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  • It’s payback time.

    It’s payback time.

    Dear Friends,

    It’s payback time.

    It has been a joyous 2016 for me. For those who have been supporting me, I cannot thank you enough. Words are powerless to express my gratitude.

    I’m taking this opportunity to pay it forward for all the blessings.

    Kindly link me up to whoever you think is in need of a kitchen cabinet but doesnt have the means to.

    Im looking at someone who is from the low income family and whose kitchen is in dire need of a restructuring.

    The makeover is worth $1770 and it includes;

    – 8ft bottom kitchen cabinet (enough space for a proper kitchen sink and cooker hob)
    – Kitchen cabinet base
    – Single bowl kitchen sink
    – Kitchen sink tap
    – Electrical and plumbing works for the new installation
    – Removal and disposal of existing cabinet (if need be)

    I will not take credit for this deed. The recipient of this project will be informed that the goodwill is from my past clients.

    For those of you who have done your house renovation with me in 2016, part of the profits will go towards this project under your name. You know who you are.

    And for those who want to contribute to this project and add value, you are also welcomed to participate. No amount is too small.

    Let’s put a smile on someone’s face today.

    Tagged someone or refer me to those who deserve this. Thank you!

    PS: I will be selecting and visiting 3 homes and make a personal assessment of who needs it the most. Priority will be given to those families with low income or under public assistance.

    #Bizpayback

     

    Khan Osman Sulaiman

    Reader’s Contribution

  • A Singaporean In Iran: Life In A Shi’ite Seminary

    A Singaporean In Iran: Life In A Shi’ite Seminary

    Mr Ahmad Murtadha Rosli, 26, is not your typical Singaporean university student. He attends classes from 8am to 5pm every Saturday to Thursday and shares a dormitory with nine other students.

    His teachers are all men who wear turbans and long, flowing cloaks and teach using thick, vintage tomes. That is because Mr Ahmad is studying in a hawza that is a renowned Shi’ite Islam seminary in Qom, Iran.

    Shi’ite Islam is the second-largest sect of Islam, after Sunni Islam. Both branches agree on many aspects of the religion, but are divided over Prophet Muhammad’s rightful successor.

    More than 85 per cent of the world’s 1.5 billion Muslims are Sunni. In Singapore, Shi’ites make up less than 1 per cent of its Muslims, the majority of whom are Sunni.

    The hawza in Qom, home to about 70,000 students, teachers and academics, is the largest Shi’ite seminary in the world. Smaller seminaries exist in other parts of Iran and in neighbouring Iraq, and even in Canada and the United Kingdom. Hawza graduates are accomplished in fields like Islamic law and faith. Many go on to become religious teachers, while some end up in politics. Iran’s Supreme Leader, Ayatollah Ali Khamenei, graduated from Qom.

    The seminary attracts students from across the globe. Many come from India and Pakistan; others from countries like China, Austria and Russia. Singaporean students are rarer. Mr Ahmad’s father, Ustaz Mohammad Rosli Hassan, graduated from Qom nearly three decades ago. Now 52, Ustaz Rosli is the leader of the 5,000-strong Shi’ite community in Singapore.

    “My name was placed under ‘Thailand’ when I first joined because ‘Singapore’ wasn’t in its system,” said Mr Ahmad. “There were a few other students from Singapore but, sadly, they (didn’t finish), maybe because the way of living over in Iran is too different.”

    Since there was no other suitable candidate, Mr Ahmad added, he felt a responsibility to eventually replace his dad as leader.

    Ustaz Rosli said: “Not everyone likes that role; it is a very challenging role. The community needs leadership – whether it comes from my family or not, it doesn’t matter. I am happy that Ahmad is willing (to take over from me), but there are tough challenges ahead.”

    BACKACHES AND LONELINESS

    The seeds of Mr Ahmad’s calling were planted when he was a 10-year-old seeing the hawza for the first time during a holiday in Qom. “I always told my dad I wanted to go there,” he said.

    He attended secular schools and went from Yusof Ishak Secondary School to Ngee Ann Polytechnic, from where he graduated with a Diploma in Civil and Environmental Engineering. The decision to make the switch to a religious institution did not come easily.

    “Being a religious teacher, you won’t be earning a lot,” Mr Ahmad said, as he worried about raising a family and not having enough savings to buy an HDB flat. “I thought about all that – it’s a sacrifice I have to make for the community.”

    Two years ago, after completing his national service as a firefighter, Mr Ahmad packed his bags and left. “I thought it was like going to any other boarding school,” he said. “But at the end of the day, it’s a very different lifestyle.”

    Until recently, Mr Ahmad’s classrooms did not have air-conditioning, computers and projectors. When he stepped inside his small dorm, he was shocked to find bunk beds that did not come with mattresses. “I was sleeping on a wooden frame,” he said. “My back was aching very badly.”

    When it comes to classes, Mr Ahmad has the same timetable – comprising subjects like Persian, Quran studies and Islamic history – every day. Revision is done in pairs, where students take turns explaining a topic they learnt in class to each other. The school believes that encourages critical thinking and helps students to clarify misconceptions.

    Mr Ahmad also had to adapt to unfamiliar conditions in Qom, a desert city 125km south-west of the capital, Teheran. “Singapore is very green, but Qom is very brown,” he said. “If you leave your shoes outside for three days, it will be covered with dust.”

    On Fridays, when it is the weekend and there are no classes, Mr Ahmad plays football on a synthetic pitch with his friends from Malaysia. As meals are not provided on Fridays, they would cook dishes from home, like tom yam and chicken curry. “But it’s hard to find red chilli there,” he said. “Whenever someone visits, we would ask them to bring chilli powder or flakes.”

    However, the company of friends did not stop him from missing home. “Sometimes, I would be very lonely,” he said. “I would just sit in my room and look at old pictures on my phone.” Despite that, Mr Ahmad felt encouraged by his desire to please his parents, whom he described as “very religious”. “This is the time I can prove to them that I want to be successful,” he said.

    His moment of glory came when he scored full marks for an Arabic exam, a subject he initially struggled in because he lacked the foundation. “I would spend four hours doing my homework over and over again, just so I could get it right,” he recalled.

    Mr Ahmad plans to study in Qom straight through to a PhD in the fundamentals of Islamic law – a process that will take at least 10 years. He doesn’t intend to return to Singapore until his father “decides to retire one day, or if he’s too old or sick”.

    Right now, Mr Ahmad is taking a break from his studies. He has been back in Singapore since March last year to get married to his girlfriend of six years. The pair met and got together during their polytechnic days, when she was still a Sunni interested in the Shi’ite sect. About a year into their relationship, she switched over.

    “Before, her parents were good to me,” he said. “After finding out that I was a Shi’ite and that she was slowly converting, things changed.” When Mr Ahmad approached her parents about tying the knot, they rejected him. So, the pair went straight to the Registry of Muslim Marriages. According to the Administration of Muslim Law Act, a Muslim marriage can still be solemnised by a religious official, or kadi, even if the bride’s parents object to it. But after questioning Mr Ahmad about his Shi’ite background, the kadi refused to proceed with the marriage.

    “Now, we have to appeal through Muis (the Islamic Religious Council of Singapore); they are helping us a lot in settling the issue,” he said. Ustaz Rosli is confident his son will prevail in this “unwanted episode”. “Like it or not, he will be married officially in Singapore,” he said.

    Mr Ahmad expects to know the outcome of his appeal soon. If things go to plan, his future wife will accompany him back to Qom, where she intends to enrol in the hawza. He just wants his ordeal to be resolved quickly. “I’m very much missing everything in Qom,” he said. “I wish the authorities would do things a lot faster.”

    LIKE FATHER, LIKE SON

    For Ustaz Rosli, life in the hawza could not have been more different. He arrived in Qom in 1986, during the tail end of the Iran-Iraq war that killed nearly half a million people.

    “People were living in a tough situation,” Mr Ahmad recalled his father telling him. “Everything was so expensive back then.” During meal times, he added, students were issued coupons that entitled them to a serving of meat. “They didn’t get to eat meat or chicken on a daily basis, like how it is now.”

    Ustaz Rosli graduated in 1990 before returning to Singapore, where he is now president of the Jaafari Muslim Association, a Shi’ite organisation based in Geylang. “There were people before us who lived through life in the seminaries with difficulties,” he said. “Anyone who wants to succeed me must be spiritually strong.”

    Ustaz Rosli has also been a full-time religious teacher for more than 25 years, a job that has taken him to countries like Indonesia, the Philippines and the United States, where he gives lectures on Islamic studies. Mr Ahmad said his dad wanted to challenge the perception that religious teachers cannot be successful. “Back then, people used to think that there was no future in being an ustaz,” he said.

    When Mr Ahmad comes home, he wants to be a religious teacher too. He thinks he will have no problems registering under the Asatizah Recognition Scheme, which requires Islamic religious teachers in Singapore to have at least a diploma in Islamic studies from a recognised institution.

    The mandatory scheme, which kicks in from this month, aims to recognise qualified teachers and combat extremist ideology. “Although the majority of Muslims in Singapore are Sunni, Islam in Singapore is not monolithic. Sunnis and Shi’ites have lived in harmony in Singapore for many years,” said a spokesman for Muis. The scheme will ensure that asatizah can “serve as a reliable source of reference” for the Muslim community in Singapore, he added. “The Asatizah Recognition Board has begun engaging asatizah as well as centres providing Islamic education.”

    Mr Muhammad Al-Baqir Buang, who is president of the Muslim Youth Assembly, another Shi’ite group with about 200 members, said: “The scheme will help to reduce extremist or radical thoughts from being spread to the masses by unqualified teachers. However, I have doubts about how far it can be implemented, given that there are some asatizah who teach in homes, and other loopholes that can’t be totally monitored.”

    Nevertheless, Mr Ahmad said the scheme helps to deter “extreme” Islamic teachers who might label Shi’ites as heretics. “The authorities are trying to promote harmony between Shi’ites and Sunnis,” he said. “That is something that is good.”

     

    Source: www.straitstimes.com

  • Live Below Your Means In This World So You Can Prepare For Life In The Hereafter

    Live Below Your Means In This World So You Can Prepare For Life In The Hereafter

    Waited before I made this posting. Didn’t want to spoil anyone’s vacation.

    It was so wonderful to see so many of my FB friends going on vacation with their families. I saw so many countries visited. From all corners of the globe. Truly fantastic to spend quality time with family.

    Recently had dinner with an old friend from varsity. He’s a very successful businessman, running a multi-million dollar enterprise for more than two decades. And what a kind heart. He has helped so many of the poor and downtrodden all over the world. May Allah azzawajal Bless and Protect him. But I digress.

    He said that never before on the more than two decades of doing business has he seen the situation so bad. Not the 2008 financial crisis. The 2003 SARS one. Or any one of the financial downturns in the last two decades.

    MAS recently made the announcement that we should be circumspect with our spending, putting away savings for the coming financial headwinds. I honestly can’t remember the last time they did this.

    Anecdotallly u can see signs of a slowdown if u look carefully. Juz yesterday went to IKEA. Normally on a weekend they will be quite a queue at the checkout. This time around I hardly had to wait to be served.

    Bringing me to my main point.

    We should look upon the impending financial slowdown as an opportunity. So we should create a financial ‘war chest’ to be used when the time is right.

    For e.g. My car is 8 years old. Alhamdulillah it still purrs like a kitten. So in the event of a financial slowdown, the coe will fall. If and when it does I’ll be ready to take advantage.

    And the niyyah (intent) is to try to steer clear of interest costs (riba). Hopefully the coe will fall at the time I need to renew the coe. That way, I InshaAllah will pay cash for the coe and get another ten years of usage without incurring any riba. Incidentally 8 years ago I bought the car and paid cash in full. So InshaAllah I can have usage of it for the next 10 years without paying any installments and be virtually debt free.

    Another person may be looking to get a bigger flat coz of growing family etc.

    So financial savings now can mean one can strike when the iron is hot. Also if u r a hi income earner, u may want to think of getting a second property. The objective is to get a steady stream of passive income, such that you don’t have to be so dependent on the promotions n bonuses at work.

    This is important methinks. If one is too focused on promos n bonuses it would take up slot of time and energy. And you pay a price, because less time N energy would be spent serving the Deen of Allah azzawajal and investing for the Everafter. The opportunity cost is not worth paying.

    Also if u r too dependent on the monthly income, U will be unable to speak up at work when the situation calls for it.

    So we need to think strategically. Link our financial goals towards freeing ourselves to serve His Deen.

    In the meantime, Live simply. Don’t juz live within our means. Live BELOW our means. And keep our intentions pure.

    If we are strategic now, we can take advantage of any financial headwinds that come our way.

    At least we won’t be saddled in debt. The modern-day slavery.

    Live in this world. Live for the next.

    And God Knows best. Wallahualam.

     

    Source: Syed Danial

  • Don’t Agree To Men Who Want To Video Having Sex With You

    Don’t Agree To Men Who Want To Video Having Sex With You

    Hi.

    I would like to share this story with your site.There is a video circulating on tumblr showing a couple doing an obscene act in public.

    The video begins by showing an attractive woman passionately performing oral sex on the man who is holding the camera. She is wearing a pink tudung and the video appears to be taken on a secluded HDB staircase landing.

    The couple then proceed to have sexual intercourse on the steps of the staircase itself and at the end of the video, the woman appears to be so excited that she squirted all over the steps of the staircase! Oh man, I pity the town council’s cleaners.

    It is disgraceful that this young lady is wearing a tudung while she has sex in public. She should show more respect to religion and customs. Perhaps the younger generation does not value modesty as much as the older generation did. Too bad for her, because the chap she had sex with betrayed her soon afterwards, leaking the sex video he took onto the Internet. This seems
    to be a common trend these days! Why are girls so naive to believe that guys are just taking sex videos for the sake of remembering the moment of love.

    The videos can be sold online or traded on notorious forums, so why would a guy keep the video and not sell it, especially if he just broke up with the girl.

    Are youngsters so horny and desperate for sex that they cannot control themselves until they reach the nearest bedroom? Or are they simply taking Minister Josephine Teo’s words to heart. “You do not need much space to have sex”. Perhaps Minister Josephine Teo would be proud to see them doing it out in the open, without worrying about whether they can afford a HDB flat.

    Source: www.allsingaporestuff.com

     

  • Help! Mother Of 5 Young Children Faces Massive Financial Obstacles, Determined To Turn Life Around Without Abusive Husband

    Help! Mother Of 5 Young Children Faces Massive Financial Obstacles, Determined To Turn Life Around Without Abusive Husband

    Please find it in your Heart to help by donating what you can, sharing her story with friends and family, and sharing her fundraiser campaign on your social media.

    Anyting you can do will be appreciated even if it is your prayers for the success of this campaign. We thank you for your time in reading this.

    As my Friend cope with the very unexpected things that happen in her life right now. She was abused again and again by her husband.

    This page is set up as a place to gather encouragement and strength. Upon this tragedy let’s come together and show our support to her and her 5 kids. Senya (My Friend) was not employed after she got married her financial dependence post married made her limp,so limp that she didn’t have the back bone to confront her Satanic Husband. Her Husband have crush her facial bones! he abused her and left her with kids and as well bills to pay.She is on PPO currently since 2014, and her Husband didn’t provide for her and the kids till now. With no food at home. She had piled up of arrears with town council, power supply and home loan. This is going to be a Long, rough road to travel with her 5 kids. She is now failing for a divorced. All her kids age is between 12 and below. As we know school will resume on January. Please help her with her utility bills as the family is using PAYU and sometimes can’t afford to top up they would be in dark. They are in immediate need of financial contributions to help with current expenses.

    To those who would like to donate directly to her bank account is under POSB SAVINGS 170-49122-0 and to those whom wish to contact me can do so through my email address [email protected]

    My goal is to minimize the financial obstacles they are having right now. We cannot understand the struggle they are having. We need to form a network to help them financially, emotionally and physically and rebuild her so she comes back better than ever. It’s not easy while starting over.  God Bless all of you..

     

    Source: https://give.asia

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