Category: Sosial

  • Tahfiz Fire: Mothers Of Victims Accuse School Of Hoarding Donations

    Tahfiz Fire: Mothers Of Victims Accuse School Of Hoarding Donations

    Several mothers of the victims of the Darul Quran Ittifaqiyah fire on Sept 14 have complained that they have yet to receive their share of public donations given through the school after the tragedy. Speaking to FMT on condition of anonymity, they demanded that the headmaster come clean on whether they would ever receive their money. One of them said the headmaster, Muhammad Zahid Mahmood, had told them during their first meeting with him that the school would keep 30% of the donations and the rest would go to the families of the 21 boys who died as well as the families of those who were injured and traumatised.

    That meeting took place on Sept 22. However, according to the woman, the parents were told on the next day that they would get 30% and the school would keep 70%. “But we haven’t received a single sen,” she said. She said she got even more angry when the headmaster didn’t turn up at a meeting he was supposed to have with the parents last Saturday night. He sent a representative instead. “Apparently he said he couldn’t make it because he had to meet with the fire department,” she said. “What’s he doing meeting with the fire department at night?”

    Another mother claimed that the school would routinely keep money donated to its pupils even before the fire. She said the school would often organise visits to the prime minister and other notables during Hari Raya and other festive events. “These people would give our children money, but the school would let our children have only the small change and hold on to the bigger amounts for safe keeping, or so we’re told,” she said. “Now that our children are gone, where is the money?”

    Another woman said it wasn’t the school that informed them of the tragedy, but one of the mothers, who sent out a Whatsapp message at 6am, hours after the fire broke out. “The headmaster is in that Whatsapp group as well,” she said. Less than a week after the fire, Zahid told the press that the school had collected almost RM1 million in donations. He said the school planned to give “what it can” to the parents of the victims. When this was brought to the attention of one of the mothers, she said she had heard people talk about it but had not read the report.

    She also claimed that although the parents had been notified that the school would stop collecting money yesterday, she could clearly see someone standing outside the school’s management building with a box for donations. “I wish you could somehow get the word across to generous people that if they want to donate money or anything else to the parents to give it directly to them because many of them really need that help,” she told FMT. Several attempts to contact Zahid have failed.

  • Husband Having Scandals, Who Should You Blame?

    Husband Having Scandals, Who Should You Blame?

    Few months ago, aku terkejut dapat satu PM dari sorang sis ni. Aku tak ingat the content exactly. Yang aku ingat cuma this line from a long PM, “Sis, saya nak tau apa hubungan awak dengan suami saya.” Dari bulat muka kecik tu, aku clicked View Profile. Laki siapa pulak yang aku da “kacau” ni.. Sampai kat profile cik kak ni, aku nampak gambar suami dia. Berair mata aku, terkekek2. Its not the first time aku kena “serang” dengan isteri orang yang cemburu buta. Aku paling pantang perempuan yang tuduh2 tak gunakan akal.

    Kalau suami korang like gambar Janna nick, means dia ada affair dengan Janna Nick ke? Korang PM tak si Janna nick tu? Kenapa dia tak boleh tanya suami dia, “Awak ada affair ke dengan perempuan ni?” Kalau suami jawab ye, then too bad lor. Kalau suami kata tidak, then investigate further lor but please eh, nak investigate, kena cerdik. Bukan main mengkhinzir buta. Aku pernah dapat few PMs from few ladies yang kononnya agree dengan postings aku bab cheating husbands ni. Setakat ni, aku da received about 5 PM for the same issue. Husband dia ada perempuan lain and isteri ni fully aware, tapi dia mati2 salahkan perempuan tu sebab rosakkan rumahtangga dia. Aku da banyak wasted my precious time dengar stories camni. Si isteri tak terima bila aku tanya why they stay in that kinda marriage. Husband jenis suka tukar2 partner. Banyak GF.

    These wives pulak susah payah pergi serang si gf ni kat rumah dorang. Malukan gf ni kat FB. Hina dia. Condemn dia rabak2. Abih si suami tu apa? Mangsa keadaan? Malaikat? Suci dalam debu? Pls la, wake up la eh. If you choose to stay with a cheating husband, then zip it. Jangan ceritakan aib suami pada sesiapa. If you need help to get out of the marriage, then go through the proper channel. Jangan sedap mulut blame one party je. Cheating is not a mistake. Its a choice. Dia tak hormat you as a wife and you are okay with that, so live with it. Yang aku tak faham, why si isteri ni beriya2 salahkan perempuan tu je. Padahal si suami tu, da tau ada isteri, ada anak2, masih nak ada scandal.

    So salah siapa sebenarnya? Hati kita semua milik Allah SWT.  Nak tawan hati, kena doa and mintak pada Allah. Kadang2 kita cintakan orang melebihi cinta kita pada Allah.  So kita akan diuji dengan benda yang paling kita sayang.. Tiap kali ada masalah, try to do a root cause analysis. Muhasabah.. Tanya macam2 soalan yang berkaitan dengan why..

    Why.. <soalan>
    Why.. <soalan>
    Why.. <soalan>
    Why.. <soalan>
    Why.. <soalan>

    At the end of the whys, in shaa Allah you akan jumpa a solution. May Allah SWT eases the affairs of all the sistas yang tengah tension pikirkan if their husband is cheating on them ke tidak. May Allah SWT help all of you to do the right thing. I will not entertain anymore topics about husbands for a while. Da muak.

     

    Source: Khainis Tahir

  • Betul Ke Janda-Janda Ni Semua Gatal, Asyik Goda Laki And Boyfriend Orang?

    Betul Ke Janda-Janda Ni Semua Gatal, Asyik Goda Laki And Boyfriend Orang?

    Kesian jugak semua ibu-ibu tunggal ni. Kita tak tahu macam mana diorang tanggung kehidupan diorang dengan anak-anak diorang. Kita sebagai orang luar, janganlah asyik nak kecam mak-mak janda ni. Diorang taka kan jadi janda kalau tak kerana lelaki. So please respect diorang ni jugak.

    Janda ke tak, diorang tetap manusia biasa kan. Apa kau kisah, at most kau tak suka dengan status diorang, kau diam-diam angkat kaki jalan sudah la. Kenapa semua nak salahkan mak-mak janda? Laki ke boyfriend kau gatal dengan mak janda pun nak salahkan mak janda tu jugak ke? Ini semua stereotype, semua janda yang salah. Jangan lah kecam janda-janda ni lagi ok? Kesian dekat diorang.

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    “Aku da bawak ni title Janda/Ibu Tunggal since 2012 to 2015 pastu break kejap for like a yr plus… Pastu aku angkat tu title balik early 2017… From experience… It’s never easy for us (single moms) especially with young children…  Mana kita nak kerja untuk sara anak2…nak hantar skolah… Mana yg sakit pulak… Nak msk… Ajar hmwk… Untung kalau yg tinggal dgn parents… Mak bapak bole tolong…

    Kalau yg tinggal sorang mcm aku ni… Mana nk hantar anak… Nak pergi pasar nk masak…amek anak2… It’s not easy for us…. It’s really disappointing when some or most people are judging us based on title JANDA…. Asal janda je bole bawak??  Asal janda je bole buat barang pakai… Laki org msg aku… Aku yg gatal… Bf kau add aku… Aku yg gatal…  Aku friendly korang ckp aku gatal… Aku tak layan korang kata aku step power…da janda tak sadar diri….

    I’m sure not only me… Mesti byk ibu2 tunggal mcm aku ni yg kene sama mcm aku… Our lives are already a mess guys…. The least u can do is show moral support n stop judging as u please… Yang nk kenal2 dgn kita ni… Bole… Bukan tk bole….  Tapi jgn gunakan pick up line “i love kids” untuk tackle maknyer ye…padahal kau layan budak pon taktau…  Kita ni bukan barang mainan atau tissue da lap2 peluh kau buang tepi road eh…

    Kalau tanak blah… Takyah menyusahkan lgk kehidupan org yg da sediakala susah ni…yg ibu2 tunggal plak…. Hati2 ya… Jgn senang percaya dgn kata2 manis ni sume…sume bullshit… Pasal org kalo ikhlas dia tk byk bunyik…  Dia tunjuk tros…n dia takkan ask for anything in return… Sekian… Wassalam”

     

    Rilek1Corner

  • Malaysian Restaurant, Papparich, In Australia, Suggests Eating Nasi Lemak With Chopsticks

    Malaysian Restaurant, Papparich, In Australia, Suggests Eating Nasi Lemak With Chopsticks

    Online nettizens were furious when they found out that a Malaysian eatery brand, Papparich, in Australia posted a photo of a Nasi Lemak to be eaten with chopsticks.

    As Malaysians, they felt insulted that the company was not sensitive to the Malaysian culture as Malaysians don’t eat Nasi Lemak with chopsticks.

    Even in Singapore, we do not eat Nasi Lemak with chopsticks.

    How can Papparich do this in Australia? Papparich has forgotten its Malaysian roots?

     

    Rilek1Corner

  • Counterfeit ISIS Lego Sets Pulled Off Shelves In Singapore

    Counterfeit ISIS Lego Sets Pulled Off Shelves In Singapore

    Sellers in Singapore have pulled counterfeit Lego sets featuring ISIS militants off their shelves.

    The made-in-China toys were sold on and offline, and at local online marketplace Carousell. The sets were recommended for children between six and 12.

    One also includes a plastic figurine of a decapitated head.

    These toys, described as “Falcon commando” sets, were priced between $3.80 and $25. They were sold on local online marketplace Carousell and at 8 Series, a retail store selling household goods, toys and other lifestyle items in People’s Park Centre.

    Close to 20 of them were in stock on Tuesday evening when The Straits Times visited the shop, while there were two listings for the products on Carousell yesterday morning.

    Another online retailer, Brick Generals, also sold toy figurines described as “militants” and “bombers”. One of them was labelled as “ISIS Jihadi John”, while a description for a bomber figurine read: “Extremist who enjoys blowing things up for fun. One day, he’ll blow himself up.”

    The iconic toy company said that these toys were “in no way affiliated with the Lego Group.”

     

    Source: ST