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  • Mohd Khair: Hidup Berlandaskan Pegangan Agama Boleh Bantu Membanteras Gejala LGBT

    Mohd Khair: Hidup Berlandaskan Pegangan Agama Boleh Bantu Membanteras Gejala LGBT

    Berdasarkan KISAH SEBENAR…buat renungan bersama

    Ayah: Kau duduk sini diam-diam. Kau ingat apa kau buat tu betul? Mana aku nak letak muka. Buat malu keluarga jer…tak pernah ada keturunan aku buat kerja terkutuk tu…
    Anak: Apa ni ayah? Senang-senang nak tuduh macam-macam..
    Ayah: Ustaz, saya mintak Ustaz nasihatkan anak saya ni…
    Ustaz: Nasihat apa Pakcik?
    Ayah: Dia ada kekasih…
    Ustaz: Anak awak tu ada kekasih?
    Ayah: Ya Ustaz
    Ustaz: Betul ke kata ayah awak tu yang awak ni ada girlfriend?
    Ayah: Bukan girlfriend Ustaz…!!!
    Ustaz: Habis, awak jugak yang kata anak awak ni ada kekasih?
    Ayah: Bukan cewek Ustaz….anak jantan saya ada cowok…dia ada boyfriend…!!!
    Ustaz: Kawan lelaki?
    Ayah: Betul tu Ustaz…
    Ustaz: Apasal pulak awak kata dia ada kekasih? Padahal yang dia ada tu kawan lelaki?
    Ayah: Sama lah tu Ustaz….kawan lelaki dia tu lah kekasih anak saya!
    Ustaz: Apa awak cakap ni?
    Ayah: Saya malu Ustaz…
    Ustaz: Cakap terus terang dengan saya….
    Ayah: Anak saya ni gay…
    Ustaz: Astaghfirullahal azim…awak ni cakap baik-baik sikit. Jangan tuduh sebarangan. Ini anak awak sendiri…
    Ayah: Betul Ustaz. Dia sendiri yang mengaku. Saya malu….
    Ustaz: Betul cakap ayah awak tu…?
    Anak: (Tak jawab. Pandang arah lain…)
    Ayah: Ustaz, nasihatkan dia, biar dia tinggalkan kekasih dia tu…
    Ustaz: Betul…? (dialog kena potong dengan anak)
    Anak: Ustaz, sebelum Ustaz cakap apa-apa pada saya, Ustaz cakap dulu dengan ayah saya ni. Cakap dengan dia…kenapa dari dulu lagi dia tidak cakap dengan saya yang jadi gay tu salah, haram, masuk neraka! Kenapa? Kalau dari dulu dia hantar saya belajar agama dengan Ustaz, tentu hari ini saya tidak duduk depan Ustaz! Kalau dari dulu dia siang-siang dah cakap, saya tentu tak jadi macam ni! Sebelum Ustaz nasihatkan saya, Ustaz nasihatkan bapak saya ni dulu…!!!
    Ayah: Kurang ajar punya anak…!!!

     

    Source: Mohd Khair

  • Jae Andrew Lim: Sexual Identity Matters In National Belonging

    Jae Andrew Lim: Sexual Identity Matters In National Belonging

    I thank the writer for a crucial insight noted in her letter “Continue to promote family, but recognise others” (May 18): That the eradication of laws must not be conflated with progress.

    Changes in law should, theoretically speaking at least, be in response to particular contextual contingencies and concerns of a nation rather than progress. Yet, it is precisely this contingent, changing notion of progress that the writer fails to consider.

    The assertion that a nation is progressive only if it protects the natural heterosexual family is built on the assumption that this family form is universally valid.

    Arguably, the valuation of the heterosexual nuclear family was set in Singapore’s post-colonial days, when the nation required industry, economic growth and a constant workforce to progress to the First World.

    This developmental and economy-centric notion of progress has shifted in recent times to accommodate more subjective concerns such as happiness, belonging and identity.

    As we continue to extol the natural family, it is perhaps unfortunate that the current situation does not reflect the writer’s injunction that we “recognise the existence of other family structures”.

    Section 377A, too, represents another facet of non-recognition of homosexuals.

    These two concepts matter not only in self-identity and personhood but speak also to feelings of national belonging.

    Sociology professors Jeffrey Weeks and Diane Richardson have encapsulated this millenial phenomenon in the concept of sexual citizenship, where sexual subjectivities are coming to matter in national belonging.

    To move us forward, I echo the writer’s call that Singapore’s future depends on the promotion of wholesome family values — values regardless of sexuality that uphold love, compassion and children’s wholesome growth both in and outside the family.

    Arriving at this stage requires inclusive dialogue governed by logic, empathy and a desire to negotiate assumptions of sexuality and family, and not purely in terms of progress, but also feelings of belonging, which are just as crucial.

     

    *Article written by Jae Andrew Lim was published in Voices, Today, on 23 May 2015

    Source: www.todayonline.com

  • Diana Abdul Rahim: Not A Case Of Secular Fundamentalism

    Diana Abdul Rahim: Not A Case Of Secular Fundamentalism

    I refer to Mr Walid Jumblatt’s letter, “Don’t let secular fundamentalism be the norm” (May 15), which was a reply to Mr Hairol Salim’s letter, “Efforts of Pink Dot ambassadors should be lauded, not condemned” (May 13).

    Secular fundamentalism connotes scorn of religion and its adherents, and is usually accompanied by attempts to exclude and limit religious expressions in public. The burqa ban in France is an example.

    Secular fundamentalism seeks to trivialise the persecution faced by adherents of a certain religion who are confronted by structural disempowerment. This is, however, not the case in this debate.

    Mr Hairol’s point about “religious-driven emotions” was addressed to a particular group of “activists and individuals from certain religious communities”. It was not a sweeping statement against the legitimacy of religious voices.

    Indeed, he stated that “views of all faiths and belief systems should be given fair consideration”, which echoes Mr Walid’s sentiments.

    It is illogical to construe this willingness to provide fair consideration for all perspectives, religious or otherwise, as an expression of secular fundamentalism.

    If we are serious about being inclusive, then Mr Hairol’s appraisal of those who voice the concerns of the LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender) community should hold no controversy.

    Claims of respecting the democracy of dialogue have no legitimacy if we are unwilling to allow the people we disagree with the space to speak on their own terms.

    To me, there is much common ground between both writers. For dialogue to work in a reasonable, respectful and empathetic manner, however, interlocutors should be charitable and avoid misrepresenting the positions of their counterpart.

     

    *Article written by Diana Abdul Rahim was published in Voices, Today, on 22 May 2015

    Source: www.todayonline.com

  • Ireland Votes Overwhelmingly To Approve Same-Sex Marriage

    Ireland Votes Overwhelmingly To Approve Same-Sex Marriage

    Ireland has become the first-ever country to approve same-sex marriage by referendum, voting overwhelmingly to approve it despite opposition from clergy in the heavily Catholic nation, according to official results announced today.

    Reuters says in Friday’s vote “more than 60 percent of eligible voters cast their ballot, the highest turnout at a referendum there in over two decades.”

    Earlier, both sides in the debate acknowledged that the “yes” vote had succeeded.

    Leo Varadkar, Ireland’s health minister who came out as gay in January just as the campaign was getting underway, said Dublin appeared to have voted 70 percent in favor of the measure.

    “We’re the first country in the world to enshrine marriage equality in our constitution and do so by popular mandate,” Varadkar said. “That makes us a beacon, a light to the rest of the world of liberty and equality. It’s a very proud day to be Irish.”

    NPR’s Ari Shapiro, speaking with Weekend Edition Saturday host Scott Simon, says that although Ireland is a predominately Catholic country and many clergy urged a no vote, “the Church has had a lot of scandals” in recent years. Without a doubt, he says, the Church is “one of the losers in this vote.”

    The head of the Iona Institute, which ran the No campaign in Ireland’s vote to legalize same-sex marriage, has tweeted his congratulations to the yes campaign.

    Here’s the tweet from Iona Director David Quinn:

    Ari says that conservative areas that voted against legalizing divorce in the 1990s have come in with a Yes vote for same-sex marriage.

     

    Source: www.npr.org

  • Why Aung San Suu Kyi Has Stayed Silent On The Plight Of Rohingya

    Why Aung San Suu Kyi Has Stayed Silent On The Plight Of Rohingya

    When thousands of Rohingya people from Myanmar were discovered floating in boats on the Southeast Asian seas much of the world was understandably gripped by this unfolding human tragedy.

    Voices of anger were raised; something had to be done to end the suffering, to help those men, women and children in need.

    But what has surprised some is the silence of the Nobel peace prize laureate Aung San Suu Kyi.

    After all, these are the poverty-stricken and disenfranchised refugees from her own country who are now the focus of greater attention than ever before.

    The contrast could not be more striking: how could such an iconic figure of human rights be so reticent when it comes to defending an ethnic minority from her own country?

    It was only at the urging of reporters last week that a spokesman for her opposition party, the National League for Democracy (NLD), addressed the issue, urging a solution that acknowledged their right to citizenship status in Myanmar.

    “If they are not accepted [as citizens], they cannot just be sent onto rivers. Can’t be pushed out to sea. They are humans. I just see them as humans who are entitled to human rights,” Nyan Win, spokesman for the National League for Democracy, said.

    But nothing has come directly from the party’s leader.

    Suu Kyi herself has previously justified her reluctance to speak out on the issue of the Rohingya, even when pressed to do so during Buddhist-Muslim clashes that swept through the country in 2013. She feared that any statement she made would only fuel tensions between the Buddhist majority and the Rohingya, who make up about a third of the population of Rakhine state, which borders Bangladesh.

    Now, a surge of Buddhist nationalism and the complex ethnic political ramifications for a country that has just started a transition to democracy are taking their toll on her international image.

    In the courtyard of a Buddhist monastery in the ancient Rakhine capital of Mrauk-U, the difficulties faced by the opposition leader known as “the Lady” are illustrated by a senior monk.

    He repeats the warnings of Ashin Wirathu, an influential monk based in Mandalay who calls himself the “Burmese Bin Laden” and has become a leading voice of a new generation of nationalists espousing the cause of the Bamar, the dominant ethnic group in Myanmar.

    “They will come with swords, they will kill us,” the senior monk says of the Muslim “hordes” he sees encroaching on Myanmar.

    “Muslims reproduce like rabbits; they want to kill us with swords; they want to conquer us – we have to defend ourselves and our religion,” he insists, explicitly identifying the Rohingya with Islamist terrorism around the world.

    Extremist movements such as 969 , which is driven by Ashin Wirathu, and Ma Ba Tha – the Organisation for the Protection of Race and Religion – present themselves as defenders of the country’s interests and its Bamar soul against foreign influence in post-sanctions Myanmar.

    While insisting that he is against violence, Ashin Wirathu and those like him have fuelled and exploited tensions between Buddhists and Muslims in Rakhine state, promoting the belief that Islam is penetrating the country to install sharia law and leave Buddhists as a minority.

    The nationalists are also trying to smear Suu Kyi by depicting her as “the Muslim lover”.

    In a country that is 90 per cent Buddhist there is little sympathy to be found for the Rohingya cause, and expressing support could be political suicide for both the NLD and the military-backed ruling party less than six months before the parliamentary elections.

    A party source close to Suu Kyi, who asked not to be named, said the party leader was deeply upset over what was happening.

    But the source said she also understood the penalty for being seen as favouring Muslims and believed she needed to be in government to deal with the backlash. There is a strong belief that powerful people with close links to radical monks are deliberately stirring up tensions between communities in an attempt to disrupt ongoing political reforms.

    According to some observers, Suu Kyi and her strategists have decided that speaking up for the Rohingya may not be in their electoral interests.

    “Aung San Suu Kyi and her strategists are looking at the electoral maths,” says Nicholas Farrelly, director of the Australian National University’s Myanmar Research Centre.

    “They have long imagined that any perception the NLD is too cosy with the country’s Muslims could lose them millions of votes. That, at least, is the fear.

    “They are anxious that the Rohingya could serve as a wedge between Aung San Suu Kyi and tens of millions of Buddhists that she is counting on for votes. It doesn’t help that many NLD members probably support harsh treatment for the Rohingya and feel no special compassion for them.”

    Myanmar’s quasi-civilian government, which is headed by former generals, is in a similar situation.

    President Thein Sein’s success in bringing the country back into the international fold after decades of isolation is threatened by foreign coverage of the Rohingya boat crisis.

    The United Nations recently described the Rohingya as one of the world’s “most persecuted minorities”.

    A report this month from the US Holocaust Memorial Museum warned that rising Buddhist nationalism and anti-Muslim sentiment in Myanmar made the Rohingya a “population at grave risk for additional mass atrocities and even genocide”.

    It is estimated that a tenth of the community’s population has attempted to leave their homeland in the past few years.

    The United States, Philippines and even Gambia in Africa have offered assistance or possible resettlement of Rohingya, evoking the coordinated response to the exodus of hundreds of thousands of boatpeople from Vietnam in the late 1970s.

    For days the government line was to resist diplomatic pressure and insist the root cause of the crisis was trafficking of migrants, not the persecution of a stateless people whose name, Rohingya, is not even officially recognised.

    But on Tuesday the official newspaper, Global New Light of Myanmar, reported on the crisis for the first time, in a further sign that the government is moderating its rejectionist position.

    The daily quoted the information minister, Ye Htut, as telling foreign ambassadors that Myanmar would cooperate with regional and international counterparts “to tackle the ongoing boatpeople crisis, which is a consequence of human trafficking of people from Rakhine state and Bangladesh to Thailand, Malaysia and Indonesia.

    “The Myanmar government will scrutinise the boatpeople and bring back those who can show evidence of citizenship,” the minister said. A day later, a foreign ministry statement said Myanmar “shares concerns” of the international community and was “ready to provide humanitarian assistance to anyone who suffered in the sea”.

    The government’s move to at least acknowledge the problem in public could make it easier for the NLD to follow suit and promote a united response.

    On the other hand, Suu Kyi may decide to maintain her silence, calculating it is in her interests to leave the government on its own to deal with any backlash across the country but especially in Rakhine as the elections draw near.

    Additional reporting by Agence France-Presse

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