ideologi radikal dalam masyarakat.

    Aplikasi oleh Kumpulan Pemulihan Keagamaan (RRG) itu antara lain membolehkan orang ramai berhubungan secara langsung dengan para kaunselor untuk membincangkan isu-isu atau keprihatinan mengenai fahaman agama yang melampau.

    Ia juga mengandungi fungsi FAQ, atau soalan-soalan yang sering ditanya, yang memberi penjelasan tentang topik-topik seperti jihad dan serangan pengganas.

    Aplikasi ini dilancarkan oleh Menteri Ehwal Dalam Negeri, K Shanmugam semasa Retreat RRG ke-12 siang tadi.

    Ia turut disertai Setiausaha Parlimen Kementerian Ehwal Dalam Negeri, Amrin Amin.

    Retreat itu membincangkan cara-cara lebih berkesan yang boleh digunakan, terutama sekali dalam proses pemulihan para tahanan dan juga tentang membasmi fahaman ideologi pengganas dalam masyarakat kita.

    “Aplikasi ini sangat berguna, khususnya bagi anak-anak muda yang senang sekali dengan penggunaan telefon bimbit, di mana mereka boleh menggunakan aplikasi RRG ini untuk mendapatkan penjelasan dan juga penerangan tentang perkara-perkara yang ada kaitan dengan isu ekstremisme dan juga fahaman ideologi ISIS,” jelas Naib Pengerusi RRG Dr Mohamed Ali

    Selain aplikasi RRG, orang ramai juga boleh berhubung dengan RRG melalui saluran Youtube dan laman Facebook mereka.

    Menurut Dr Mohamed, Retreat RRG diadakan sepanjang tiga hari, dengan dua program.

    “Satu program adalah untuk anggota RRG dan keluarga mereka. Jadi keluarga anggota RRG juga berada dengan mereka di retreat ini,” ujar beliau.

    “Dan juga program khas iaitu seminar khusus bagi RRG untuk membincangkan isu-isu yang sangat penting bagi mereka dan melakarkan masa depan mereka dalam membasmi fahaman idealogi radikal di Singapura,” Dr Mohamed Ali memberitahu BERITAMediacorp.

    Source: BERITAMediacorp

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