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  • Suami Yang Minum Susu Badan Isteri – Apa Hukumnya?

    Suami Yang Minum Susu Badan Isteri – Apa Hukumnya?

    Masih ramai yang keliru tentang hukum suami terminum susu badan kepunyaan isteri.. ada yang mengatakan hukumnya haram.. ada yang kata harus ada yang kata hukumnya terbatal nikah.. ada yang kata suami dh jadi saudara susuan dgn isteri,.. dan macam2 lagi la orang kata.. dari mana sumbernya aku pun tak pasti..

    Sebenarnya, ada syarat nak jadi saudara susuan atau anak susuan.. syarat utama, mestilah berumur 2 tahun kebawah. Suami kita umur berapa??? bawah dua tahun ke??? ke lapan bulan.. ustaz azhar idrus kata, kalau umur suami kita 8 bulan, mmg jadi la saudara susuan.. tapi ada lagi syaratnya, iaitu 5 kali kenyang.. kalau sekali je, tak dikira lagi pun.. so, bukan senang ea nak jadi saudara susuan..

    Hukum minum susu isteri, harus sbb apa shja ditubuh isteri adalah hak dan tanggungjawab suami. Cuma suami tidaklah boleh minum susu isteri hingga memudharatkan hak anak.. sebab susu tu hak anak juga..

    Ku petik sikit artikel pasal persoalan ni, kat blog dunia susu ibu.. nak baca detail boleh lah ke laman web tu ea..

    “Suami boleh minum susu badan isterinya dengan syarat tidak menghabiskan susu tersebut. Ini kerana susu badan ialah makanan dan minuman untuk bayi, maka menghabiskannya bererti menafikan makanan dan minuman kepada bayi.

    Adapun perubahan status sehingga terjatuh talak atau isteri menjadi mahram bagi suami, maka ia tidak berlaku. Perubahan status mahram hanya berlaku kepada bayi yang berumur kurang dari dua tahun. Rasulullah bersabda: “Penyusuan tidak akan merubah status mahram kecuali (susuan) yang mengenyangkan dan terjadi sebelum disapih.” [Shahih Sunan al-Tirmizi, no: 1152]

    Maksud susuan yang mengenyangkan ialah apabila bayi melepaskan puting ibunya dengan sendiri, bukan kerana paksaan, istirehat atau pernafasan. Susuan yang mengenyangkan itu mesti berlaku lima kali bagi mengesahkan perubahan status mahram [Shahih Muslim, no: 2635]. Sementara tempoh sapih ialah apabila bayi berumur dua tahun kerana itulah tempoh optimum penyusuan bayi: “Dan ibu-ibu hendaklah menyusukan anak-anak mereka selama dua tahun genap iaitu bagi orang yang hendak menyempurnakan penyusuan.” [Al-Baqarah 2: 233]

     

     

    Source: Islam

  • Ustaz Azhar Idrus: Forbidden In Islam To Celebrate Mother’s Day

    Ustaz Azhar Idrus: Forbidden In Islam To Celebrate Mother’s Day

    PETALING JAYA: Now recirculating on social media is a video recorded in 2012 of Terengganu-based Ustaz Azhar Idrus calling on Muslims to disregard Mother’s Day and denouncing it as a Christian festival.

    In the 3.47 minute video, Azhar speaks to a crowd, warning them of the celebration’s supposedly Christian roots, saying it was linked to the Mother of the Church, the Virgin Mary.

    “The movement began in the early 19th Century, applying to the church and the government to declare this day a public holiday,” says Azhar, who then explains that the movement had asked churches in 1862 to note it in church calendars as a Christian celebration.

    “Mother’s Day has been declared a public holiday in all Christian nations; this is why it is forbidden to celebrate Mother’s Day,” says Azhar.

    “On that day, people will give a ‘mother cake’ to their mother, and they do this once a year. But Islam teaches us to be generous with mothers throughout the year.”

    He pointed out that the Chinese did not celebrate Deepavali, and the Japanese, Awal Muharram.

    “They (the Japanese) will not celebrate Awal Muharram because they know it is a Muslim festival. The Mexicans celebrate Christmas and not Maulidur Rasul,” says Azhar.

    “The Canadians do not celebrate Thaipusam,” The Star quoted him as preaching in the video.

    Mother’s Day was founded in America in the 20th century by Anna Jarvis, the daughter of Civil War peace activist Ann Jarvis, who cared for wounded soldiers on both sides of the Civil War and created the Mother’s Day Work Clubs to address public health issues.

    Following her mother’s death, Anna campaigned to make Mother’s Day an officially recognised holiday in the States. Following her efforts, Mother’s Day was officially recognised as a national holiday in 1914, set on the second Sunday of May.

    Rampant commercialisation and marketing soon brought it to the rest of the world.

     

    Source: www.freemalaysiatoday.com