Tag: love

  • Response Pak Andam Terhadap Majlis Perkahwinan Minggu Lalu Yang Menerima Pelbagai Kritikan (Kompang, Scooter Dan Pengantin)

    Response Pak Andam Terhadap Majlis Perkahwinan Minggu Lalu Yang Menerima Pelbagai Kritikan (Kompang, Scooter Dan Pengantin)

    CINTA AKU SEADANYA!

    Saya adalah Pak Andam Mempelai dan menyaksikan dari mula majlis hingga akhir majlis. Ramai yang comment negative with regards to the Kompang Group WHICH is Proudly Sponsor by adek pengantin Lelaki. Setahu saya mempelai menerima saje dan beri support kerana adeknya berhati besar nak sponsor kompang. Saya rasa pengantin pon terkejut kot akan persembahan kompang etc! bukan hari hari mereka sanding kan!. Kalau megikuti adat memang harus dan berkah jika kompang Diiringi Selawat dan sebagainya. Moga comment and feedback anda dapat memberi kumpulan kompang tersebut lebih banyak peransang dan semangat untuk kembali melaksanakan apa yang wajar. Ade yang comment hingga mengutuk tetapi bukan menasihati, dan saya rasa itu bukan sikap Sunnah Rasul dalam berdakwah . Saya Harap kita semua kalau nak comment apa apa harap dengan kekata elok elok baru lah anak muda kita sedar dan bangkit. Bukan ke ajaran Islam itu indah .

    Yang Kedua Falsafah pasal Scooter, WOW! Creative pulak!! saya suka! sebelum bergerak mereka mempersembahkan SCOOTER IN ACTION lahhhhh bagi meraihkan Pengantin dah Tiba!. Ni kan trend zaman sekarang ngan scooter tu baru baru ini.. kita pon tak dapat menyangka apa lagi creative creative di masa akan datang. Husnuzon je lerrr

    Yang Ketiga…. Ade yang mengutuk Pengantin Perempuan dengan zahirnya, tubuh badannya.

    Allah Azza Wa Jalla, berfirman:

    يٰٓأَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ ءَامَنُوا لَا يَسْخَرْ قَوْمٌ مِّنْ قَوْمٍ عَسٰىٓ أَنْ يَكُونُوا خَيْرًا مِّنْهُمْ وَلَا نِسَآءٌ مِّنْ نِّسَآءٍ عَسٰىٓ أَنْ يَكُنَّ خَيْرًا مِّنْهُنَّ ۖ وَلَا تَلْمِزُوٓا أَنْفُسَكُمْ وَلَا تَنَابَزُوا بِالْأَلْقٰبِ ۖ بِئْسَ الِاسْمُ الْفُسُوقُ بَعْدَ الْإِيمٰنِ ۚ وَمَنْ لَّمْ يَتُبْ فَأُولٰٓئِكَ هُمُ الظّٰلِمُونَ

    “Wahai orang-orang yang beriman! Janganlah suatu kaum mengolok-olok kaum yang lain, (karena) boleh jadi mereka (yang diolok-olokkan) lebih baik dari mereka (yang mengolok-olok), dan jangan pula perempuan-perempuan (mengolok-olokkan) perempuan lain, (karena) boleh jadi perempuan (yang diolok-olokkan) lebih baik dari perempuan (yang mengolok-olok). Janganlah kamu saling mencela satu sama lain, dan janganlah saling memanggil dengan gelar-gelar yang buruk. Seburuk-buruk panggilan adalah (panggilan) yang buruk (fasik) setelah beriman. Dan barang siapa tidak bertobat, maka mereka itulah orang-orang yang zalim.” (QS. Al-Hujurat 49 ayat 11)

    Jika Kamu mengutuk tubuh badan orang lain, anda juga mengutuk CIPTAAN ALLAH SWT. Anda tergolong dalam Orang Yang Zalim. Minta maaf lah kepada pengantin Nora . Orang melayu kata berani buat berani tanggung, Berani comment berani tanggung tapi di akhirat kelak . Apa pon Kami pihak Grandeur Fai amat mencintai semua mempelai tidak kira siapa mereka dan apa jua bentuk badan mereka kita terima dan beri layanan yang sama kasih antara satu sama lain.

    Sekian dan Benar tulus iklas: Fai Bani

    *Lets give her our support with all the beautiful words and we are all the same Even in hereafter you Nora Abu Bakar will be the utmost beautiful princess in Jannah Firdausi amin!

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  • School Girl Wrote A Love Letter To Handsome Teacher To Express Her Love And Jealousy

    School Girl Wrote A Love Letter To Handsome Teacher To Express Her Love And Jealousy

    Kids nowadays are so brave and bold. There is a viral handwritten love letter written by one Fatimah, a student of a handsome teacher who confessed her love for the teacher and how she got jealous when her teacher smiled at one of her classmates. Below is a gist of the love letter addressed to the teacher, Mr. Hanafi (translated from Malay):

    “Hello handsome teacher. Yesterday, you smiled at Shila. I’m jealous okay. Last week you smiled at me, and I already accepted your love. Can you please don’t play with my heart? Can or not? Please say something? I’m crying right now. I’m absent from school today because my heart is broken. My mum doesn’t know about this yet.”

    Definitely, Fatimah’s love for her handsome teacher is sincere as you can see how she proofread and edited her own mistakes before giving it to her teacher. Well, good luck to Fatimah in getting Mr. Hanafi’s attention.

     

    Rilek1Corner

  • Love Thy Neighbour – Neighbour’s Altar Offerings Blown Away, Muslim Bro Puts Them Back In Place

    Love Thy Neighbour – Neighbour’s Altar Offerings Blown Away, Muslim Bro Puts Them Back In Place

    Love Thy Neighbour
    .
    Our neighbour’s altar offerings blown by the wind so my bro pick and arranged them back. We have been neighbours for more than 10 years they have always been so respectful to my mom and late dad
    .
    Faith is a conviction of heart that need to be respected while humanity is a shared value that needs to be cherished
    .
    #zahidzin #ustazceo

     

    Source: Zahid Zin

  • Disapproving Family And Distance Could Not Stop This Malay Abang And Chinese Gf From Getting Married

    Disapproving Family And Distance Could Not Stop This Malay Abang And Chinese Gf From Getting Married

    Nizam encountered a lot of difficulties while dating his Chinese partner, Margaret. From her parents disapproving their relationship to Margaret being sent overseas, the couple have gone through multiple ups and downs together but are now married and have a 5-year-old daughter.

    This is his entry for the contest:

    “My name is Nizam and I’m 26 years old this year and I’m married to a Chinese girl, her name is Margaret Soh, she is 23 this year.

    “We have a daughter name Nurshiyumie and it sounds like Japanese name.

    “So our love story started in 2008. When I knew this girl (my wife) I was only 18 years old. She was chubby, innocent and full of fun. She always smiles.

    “We dated for couple of months. We were so happy. I never felt so much happiness before I knew this girl.

    “Her laughter brings hope in my life. But the good times did not last and we got a serious dose of parental disapproval and judgmental side-eyes from our relatives.

    “When her parents got to know that she was dating me, a Malay guy that had nothing, they sent her overseas to avoid me seeing her.

    “My heart broke into pieces. I called her every night when she was overseas to hear her voice.

    “I couldn’t eat and I couldn’t sleep. It was like the world was ending.

    “She tried to escape from there and wanted to come back here, but she failed.

    “Her relative kept away her passport and she actually tried to commit suicide.

    “My mind went blank, my heart was aching, it felt like millions of needle poking through my heart, I felt like dying.

    “After a month of being separated, she finally came back to Singapore.

    “She ran away from her family. She called me immediately and I told her to come to my office.

    “I was so happy. No words could describe how happy I was.

    “When I saw she came out from a car, we ran to each other and I gave her a tight hug.

    “Later as we predicted she was reported missing.

    “Eight months of wanted life. Nothing can describe how grateful I am to have a girlfriend like her staying by my side when I really had nothing.

    “She cried awake every night, having nightmares and was traumatized.

    “I didn’t know what to do. What I thought of is to have a family with her, to take care her for life.

    “Since her parents couldn’t do anything, I held her tight, held her and I made a vow to make her my wife and take care of her until the day I was gone.

    “We planned to have a kid. I ask her ‘Will you marry me and have a kid with me?’

    “She cried and held me tight. She was willing to marry me, give me her future and trust me.

    “Time flies and she finally got pregnant. We were so happy and excited.

    “We went back to look for our families. She converted to Islam.

    “Her willingness made the decision to convert to Islam easier, it’s not about race. It’s about initiative and finally we were married, she put her trust all on me.

    “She moved to my parents place. We had to sleep on the floor in the living room where there is no more room for us.

    “All was occupied by my sibling. But she did not even complain with her pregnant stomach.

    “Because she knew she chose this path with me.

    “Until she given birth to our previous baby girl, she was natural birth.

    “Looking at her enduring the pain alone, the pain, the look on her face and she sleeps on the floor when she need to stand up to go toilet.

    “Sometimes I even saw she cry in the middle of the night. I try my best take care my little sweetheart when she was about few months old.

    “I try my best to balance out NS and home. No family support.

    “Sometimes, we even have to share one packet of rice together.

    “At this point of time, I cannot afford luxury for her. But finally she achieved her dream as a makeup artist.

    “Things went smoothly, finally my baby girl is 5-years-old this year.

    “I have taken a course and work at a better benefit company.

    “I tell myself I am so happy and lucky to have this girl as my wife.

    “I want to give her everything, no matter what it takes, I will give her all that I can.

    “She deserves all the love from me, my daughter and my wife. No one can replace them.

    “We have gone through ups and downs. We love, we cry, we fight.

    “Now we celebrate Chinese New Year and Hari Raya together.

    “Our daughter look so cute wearing baju kurung and Chinese qi pao.

    “Just to share with you, love does not only mean the race or religion.

    “Don’t be judgmental toward inter racial love, its about compromising. We need to understand that true love takes time and effort to dismiss all obstacles among us. Race is just a race. Religion is religion.

    “All that matters is that those involved are willing to make the sacrifices necessary to be together.

    “Compromise each other. Time flies and we both know that we want to spend the rest of our lives together.

    “I love you my wife and I will take care of you and your family forever.

    “I don’t encourage people to follow us, but I hope in this world there will be more true love relationships, inter racial love because only love can hurt like this.”

     

    Source: http://singaporeseen.stomp.com.sg

  • Pink Dot Supporters Should Look In The Mirror

    Pink Dot Supporters Should Look In The Mirror

    Pink Dot supporters cite the event as one emphasising tolerance, respect and love.

    Ironically, there was an intolerant, disrespectful call for governmental action against religious communities who disagree with it, in the letter “End the slurs on LGBT people and their allies” (June 22, online).

    Conservatives who disagree with Pink Dot are labelled as hatemongers. Religious leaders are accused of using the pulpit to attack persons attracted to the same sex. People with religious convictions are to be barred from discourse in “secular” public spaces.

    Of greatest concern, however, is the assumption that all persons attracted to the same sex support Pink Dot. There are many of them who disagree with its agenda, which is to “change society’s attitude”, whereby regulations “will naturally also change”.

    When an agenda seeks to alter a country’s laws and moral norms, it is only natural that society examines the merit of the movement. To suggest then that religious communities be silenced, when the movement imposes on everyone, is incredulous.

    Such uncivil attitudes and double standards have resulted in discrimination against conservative communities. For example, Focus on the Family was unfairly branded a sexist organisation (“Ministries studying feedback on relationship workshop”; Oct 9).

    Ms Agatha Tan’s accusations against it were taken wholesale and spread by news platforms and the public, with little critical thinking applied to her arguments.

    It did not take rocket science to reach the logical question one should have asked: Would the Education Ministry have approved a sexist programme promoting rape to be run for 17-year-olds?

    Even when her schoolmates who had sat in the same lecture wrote to address her allegations, little effort was made by the media, the school or the ministry to redress the issue publicly.

    The organisation and its staff have suffered real loss to their reputation and livelihood. Has integrity been compromised in a world that prizes tolerance over truth?

    Bullying of persons attracted to the same sex must be addressed. But remarks by Pink Dot supporters, such as those of the letter writer, divide the society and attack Singapore’s conservative religious communities.

     

    This article, written by Leo Hee Khian, was published on Voices, Today, on 1 Jul.

    Source: www.todayonline.com