Category: Hiburan

  • Negotiating Singapore’s New Pluralism

    Negotiating Singapore’s New Pluralism

    In the space of three short months recently, Singaporean society witnessed outpourings of concern over the planned public performances of two major international stars: Adam Lambert and Madonna.

    Last November, an online petition that objected to Lambert’s “promotion of a highly sexualised lifestyle and LGBT rights” collected about 20,000 signatures. In February, it was reported in the news that eight pastors representing various Christian denominations met Home Affairs and Law Minister K. Shanmugam to express concerns over possible religiously offensive content in Madonna’s planned concert.

    In each case, heated discussions followed everywhere online as ordinary Singaporeans argued for and against the merits of these objections.

    These events point to two interesting features of current Singaporean politics.

    First, while once communal concerns over issues of public morality were largely dealt with behind closed doors, over the past 10 years or so we have begun to see public lobbying over moral and cultural issues such as LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual and transsexual) rights, “sanctity of life” issues including abortion, the death penalty, euthanasia and others like the decision to build integrated resorts.

    Second, social media platforms have become part of our public political space – an important outlet for people sharing political news and opinions – but some of this public interaction has historically been less than civil.

    Madonna (top) making her entrance at her Singapore concert in February, and Adam Lambert (above). Their planned performances here sparked outpourings of concern.

    It was a product of these two observations that the Institute of Policy Studies (IPS) recently carried out a study on “The New Singaporean Pluralism”. This involved closed-door focus group discussions and individual interviews with many prominent public advocates on all sides of the issues of LGBT rights and the “sanctity of life”.

    We attempted to identify the specific basic points of contention and the objectionable advocacy tactics that have been used in recent years. But more importantly, we attempted to tease out the potential principles and practices of governance that may help maintain the civility of our shared political space so as to be able to apply them to future disagreements.

    Some of the points of contention were expected. For example, LGBT rights advocates want the LGBT community to have protective rights because having an LGBT identity is not a choice, whereas anti-LGBT rights advocates think otherwise. They believe that even if same-sex attraction is not a choice, same-sex sexual behaviour is inescapably a choice. Whether LGBT identities are choices is an empirical question that scientists all over the world are still trying to answer, but since the issue is shifting towards behaviour rather than attraction, in the eyes of anti-LGBT rights advocates, even finding the gay gene may not be sufficient to convince them that LGBT persons deserve protective rights.

    As for “sanctity of life” issues, it was perhaps also no surprise that each constituent issue revolved around contentions about how to measure the value of a life against other goods like autonomy or public safety, or how to measure longer lives against better quality lives. Of course, unsurprisingly, the role of the government and its ability to make final decisions in these areas is contentious as well.

    These findings point towards a need for further research on the empirical claims of all sides of the two topics, but whether empirical evidence will settle these issues is an open question, because these types of disagreement are at bottom based on differences in how we value certain goods and principles. In order to maintain the civility of our political space, what we need are ways to manage these cleavages without either suppressing them or letting them boil over into violence.

    Thus, it is heartening to note that there was a consensus against using hate speech, dehumanising speech and name-calling in public advocacy. It is interesting to note, however, the difficulties in the details.

    Madonna (top) making her entrance at her Singapore concert in February, and Adam Lambert (above). Their planned performances here sparked outpourings of concern.

    First, there is little agreement on what exactly constitutes such unacceptable speech. Second, different groups and organisations have different levels of tolerance for these practices. And third, advocates can easily offend their opponents without meaning to. For example, the word “lifestyle” is intended by anti-LGBT rights advocates here to neutrally describe LGBT identities; however, the term is considered offensive in the LGBT community because the word implies that their identities are choices and it is taken as trivialising their identities.

    Despite the kind of unsavoury language that might be used in online political discussions regarding moral and cultural disagreements, the majority of our participants valued the freedom of speech and information made possible by social media too much to try to institute further controls – though how effective communal self-policing can be going forward remains an open question.

    It was nevertheless suggested that we would do well to teach civic and democratic values in schools. Our youth would learn not only how to comport themselves civilly in the unmediated realm of social media but also how to honestly negotiate democratic practices such as debating and lobbying for support. All these require them to develop the type of empathy needed to understand the perspectives of opponents even while fighting their own corner.

    Additionally, the experiences we had in organising the focus group discussions were instructive on how we may be able to minimise the hostility and demonisation that often accompany such moral and cultural cleavages.

    Beyond the more obvious principles such as having discussion platforms that are neutral as well as sufficiently authoritative to guarantee privacy and security, we learnt that having face-to-face meetings and the telling of stories help humanise each side to the other, impeding the tendency to demonise opponents and project sinister motivations on them. After all, in the new era of value pluralism, we cannot put the genie back in the bottle. Unlike the socio-economic issues that continue to dominate much of our local politics, we are seeing more and more disagreement regarding moral and cultural issues for which objective rational consensus is impossible.

    In order to negotiate this new politics, we need new democratic tools. The sooner we learn how to talk among ourselves as well as with the authorities in multi-logical processes, the healthier our political space will be. We have to learn how to treat new laws and policies as provisional decisions still open to future challenge, because only then can losing sides have hope for the future and remain justifiably committed to the democratic process instead of using force. We have to learn to agree to disagree and take every loss on the chin, knowing that there will always be a rematch.

    These new democratic practices are not perfect, but against a background of irreducible pluralism, they can help reaffirm a unity of purpose where a unity of views is impossible.

    •The writer, Johannis Bin Abdul Aziz, was a co-investigator in the Institute of Policy Studies’ 2015-2016 project on The New Singaporean Pluralism. He has a PhD in political science from the University of California, Berkeley.

     

    Source: www.todayonline.com

  • Bekas Penyanyi XPDC Mengaku Tidak Bersalah Miliki Dadah

    Bekas Penyanyi XPDC Mengaku Tidak Bersalah Miliki Dadah

    JOHOR BAHRU: Bekas penyanyi kumpulan rok terkenal XPDC, Mael, 48 tahun, mengaku tidak bersalah di Mahkamah Majistret atas dua pertuduhan memiliki dadah, Mac lalu.

    Turut mengaku tidak bersalah semalam (18 Apr) adalah dua rakan Mael, yang nama sebenarnya ialah Syed Ismail Syed Ibrahim. Dua rakannya itu ialah Hafiszudin Mokhtar, 31, dan Razali Shapie, 43.

    Seorang lagi rakan mereka, Chairil Anwar Yaacob, 29, pula mengaku bersalah di atas pertuduhan pindaan itu dan dijatuhi hukuman penjara 10 bulan bagi pertuduhan pertama dan penjara sembilan bulan bagi pertuduhan kedua, dari tarikh tangkapan pada 7 Mac 2016.

    Mengikut pertuduhan pindaan itu, kesemua tertuduh didakwa bersama-sama memiliki dadah jenis heroin seberat 0.46 gram dan jenis Monoacetylmorphines seberat 0.06 gram di sebuah rumah di Jalan Kim Kee, kira-kira 4.00 petang pada 7 Mac lalu.

    Kesemua mereka dituduh mengikut Akta Dadah Berbahaya 1952 dan boleh dihukum mengikut Seksyen 12(3) akta itu, yang memperuntukkan hukuman maksimum denda RM100,000 (S$34,600) atau maksimum penjara lima tahun atau kedua-duanya sekali, jika sabit kesalahan.

    Majistret Muhammad Hidayat Wahab membenarkan jaminan RM8,500 setiap seorang dengan dua penjamin terhadap kesemua tertuduh, dan menetapkan 3 Mei depan untuk sebutan semula kes.

    Pendakwaan dikendalikan Timbalan Pendakwa Raya, Azfahanim Rajaluddin manakala kesemua tertuduh termasuk Mael tidak diwakili peguam.

    Source: http://berita.mediacorp.sg

  • Foto ‘Lucah’: Mira Filzah Serah Kepada Tuhan Untuk Membalas

    Foto ‘Lucah’: Mira Filzah Serah Kepada Tuhan Untuk Membalas

    Pelakon Malaysia, Mira Filzah, menjelaskan bahawa gambar beliau berkelakuan ‘lucah’ yang tersebar online, sebenarnya diubahsuai oleh pihak yang tidak bertanggungjawab.

    Pelakon dan pengacara yang terkenal dengan drama ‘Cinta Si Wedding Planner’ itu turut memuat naik gambar terbabit – iaitu dirinya menikmati sepotong kek coklat semasa majlis hari jadinya bersama peminat.

    Gambar itulah yang diubahsuai hingga menunjukkan Mira, 23 tahun, bukan membuka mulut untuk menikmati kek, sebaliknya menjilat jeli merah berbentuk seperti kemaluan lelaki, menurut laporan Astro Gempak.

    Foto ‘lucah’ tersebut menjadi viral dan menjadi bualan ramai peminat di lelaman media sosial yang seakan tidak percaya dengan gambar itu, dek imej Mira yang bertudung.

    Mira memberikan penjelasan tersebut di laman Instagramnya semalam (14 Apr).

    “Assalamualaikum. Rasanya, rata-rata pun dah tahu gambar di atas (iaitu gambar sebenar) yg telah di-edit tersebar. Dan tak perlulah Mira tunjuk atau upload di sini gambar yg telah di-edit.

    “Cukuplah Mira tampil di sini, nak bagi tahu, nak tunjuk, ini adalah gambar yang sebenar,” tulis Mira, yang turut terkenal dengan segmen ‘Dunia Lola’ di TV Hijabista.

    Mira turut berkata beliau tidak tahu siapa pihak yang bertanggungjawab, namun enggan mengambil tindakan lanjut dan menyerahkannya kepada Tuhan untuk membalas tindakan itu.

    “Cuma sekarang ini bagi Mira, perkara-perkara macam ini Allah sahaja yang membalas.

    “Mira pun tidak tahu siapakah dalang di sebalik perbuatan ini, tapi Allah tahu. Bukan tugas Mira untuk menghukum,” tulisnya lagi.

     

    Source: Berita Mediacorp

  • Rosyam Nor: Saya Tak Pandai Mengaji Hingga Usia 45 Tahun

    Rosyam Nor: Saya Tak Pandai Mengaji Hingga Usia 45 Tahun

    Usianya kini sudah 49 tahun dan pengarah dan pelakon terkenal, Rosyam Nor tidak segan silu menjelaskan bahawa dia tidak pandai mengaji sehinggalah dirinya berusia 45 tahun malah turut menjelaskan bahawa hanya menghafal tiga surah – al-Fatihah, an-Nas dan al-Ikhlas.

    “Saya baru tahu selama 45 tahun usia saya ini, saya baca ‘bismillah’ pun salah. Saya tak malu mengaku ini di hadapan anda semua. Biarlah saya malu dengan anda daripada saya malu dengan Allah,” katanya yang dipetik melalui Sinar Harian.

    “Ketika ini saya rasa seorang Rosyam Nor tertunduk malu dan sedih sebab tidak tahu mengaji. Kadang-kadang bila jadi imam di rumah, anak-anak saya pun tahu surah apa saya akan baca. Sebab itu saya tak berlakon cerita agama,” jelasnya yang terkesan setelah pemergian ayahnya.

    Tambahnya, dia turut memasang angan-angan untuk belajar mengaji sehinggalah didatangi seorang lelaki ketika penggambaran akhir filem KL Gangster 2. Mengakui rimas kerana diganggu lelaki tersebut pada mulanya, akhirnya ada sinar baru buat Rosyam.

    “Semasa penggambaran itu, ada seorang insan muncul dan pada awalnya saya anggap beliau hanya seorang peminat biasa. Kemudian beliau minta nombor telefon dan setiap minggu beliau hubungi saya ajak berjumpa”

    “Selama empat bulan beliau hubungi saya sampai saya rimas dan akhirnya saya setuju untuk bertemu di kawasan rumah saya,” katanya yang akhirnya belajar mengaji dengan lelaki tersebut.

    “Ini masalah paling besar bila dah tua.Tapi jangan kita malu. Alhamdulillah usia 45 tahun saya mula belajar mengaji mula dengan alif, ba, ta,” jelasnya. Syukur buat Rosyam, dia akhirnya berjaya khatam al-Quran di hadapan Kaabah pada usia 48 tahun.

     

    Source: http://wowberita.org

  • Muslimah: Hijabis Should Stop Thinking They Are Superior To Minahs

    Muslimah: Hijabis Should Stop Thinking They Are Superior To Minahs

    I once knew a Muslim girl who loved wearing short skirts, the shortest shorts possible and tank tops. She used to go dancing at discos with her boyfriend(s). Go out late at night.

    I vividly remember one day, I saw her wearing the skimpiest of clothes, and thought to myself – Ya Allah, whats wrong with this girl? Why does she dress like that??

    I judged her. At the time, I felt superior to her because I was covered. I didn’t say anything to her about it. I sort of stayed away from her. Didnt want to get ‘infected’. Syaitan had played a trick on me. He tricked me into thinking I was better because I went to halaqah, mixed with the ‘good’ kids, went to Islamic talks. My headscarf covered my chest and I didn’t wear revealing clothes.

    A few years after that, I met her again, she had already started wearing a proper hijab and modest clothing. She had started going to Quranic classes as well. I was shocked, but happy for her. She told me she felt like a newborn. Like she was given a second chance to do things right.

    Recently I met her again, this time she was wearing a niqab. I didn’t recognise her! She had changed so much. She held my hands and told me that I had somewhat ‘helped’ her to be better. That she read my fb posts and sometimes felt like I was talking to her.

    All I felt was shame. She didn’t know that I judged her once upon a time. That I looked at her and had negative thoughts. That I didn’t say a sincere prayer for her to be a better Muslim.

    We both had tears in our eyes. Hers was probably due to happiness and Iman.. mine was pure shame and guilt and fear.

    Allah sent her to me to teach me a lesson. Astaghfirullah is all I can say.

    Sharing this so it can be a lesson to all of us. A reminder for me. A slap in the face.

    Never ever judge someone. It’s not our place to do that. We should only pray that Allah gives Hidayah to them. And that He continues to keep our hearts in line towards Him.

    ‪#‎astaghfirullah‬

    Source: Za’Faran Hisham