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  • Senyuman ‘Pakaian’ Terbaik Dan Tercantik

    Senyuman ‘Pakaian’ Terbaik Dan Tercantik

    Senyuman itu adalah ‘pakaian’ paling cantik yang boleh anda ‘sarung’ setiap waktu.

    Ia juga pemanis muka dalam berdepan dengan apa jua masalah, demi meluputkan segala ketakutan atau menutupi setiap kesakitan.

    Senyumlah… ia menggembirakan teman anda dan menyakiti hati musuh anda. Apa jua pun reaksi mereka, tidak dapat disangkal lagi, anda tetap bangkit sebagai juara.

    Begitulah antara mutiara kata yang saya temui tentang senyuman sejurus jari-jemari ini temui ‘teman setia penyuluh ilmu’ di dada siber, Encik Google.

    Mungkin dalam kesibukan menjalankan tugas harian atau dibelenggu stres rutin di pejabat atau di rumah, kita terlupa akan kepentingan mengukir senyuman paling manis kepada mereka yang ditemui.

    Lebih-lebih lagi dalam bulan Ramadan yang mulia lagi penuh barakah ini, tidak rugi jika disedekahkan senyuman, sejajar dengan sabda Rasulullah saw yang bermaksud:

    “Janganlah kamu meremehkan kebaikan apa pun, walaupun sekadar bertemu saudaramu dengan wajah yang manis (wajah gembira dan senyuman).”

    Sayangnya, budaya menguntum senyum dan bertanya khabar kepada orang yang tidak dikenali mungkin belum cukup mekar di Singapura.

    Saya kira, seperti saya, anda pernah temui pegawai di kaunter khidmat pelanggan yang berwajah cemberut tatkala diajukan soalan.

    Dalam hati kecil saya berkata-kata: “Macam kes terpaksa sahaja nak jawab soalan kita ni. Awak patutnya membantu tapi macam perlu dibantu (disenggol agar senyum lebihlah!) pula! Hmmm… tak boleh jadi ni!”

    Atau pegerai makanan yang masam mencuka mukanya atau bengis semacam ketika melayan pelanggan.

    Maaf cakap, walaupun makanan anda sedap macam mana pun, jika tidak pandai sejukkan hati pelanggan dengan budi bahasa, kata-kata penghargaan atau senyuman, bersedialah untuk kehilangan mereka dengan bermacam-macam pilihan makanan kini tersedia di musim ‘Bazar Ramadan’.

    Kadangkala terkilan rasa hati sebagaimana pernah dialami di masjid setempat baru-baru ini.

    Jangkaan tentang budi bahasa orang biasanya melambung tinggi di rumah ibadah, tempat merapatkan ukhuwah dan menghadap Maha Pencipta.

    Sedang saya tercari-cari dewan di mana peraduan tilawah diadakan, seorang pegawai masjid yang nampaknya sudah bersiap sedia untuk pulang petang Sabtu itu, saya temui.

    Bagaimanapun, setelah memberi salam dan senyuman diberi kepada Cik Kak ni, saya pula tersentak kerana dia membalas dengan wajah bengis (tak senyum langsung), jawapan ‘tak kuasa’ (sepatah dua perkataan) dan jari yang menuding ke anak tangga, minta saya turun ke bawah.

    Maka terpaksalah saya sejukkan hati sendiri dengan berkata: “Agaknya dah penat bekerja kakak ni… tak apalah…”

    Kunjungan saya ke Cairns, Australia, baru-baru ini membuatkan saya benar-benar kagum dengan budi bahasa sebilangan juruwang pasar raya yang bukan sahaja gigih bertugas bahkan rajin bertanya khabar.

    Mereka bukan setakat baik dengan pelancong seperti saya tetapi dengan pelanggan tetap dari Australia yang setiap hari mereka temui.

    “Good afternoon, ma’am. You’ve got a nice scarf here. How was your day? Where did you go to this morning?” (Selamat petang, Puan. Skarf anda cantik. Bagaimana hari anda sejauh ini? Ke mana anda pagi tadi?)

    Begitulah kata-kata manis pembangkit semangat, yang diluahkan seorang juruwang wanita berusia 40-an tahun kepada saya ketika saya beratur membeli biskut dan kemeja-T.

    Beliau terlihat seorang warga senja yang dikenali di kaunter sebelah dan sempat menoleh seraya bertanya: “Have you taken your medicine?” (Dah makan ubat anda?)

    Apabila saya memberitahu teman kembara saya dari Singapura mengenai perkara ini, beliau berkongsi rasa kagum saya.

    Katanya berseloroh: “Yalah, juruwang di Singapura macam robot yang diprogram. Mereka hanya tanya ada Kad Passion atau Kad NTUC!”

    Pernah juga saya temui juruwang setempat yang berikan layanan berbeza kepada ‘mat salih’ dan orang Singapura. Lebih membingitkan apabila dua juruwang bercerita kisah peribadi di hadapan pelanggan sambil memasukkan barangan dalam plastik dan menekan butang mesin daftar tunai.

    Alahai… tak rugi sesen pun kalau anda tersenyum.

    Banyak kajian yang membuktikan senyuman itu menenangkan jiwa, satu bentuk senaman, menyihatkan diri kita dengan mengurangkan tekanan serta menarik orang positif dalam hidup kita.

     

    Source: http://beritaharian.sg

  • To My Dear Fellow Singaporean Chinese: Shut Up When A Minority Is Talking About Race

    To My Dear Fellow Singaporean Chinese: Shut Up When A Minority Is Talking About Race

    People of Chinese descent make up 70% of the population of Singapore. Singapore Chinese, as they are termed, enjoy systemic, racialized and institutional privilege in the country as opposed to the countries’ minorities (primarily racialized as Indian and Malay).

    “Chinese privilege”, as Sangeetha Thanapal has named it, functions very similarly to white privilege in the United States and Europe. To use Peggy McClintock’s notion of white privilege and the invisible knapsack, Chinese privilege functions like an “invisible package of unearned assets which I can count on cashing in each day, but about which I was ‘meant’ to remain oblivious. [Chinese] privilege is like an invisible weightless backpack of special provisions, maps, passports, codebooks, visas, clothes, tools and blank checks.” As a Singapore Chinese person, when I am in Singapore, I never need to think twice about whether my race/ethnicity is represented on mainstream media, whether my languages are spoken, whether my religions are allowed to exist, whether I can catch a taxi. All these things are little aspects of Chinese privilege which is very similar to how white privilege functions. You can find out more about the concept of white privilege here.

    Despite Chinese privilege in Singapore being very real, there is little or no recognition of this concept within the national public sphere and discussions of race. Attempts by minorities such as Thanapal to name this privilege often receive hostile attack from Singapore Chinese, who employ defensive mechanisms similar to deniers of white privilege—to name privilege is divisive, to name privilege is not a solution, to name privilege is rude, to name privilege is racist. In a stroke of unfunny irony, what happens then is that minorities who call out Chinese racism are then termed racist by their aggressors.

    This is very sad because Singapore Chinese themselves often complain how they are victims of racism themselves, particularly when they visit Western countries. They complain about being complimented on their command of English (don’t these people know we were colonized by the English?!), complain about being treated as second-class citizens while abroad. However, they are in complete denial of how they take on the very role of what they claim to be victim of at home. In other words, they complain about racist treatment while overseas while being racist towards minorities in Singapore.

    So if you are a Singapore Chinese person—and I am a Singapore Chinese person myself—if someone who is not white or not Chinese starts talking about race, you should really think about doing the following things.

    1. Shut up and listen. Because of your privilege, the speaker will be saying a lot of things that are foreign to your experience. But that you don’t think they are “true” doesn’t mean that they are untrue, it’s rather than your privilege shields you from seeing these things.

    2. Stop asking them to justify their thoughts and for facts, statistics, data, argument. It’s not the job of marginalized people to educate you.Undertake your own education.

    3. Your point of view is not important. If someone is speaking about race in Singapore who is neither white nor Chinese, their stories are not told as frequently as yours. So stop making their narratives about you and what you think. This is not your party.

    4. It’s also not up for you to decide whether the person speaking is “right” or “wrong.” That you think your opinion is important is already indicative of how much privilege you have, and how ignorant you are of it.

    5. Because you experience racism yourself in other locations, this should not inure you to your own racism at home, but rather, encourage you to have more *empathy* for those who are more marginalized than you are.

    6. EDITED TO ADD. If you want to help, next time someone asks you for a perspective on race, ask a minority who studies racial dynamics. That means asking people like Thanapal to speak rather than a Singapore Chinese like me.

    If you feel like you disagree with this article and are Singapore Chinese,please read this. And finally, if you are interested to find out more about why I think the way I do, please read: “White in One Space, Yellow in Another: Being Singaporean Chinese.”

    Source: https://medium.com

  • Feasting At Bazaar Raya Utara Woodlands

    Feasting At Bazaar Raya Utara Woodlands

    So we’ve been trying to go around and visit as many bazaars as we can so that we can report back on what you can find there. Maybe it’ll help you decide if you wanna head down? Who knows

    Anyways this time we headed down to Woodlands! Yeah we drove all the way to Woodlands from Pasir Ris and boy were we hoping it was worth it! Hmmmm…. we actually almost didn’t find the place come to think of it. It used to be really big and stretched out to the side where there’s a taxi stand. But when we arrived at that point (where we normally park), it was nothing but a big construction area!

    Well, it’s a good thing that we didn’t give up and decided to drive one round to make sure. Lucky we did that because the bazaar is much smaller this time but it’s still there! The best place to access it would be at the Causeway Point / Woodlands MRT side.

    So what goodies await? Anything special?

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    So we heard that there’s a famous uncle selling Wadeh aka Vadai at the bazaar and he’s been doing so for many many years. Well, good news is that he’s still around and so are his tasty-looking wadehs!

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    Kebabs galore!!

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    So we saw this Grill Sandwich place at the Tampines Bazaar also but maybe it was late so they were closing shop? But this time we saw that they’re selling pretty much grilled meats in a sandwich and also some finger food. Not bad for a snack I guess.

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    Also saw the famous Al-Azhar Bee Hoon Briyani at the bazaar. If I remember correctly, this was the big big craze a few years back and Al-Azhar was the original one who started it all.

    Tried this for the first time last Ramadhan and everyone seemed to like it but it was honestly just so-so for me.

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    Read online somewhere about Hotel Jen having a stall at the Woodlands Bazaar and the big deal that it was the only hotel with a kitchen-on-the-go at these kinds of bazaars.

    They’ve got about 7 items on the menu based on that board there which includes 1 drink and 1 dessert.

    A friend of my Darling Wife tried the Lamb Shank Rice recently. Said that the lamb itself was nice and pretty tender but the rice was a little bit too dry. Oh well. If you ask me, I’d probably try the Pulled Meat Burger and a nice refreshing Thai Iced Milk Tea.

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    If you are in the mood for something cool and sweet, check out Coconut I-Scream!
    They’ve got coconut ice-cream served right in the shell and they’ve got plenty of interesting toppings too like raisins, nata de coco, rainbow sprinkles and of course, the traditional one too.

    Even saw on their Instagram that they have a ‘Takeaway Special’ for $10 where you get 12 scoops of ice-cream and unlimited toppings!! For the glutton in you… RELEASE THE HUNGER!!! LOL

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    Also saw this Nasi Ambeng Asli Jurong West stall at Tampines too. Anyone tried before? Any good?
    Well, I have to say it looks VERY appetizing!

    Well, that’s about it for the Woodlands Bazaar. There’s load of other stuff of course so walk around and have a look-see if you’d like. We went in the day time so unfortunately we didn’t get to try anything while walking around. Maybe next time we will go in the night so we can have some snacks!!

     

    All information (including prices, availability of item on menu and Halal status of establishment) are accurate at the time of posting. All photos used in this site are property of The Halal Food Blog unless stated otherwise.

     

    Source: http://thehalalfoodblog.com

  • Singaporean Forced To Leave Company Staffed With 90% Foreigners, Face Legal Action For Breach Of Contract

    Singaporean Forced To Leave Company Staffed With 90% Foreigners, Face Legal Action For Breach Of Contract

    Dear Mr Goh,

    My name is Johnny.

    I’m having a dispute at the moment with my employer regarding my training bond agreement which I have to pay when I breached the contract. Mr Chandra, my neighbour has recommended me to you.

    I recently made the decision to leave because I was forced to.

    It all started when I had a Italian manager from England. He had so many problems with us and the team can’t take it.

    As I was there on my assignment, I reached out to my ops manager and ops executive for advice.

    After hearing me out, they asked me to write a letter and get people who agree to sign and then submit it to the management. In the end, I’m punished for doing that and my ops manager has since return to England.

    90% of my head office are all foreigners.

    They work together as a “team” and are trying to break our rice bowl. I was eventually given an option to leave if I felt that the company is not suitable for me or stay and prove that I can deliver.

    This was delivered to me by my Taiwanese ops manager.

    After considering for a month, I decided to take my leave but I won’t pay a single cent for my bond.

    The level of stress and depression they have given me because of this is not worth it. Till today, they still say that I have to answer to my wrong doing.

    But I was advised wrongly – by a management member – should I be punished for it?

    Now I understand that they want to take legal action against me. I will need to seek legal advice too.

    Please help and advice me.

    Yours sincerely,

    Johnny

    Editor’s note: we have forwarded the mail to our legal advisor. Note also that the middle management jobs all go to foreigners. If you do not want your children to work under foreign imports, you know what to do during the next election.

     

    Source: www.transitioning.org

  • For Ramadan, Courting The Malay Shopper

    For Ramadan, Courting The Malay Shopper

    On his Armani/Dolci website and in his sweets emporiums across the Middle East, Giorgio Armani is offering a box of chocolates, date-and-honey-filled pralines sans alcohol.

    But his gracious gesture has nothing on that of Monique Lhuillier, who is selling a selection of caftans on the upscale Moda Operandi site, including a version in virginal white embroidered with cascades of field flowers.

    Nor can it compete with Tommy Hilfiger, whose 11-piece capsule collection, available at Hilfiger stores in the Middle East, incorporates temptations like a cowl-neck black satin evening dress and a long-sleeve teal gown slit, a bit indecorously, from instep to knee.

    Mr. Hilfiger is among the latest in a handful of designers and merchants seeking to capitalize on the advent of Ramadan, the holiest month of the Islamic lunar calendar. (It ends this year on July 17.) A time of fasting and contemplation alternating in the evenings with festive gatherings of family and friends, it has emerged in recent years as a month of extravagant spending that is rivaled, some say, only by Christmas.

    As far back as 2012, Euromonitor International, a market research firm in London, took note. “Like Christmas, a religious context serves as a reason for families and friends to come together,” Ilse Thomele, an analyst, observed, predicting, “a typical ‘Ramadan consumer’ is likely to emerge in the same way as the Christmas shopper as a global phenomenon.”

    That notion was not lost on Net-a-Porter, which last month heralded the month with the online announcement of a “Ramadan Edit,” featuring two fair-haired models glamorously posed in flowing garments against a backdrop of parched earth.

    The gambit was a bold one. “It’s the first time we’re talking to Ramadan so directly,” said Holly Russell, the senior ready-to-wear buyer for Net-a-Porter. Thus far feedback on Facebook and other social networking sites has been positive. “We haven’t gauged quite yet the impact that it’s going to have,” she said.

    One thing is certain: Such appeals to a deep-pocketed segment of the Muslim community have rarely been more pointed or direct.

    In London, where the annual influx of Middle Eastern shoppers has been termed the Ramadan rush, “Ramadan has long been every big store’s unspoken secret,” said Ed Burstell, the managing director of Liberty of London. Referring to the Net-a-Porter edit, he added, “This is the first time I’ve seen the Ramadan shopper so blatantly profiled.”

    Such efforts are bound to raise eyebrows, he said.

    Indeed, the retail courtship of free-spending Muslims is being greeted skeptically in some quarters. The thing about corporations, said Fareeha Molvi, a young Muslim-American, in an essay on the Racked website, “is that they rarely do things out of sheer human goodwill.” For stores, Ms. Molvi observed, “Financial gains are a far greater motivator.”

    But profiling, to some minds, is just another word for canny marketing, the strategic, and progressive, attempt to identify consumers, women in particular, who have traditionally greeted Ramadan in their most lavish finery.

    Many of them are ready to part with sums estimated to range from $300 to several thousand dollars in a single online or store visit, temporarily setting aside their abayas and burqas for ornately embroidered caftans, colorful gowns, loosefitting dusters and all manner of gilt-edged refinements to wear in the evening and through Eid al-Fitr, the three-day festivities to observe Ramadan’s end.

    Ms. Russell describes those women as worldly, tech savvy and fashion aware. “They will look at the runway images, and if they see something they want, they will ask for it,” she said. Many are partial to items like an embroidered Oscar de la Renta caftan ($2,890), an amply proportioned bib-front silk Valentino midi-dress ($3,790) or, on the sportier side, a zip-front Stella McCartney stretch-crepe top ($665).

    Shoppers visiting Moda Operandi, which introduced an online pre-Ramadan trunk show as early as February, expect exclusivity, said Jamie Freed, the vice president for customer experience. Though luxury labels like Naeem Khan, Oscar de la Renta, Monique Lhuillier and Badgley Mischka have been popular, clients — “women who dress for other women,” as Ms. Freed observed — are “less concerned with labels than with having something that no one else has.”

    Others have been more tentative in their marketing efforts. Indeed, even fashion houses like Hilfiger and DKNY, which is offering, for the second consecutive year, a special Ramadan collection, have scarcely dipped a toe in the water, their capsule lines sold strictly in the Middle East.

    Some may view such cautious efforts as missed opportunities. According to a study released last year by the American Muslim Consumer Consortium, of two billion Muslims worldwide, about nine million are in North America. Sabiha Ansari, a consortium founder, puts Muslim spending power in the United States at $100 billion. Her hope, she said, is that American retailers will recognize Muslims in this country as a strong economic force.

    That message has dawned haltingly on high-end merchants. Neiman Marcus has yet to court the Muslim shoppers deliberately, but during a promotional calendar meeting at the headquarters last week, “Ramadan came up as an opportunity we need to understand better,” said Ginger Reeder, a spokeswoman for the store.

    Was it a time for gift-giving, one that includes but is by no means limited to fashion?

    “Possibly,” Ms. Reeder said. “We need to dig deeper to find out what the opportunities are.”

    Source:www.nytimes.com

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