Tag: compassion

  • Indian Foreign Worker Devastated By Death Of Wife During Childbirth Wandered Around Bukit Timah Aimlessly In Early Morning

    Indian Foreign Worker Devastated By Death Of Wife During Childbirth Wandered Around Bukit Timah Aimlessly In Early Morning

    My first passenger today brought me to tears and I had to hold it back till I dropped him off.

    At 5.46am, I got a booking from Bt Timah Road. It didn’t state what number, just the road name. I called him, he said he didn’t know what number or where he was. He just said he was sitting at a bus stop at Bt Timah Road.
    Bt Timah Road is so long. I asked him to describe what he saw nearby. He said cars, trees, at a bus stop. I asked him to look for the bus stop number, I got silence and muffling sounds.
    Sensing something very wrong,
    I said…just sit there and wait for me. I will find you!

    From where I was, I thought…if the booking came to me. He must be at the few bus stops nearest to me, but Bt Timah Road was left and right. So I tried the right side first.

    There he was… a lone Indian foreign worker sitting at the bus stop, looking around aimlessly.

    I stopped my car, asked him if he had booked a car. He nodded. He opened the front door and asked if he could sit in front politely as he will vomit if he sit behind(his words).
    He got in, I offered him a plastic bag and a sweet which he politely declined.

    I confirmed his dropoff address, he nodded. He was upset. So I drove on, leaving him to calm down.

    Halfway through, I asked him if he was okay. He nodded.

    So I asked why he was at that bus stop (very quiet corner) so early that morning. He said he walked there.
    I said from where.
    He said from home.

    Apparently home was where I was sending him now….very far from where he was.

    So I casually mentioned…. wow that’s a very long walk.

    So the talk continues…

    Me: So where are you from?
    He: India.
    Me: U ok?
    Silence.
    Me: U work here?
    He: Ya.
    Me: How long?
    He: 6 months now.

    I then offered him some tissues and he took to wipe his tears…

    Me: It’s ok. You can talk.
    Silence then…..then he spoke.
    (After this, I was quiet for a long time while he spoke)
    His next words:
    my wife die after born my baby girl.

    In that little bit of English that he could speak….
    He went on to say he and his wife were orphans at an orphanage and grew up together and fell in love.
    They had to “betroth”(his word “sell”) their baby girl to a family in their village so they had money to pay for doctor visits for her pregnancy. The baby was supposed to be turned over to the family at age 12.
    His wife died during childbirth and the family had claimed the baby girl after the hospital turned her over to them.

    This man sitting next to me now will never have the chance to see his baby girl or even put his wife to rest.

    After I dropped him off, I declined to take his fare and even wanted to give him money for an airfare home.
    He simply refused to take it and said no use go home.

    He just said “Thank you for hear me” and left.
    He probably needed to be alone now.

    4 hours later when I finished my driving…. as I was clearing my things, I found 2 $10 notes in a slot on the passenger door. He had stuck them there after I refused to take his fare.

    I tried calling him on the same number…. it has been off the last many hours.

    My dear friends, give your kids and partner a good cuddle and many kisses today please!

    *Update* 21/11/116

    I managed to call through the phone this morning. It was picked up by another Indian man who said the phone is actually his and the man (his friend) had left this morning for home.
    I asked how?
    He said “Boss give money send”.

    He told me also….no call here again.

    I hope he will be blessed and find peace within himself soon.

    I didn’t expect this post to go viral but thank you to everyone who shared to let people know what some of our foreign workers face.

     

    Source: Cassandra Tan

  • Malay Boy Helps Old Chinese Stranger Buy Food From Non-Halal Stall

    Malay Boy Helps Old Chinese Stranger Buy Food From Non-Halal Stall

    We sometimes have a tendency to judge strangers for their actions without appreciating the full story behind them.

    Take for example Twitter user Shaidlyn’s, who tweeted a video showing her boyfriend purchasing food from a non-halal stall.

    While they were purchasing the food, it seems some people were judging them, chiefly because it happened to be a Chinese cai png stall.

    Screenshot from Twitter
    Screenshot from Twitter

    The meal they tapao-ed consisted of a variety of ingredients, including pork.

    Now, needless to say, it is wrong to judge any other person for buying food in the first place, whatever creed or religion you assume they might possess or practise.

    But, as it turns out, the judgemental hawker centre patrons didn’t even have that moral high ground to stand on — the two of them were actually helping an elderly man buy the meal.

    Screenshot from Twitter
    Screenshot from Twitter

    Books and covers.

     

    Source: http://mothership.sg

  • Singaporean Honesty On Bus Stop Bench

    Singaporean Honesty On Bus Stop Bench

    Saw this at the bus stop on the way home.

    Someone must have dropped their keys and a kind soul left this note under a rock to make sure it’s safe till the owner comes back to get it.

    Seeing things like this make me proud to be Singaporean

     

    Source: Farzina Mona Hossain

  • Chef Bob: Tolerate Sikit Lah Burning Of Offerings During Hungry Ghost Month

    Chef Bob: Tolerate Sikit Lah Burning Of Offerings During Hungry Ghost Month

    Ok guys. Our Buddhist/Taoist/Chinese brothers and sisters have started praying for their hungry ghost month. Please tolerate with their burning of offerings. How many days only what??!!

    If the bins are near to those living in lower floors like mine, try asking them nicely to move it to a further location. If they decline, find other means to combat with the smoke and soot. Close your windows. Blast your fans. Don’t complain but find a solution.
    If there’s a getai show, enjoy the entertainment. Start a mosh pit or something. Another excuse for you to leave the house and jalan2. ?

    If need be to call the police, do it in a civilised manner. The men in blue have much bigger problems to attend to. And please don’t bitch about it in social media. If I see any, I won’t hesitate to block you unless you owe me money lah. That one must settle ah. Then I’ll block you. ????

    Love begets love. Respect begets respect.

    “Allah does not forbid you to be just and righteous towards those who did not go into battle against you (over matters of faith), and did not expel you from your homes. Deal with them justly. Allah loves those who are just.” The Holy Quran, Chapter 60, Verse 8.

    Wallahualam bisawab.

    *This thread is non-debatable. If your comments deemed unsuitable in my views then gua akan delete sama dia. You feel me? ?

     

    Source: Shahrizal Salleh

  • Frustrations Of A Mother-Of-4 Exploring Bazaar Geylang: Have People Got No Compassion And Manners?

    Frustrations Of A Mother-Of-4 Exploring Bazaar Geylang: Have People Got No Compassion And Manners?

    I bring the pram to Geylang as my son, the youngest, is really hard to handle. He needs to be strapped in his seat.

    I hv 4 boys. My 3rd is like a jumping Monkey on everlasting batteries. I will make him sit on the pram so that he will sit still. Albeit fighting will ensue btw him and the 4th boy in the pram.

    I hv my 2 other boys holding on each side of the pram while walking as I want to make sure they are always by my side.

    Thing is. It can be quite irritating to be dragging the kids and the pram out, but I have to. They are my kids. I need them to be safe. Also because I have to bring them along w me as we do not hv any maid to look after them.

    I do not believe in maids although I do feel at times I need help as I struggle btw being a Mom and running my own business. But after hving two bad experiences, I would rather be without one. I hv my Mom but hey, she too needs a break from my kechorable kids. And now, w Papa gone and me being an only child, I bring my Mom along w me everywhere I go. To say the least, I bring everyone along w me.

     

    It is not easy to be out w 4 kids. And it is back breaking to be babywearing a child of more than 10kg for hours. Plus having to ensure the rest of the kids dont go missing. A pram is like a soul reliever. Like godsent. I can strap my two boys in the pram and hang my bag full of bottlemilk, hotwater bottle, milk container and all that I need when we hv tods.

    As parents we hv a lot of responsibilities strapped ard us. We hv errands to run and things to be done. At times we need them done w the kids tagging along. Though it hinders our movement at times, but what choice do we hv? We just hv to deal w it. They are our kids. Kids that I carried in my womb and suffered a bad nine months of nausea and morning sickness. I went through hours of labour for. They are my responsibility. My top priority is my children’s safety.

    So pardon me for irritating you with my pram while I push my two kids in the pram and at times fighting w each other while dragging my other two kids alongside the pram, and lugging a bag or two. I need my kids in the pram so that I wont go crazy chasing after them.

    Just like you. I am tired too. Just like you. I feel annoyed too. Just like you. I get irritated too.

    While pushing the pram and pple just wont make way for us to go through. While pushing the pram and we need to go up the lift, but it is jam packed w able bodies that rather take the lift than the escalator and make way to parents w kids and prams. Instead, we hv to make way to these able bodies that just needed to walk a little further to climb on the escalators. While pushing the pram, some may just push you just so they can go through instead of saying excuse me or helping you out when you needed it.

    Pushing a pram seems like an easy job but it is not that easy. It takes a lot of patience. I at times lost it too. Thanks to a few inconsiderate pple.

    The thing is, it is not easy being a parent.

    So pardon us. We are just being parents. We need to get things done and our kids are our responsibilities.

    Do understand our situation. We are only parents and are doing the best that we can. Dont hate us for this thing called Pram.

    Give love because we all deserve some. Be it those w kids, none or single. Sometimes a little love can really make our day. 🙂

    Salam Ramadhan.

     

    Source: Diana Hairul