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  • Rohaishah Hamid: Dirt Poor And Struggling With Family Problems, I Persevered To Finally Become A Teacher

    Rohaishah Hamid: Dirt Poor And Struggling With Family Problems, I Persevered To Finally Become A Teacher

    6 years ago on this date, I remembered having to vacate the HDB flat I lived in at Sengkang with my mum. I was 18, still schooling and was given monthly allowance by MOE, and she was ill and unemployed for the longest time. The the both of us had no place to go. We resorted to this mutual agreement to separate; we had to find different respective friends who could give us shelter separately, whether it was for a day, a week, a month, a year, whichever would suffice.

    She found a friend she could live with for a few months so I was relieved. On my end, I had friends here and there who offered shelter, offered sleepovers, and on some unlucky days when they couldn’t, I would spend most nights staying up at beaches or void decks with my bags of unwashed and unused clothes and cheapskate art materials plus my crumpled assignments, looking for a plan, in hope of another saviour to take me home. I seeked help from MPs, from different Family Service Centres, different Homeless Shelters, they could only help so much.

    Prior to the days when I had no where to go, I couldn’t do my assignments, I had no money to get materials, didn’t even eat or sleep proper, I ended up skipping school very often, I even skipped exams. I was already bonded with MOE’s 9-year teaching contract at that point, my absenteeism and grades were horrendous. I couldn’t graduate after my 3rd year of NAFA. So I had to retake hell lot of modules. My allowance from MOE was being taken away. I had to pay for the modules I had to retake, and having no allowance led me to work 2 jobs while schooling.

    Working 2 jobs allowed me to earn just enough for a decent rental of a room, open market, which was ridiculously costly. But I was devastated and separated from my mum too long, eventually I managed to afford renting a room with my mum, at a few different strangers houses and the owner was present in their homes while we stayed. Unpleasant experience it was, living in someone’s house you don’t even know, they had rules like you can’t cook, can’t use the living room, you can only do your laundry once a week and all. They assume and accuse you of every minor or major thing that could possibly go wrong in that premise. It was like living in a prison cell with no privacy yet numerous obligations. But I couldn’t complain. It was better that at least me and my mum were sheltered together.

    Spent a year to clear all my modules but I still failed and couldn’t graduate after my 4th year. NAFA was going to expel me, MOE was going to terminate my bond, which simply meant I had to pay all the liquidated damages back. I appealed, begged, pleaded for them to give me one more year. So again I had to pay for the modules I retook, rental cost got more expensive when we moved from one place to another each time our contract ended, mum’s health worsensed, so I worked 3 jobs instead.

    At that breaking point, I kept reminding myself one thing, that I already spent my teenage secondary school years in an abusive and dysfunctional household while I was still staying in my own home at Sengkang. Already spent years of my teenage life working in KFC every night after school even during O’Levels, no electricity at home so I studied with a candle and spent the remainders of my sleepless nights taking care of my sick mum. I had an elder sister who used to provide for us but she passed away. I was reminded of when people from the Subordinate Court crashed my place to seize all our furniture because of debts so my house became bare and empty. Or when people splashed paint out my door because of debts again. Or when policemen had to keep coming to make or break a scene. And I thought THAT was bad. Until I lost my home eventually. Felt like I lost everything.

    Finally graduated from NAFA after my 5th year and moved on to NIE. Life got better when I stepped into NIE because I finally started receiving monthly allowance all over again. I could finally quit my 3 jobs, and in that same year HDB finally granted me a home to stay in. Eventually graduated from NIE and started my teaching career till today. I never had to look back since then.

    Throughout that journey, I owe my life to my friends and teachers from secondary school, my colleagues from KFC, a few close classmates from NAFA and some other friends and roommates I met along the way, for seeing me through and providing for me when no one else could. I wouldn’t have stayed sane without you guys. Sure, like every other typical kid I’ve been depressed as hell, suicidal attempts were endless, and now when I think about it, I laugh at myself. Thank you God, for watching over me and my mum, and for blessing me with amazing friends. They were the family I never had.

     

    Source: Rohaishah Hamid

  • Sultan Johor Sultan Ibrahim: No Place For Hatred And Racism In Johor

    Sultan Johor Sultan Ibrahim: No Place For Hatred And Racism In Johor

    “Let me reiterate, there is no place for hatred and racism here in Johor Darul Ta’zim. It was never welcomed, nor will I ever welcome haters and racists here in Johor. If anyone who want to practice hatred and racism in Johor Darul Ta’zim, the home of the Malays, Chinese and Indians- Bangsa Johor, please leave Johor immediately. That is an order!

    “I have worked hard and struggled for my subjects, to ensure that they live in harmony and togetherness. Anyone found instigating others to hate and practice racism here in Johor, they will face the brunt of the law. Again, let me remind you, my ancestors, the state government, Bangsa Johor and I have worked hand-in-hand…together, to make Johor a better-place, to bring in foreign investors for the future of Johor. Anyone who create disharmony and spread hatred here by promoting racism, will have to deal with me personally. Take this a warning.

    “This is not the stone age, do not be ungrateful, the Malays, Chinese and Indians, all played their part, Johor Darul Ta’zim is home to the Malays, Chinese and Indians, they are Bangsa Johor. As their ruler, its my responsibility to see my subjects live in harmony, and my subjects are always my priority.

    “To the authorities, do not take soft approach against haters and racists, do not be bias, get to the root of the problem, and apprehend those who create racial disharmony problems here in Johor Darul Ta’zim,”

    -Sultan of Johor, Sultan Ibrahim Sultan Iskandar’.

     

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    “Di Johor Darul Ta’zim, tiada tempat dan ruang untuk mereka yang membenci dan mengamalkan sikap perkauman. Mereka yang membenci dan mengamalkan perkauman tidak pernah saya terima di Johor Darul Ta’zim dan tidak mungkin saya menerima mereka. Mereka yang mengamal sikap ini, di nasihatkan supaya keluar dari Johor Darul Ta’zim serta-merta, kerana Johor adalah rumah kepada Bangsa Johor yang terdiri dari Orang Melayu, kaum Cina dan kaum India. Ini adalah satu perintah-jangan amalkan sikap perkauman dan membenci, atau lebih baik tinggalkan Johor.

    “Saya telah bertungkus-lumus untuk kepentingan Bangsa Johor dan Negeri Johor, untuk memastikan semua hidup dalam harmoni dan Johor semakin maju. Nenek moyang saya, kerajaan negeri, Bangsa Johor dan saya telah berkerja keras untuk menyatu rakyat Johor dan membawa pelabur asing untuk memajukan negeri Johor. Mereka yang menghasut Bangsa Johor untuk membenci dan mengamal sikap perkauman akan berhadapan dengan tindakan tegas. Sebagai Sultan Johor, amanah saya ialah kepada rakyat saya dan negeri Johor. Rakyat saya adalah keutamaan saya. Mereka ini perlu berhadapan dengan saya, jika perkara membenci, menghasut dan isu perkauman diamalkan di Johor.

    “Ini bukan zaman batu, Orang Melayu, kaum Cina dan India, semua telah memainkan peranan masing-masing. Johor adalah rumah kepada semua Bangsa Johor.

    “Kepada pihak berkuasa, berkas mereka yang menghasut Bangsa Johor untuk membenci dan mempromosikan perkauman. Jangan pilih kasih, cari jalan penyelesaianya ke akar umbi,”

    -Sultan Johor, Sultan Ibrahim Sultan Iskandar

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    Source: Sultan Ibrahim Sultan Iskanadar

  • Liberal Reflections On Loss And Acceptance In GE2015

    Liberal Reflections On Loss And Acceptance In GE2015

    The People’s Action Party’s (PAP) political narrative for Singapore has always insisted on our exceptionalism. For the longest time, I had suspected that this was just an excuse to impose an unnatural dominance on the populace. I had assumed and hoped that, given time, given information and given choice, Singapore would one day become a democratic society like any other – with more than one strong political party, all realistically vying for power, ensuring diversity and providing checks on each other.

    But I’m big enough to admit when I’m wrong.

    In the Sept 11, 2015 General Election, voters gave the PAP 69.9 per cent of valid votes, an increase of 9.8 percentage points from 2011. They handed 83 of 89 seats to the PAP. This wasn’t just a national swing to the PAP. This wasn’t just a vote in favour of the ruling party’s policies over those offered by other parties. This wasn’t even about picking the group at municipal level that best proves itself at the hustings or on the ground thereafter.

    Such analyses try to shoehorn the facts into the framework of a typical democracy. They miss the point entirely.

    This was a vote confirming the type of system that Singaporeans want to live under.

    Of course, the number of Parliamentary seats has not changed significantly from 2011 (when there were also six opposition seats). But, by giving the ruling party nearly 70 per cent of the popular vote, Singaporeans are essentially saying that they do not want to move towards a system where any other party has a realistic chance of taking over any time in the foreseeable future.

    In fact, contrary to views at the time, 2011 was not a watershed or inflection point marking the start of an upward climb for the opposition. Rather, 2001 may have been a bottom inflection point and 2011 marked the top of the curve. If I am right, barring seismic events, the PAP’s share of the popular vote is destined to oscillate (by five to six points) around the fulcrum of 66.6 per cent attained in 2006.

    Singaporeans want a monolithic government. They are comfortable with power consolidating in the hands of very few, presumably in the interests of effectiveness and efficiency. They do not believe that leaders necessarily govern better if they must answer, day to day, matter to matter, to critics. They do not generally require diversity of views for its own sake.

    Singaporeans have freely chosen to be governed by an entrenched elite aristocracy. Singapore may well be the only country in the world that, offered a truly free and informed choice, has so chosen.

    An aristocracy need not be of noble birth; according to the Merriam-Webster dictionary, an aristocracy is “government by the best individuals or by a small privileged class”. By this definition, the PAP and its ruling class constitute a political aristocracy.

    And regardless of what critics might say, Singaporeans this time round definitely had access to the information necessary to choose.

    Social media and technology levelled any communication advantage that the PAP might have had in the past. Education and voter maturity have reduced fear as a motivating factor.

    Opposition parties gave us credible alternatives and made cogent arguments why they, rather than the PAP’s picks, should be given our mandate.

    Singapore voters rejected these choices without coercion.

    Does that mean Singaporeans don’t want democracy at all?

    I don’t think so. But I am ready to admit that maybe it means Singaporeans do want our own brand of democracy, one that is compatible with entrenched aristocracy.

    The problem then is that the models of democracy out there (including the one we currently have) may not meet our needs.

    All these models rely on a realistic chance of displacing incumbents to generate certain conditions crucial to a functioning democracy.

    There are at least two such conditions.

    First, having a body of “professional oppositionists” whose “job” is to provide well-thought-through alternative views that challenge and thus help refine the status quo.

    Second, the strong incentive for transparency and honesty that comes from knowing that internal workings will be thrown open to external scrutiny upon regime change. It would be dangerous for us to simply assume that these conditions will be generated by our Westminster parliamentary democracy, if we consistently signal that we do not intend to check our elected political aristocracy with a strong challenger in Parliament.

    If voters consistently show they are willing to consolidate the political dominance of the PAP, where, apart from elected opposition, can we build pluralism? How else can we generate conditions of transparency?

    I believe we must seriously explore how to generate these conditions in some other way. Either by strengthening existing institutions (such as civil society, the presidency, the media, the judiciary) or by creating new ones (such as an ombudsman or other mechanisms that don’t yet exist elsewhere).

    Crucially, whatever means we choose, we must insist that these institutions be given legal and political teeth; they must be independent from the political aristocracy, be empowered to work openly, and have direct access to the public, such that we have the benefit of their guidance whenever we head to the polls. If we then choose, in our own unique way, to endorse our aristocracy, we do so on a free and informed basis.

    We need to understand what GE2015 tells us. And then we need to be brave enough, Singaporeans, governed and governors together – to imagine a system, perhaps one quite different from any other in the world, that addresses what Singaporeans clearly want, but that also protects our democracy.

    • The writer, Eleanor Wong, is a lawyer, playwright and an associate professor at the National University of Singapore Faculty of Law.

     

    Source: www.straitstimes.com

  • Roy Ngerng: Opposition Must Not Lose Touch With “Middle Ground”

    Roy Ngerng: Opposition Must Not Lose Touch With “Middle Ground”

    A college student wrote this letter and handed it to me at the last rally that I spoke at during the election. I did not have time to post it up before cooling-off day.

    Thank you for your kind words, as well as trust and confidence in me. I am grateful and honoured.

    You and your friends are the future leaders of Singapore. I spoke up because I felt that as a member of our society, it is a responsibility and duty to do so, to not only help ourselves but the people around us.

    I believe that we have to be honest and true to ourselves, and therefore I spoke up.

    This election has taught me many things. As much as I have a vision and a belief for our country’s future, it might not be something the people in our country are ready for. It might not be the vision that our countrymen want now.

    Of course, the unequal playing field played a part. But as individuals who are part of the system, how we can bring about a shared vision for our society is also a challenge that we have to look at, for the opposition as well as for Singaporeans.

    I will be honest with you. Did I make mistakes? Yes, I did. As much as I told myself that I was not angry, perhaps I was. I spent 3 years frantically pushing out writings after writings, not realising that I myself had lost touch with the “middle-ground”.

    In spite of the kind advice that was offered to me to reach out to a wider audience, I was stubborn and did not want to evolve in my writings.

    But this is the beauty of hindsight, where only after the election did I realise where I could have done better.

    You see, my awakening came about 3 years ago when I started researching on the Singapore system and my writings reflect the shock that I feel about the Singapore system. As such, my eagerness to convey my thoughts ran ahead of me.

    Was it wrong? It wasn’t. But it meant that my writings got lost among the large populace. It meant I became like any ranter. It meant that for the “middle-ground”, I became destabilising.

    From how things have panned out over the election, I have learnt that speaking up is a virtue we must hold on to. But how we listen, and adjust ourselves, so that we do not only listen to our own voices but that of others, so that all our voices are communicated across to one another, is an important learning I have made.

    For if we were to criticise the PAP for not having listened to the people, what folly we have made if we ourselves were to do the very same as the people we criticise?

    What then makes us better? It does not. And this is why the voters have spoken.

    In our anger and shock, many of us blame the new citizens, the 70%, etc. But I have decided to look at myself instead. Everyone makes mistakes. Perhaps we would first need to reflect on ourselves before we put the finger on someone else.

    Perhaps if we are to understand how it is we can improve, will we see to it another day will come.

    I thank you for your letter. It is letters like yours and many others that lets me know that at least what I have done have helped and mattered to some of you.

    It does not matter that I have lost, or even if I could have won. At the end of the day, I have tried and made a difference in the lives of some, as others have made theirs in mine.

    It is now your time to shine, as well as that of you and your friends. I am only one person and what I do can only inspire a few. Imagine the might of you and the many who let their voices be heard, the many people whose lives the many of you will touch. And how many you will inspire.

    This is not about the PAP or the opposition. This is about what matters as people and what we can do for one another.

    Sometimes, people don’t realise they have a voice, or fear to use their voice. It is up to some of us to guide the rest. I am glad that my voice has opened up yours. Thank you for your letter.

    But let us continue to open up more. Let you be the voice that others will learn from.

    I wish the PAP well, as well as the opposition. It is a learning process for all of us. The PAP played their game well and we have to respect them. Those in the opposition stood for their beliefs and we have to respect them. Singaporeans voted with their reason and we have to respect that.

    Yesterday, I inspired you. Today, you will inspire others. Tomorrow, more will inspire.

    Your journey is just beginning. I look forward to the day when you are on stage as you speak and light up the crowd, and as I stand below and tear to your words.

    There is no one hero. Because if only all of us would know, we are all heroes. If only all of us would realise.

    Be your own hero. Be my voice, as I was yours.

    Let us stand united, let us hope for a better future with the power of our voice.

    I await the day where I stand among heroes, where all of us will inspire our own future.

    I await the day when you will be my hero.

     

    Source: http://theheartruths.com

  • Menjadikannya Isu Hijab Satu Isu Pilihan Raya Boleh Jejas Proses Huraian

    Menjadikannya Isu Hijab Satu Isu Pilihan Raya Boleh Jejas Proses Huraian

    SAYA menyaksikan beberapa rapat Pilihan Raya Umum dan dapati ramai ahli Melayu calon pembangkang menyentuh tentang isu hijab.

    Malang sekali tiada satu pun daripada mereka yang ada cara untuk menyelesaikan isu tersebut melainkan mereka akan menimbulkan isu itu jika dipilih.

    Tetapi isu sebenar ialah dengan memilih untuk menjadikan isu hijab sebagai satu isu di rapat Pilihan Raya Umum, ahli calon pembangkang hanya menjadikan masyarakat kita lebih payah melakar penyelesaian terhadap isu tersebut dalam jangka masa pendek ini.

    Jika kita sudah hampir untuk mendapatkan agar hijab dapat dipakai di tempat kerja sebelum pilihan raya umum, dengan menjadikan isu hijab sebagai isu pilihan raya umum, ia sudah semestinya menjadikannya lebih sukar.

    Malangnya ahli calon pembangkang telah menggunakan isu ini sebagai isu pilihan raya.

    Maka mereka telah membuat lebih banyak ketidakselesaan dalam kalangan masyarakat bukan Islam.

    Setelah pilihan raya berakhir isu ini boleh menyebabkan jurang yang lebih jauh di antara masyarakat kita dan rakyat Singapura yang lain.

    ABDUL KADIR ABDUL RAHMAN

     

    Source: http://beritaharian.sg

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