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  • Denying Husbands Sex Is Abuse: Malaysian MP

    Denying Husbands Sex Is Abuse: Malaysian MP

    A Malaysian lawmaker came under fire on Wednesday (Jul 26) for saying that women who deny their husbands sex were subjecting them to “psychological and emotional abuse”.

    Che Mohamad Zulkifly Jusoh, an MP from the ruling coalition, said during a parliamentary debate on domestic violence that husbands often suffer emotional attacks rather than physical abuse.

    “Even though men are said to be physically stronger than women, there are cases where wives hurt or abuse their husbands in an extreme manner,” said the lawmaker, an UMNO member.

    “Usually, it involves wives cursing their husbands – this is emotional abuse. They insult their husbands and refuse his sexual needs. All these are types of psychological and emotional abuse.”

    Marina Mahathir, a prominent women’s rights activist and daughter of former Prime Minister Mahathir Mohamed, said the lawmaker’s view was “based on ignorance”.

    “Women have a right to say no to sex – this is an old notion that when you marry a women you own her body,” she told AFP. “It does not work that way. It is ridiculous to say men are abused if women say no to sex.”

    The 58-year-old lawmaker, from the state of Terengganu also said that denying a Muslim man the chance to marry a second wife amounted to abuse.

    It is legal for Muslim men in Malaysia to have as many as four wives. But they must obtain permission from a shariah court to marry more than one.

    The MP made the comments on Tuesday during a debate on amendments to domestic violence legislation.

     

    Source:http://www.channelnewsasia.com

  • Chua Mui Hoong Is Right – Your MP Is Not A Social Worker (Or Santa Claus)

    Chua Mui Hoong Is Right – Your MP Is Not A Social Worker (Or Santa Claus)

    “Your MP is not the Chief Social Worker. He’s supposed to raise issues and make laws.”

    That was the headline of an article by the Straits Times’ Opinion Editor, Chua Mui Hoong, on Saturday, 22 August.

    Briefly, Ms Chua – who was at the People’s Action Party (PAP) press scrum for the introduction of its candidates for Jurong GRC – was rather perturbed by all the niceties being spewed by the candidates.

    “One by one, each candidate spoke about their wish to build a more caring community in Jurong GRC,” Ms Chua wrote.

    The would-be parliamentarians rattled off some of the (community) programmes they would introduce if elected.

    Straits Times
    Straits Times

    “I started wondering: Were they standing as Members of Parliament, or angling for posts as Chief Social Worker in Jurong GRC?” Ms Chua said.

    Indeed, are our MPs mere do-gooders or santa clauses who are on duty all year round, to be called on to grant whatever wish we have?

    And it is not just the PAP Jurong election team which has presented themselves as potential town managers and social workers.

    Almost every PAP press conference or media scrum to introduce its candidates is accompanied by promises of upgrading programmes, or new amenities, for the estate.

    It has become such that questions have been raised not only about the roles of the MPs, but also if the candidates are not appropriating the work of public servants (such as those in the Urban Redevelopment Authority or the Housing and Development Board) as their own.

    This itself would be rather dishonest – to pass someone else’s work off as one’s own.

    Did the PAP candidates sit down with these public servants, prior to being announced as the party’s candidates, to discuss these estate plans and programmes?

    Or were they just simply regurgitating what the URA or the HDB had already planned for each of their estates?

    Another question which has risen is how the PAP itself seems to have u-turned on its own principle, espoused by its chairman just last year.

    TODAY, 2014
    TODAY, 2014

    “National Development Minister Khaw Boon Wan today warned against turning elections into an auction between political parties promising voters as much ‘goodies’ as they can, with as low taxes as possible,” the TODAY newspaper reported Mr Khaw as having said in June 2014.

    Mr Khaw was quoted as saying:

    “In all honesty, we must acknowledge most of our people would always want more, but would never want to pay more in taxes, and it’s incumbent upon our part to be honest with our voters, because if every election is a mere auction between political parties to give as much goodies as they can with as little taxes they need to pay, I think democracy of that manner must lead to insolvency and eventually, political cynicism.”

    Indeed, cynicism has crept in, with regard to the way the PAP has politicised public amenities and programmes.

    Here is a look at some of the headlines in the news on the various PAP press conferences to announce its candidates for the elections thus far – with goodies being dished out in abundance (or some may say, with abandon):

    Tanjong PagarHong KahHolland Bukit TimahChua Chu Kang

    And despite what he himself said last year, goodies were announced by Mr Khaw at his introduction of candidates press conference in Sembawang:

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    “Your MP isn’t your social worker, although doing social work is a good way to win hearts and minds – and votes,” Ms Chua said in her article. “These programmes also make a genuine, often lasting impact on people’s lives. They are wonderful.

    “But your MP should also be your representative in Parliament, championing issues you believe in.”

    This is a position taken by most of the opposition parties who say that the fundamental role of an elected parliamentarian is to be just that – a parliamentarian involved in the debate and even the crafting of policies which affect the large majority of people, and also perform its role of making sure policies are enforced fairly, especially with regard to those who may be in the minority.

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    “We are talking about electing people into parliament who can not only run town councils but more importantly make important decisions on matters which affect our daily lives,” Dr Paul Tambyah said last week at the 35th anniversary celebrations of the Singapore Democratic Party (SDP).

    “How we live and pay for our homes, how we educate our children, how we pay for healthcare when we get sick, whether we can be assured of a minimum wage or unemployment insurance and whether there will be a level playing field for all workers – local and foreign,” he added.

    Dr Paul is widely expected to be a SDP candidate in the upcoming elections.

    The PAP, however, insists the opposite – that the primary role of an MP is to take care of the town.

    This insistence, of course, is borne out of political expediency – the PAP having charge of most of the constituencies in Singapore and such an emphasis gives it an advantage over the opposition parties.

    The PAP has been in control of virtually all constituencies for 50 years.

    But the truth is that an MP – even by his very title – is a parliamentarian, and voters should first and foremost regard him as such, and decide if he or she can fulfil this role above all else.

    “In the next few weeks before the polls, every candidate aspiring to enter Parliament will stress his willingness to serve and maintain she has a heart for the people,” Ms Chua said. “In many cases, this will be true. But it is not enough.

    “Candidates must also articulate their positions on policies, and say what they wish to retain, adapt or see changed.”

    We want to look for leaders – and MPs are also leaders in their own way – who have clear vision, who can articulate that vision and inspire the populace, MPs who are brave and forward-looking, who can say, “This way, this is the direction we need to go.”

    We do not want yes-men or women who simply regurgitate existing policy positions, which does not lead to new ideas, or progress.

    In short, we do not want dead wood in Parliament.

    “What do the future leaders of Singapore, whether from the PAP or the opposition, stand for?” Ms Chua asked.

    “Or are they  all for the status quo? In which case, Singapore’s future is dim indeed.”

    So, the next time you see a candidate who is trying to sell you some municipal estate upgrading programme, do not be afraid to ask his or her views on national policies instead, and decide your vote based on her or his response.

    For that is the role of an MP – to lead by having clear ideas of what he or she believes in.

    Otherwise, why would you vote for him or her to be in Parliament?

    They could work as private town managers or social workers on hire – and save us the hassle of going through the whole electoral process, wasting taxpayers’ time and money.

    So, Ms Chua is right – your MP is not a social worker.

    He is a lawmaker – and that is his fundamental and most important role.

     

    Source: www.theonlinecitizen.com

  • ST Opinion Editor: Your MP Is Not Your Chief Social Worker; He’s Supposed To Raise Issues And Makes Laws

    ST Opinion Editor: Your MP Is Not Your Chief Social Worker; He’s Supposed To Raise Issues And Makes Laws

    There I was, scrunched  with the latecomer reporters, at the back of the PAP branch office in Clementi.

    Up front, Mr Tharman Shanmugaratnam was introducing the party’s candidates for Jurong GRC for the coming General Election.

    Reporters who turned up an hour early got to sit right in front – cross legged on the floor. The lucky ones got chairs. Then the photographers positioned themselves in lines. Behind them, several stood on chairs to get better angles.

    And right behind the scrum – peering through the legs of those balancing themselves on chairs – were those of us who turned up later. Serves me right for not being kiasu.

    I couldn’t see the candidates’ faces except on the camera screens of colleagues in front of me. I could hear, but had to strain to keep my attention from wondering.

    One by one, each candidate spoke about their wish to build a more caring community in Jurong GRC.
    To be sure, they sounded sincere.

    Mr Tharman himself, although Deputy Prime Minister and Finance Minister with matters of state to occupy the buzzing brain underneath that gleaming bald pate, spoke passionately about the “Jurong way” – “our style in Jurong is to be on the ground all the time and to serve with our hearts. That’s our style.”

    Helping people when no one is looking, away from the glares of the camera, day in, day out.
    The incumbent candidates – Mr Tharman, Mr Desmond Lee and Mr Ang Wei Neng – highlighted some Jurong GRC initiatives: helping disadvantaged kids; giving second, third chances to ex-inmates; harnessing volunteers.

    The two new candidates in the GRC – Madam Rahayu Mahzam and Dr Tan Wu Meng – were also introduced as candidates with a genuine heart for the people.

    Indeed, Madam Rahayu, 35, has been a volunteer since she was 17. She has met many families in difficulty. She wants to work with disadvanted families and  youth.

    Dr Tan called himself “a doctor who has a heart to serve, who’s very concerned about helping make people’s lives better, who’s very concerned about looking after elderly residents”. He spoke about a Lions Befrienders seniors activity centre at Blk 420A in Clementi to befriend vulnerable elderly, a childcare centre nearby and a special needs early intervention centre elsewhere.

    But listening to them, my mind started to drift at the litany of the social programmes  in Jurong GRC.
    I started wondering: Were they standing as Members of Parliament, or angling for posts as Chief Social Worker in Jurong GRC?

    In Singapore, it seems MPs have to be all things to all men – and women, and children too.

    We want MPs to run town councils. They have to be financially trained too, to get accounts right.
    We want them to step in to sort out disputes, so they must be skilled mediators and negotiators.

    We want them to listen to our problems, so they have to be counsellors. We want them to help the poor and needy and the elderly and link them up with available resources, so they have to be social workers.

    We go to them to write letters of appeal to government agencies to waive fines or speed up/ review/ reverse a decision, so they are glorified scribes.

    We want them to get government agencies to put a playground here, or a bus stop there, and take away a funeral parlour elsewhere, so they are political lobbyists.

    But in fact, the core of an MPs’ role is as a legislator.

    MPs make laws in Parliament that determine how a country is run. They decide on policies. They decide how much money to give to which ministry to get programmes done.

    Your MP isn’t your social worker, although doing social work is a good way to win hearts and minds – and votes. These programmes also make a genuine, often lasting impact on people’s lives. They are wonderful.

    But your MP should also be your representative in Parliament, championing issues you believe in.
    And so, from the back, blocked from view, I asked a friendly photographer standing on a chair in front of me, to raise a hand  to get Mr Tharman’s attention.

    I just had to ask this question.

    I asked each candidate to highlight one issue he or she  would like to champion in Parliament. I added: “ And please don’t say ‘caring, inclusive society’, which is a catchall. Please try to be specific – one issue that might be close to Singaporeans’ hearts that you want to champion in Parliament.”

    Mr Lee, who is Minister of State for National Development, highlighted housing for seniors and helping families live close together. He  went on to speak with considerable conviction, if less than perfect syntax, about his wish to “build communities of stakeholders” such as those around Pulau Ubin and the green rail corridor:  “Bringing in one cosy room, stakeholders from Green groups, heritage groups, academics, musicians, artists, cyclists, educators, social anthropologists, come in together and each and everyone of them, not just having a say, not just giving a view but also actively participating in the constructive dialogue and a process that results in actual things happening on the ground both immediate and long-term.”

    Madam Rahaya wants to  focus on issues to do with family.  Dr Tan plans to focus on healthcare: to help residents  have better access to healthcare nearer their homes, integrating hospital care with community care. Mr Ang will focus on education, reducing the emphasis on grades, and transport. In the last, he wants to focus on the “first and last mile connection. So whether it’s the cycling path, whether it is a walkway, covered walkway – making it easy for people to connect to the transport modes.”

    Listening to the issues they want to champion gave me a glimpse into what matters to these candidates.

    It also makes them more relatable. I found myself agreeing with Mr Lee (retaining Singapore’s green spaces is important) and Mr Ang: indeed, it is often the last mile connection that lets us down – if only there were a safe path to cycle to   the MRT station so we don’t have to wait for the feeder bus.

    In the next few weeks before the polls, every candidate aspiring to enter Parliament will stress his  willingness to serve and maintain she has a heart for the people. In many cases, this will be true. But it is not enough.

    Candidates must also articulate their positions on policies, and say what they wish to retain, adapt or see changed.

    This is especially critical for those on the PAP slate expected to be parachuted into  office-holder positions if elected,  such as Ong Ye Kung, Chee Hong Tat and Ng Chee Meng, and perhaps one or two others.
    Serious-minded Singaporeans will want to know their positions on issues that have been hotly debated publicly for the last few years.

    This applies too to opposition candidates. Whether from the PAP or other party, candidates also shouldn’t hide behind party manifestos and slogans and give up the challenge of articulating what they themselves believe in or stand for. In fact, political parties too should be clearer about their stands on issues.
    Voters want to know what their representatives in Parliament will fight for.

    On immigration – do they  support the move to tighten the tap on foreign workers or should it be loosened? On the economy – do they agree with those who say Singapore’s high-cost, high-wages growth model benefits the high-waged elite, but is a burden  on the low-waged who  struggle to have a dignified life in a high-cost living environment? Should SMRT, which is listed, be corporatised, and  public transport become a public service provided by the state?

    What do  the future leaders of Singapore, whether from the PAP or the opposition, stand for?

    Or are they  all for the status quo? In which case,  Singapore’s future is dim indeed.

     

    Source: www.straitstimes.com