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  • MUIS Asatizahs Must Step Up And Guide Community, Stop Remaining Silent

    MUIS Asatizahs Must Step Up And Guide Community, Stop Remaining Silent

    Minister Masagos’ comments are of concern.

    Firstly, saying that raising issues like the tudung would ‘easily lead us to open old wounds that can instigate riots’ , to our minds, smacks of fear-mongering. What evidence is there that a rational look at the tudong issue would lead to riots? In fact, many Singaporeans regardless of race or religion do support the wearing of tudung by our nurses and those in uniformed services.

    Secondly, merely stating that religion needs to be practiced based on context can be misleading without proper elucidation on the issue. For instance, what if someone were to say the command to fast came about during the Medina stage of the prophetic struggle. We now live in the Meccan stage, esp in SG. So fasting is not obligatory on me. Also the order for salat came in the late Meccan stage. We are very much in the era of Nation states. The khilafah will not be established anytime soon. Therefore why should I pray?

    We ask the asatizahs in MUIS to comment on this.

    If salat and saum is not something that would be applicable to the KPI in MUIS, then perhaps the next example would.

    In context of Islamic history, zakat is paid to the khilafah. There is no khilafah for almost a century. Why then should we give out zakat?

    We really ask the asatizahs in MUIS to guide us.

    Wallahualam.

     

    Source: Singapore Muslims for an Independent MUIS

  • Man Rides Electric Skate Scooter Through McDonald’s Drive-Thru While Smoking, Almost Langgar Car In Front

    Man Rides Electric Skate Scooter Through McDonald’s Drive-Thru While Smoking, Almost Langgar Car In Front

    Stomper Gerald saw a man endangering himself by riding a scooter at the McDonald’s Drive-Thru at Kallang Leisure Park on Feb 8.

    The man also happened to be smoking and had nearly banged into a car in front of him.

    Gerald, who wondered why the man couldn’t simply get off his scooter and order food from the McDonald’s counter indoors instead, said:

    “Saw this guy with a scooter at the Macs drive-thru at Kallang Lesiure Park three days ago.

    “He was smoking and almost knocked into the car in front..

    “I was wondering why he couldn’t have just gotten off his scooter and order food inside. Even motorcyclists don’t go through the Drive-Thru.”

     

    Source: http://singaporeseen.stomp.com.sg

  • Masagos Zulkifli: Religion Must Be Practised Based On Local Context

    Masagos Zulkifli: Religion Must Be Practised Based On Local Context

    Religion must be practised in context and Muslim scholars here understand how certain religious teachings should be taught in Singapore’s context, said Minister for the Environment and Water Resources Masagos Zulkifli.

    In an exclusive interview with Malay-language current affairs programme Bicara, Mr Masagos discussed the threat of terrorism in Singapore as well as the danger of preachers who impart divisive teachings. Mr Masagos was speaking in response to Minister for Home Affairs and Law K Shanmugam’s recent speech on the issue of terrorism and security of Singapore.

    Q: Minister Shanmugam’s speech on the issue of terrorism and security of Singapore – among other things – also raised the issue of the Muslim community growing somewhat more distant from the others, which is viewed as one of the threats to Singapore. As former Second Minister of State for Home Affairs, can you help to clarify what does the Government mean by this?

    Masagos Zulkifli: If we examine the speech, we know that Minister Shanmugam recognises that the Singapore Muslim community is a model community that we can be proud of. This is an important context of the speech, that he recognises the Malay/Muslim community has been able to live together with other communities through thick and thin without causing any conflicts, though they may arise from time to time. This is an important context which we have to bear in mind of the speech.

    But today, there are new external threats, especially the Islamic State ideology that has influenced many of our young people – through social media – to do one or two things. First, to join them to form an Islamic State in Syria, Iraq, and if they are not able to go there, then they can cause mischief or perform some killings to create troubles by doing whatever they can in their respective countries.

    So, we are concerned, in case Singaporeans do not understand about these new threats which may influence some people easily. They might be influenced to undertake violent acts without understanding that we have been able to live with each other in harmony.

    If you look at the threats in the last two years, they have become bigger over time. In the past, it was only radical ideology that the radicals wanted to spread to their friends, whether through social media and so on. Today we see a situation where acts of violence are becoming more common in cities – like the Paris attacks, and more recently, the attack on our neighbours in Jakarta. And we should not rule out the possibility that it could happen here.

    We have already arrested several young men who had been influenced and wanted to go to Syria or Iraq to join the fight with Islamic State, but they obviously wanted to conduct acts of violence including on our Prime Minister and the President. This shows that radical ideology has been able to sow the seeds of violence that can be used to manipulate a minority in the community to conduct the acts of violence which can undermine the harmony in our country.

    Q: Speaking of the “seeds of violence”, the Government has also picked up on some young Muslims who now think it is wrong to greet others by saying “Merry Christmas” or “Happy Deepavali”, as they consider it un-Islamic. We are also told there are also those who believe that it is wrong to recite the National Pledge or sing the National Anthem. Surely these are just symptoms of a problem. What is the larger problem here?

    Masagos Zulkifli: The Malay/Muslim community has all along been guided by our local scholars. Despite the various problems that arise from time to time, we can solve them by taking into account the interest of our society, our religion and at the same time, we can build a developed country together with other people.

    Now we begin to see influences that can come to our country through social media and so on, and this has been widespread in our society. If we look at some of the features of these influences which are disturbing, among those is the belief that we should create a situation or environment which is so pure and perfect, resembling utopia. And this is something imposed on us to implement it hastily.

    For example, if in the past we can have a meal together with others without thinking of what to eat, now some of us begin to isolate ourselves – they do not want to eat with other people because they do not eat halal food. But, thank God, through the guidance of our local scholars, we know that this is not right.

    Similarly, on the issue of the threats of radical ideologies that have come through social media and have influenced some of our young people, we need our local scholars to address them so that the young people know what to accept and what to reject.

    Q: How effective are our local religious scholars in tackling negative foreign influences?

    Masagos Zulkifli: We are fortunate that we are able to produce our own scholars through our local madrasahs. This is important. If they come from foreign countries, even from Mecca or Medina, they may also carry contexts or cultures that may not be suitable for the life and needs of the Muslims here.

    Religion must also have its contexts and many of our scholars from the local madrasahs and guided by other local ulamas, they understand better how certain religious teachings should be taught in our context.

    Among other things: How we highly value the harmony with other people, how we have to respect the rights of others who have their own practices and how we should tolerate the religious practices of others and do not see them as something that should be banished. This is the context most suitable to us, which is now being threatened by views coming from places that are now being fought by Islamic State.

    BANNING OF FOREIGN PREACHERS

    Q: Recently, the Singapore Government also firmly stated that it would ban foreign missionaries, who are intolerant to the situation here, from preaching in this country. Is there a particular trend that the Government is worried about, concerning foreign preachers gaining attention in Singapore?

    Masagos Zulkifli: Actually, this is a long-standing practice and does not only apply to Muslim preachers. It applies to all religions and anyone who comes to Singapore and rakes up issues concerning language, religion or race which can cause unhappiness among the different races and lead to racial unrest. We have been able to eradicate and prevent all this.

    So, if anyone who says wonderful things while in Singapore, things that are appropriate to our religion, but in their own country or through social media, they say things that can sow the seeds of terrorism or intolerance towards other religions, including forbidding “Merry Christmas” greetings and so on without taking into account its context, without taking into account the teachings of our religious scholars that allows it, and they reject our religious scholars – this is very dangerous.

    If we cannot trust our own religious scholars, who else can we trust? We have to rely on our religious scholars, we must trust our religious scholars who understand the context of living as a minority in Singapore so that we can continue with our right to practice our religion, as a Malay, as a Muslim.

    Q: We would like to get a full clarification from you as a Cabinet Minister. Lately, we have been seeing a lot of discussion on the Internet that Mufti Menk of Zimbabwe, for instance, has been banned in Singapore because of – among others – his opinion that Muslims should not wish others “Merry Christmas” and so on, and such attitudes are quite contrary to the spirit of religious and racial harmony in Singapore and because of that, he is not allowed to preach in this country. What is your response? 

    Masagos Zulkifli: We have the guidance of our local religious scholars who allow and even encourage us to develop the spirit of harmony and be compassionate to other communities. In fact, when we wish others “Merry Christmas”, we know that we are not Christians and will not become Christians by saying “Merry Christmas”.

    So, this is important and we do not need opinions which are not only contrary to what we uphold but can also create a situation that is not harmonious. As I have said earlier, the ban on foreign speakers is not just applicable to Muslims. This applies to all, whether they are Christians or Buddhists and so on.

    We recognise that the Government wants to create a harmonious, peaceful environment for everyone. Anyone who threatens it, whether they are in this country or overseas, we will stop it.

    THE TUDUNG ISSUE

    Q: What is your response to calls by two Malay Members of Parliament in recent Parliamentary debates for bigger spaces on the discussion of identity and religion, including the wearing of the tudung, and whether the Government can be more flexible on the issue?

    Masagos Zulkifli: I have two comments. Firstly, religion, language and race are very sensitive matters. We may feel that the time is right for us to discuss it among ourselves or with the other races. But it can also easily lead us to open old wounds that can instigate riots, and we do not want this to happen.

    Just look at what happened to our neighbour. Our neighbouring country (Malaysia) saw the Bersih demonstration being held as a protest against an issue. But incidentally, due to the presence of many Chinese, it nearly ignited a racial problem over there because of those images. Therefore, when a rather sensitive matter is being debated openly, those who are speaking, as well as those who are listening, may not be rational. If emotions have been rattled, people can do something unthinkable.

    Secondly, we should also see that – as I have said earlier – religious matters belong in the domain of scholars. These scholars not only possess deep knowledge, but they also practise and impart religion wisely. This happens in all religions. When we teach our children, we know that there are certain levels that are suitable for their age, suitable for their level of maturity and it will not be forced upon them. The same goes for religion – we need to do things gradually, and in any religious issue, religious scholars know the best solutions.

    I think that some people like to interfere in such matters, especially if they can politicise it. This will turn a particular issue into something more complicated than what it was initially.

    Q: What are your thoughts on MP Zaqy Mohamad’s call to see the wearing of tudung as part of a new normal, and whether the Government can re-look its approach on religious issues within the context of this new normal?

    Masagos Zulkifli: In any social change within society that happens to a particular community, we must be careful because it not only impacts that community, but also society’s perception of that community.

    This happens not only for the tudung issue, but we can also look at how the Government views the gay issue, for instance, or sexual relations between people of the same gender. The Government also did not budge on this matter. If we begin to budge, we know that there are groups who still cannot recognise the consequences of having the freedom to do whatever they want, just like the other religions.

    Therefore, we should not just be concerned with what we want. We should also know that every community wants its rights to be met. But, we also know that in Singapore – as mentioned by DPM Teo Chee Hean – we have remained as a harmonious society not because every community is given its rights, but because each community has sacrificed something that is very precious to them for the sake of that harmony, and this is something that we truly hold dear.

    Hence, I hope that in all these matters, we must be wise, we must think long and hard, we must go with those who are learned in these matters. What is the religious issue, its impact on religion, its social impact, its impact on society and so on? Think it over carefully because when we solve an issue, and if the issue is a complicated one, we must tread lightly.

    Q: So are there any developments in the discussion about the tudung, religion or race?

    Masagos Zulkifli: All matters pertaining to any religion are often discussed in the Cabinet and we do look at ways to lead society to be more open, more accepting – but we are careful in doing this.

     

    Source: www.channelnewsasia.com

  • Nicole Seah: Low Key Wedding Was Perfect

    Nicole Seah: Low Key Wedding Was Perfect

    Being in the political spotlight several years back – she was the youngest female candidate in the 2011 Singapore General Elections and the second most popular politician online – taught Nicole to be cautious about revealing too many details about her life. In fact, she told Her World magazine in May in 2014 that publicity had its price, and it had made her extremely reticent about her personal matters.

    However, since moving to work in an advertising firm in Bangkok, Thailand, Nicole is now more open and even chatty about romance and her marriage to Bryan, a 29-year-old Singaporean engineer based in Australia. She declined to reveal his last name.

    We find out more from Nicole, also 29, who tied the knot in a low-key ceremony in August 2015, and was in the process of moving back to Singapore from Bangkok for good by the end of December 2015.


    “I was crying non-stop during the solemnisation, and so were our mothers,” says Nicole. Corded lace and satin mermaid gown from Rico-A-Mona. Silk flowers, from Inside The Knot.

    You’ve had several high-profile relationships previously, but little is known about Bryan. What can you tell us about him?
    I met him when I was holidaying in Australia three years ago. Our mums introduced us and his mum later got him to help me with an errand. After spending just one day together, he ended up asking me out for the next two weeks. At first, we didn’t think it was a good idea to get serious as we both lived in different countries. Then he downloaded Whatsapp and Skype the day I left, and we’ve been talking non-stop ever since.

    What makes him different from the rest?
    I’m very comfortable with him. As someone who used to have a high profile in the media, I like that Bryan sees me as I really am, and doesn’t care about what others think or say.

    How have your past relationships shaped your outlook and approach towards your relationship with Bryan?
    I appreciate the importance of being in a relationship where both parties respect each other wholeheartedly. There is no room for compromise in that area. It’s also important to be with someone you can count on a friend as well. We’ve taken a very pragmatic approach to our relationship. The decision to be together is a conscious choice we make every day, and this keeps our feelings for each other strong.


    Nicole and Bryan at their solemnisation ceremony at the Registry of Marriages.

    When did you know that he was the one?
    I’ve seen many friends in long-distance relationships and there was always emotional turbulence. Bryan and I work well as a team. Sure, there were challenges along the way, but our relationship is great.

    So how did he pop the question?
    It was a very HDB-style proposal, as we are both not romantic people. I was in Australia visiting him and we were discussing the future of our relationship when he logged on to the ROM website. We got married on August 21. I don’t have an engagement ring because I feel diamonds are too dressy for everyday wear.

    We understand Bryan will be moving back to Singapore. Will this be for good or is there a chance you’ll live in Australia later on?
    He misses Singapore very much and we’re both happy to be coming home. To be honest, I don’t see us moving to Australia. I’ve been to a few cities there, but I still prefer living in Singapore. We both want to settle down here.

    You had a very low-key wedding with just close friends and family present. Was this deliberate? 
    Yes, I don’t like fanfare and dealing with too many groups of people. Ours was a very intimate and emotional ceremony.

    How did you put it together?
    I set up a Facebook chat group to coordinate with everyone, as my in-laws lived in Australia, I was in Bangkok and my family was in Singapore. I managed the occasion like I would a work project with checklists and constant work-in-progress updates. I also checked on everyone to make sure they all knew what was going on, and that they were happy with the plans.  The entire process took about three months in total. I know that to many people, it’s a once-in-a-lifetime event, and details matter. But I just have a different way of expressing my commitment to my better half. I also didn’t want to have so many things afterwards as it creates physical clutter in a home. The marriage cert was enough for us.

    Did you have a theme?
    Not at all. In fact, we dropped by a flower shop in Tanjong Pagar on the day itself for the bouquet because my mum insisted on it. After searching for images, I told the florist that I wanted a simple bouquet with a mix of soft colours.


    “I appreciate the importance of being in a relationship where both parties respect each other wholeheartedly.” Crystal-embellished chiffon gown, from Digio Bridal. Hydrangea, David Austin rose tulip and ranunculus bouquet, from Green Point Flowers.

    What was the highlight or most precious moment on the day you got married?
    It was that moment during the solemnisation when we looked into each other’s eyes and said our vows while Bryan held my hand very firmly. It was quite overwhelming. Every word was significant and meaningful. One particular line in the vows encapsulated what love and marraige are all about: “I vow to always keep our love as pure as it is today.”

    Was the wedding what you imagined it would be?
    Even as a girl, I’d never thought about my own wedding, so I didn’t have any preconceived notions about it.

    Will you be holding another reception later?
    Probably. We want to settle back in Singapore first, so timelines are still tentative.

    Your wedding outfits were pretty chic and unique. Was that how you planned it?
    Not at all. I got my dress in a sale here at 70 per cent off. I liked that it was simple. We bought Bryan’s suit from Uniqlo in Bangkok.

    Where did you get your engagement and wedding rings from? Did you choose them or were they a surprise from Bryan?
    We looked at rings together in both Australia and Thailand. I ended up getting our bands from Tampines Mall, and during the Great Singapore Sale earlier in 2015. We had a long conversation over the rings on Facebook, and I negotiated with the jeweller to let Bryan change the design if he didn’t like his band. He ended up liking the design I chose for him.

    What have you learnt as a newly-wed? 
    There are more responsibilities when you are dealing with two sets of families!

    Any tips for future brides?
    I’d tell them to enjoy the process, and to remember that the marriage is always more important than the wedding. Also, everyone will want to have a say in the wedding, and it is easy to become overwhelmed. At the end of the day, remember that your loved ones have your best interests at heart. But you still need to be very clear about what you want, and take ownership of the decisions you make.

    This story was first featured in Her World Brides December 2015, which is available at local newstands and major bookstores.

    Photography: Vernon Wong
    Styling: Steve Thio
    Assisted by: Michelle Lee & Ashley Phan
    Hair: Reno Tan / Hairloom, using Goldwell
    Makeup: Larry Yeo, using Nudestix

     

    Source: www.herworldplus.com

  • Wedding Planner Goes Missing With Wedding Gifts One Week Before Wedding Day

    Wedding Planner Goes Missing With Wedding Gifts One Week Before Wedding Day

    After dating for three years and saving for a year, they were finally ready to get married.

    But a week before their big day, their wedding planner allegedly fled with a deposit of $17,000 and a tray full of wedding gifts which included shoes, wallets and watches.

    Madam Syafiqah Salleh, 23, and Mr Jumali Majuri, 25, weren’t the only ones allegedly cheated by the wedding planner – three other couples were also left in the lurch.

    Newlyweds Syafiqah and Jumali engaged the services of Urbane Wedding Concept in September 2014 after visiting a bridal fair at the Singapore Expo.

    The wedding planners, Madam Noorsidah A. Rahim and her husband, had suggested a package with a combined reception for about $22,000.

    The couple agreed.

    Madam Syafiqah, a process technician, told The New Paper that the first sign of trouble came when the invitation cards were sent out late.

    She said: “It was scheduled to be out by last November but it was ready only on Dec 26, less than a month before our wedding.

    “After they sent out the invitation cards, they also took the wedding gifts we bought for each other for gift-wrapping.”

    The wedding gifts, worth more than $1,000, were supposed to be ceremoniously exchanged between the bride and the groom.

    On Jan 8, the couple were scheduled for their final fitting but their wedding planners didn’t turn up.

    Madam Syafiqah said: “One day before the fitting, I texted them to ask about the details of the fitting but I didn’t receive any reply. I tried calling but no one picked up.

    “At that point, I knew something was wrong. My husband called, texted, sent them Facebook messages and e-mailed them but they were gone without a trace.”

    In an attempt to retrieve their wedding gifts and deposit, Mr Jumali, a production technician, also went to the bridal company’s registered address at 66, Tannery Lane.

    It was vacant.

    “I broke down. I worked a lot of overtime just to get the money and it was all gone,” said Madam Syafiqah.

    With a week left to the wedding, the couple’s family contributed money and food to help out with last-minute preparations. They also engaged the services of A.R Ruhana Creations to help out with the food catering and decorations.

    Mr Jumali said: “I left most of the decision making for the wedding to my wife. But when (this happened), I quickly engaged another bridal company because we didn’t have time to waste.”

    The wedding ceremony was held at the void deck of Block 745, Jurong West Street 73, on Jan 17.

    “I was so happy that the wedding turned out better than I expected. I am utterly grateful to my family and my husband,” said Madam Syafiqah.

    Another couple who were supposed to wed on the same day suffered the same fate.

    Berita Harian reported on Feb 1 that Mr Husni Mubarak Kamaruddin, 27, and Madam Nurshila Mansoor, 26, had paid Urbane Wedding Concept $33,000 and handed over wedding gifts worth $2,800.

    Like Madam Syafiqah, Mr Husni was also scheduled for a fitting on Jan 5 but the wedding planner did not show up.

    The couple engaged another bridal company just a week before their big day to help out with final preparations.

    LESSON

    Madam Syafiqah hopes the incident will be a lesson for other couples.

    “It’s hard to differentiate wedding planners whom you cannot trust from the ones you can,” she said.

    “But just be wary of the ones who are not punctual in fulfilling their promises.”

    Both couples have reported the matter to the police and the Consumers Association of Singapore (Case).

    Case told TNP it received three complaints – including from the two couples – about the company last month.

    An online search with the Accounting and Corporate Regulatory Authority revealed that Urbane Wedding Concept was registered on Jan 9, 2012.

    But its licence expired on Jan 9 this year. The status of the business was listed as “live”.

    When TNP visited the company’s registered address at Sindo industrial building on Feb 2, the unit had already been occupied by another tenant. Other tenants occupying units on the same floor were not even aware that there was a bridal company in the building.

    A security guard, who declined to be named, said the couple who ran the business had moved out from the unit about six months ago for unknown reasons.

    Madam Noorsidah’s flat at Bedok South also appeared to be vacant as flyers littered the gate.

    A neighbour, who declined to be named, said he had not seen the couple for about two months.

    “Just two weeks ago, there were four people knocking on my door, looking for them,” he said.

    “The couple don’t usually mingle with the neighbours, so none of us know where they went.”


    I broke down. I worked a lot of overtime just to get the money and it was all gone.

    – Madam Syafiqah Salleh, 23

     

    Source: www.tnp.sg