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  • World Muslimah Award Returns:  It’s Not Your Typical Pageant

    World Muslimah Award Returns: It’s Not Your Typical Pageant

    World Muslimah Award is happening again – for the fourth year running. In a sea of conventional beauty pageants, here’s an alternative for Muslim women that involves no bikinis or racy dresses.

    This international Muslimah contest is organised by World Muslimah Foundation (WMF), an independent organisation focusing on sustainable development and equality for women and children.

    Despite its name, World Muslimah Award wouldn’t call itself a beauty pageant. This award is part of an international charity event run by WNF with the objective of raising funds for Muslimahs trapped in wars, natural disasters and food crises. The criteria used to decide on a winner, according to the committee, are in line with values stated in the Qur’an.

    The importance of Qur’an reading skills and the commitment to wearing hijab are just some of the qualifications for registration. Apart from that, achievements in sports, arts, academics or culture are also considered during the selection process of the young women aged between 18 to 27 years old. This year, World Muslimah Award will be held in the city of Yogyakarta, Indonesia.

    The first round of participants are selected through an online audition from June 25 to September 7. The Grand Final and Coronation night will be held on November 21. Winners will receive various prizes including an umra package for two and $10,000 worth of gold dinar.

    The award will also showcase the Modest Street Fashion photography project, started by Detroit photographer Langston Hues. Langston has been photographing women in modest clothing who still look fabulous, in 20 countries and 25 cities. With a background in anthropology, he thinks of his journey as contemporary ethnography. Langston doesn’t believe that modesty is unique to Muslim fashion, but rather a multidimensional trend that spans the traditional to the experimental – all while maintaining spiritual principles. His shots of more than 400 outfits from around the world will be compiled into a book slated for release at the end of the year.

    For more information, visit the official website of World Muslimah Award

     

    Source: www.aquila-style.com

  • David Tan Tells Government To Trust Talented Malays

    David Tan Tells Government To Trust Talented Malays

    During my Raffles Institution (RI) teaching days, I had the privilege to have many Malay boys as my students. Many came from poor homes although they were bright, intelligent and very polite. Many of them loved to play soccer but after each game, were too poor to buy drinks to quench their thirst. I helped them out in small ways by forking out part of my meagre salary to buy bottles of syrup drinks so they could mix with tap water to drink. I took many photographs with them during those RI days. Most of them were very good looking and talented in soccer, music and art.

    I was extremely delighted when one of the boys, now a pilot with SIA invited me to one of his daughters’ wedding. Many of my ex-RI Malay students were invited too. I had a great time with them but it took me a while to recognize some of them. I was so proud of what they are today. Among them are senior government officials, diplomats, pilots, heads of organizations and other professionals. They have proven that race is never a part or component of one’s success.

    They are the evidence of a responsible minority group of Singaporeans who have succeeded and contributed to our nation. One of the feedback from them included their unhappiness over being ‘passed over’ for Officer Cadets’ courses when they were called up for national service. Most of them possessed the necessary physique, academic and moral qualities to be selected for the Officer Cadets’ course but ended up being clerks, storekeepers or performing other unimportant administrative tasks in the army. What a shame and a waste of talent! This lack of trust by our current government must be changed and rectified for our minority races.

    I am humbled by their remembrance and their respect for me. I am also extremely happy that many of them are in regular communication with me. Being a teacher has its rewards!

     

    *Article was written by David Tan and first appeared on http://singfirst.org/2014/11/16/david-tan-our-malay-students-are-under-utilised-and-under-nurtured/

    Source: www.therealsingapore.com

  • Saudi Groom Wants To Divorce Bride After Seeing Her Face For The First Time

    Saudi Groom Wants To Divorce Bride After Seeing Her Face For The First Time

    A Saudi groom has divorced his bride on their wedding night after seeing her face for the first time when the photographer asked them to pose for pictures.

    The couple, from the Western Saudi town of Medinah, had agreed to marry each other despite having not met face to face – a popular custom in certain Middle Eastern countries.

    ‘You are not the girl I want to marry,’ he declared. ‘You are not the one I had imagined. I am sorry, but I divorce you.’

    The couple, from the Western Saudi town of Medinah, had agreed to marry each other despite having not met face to face – a popular custom in certain Middle Eastern countries.

    But when the bride removed her veil and smiled for the camera, her new husband leapt to his feet in disgust.

    The couple, from the Western Saudi town of Medinah, had agreed to marry each other despite having not met face to face – a popular custom in certain Middle Eastern countries.

    But when the bride removed her veil and smiled for the camera, her new husband leapt to his feet in disgust.

    ‘You are not the girl I want to marry,’ he declared. ‘You are not the one I had imagined. I am sorry, but I divorce you.’

    According to local daily Okaz, the bride immediately collapsed in a fit of tears as panicked wedding guests stepped in to try to resolve the dispute.

    But their efforts were to no avail.

    ‘The groom said he had not been able to see his bride’s face before marriage,’ Okaz reported. ‘When he divorced her, the bride collapsed and the wedding turned into a night of tears.’

    News of the jilting was met with anger on social media.

    Afra wrote on one social media network: ‘He caused her great pain through his irresponsible attitude, and he deserves to suffer.

    ‘He should appreciate that beauty is in the character, not the face.

    ‘Unfortunately, many young people today are interested only in looks and ignore values and morals.

    ‘May God give her a better husband who will appreciate her for who and what she is.’

    Abu Nass added: ‘He is not man enough to assume his responsibilities. He is totally, completely insensitive.

    ‘Nobody has forced him to marry her. He should have insisted on seeing her before the wedding and the engagement, and not wait until the wedding night.

    ‘May he always be a loser and may he be deprived of getting married at all. He is not a man and he lacks basic feelings.’

     

    Source: www.dailymail.co.uk

  • Potty Training Near Restaurant at MBS For Caucasian Toddler

    Potty Training Near Restaurant at MBS For Caucasian Toddler

    It was definitely a sight that visitors would not expect to see at a world-class casino-resort.

    A beautiful Sunday outing was somewhat ruined for some visitors and diners at Marina Bay Sands resort yesterday when they saw a toddler doing her business in public.

    A woman from a group dining at the atrium area of a restaurant at lunch-time had arranged a potty for the girl to relieve herself, just a few metres away from their table.

    Instead of taking the girl, who looked like she was two years old, to the toilet, which was located nearby, the woman was tending to her without a care for diners dining metres away at two restaurant, or visitors who were walking past.

    Also nearby was a foodcourt which was filling up with a lunch crowd.

    Said a flabbergasted diner: “How can they let the girl do her business in public? They should just take her to a toilet nearby. It’s so near. Furthermore, she’s not a baby. She looks like she’s more than two years old.”

    Wait staff serving the group seemed oblivious to what was happening, as the toddler, partially hidden by a standy, was out of their view. She seemed quite happy to be ensconced on the potty for a good 20-to-30 minutes.

    After finishing her business, the girl was seen playing and running around the area with another young girl.

     

    Source: http://news.asiaone.com

  • Being a Singaporean Is NOT Easy!

    Being a Singaporean Is NOT Easy!

    It ain’t easy being Singaporean.

    Your life is run by a series of acronyms like ERP, COE, CPF, PSLE, NS, PMS; you have to endure the relentless tropical heat; you have nothing to read butThe Straits Times; your national culture consists of shopping and whining (I’m nothing if not patriotic); and it’s still considered a crime to strangle Gurmit Singh. You get called names like ‘little red dot’, ‘useless piece of snot’ and even Jacky Chan craps all over you. Let’s face it, when a man who made his living jumping around like a monkey says you have “no self-respect”, well, it ain’t been a good week.

    But still, you try. The great Romantic poet John Keats once wrote:

    It matters not what the crowd bays

    Or what the angry gods may say

    For all that matters is the heart

    And the values you cling hard

    What beautiful lines. It means that regardless of what people may say or think about you, what matters is what you believe in. Words deserving of colourful embroidery indeed. Ok, I completely made the lines up. Keats never said that. I could have looked him up but I really can’t be bothered. Laziness is one of my many charms. But don’t let that take anything from the message. It’s still pertinent.

    And so I try, as a citizen, to narrow the gulf between our national values and what we do as a country. After all, if morality means practicing what you preach, then being a great country means practicing what you teach. Under George Bush, America tore up their Constitution, practiced torture, invaded the wrong country and became the pariah of the international community. Under Barack Obama, America is heeding the call of its ideals and founding principles and, in the process, is becoming great again.

    I think a little red dot can be great too. I think greatness is not limited to the measure of size and might, but the loftiness of one’s ideals and one’s faithfulness to them. By this definition, Singapore can be great.

    And so I turn my eyes towards our ‘Shared values’. Phrases like “Nation before community and society above self” ring so sweet. They stir up a sense of pride deep inside. They make me want to do something. Oh shut up, it’s true. They really do make me want to give of myself.

    But then I see our ministers’ legendary salaries and their need to “facilitate the recruitment and retention of the quality of talent we need for the government and public sector.” My enthusiasm becomes more flaccid than an 80 year old man in a cold shower.

    What about Shared value #3 -“Community support and respect for the individual”? Pretty uncontroversial, we can’t go wrong here. 377A, AWARE new exco, Thio Su Mien – enuff said.

    What about Asian values and Confucian ethics ? I think to myself, well, perhaps cynicism aside, the clarion call to be moral, ethical and righteous, regardless of their political intent, is worth heeding. My cynicism is about to slip away when I also recall our on-going manufacture of landmines, their sale to war-torn countries, our economic dealings with the Myanmar junta, our medical offerings to Robert Mugabe, and most recently, our welcome of North Korean President Kim Yong Nam. Ah well, you know what they say, we’re just a little red dot and must look out for our national interests.

    Pragmatism is a wonderful device. It allows you to do anything you want, however you want, and then blame it on reality. It’s an excuse for abandoning higher morals and ethics without looking like a dick. It makes you a man because you’re seen to be ‘realistic’ and ‘grounded’. It’s the ultimate backstage pass, allowing you to bypass everyone to get straight to the goodies. And being pragmatic also means that you have to pretend to have values, whether shared or of the Asian variety because there are idealistic saps out there who, believe it or not, romanticise principles. It’s just pragmatic to be an ethical Confucianist.

    It’s hard being Singaporean. It’s damn hard. Screw it. I’m going shopping.

     

    Article first appeared on groundnotes.wordpress.com

    Source: www.allsingaporestuff.com

     

     

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