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  • Jilted Wife Shames Husband And Young Mistress For Cheating

    Jilted Wife Shames Husband And Young Mistress For Cheating

    A reader has requested we share this story to remind others about being true to your partners, especially during the holy month.

    I woke up this morning, thinking how does it feel to be dating someone’s husband?

    Don’t you feel cheap? To think that he’ll be loyal to you? If he could do it to his wife so many times, what you makes you think he can’t do it to you?

    To see that whatever he did for you is the same as what he did for me was funny. At that age, anything that he says or do seems wonderful. A flower, cakes, food, etc. He seems like the perfect guy. He’s not the roses type of guy. I could give you a book on his likes and dislikes if you want. I thought that he was perfect when I first met him. So charming I wld say. The reason he could do all that is because he feels powerful and secured because you got nothing (no looks,no career) and he has that power over you.

    Do I feel hurt? Hurt is an understatement. Betrayed? Manipulated? Yes. Who wont? I thought I knew him. I don’t think you will ever understand that because only women will get it. Girls don’t. Given 8 years, we’ve been through shit that tested us as a couple and we always end up loving each other. I knew him inside out and you wouldn’t even be close to that.

    Being the other woman dnt give you the upper hand. Let me tell you this, a man like that is not worth having at all. He could do it to his wife to have you but what makes you think he wouldnt do it to you when he’s bored of you.

    I’m so grateful that Allah has opened my eyes to the truth. I deserve better. You can have him. No I’m not bitter because you took the love of my life. Im just glad that you did. You saved me from a twisted liar.

    Just remember this, you did this to someone’s wife without giving a fuck about her feelings but Allah is watching and it’s Ramadhan. Allah Maha Besar and Maha Adil. You will get your kifarah. I can’t believe you have the cheek to go to our wedding with your family and took photo with us.

    To you My Love – I wish you all the best in finding the life that you wanted. The life that you’ve trying to find since 2007. I hope Allah will still love you and guide you to the right path. Thank you for the memories.

    Her name is Ernie. She works for Royce Suntec and studies at ITE College Central. She probably deleted all her social media.

    Source: www.allsingaporestuff.com

     

  • Hizbut Tahrir Malaysia: Muslim Men Do Not Require Wife’s Consent To Have Sex With Her

    Hizbut Tahrir Malaysia: Muslim Men Do Not Require Wife’s Consent To Have Sex With Her

    BANGI, April 27 — A Muslim does not need his wife’s consent to have sex with her as marriage gives a man a right to his spouse’s body, hardline Islamist group Hizbut Tahrir Malaysia (HTM) has claimed.

    HTM spokesman Ustaz Abdul Hakim Othman said it is sinful for a Muslim woman to reject her husband for sex and that Islam only permits her to do so if she is “exhausted”, not “merely tired”; ill; or if intercourse will harm her health.

    “Even if it’s by force, it’s not sinful for him; the sin is on his wife,” Hakim told Malay Mail Online when met at HTM’s headquarters here yesterday.

    “But if he hits or kicks his wife in order to have sex, that’s wrong. You have to look at the level of their struggle — if it doesn’t harm her, it’s okay; but if it harms her, it’s wrong.

    “The wife, though, must know that it’s wrong to reject him,” he added.

    Several Muslims said on Facebook recently that marital rape does not exist in Islam even if a Muslim has non-consensual sex with his wife.

    They were responding to DAP’s Damansara Utama assemblyman Yeo Bee Yin’s rape awareness campaign called “Rape is rape. No excuse” that lists as rape — sex with an intoxicated woman, sex with a girl below 16 years of age, sex with one’s own wife without her consent, and sexual assault by strangers.

    Hakim said marriage legalises a Muslim to have sexual relations with a woman.

    “Your body is to be used by your husband, to put it crudely. When you marry a woman, there’s no need to get consent [for sex], no need at all,” he said.

    He also said a Muslim woman cannot reject her husband’s sexual advances on the basis that she has “no mood”, but stressed that a Muslim man is similarly obligated to fulfill his wife’s requests for sex.

    “Those are the rights of husband and wife…When you have premarital sex, it’s sinful. But if you do it with your wife or husband, you get blessings,” he added.

    The spokesman of the conservative Muslim group told a forum earlier that according to several hadiths, a woman who rejects her husband for sex will be “cursed by angels throughout the night”.

    Hadiths are sayings and actions attributed to Prophet Muhammad.

    Association of Women Lawyers president Meera Samanther said marital rape is not a criminal offence in Malaysia, noting that Section 375A of the Penal Code only criminalises the act of a husband hurting his wife, or putting into her the fear of death or hurt, in order to have sexual intercourse with her.

    “It’s not the act of rape that’s an offence; it’s putting the fear,” Meera told Malay Mail Online.

    “There’s this view that women are property of husbands. That archaic view is still there,” the women’s rights activist added.

    Meera also said the Joint Action Group for Gender Equality, a coalition of women’s rights groups, has been lobbying since the 1980s for marital rape to be criminalised.

    Criminal lawyer Datuk Geethan Ram said he knows of cases where both Muslim and non-Muslim women lodge police reports about being raped by their spouses, but the complainants do not continue to have their cases prosecuted in court.

    “In most instances, they want a report to be used in their divorce application or proceedings,” he said.

    The former deputy public prosecutor said women do not want to proceed with prosecution of their rape complaints because some of them are homemakers who are financially dependent on their husbands and noted that even when their spouses are charged with rape, they still have to continue living together.

    “[There’s also the] misconception that they are duty bound to ‘provide’ sex since they are married,” said Geethan, noting that this misconception is not unique to Muslim women but is prevalent among “most women, even the educated”.

     

    Source: www.themalaymailonline.com