Tag: compassion

  • Commentary: Comfort Taxi Driver Went Above And Beyond, A Crybaby Moment For Me

    Commentary: Comfort Taxi Driver Went Above And Beyond, A Crybaby Moment For Me

    Today I was shown kindness by a Comfort taxi driver – Mr Yeo Choon Hwa.

    I had to report for my flight at 730am.
    I booked a taxi and when I got into the cab, I told the Uncle (yes we call any elderly male stranger Uncle in Singapore) to ‘please rush for me?’

    Which is highly unfair because now I am partly making it his responsibility to get me to work in time… but I was that desperate.

    Halfway through the journey – I started reaching out for my wallet so that I can quickly pay him and get out.

    As the search got more frantic, I realised the worst. I forgot my wallet. I couldn’t believe it. I was now 12 minutes away from the airport. There was NO WAY out. Turning back will mean a day of havoc for me.

    Resigning to my fate, I came clean with Uncle.
    I told him I forgot my wallet and I wouldn’t be able to pay him at the end of this journey.
    He looked up at me through the rear view and gave the most stunning reaction.

    He smiled. Kindly. And then asked me what I would like to do. What I would like to do!? This was his taxi, his rice bowl and he had every right to tell me to get out from his taxi or turn back – but yes – he asked me what I would like to do.

    So I told him, that if he is ok – I’ll take down his details and do a bank transfer when I touch down.
    And without skipping a beat, he agreed.

    I got to the airport just in time. Uncle even came out and helped me with my bags and just before I dashed off – he asked me if I had enough money for my travels and if I needed some.

    Yeah. Crybaby moment for me. Still is.
    Even after transferring the amount + bonus, I don’t think any amount can ever repay what he did.

    Apart from his compassion and kindness, he completely left it to his faith in humanity that I will not go back on my word.
    And I can’t help but think, what a lot of faith that must be.

    Here’s to all our Taxi Uncles. ❤️❤️❤️

    #TaxiUncleFTW#SHD4927J

     

    Source: Noor Mastura

  • Kind Young Couple Distributed Tarts So That Others In Long Food Queue Could Break Fast

    Kind Young Couple Distributed Tarts So That Others In Long Food Queue Could Break Fast

    *This is worth sharing
    Masyallah, this young couple (they are siblings by the way) here deserves a shoutout. A positive example to follow.
    We were at coffeebean Suntec and its very near our break fast time. The q was super long and the staffs were doing their best to handle the orders.

    Then it’s time to break our fast and many were still in the q.

    This young chap and his partner already got a seat and his meals served. Most of us would just start diggin in and be oblivious to our surrounding. But this guy here with a box of tarts, distributed it to the people in the q so that they can break their fast on time.
    Just for the info, when a Muslim is fasting and its time to break fast, we have to try our best to break it on time.

    And this gentleman here really made our day. An example of a good Muslim and the spirit of Ramadhan is brought alive by sharing his food. He did what not many will do… They are a fine young generation. May Allah bestowe upon them health and blessings… Thank you so much…

     

    Source: Siti Jamilah

  • Single Mother-Caregiver Of Told To leave Flat Because Of $99 Unpaid Rents

    Single Mother-Caregiver Of Told To leave Flat Because Of $99 Unpaid Rents

    Jobless single mum with sick dad who is suffering from a heart attack forced to leave rental flat by 30th April after owing HDB 3 months of rent amounting to $99!

    Source: Gilbert Goh

  • MPs – Public Service Serving With No Heart, Compassion

    MPs – Public Service Serving With No Heart, Compassion

    Several Members of Parliament yesterday called for greater compassion from a public service that has, in Nee Soon GRC MP Louis Ng’s words, “lost its heart”, citing examples of how people have been turned away because public servants were doing things strictly by the book.

    Citing a resident who was slapped with letters demanding mortgage and tax payments while struggling to provide for her late sister’s two children, Mr Ng said: “I asked the HDB (Housing and Development Board) why they did that. The answer was that they didn’t know the letter was sent as it was computer generated … Our aim seems to be to process each case as fast as possible and to follow the book as strictly as possible.”

    He lamented: “In our pursuit to automate most things, we now have a system without a heart.”

    Nominated MP Kuik Shiao-Yin, meanwhile, urged the Government to extend a “compassionate” helping hand to those mired in the poverty cycle.

    While the slew of handouts — from education subsidies to Goods and Services Tax U-Save Vouchers — were helpful, they are but “drops in a constantly-leaking bucket” for these families, said Ms Kuik, who called for more universal support to meet needs such as eldercare, quicker access to affordable housing and respite for caregivers.

    The working poor, she noted, hold full-time jobs and slog to support their families but still cannot seem to break the poverty cycle.

    Not only do they feel left out, those struggling to make ends meet are left behind by the Government’s calls each year to “upskill”, “internationalise” and “innovate”.

    This is neither the result of nonchalance nor laziness, but because “they’re just busy trying not to drown under wave after wave of new demands, new costs and new changes”. To this group, even the “calmest and most reasonable technocratic explanation” on why a water price hike is justifiable would feel like “salt on a wound”, said Ms Kuik.

    What preoccupies them is that they “don’t have enough, I’ll never have enough and I’m not enough and you don’t care”, she added.

    The disadvantaged lack the luxury of breathing space to weigh alternatives and plan for their future, and rather than brush them off with “don’t know, go talk to your MP” — as some frontline officers do — conveying available solutions compassionately is the key, she said.

    Dr Lee Bee Wah (Nee Soon GRC) noted that some civil servants tend to be more concerned with the “rules of their own agency” than what might benefit Singaporeans.

    And public agencies often have requirements that contradict one another, said Dr Lee, citing the example of an “incomplete” covered linkway in Khatib that was left with a gap because the HDB could not meet other agencies’ requirements to build a seamless linkway.

    “These are only small projects and we meet so many obstacles … Can’t our civil servants be more result-oriented and objective-driven, instead of just guarding your own turf?” she asked.

    Calling for better communication between the Government and the public, Ms Joan Pereira (Tanjong Pagar GRC) said: “Seniors used to joke that the answers to their queries at Government departments always start with ‘www’… Making adjustments to accommodate our seniors is a signature of a caring society.”

    Saying that the public service defends policies rather than listen to ideas on how to make them better, Mr Ng called for greater innovation in the public service.

    “A crucial player in the implementation (of the Budget) is our public service … I hope that every public servant has a heart full of grace and a soul generated by love,” he said.

     

    Source: www.todayonline.com

  • Love Thy Neighbour – Neighbour’s Altar Offerings Blown Away, Muslim Bro Puts Them Back In Place

    Love Thy Neighbour – Neighbour’s Altar Offerings Blown Away, Muslim Bro Puts Them Back In Place

    Love Thy Neighbour
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    Our neighbour’s altar offerings blown by the wind so my bro pick and arranged them back. We have been neighbours for more than 10 years they have always been so respectful to my mom and late dad
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    Faith is a conviction of heart that need to be respected while humanity is a shared value that needs to be cherished
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    #zahidzin #ustazceo

     

    Source: Zahid Zin