Category: Sosial

  • Zulfikar Shariff: Singapore Malays Are “House Owners’, Not Minority

    Zulfikar Shariff: Singapore Malays Are “House Owners’, Not Minority

    About 15 years ago, I was invited by Allahyarham Ebrahim Marican for a meeting at his office in Golden Landmark.

    He was a brilliant man. Already 67 years old then, he was still active in various community causes. He was a leader of the Indian Muslim community in Singapore and was on MUIS council in the 80s.

    He was also a PAP cadre and shared with me quite a bit of information about the PAP.

    He invited me to speak with him after reading some of my posts in cyberummah. We would meet every few weeks to discuss various issues.

    In one of our conversations, we discussed the supposed minority status of the Malays in Singapore.

    He argued that Malays should not see themselves as a minority community.

    According to Allahyarham Ebrahim, “If I have a house and some people come to stay in my house, no matter how many of them there are, it is still my house.

    Even if there are only 4 people in my family and 30 other people come to stay, it is still my house. I cannot be classified as a minority. I am the house owner.”

    Malays are not a minority community in Singapore. They are the house owners.

    There is a majority community (Chinese), Indigenous community (Malays) and minority communities.

    We need to stop seeing Malays as minority. No matter how many come to stay, the Malays are still the house owners.

     

    Source: Zulfikar Shariff

  • Cancer-Stricken Father Gets Only $5000 Out Of $36000 Raised So Far

    Cancer-Stricken Father Gets Only $5000 Out Of $36000 Raised So Far

    He said he felt compelled to help after reading a news report about a cancer-stricken father of three, Mr Goh Hoon Tiong.

    So Mr Martin Lim started two online campaigns to raise money for the 44-year-old man and managed to raise more than $36,000.

    But two months after the campaigns, Mr Goh has received only $5,000.

    Now, members of the public who had donated freely to the campaigns – which were set up on online crowdfunding platforms GIVEasia and Indiegogo – are asking for updates on the funds raised.

    They are also chasing Mr Lim to transfer the rest of the money to the cancer-stricken man.

    The New Paper on Sunday wrote about Mr Goh’s plight on Oct 4, following a report in Shin Min Daily News.

    The report struck a chord with many readers, who sympathised with Mr Goh, especially when the single parent revealed that he had to hold two jobs to raise his young daughter and two sons.

    Many netizens responded with words of encouragement when Mr Lim started his campaign. One wrote: “Stay strong Mr Goh and don’t give up! Best wishes for a speedy recovery!”

    A total of 170 donors donated $24,330 on GIVEasia. On US-based platform Indiegogo, 128 people donated US$8,330 (S$11,660).

    The campaigns closed on Oct 13 and Oct 22 respectively.

    On Mr Lim’s fundraising page on GIVEasia, he said that something about Mr Goh’s story made him pause.

    He wrote: “Maybe it was the single parenthood or his struggle with a failed business; maybe it was his holding two jobs to desperately feed his three children. Or maybe it was how touched I was with the plight of his kids.

    “Whatever the case, I decided to act in whatever little way I knew how. I turned to the Web.”

    There was also a note addressing concerns of whether he would give all the monies raised to Mr Goh.

    Mr Lim wrote: “I’ve promoted this fundraiser on 2 platforms using my personal profile to my family, friends AND business associates (sic).

    “My reputation is worth a heck of a lot more than what I’m trying to raise for Mr Goh.

    “I’m here to help, and all of this is voluntary. The only assurance I can give is my word.”

    DIFFICULTIES

    TNP understands that GIVEasia transferred a sum of about $23,700 – after deducting some bank charges – into Mr Lim’s personal account on Oct 20, a week after he closed the campaign.

    In an interview on Dec 17, Mr Lim confirmed with TNP that the monies raised had been transferred to his bank account.

    But he said he faced difficulties in transferring the monies to Mr Goh.

    He transferred $5,000 to Mr Goh on Monday. (See report below)

    TNP also spoke to a family service centre (FSC) officer in charge of Mr Goh’s case. She declined to be named.

    The officer said Mr Goh informed her that by late October, he still had not received any money.

    She contacted GIVEasia, who linked her to Mr Lim via e-mail.

    She managed to contact Mr Lim on Nov 13 and informed him that Mr Goh had yet to receive any money.

    Mr Lim told her that he had been too busy on work trips to transfer the money.

    He also said he would settle the matter with Mr Goh directly.

    Said the officer: “I did not want to interfere because it dealt with money, which is very sensitive. And since I was told that the money would have gone directly to Mr Goh, I thought it would be okay.”

    Responding to TNP’s queries, GIVEasia co-founder Aseem Kumar Thakur said they were “very disappointed and concerned that there has been a delay in the funds being sent by (the) campaign organiser to Mr Goh”.

    He said: “While GIVEasia makes no representation about the accuracy, safety or legality of any of the campaigns or user content posted on GIVEasia, which is clearly stated upfront in GIVEasia’s ‘Terms of Use’, our team is nevertheless committed to providing information and taking reasonable actions to help the groups that have come forward to assist Mr Goh and his family with this case.”

    Lawyers whom TNP spoke to said that in an instance where a crowdfunding campaign fails to deliver, donors should make a police report.

    Mr Justin Tan, an associate lawyer at Trident Law, said: “If the money has not gone to where it is supposed to go, then the first course of action would be to make a police report.”

    Mr Tan said that donors should be discerning when it comes to such campaigns and that it should be made sure that the money goes into the intended recipient’s bank account.

    Another lawyer, Mr Bryan Tan from Pinsent Masons, agreed.

    “Essentially, a crowdfunding campaign is like a contract and you have to adhere to the contract made to the site.

    “Donors who feel that their money has not been used properly should make a police report,” he said.

    “It is also important to make sure the money collected goes to an individual or organisation before donating online.”


    I did not want to interfere because it dealt with money, which is very sensitive.

    – An FSC officer

     

    Source: www.tnp.sg

  • Man Kills, Then Eats Penis Of Wife’s Rapist

    Man Kills, Then Eats Penis Of Wife’s Rapist

    Jakarta: Rudi Efendi on his wedding night discovered that his wife is not a virgin and demanded explanation, she told that she was raped by a man she dated.

    According to news published in Zeenews.com, Efendi ordered his wife to contact the alleged rapist and set up a meeting. When the ex arrived, Efendi stabbed him to death and set him on fire, before chopping off his penis.

    “I was so outraged,” Efendi told reporters. The only way “to cure my heartache” was to eat the victim’s genitals, the frontpagemag.com quoted him as saying.

    Efendi ordered his 20-year-old wife to cook for him. He also insisted that she sit down and eat along with him.

     

    Source: www.siasat.com

  • Orang Kurang Upaya Perangai Lebih Mulia Daripada Orang Cukup Upaya

    Orang Kurang Upaya Perangai Lebih Mulia Daripada Orang Cukup Upaya

    While serving customer at expo… came fadhil in orange shirt asking

    Hirni Hirman 1

    Fadhil :kak nak nasi briyani kambing

    Me : ok

    Fadhil: kak brapa

    Me: tak pe fadhil kak blanja

    Fathil: tk leh kak tuhan marah .. amik lah duit sikit(he took out 7 dlrs from his wallet)

    Me : ok kak amik 2 dlrs k

    Fadhil: terima kasih kak (smile n went off smiling …)

    Masya allah .. lebih baik dier dari org2 disekeliling kita yg sombong n bongkak n talam dua muka … haiz semoga allah melindungi mu fadhil ..

     

    Source: Hirni Hirman

  • Bruneians Of Different Ethnicities Are Happy With The Country And The Monarch, Others Are Just Jealous

    Bruneians Of Different Ethnicities Are Happy With The Country And The Monarch, Others Are Just Jealous

    A rich benovelent Muslim patriarch adopted children (some were homeless) of different ethnic backgrounds and faiths into his family and received them into his house- a place to call home, living together with his own children.

    He cares and loves all his children. He doesn’t need them to contribute to household expenses (no income tax), instead he provides them free education (up to university level- even abroad!), free medical care (even sending some abroad for treatment) and even subsidised fuel for their cars, earning the envy of everyone in town. He only asks for his adopted children to respect the religion and culture of his family, which have been the hallmark of his ancestral house for generations. He allows his adopted children to practise their different faiths in the house (even guaranteed it in his written pledge- the Constitution), only asking them to keep their religious observances private to themselves (they are free to decorate and celebrate in their private quarters but not everywhere in the house) as he has wished his other children to grow up to be good Muslims like himself and maintain/continue the family’s identity and legacy.

    Now, some envy neighbours heard about this and are crying “abuse” in the whole town. Sadly, the others in town who have never been to the house and never know what this benovelent man has done for his children believed this accusation to be true. But all the children of the house who grew up under the care and love of this man remember his kindness know this to be untrue and love him dearly.

    We, Bruneians of different ethnicities- Muslim and Non-Muslim, are all happy with all the love and blessings we have in the house “Brunei Darussalam/ Brunei- the Abode of Peace” our home and we all love our patriarch, our Sultan. May God’s blessings and guidance be with you always.

     

    Source: Erik Ng