Tag: MOE

  • Kembalikan IRK Dalam Kurikulum MOE Demi Anak-Anak Kita

    Credit: Atan Flybaits
    Credit: Atan Flybaits
    Siapa ada album kumpulan Flybaits?
    Siapa ada album kumpulan Flybaits?

     

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    Kita tidak sedar bahawa orang melayu Singapura sudah kehilangan dua elemen yang penting dalam masyarakat kita, ia itu ugama dan bahasa, kalau dulu jarang sekali kita ketemu anak melayu yang tak tahu kan ugama, tapi sekarang masaalah ini adalah perkara biasa, serupa juga dengan bahasa, maka kehilangan ini bukan lah di peringkat permulaan, ia di peringkat pertengahan – tapi jika kita berusaha mendesak pemerintah mengembali kan pelajaran IRK kepada kurikulum sekolah anak anak kita, masaalah ini akan dapat di tangani dengan meluas, maka di sini kita perlukan kerja sama para AP AP melayu Islam, tak kira sama ada dari pihak pembangkang atau pemerintah.

    Bagi pihak rakrat pula, kita perlu kan suara semua lapisan rakyat, tak kira dari golongan apa pun, dari golongan cendekiawan atau peniaga atau pekerja pekerja biasa, jika kita satu kan suara kita lalu mendesak pemerintah untuk mengembalikan pelajaran IRK ke sekolah sekolah kita, hasil nya seumpama melontar sebiji batu untuk mendapat kan dua atau tiga ekor burung.

    Pertama, kita dapat atasi masaalah anak anak yang tak tahu ugama, kedua , dengan ini masaalah asatizah yang sulit nak dapat kerja juga dapat di atasi dan ketiga, pelajaran ugama ini di ajarkan di dalam bahasa melayu, lalu masaalah bahasa juga dapat kita tangani, dan akan jadi lebih baik jika guru guru ugama ini juga di tugaskan mengajar bahasa melayu,lalu ini tidak akan membebankan tugas guru guru yang sedia ada.

    Tapi usaha ini tidak akan Berjaya kecuali kita dapat sokongan dari bawah ke atas, maksud nya permintaan rakyat dan sokongan dari ahli ahli politik sama ada dari pihak pemerintah dan pembangkang !! tidak ada alasan bagi mereka untuk mengatakan bahwa mereka akan kehilangan undi bangsa lain, kerana, pelajaran IRK adalah menuju kearah membentuk maanusia maanusia yang baik , lalu ia akan menghakis sifat sifat buruk dari anak anak kita dan membuat negara kita sebuah negara yang lebih selamat dan sejahtera.

    Sumber: Atan Flybaits

     

    EDITOR’S NOTE

    Mungkin ramai anak-anak muda sekarang tidak tahu bahawa Encik Atan ‘Flybaits’ adalah seorang penyanyi yang terkenal pada suatu masa dahulu. Lagu-lagunya masih bergemang di stesen-stesen radio tempatan dan juga di seberang tambak. Kumpulan ‘Flybaits’ merupakan kumpulan penyanyi Singapura yang terkenal dengan lagu Kenangan Lalu. Diketuai oleh penyanyi vokal, Fredo.

    Kami di Rilek1Corner mengalu-alukan pendapat sesiapapun, tidak kira selebriti atau orang-orang biasa sahaja seperti kami di sini.

    Nak tahu siapa gerangan Encik Atan Flybaits yang bersuara merdu ni? Tontonilah video ini 🙂

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  • Lapan Langkah Ibu Bapa Tangani Isu Seksualiti Anak-anak

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    Ramai yang mungkin terperanjat, marah dan terkesan dengan paparan anak-anak kecil melakukan aksi yang tidak seharusnya, semalam. Dan ramai yang meluahkan harapan agar anak-anak kita dapat dibimbing dengan baik demi mengelakkan perkara ini daripada berlaku dalam keluarga sendiri.
    Namun, apakah yang seharusnya dilakukan oleh para ibubapa sebagai intervensi (intervention) berkesan?

    Berikut adalah LAPAN Intervensi yang boleh dipertimbangkan oleh ibubapa untuk tangani isu seksualiti anak-anak:
    1. Menilai-semula sistem nilai dan juga tingkah-laku (behavior) ibubapa sendiri terhadap konsep seksualiti, termasuklah apa yang dituntut agama mengenai batas-batas
    2. Menetapkan house rule atau peraturan keluarga berdasarkan sistem nilai dan tingkah-laku yang selari dengan Islam bagi keluarga-keluarga Muslim.
    3. Faham erti pembangunan dan pembentukan seksualiti sihat dalam diri insan kamil.
    4. Mengetahu tahap-tahap pembangunan anak-anak, dari lahir sehinggalah tahap pos-puberty
    5. Memberi maklumat-maklumat dan menanam nilai secara bertahap mengikut peringkat umur anak-anak (age-appropriate) dan tahap-tahap pembentukan anak-anak
    6. Kenal-pasti isu-isu seksualiti anak-anak yang sedang membesar
    7. Engage anak-anak secara berterusan mengenai isu-isu seksualiti menggunakan pendekatan yang sesuai dengan zaman anak-anak
    8. Terus-menerus update pengetahun ibubapa mengenai bidang seksualiti insani.

    Dasar Asas Perlaksanaan Dalam keluarga:
    1. Lebih AWAL lebih BAIK
    2. Lebih KERAP lebih ELOK
    3. Rebut TEACHABLE MOMENTS
    4. Jadikan diri sendiri (ibubapa) sebagai ASKABLE
    5. Lebih banyak BERDIALOG dari berleter
    6. Lebih banyak MENDENGAR dari bersyarah
    7. Lebih banyak BERINTERAKSI dari menyendiri

    Semoga Allah memberi kita kekuatan untuk menangani cabaran ini demi menjaga kemaslahatan masadepan anak-anak kita semua.

    Allahul Musta’aan

     

    Source: Singapore Hall of Shame, Mohd Khair 

  • Gay Malay Teacher Offer Guidance to Sexually Confused Student

     

     

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    Dear R1C,

    When I was in school, I had a major crush on my teacher. I didn’t tell anyone about it and kept it to myself. I wasn’t sure if that was the right thing to feel because I am a guy. Besides, I wasn’t sure if what I am feeling was wrong towards the society, my family and my religion. As a Muslim raised in a conservative family, I am torn in between my feelings and other people’s expectations.

    But what if this feeling is the right kind of wrong? What if it is not wrong after all?

    Because my actions were obvious and all gays have something called ‘gaydar’ or ‘gay-radar’, my secret feelings were exposed when my teacher confronted me one day. He confessed that he understood my needs and knew how sad it was to be perceived as ‘weird’. From that day onwards, there was no hiding between us because our feelings were mutual. He was my confidante, my good friend and a lover. Although we had a relationship for 3 years and broke up only when I left for poly, I am truly thankful for the guidance my ex-teacher had given me. I would not have been able to survive this harsh world if not for his emotional support.

    I am thankful to God because I found someone who truly cares about me and showed me the importance to love myself and be who I really am when faced with oppositions. My ex-teacher told me I deserved to be happy. When I turned 22, I left home to lead my own life and stayed with my partner. Occasionally, I would return home only to see my mom who was deeply disappointed by my ‘queer’ preference. My dad has disowned me.

    Now, I have become a teacher myself. A similar experience had happened to me as well. I spotted one student who had the same reaction whenever I looked at my ex-teacher. Instantaneously, I knew what I had to do.  Guidance and be a role model.

    To those who hate the PLUs, let it be known that everyone deserves to be happy. We live once and we have the right to choose the kind of life we want to lead for the rest of our lives. It doesn’t make me a lesser Muslim just because I prefer men. You simply can’t force anyone to eat something he don’t like.

     

    Sofian Ryan

     

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  • Cikgu Melayu buat hubungan sulit dengan murid

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    A MOTHER noticed a love bite on her 13-year-old son’s neck.

    When she asked him how he got it, he revealed that it was from a teacher at his primary school. The woman was more than three times his age – and seven years older than the mother.

    Yesterday the 42-year-old teacher pleaded guilty to committing indecent acts on the youngster on a string of dates.

    A district court heard how he would play truant to join her on trips to the movies, Sentosa and the Botanic Gardens.

    They had met in early 2012 when the boy was in Primary 6. He was in the same football team as the teacher’s son, and she also taught Malay dance to his two sisters at the school – which is in the west of Singapore.

    The boy and his sisters became friendly with the teacher and her four children, and he would also chat with her on Facebook.

    One day in October that year, the lad set off for school in his uniform – but stopped to change, then met the woman for breakfast at McDonald’s at Nanyang Technological University.

    After taking a bus to a nearby park, she kissed him on the lips and gave him a love bite on his shoulder.

    They then went to see a movie at Clementi Mall before parting ways.

    She kissed him again on a trip to the Botanic Gardens on Oct 31, and did the same again at Sentosa the following day, as well as giving him another love bite on his shoulder.

    Two weeks later, they kissed and she bit his neck at the Botanic Gardens.

    But the following day, his mother spotted the mark and the boy spilled the beans.

    The parents informed the school and got their son to lodge a police report. The teacher was suspended, and charged in court.

    She cannot be named as it could lead to the identification of the minor.

    Deputy Public Prosecutor Santhra Aiyyasamy asked for an appropriate jail sentence yesterday.

    The maximum penalty for such offences is a $10,000 fine and a five-year jail term.

    She said the teacher had built a relationship with the pupil and taken advantage of him when he played truant.

    “Sexual exploitation of such young victims is completely unacceptable,” she added.

    Defence counsel Peter Fernando asked the court to consider placing the teacher on probation instead.

    He said his client had been suffering from a major depressive disorder when she committed the offences, but she is now coping well with treatment.

    The lawyer also said that his client, who had been teaching the Malay language for 11 years, was unlikely to break the law again.

    Her husband and family members were in court and tried to console her after the hearing. She will be sentenced on Feb 19.

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