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Desperate Mother: We Have Video Evidence Of Maid Physically Abusing Our Children But She Remains Free

I think it’s time to share this as I feel that it’s good to let others know as a deterrent and to be more careful when choosing a helper.

Sri wahyuni ( wp number 007726961 ) has been with us for about 6 months when we discovered this. We saw this video of she scolding my 3rd child Ilyas and then punching the side of my last Son Ilham’s head casually. When we spoke to our children, we later found out that she had been violent to all our kids except Auni. She had punched the tummy of ilham, slapped ilyas’s hand but was especially rough with Ilhan whom she had pushed against the door and even slapped his face. Hence we showed her this video and she said that she is sorry and would change.

We waited for a while deciding what to do but shortly after she ran away and went to MOM instead and reported we had abused her. I Guess she thought if she alleged we abused her then we can’t possibly report she has abused our kids but of course we reported the abuse and showed the police this video and now investigation is taking place. The worst was she purposely ran away on the day we were gg to Australia and had bought visa and tickets for her to go with us .

Unfortunately though our government lean towards foreigners and once a fdw alleged abuse automatically the employer will be bared from getting a helper until the investigation ends even though there is zero evidence of this – yeah wow to our govt on this ) MOM and SPF even has the cheek To repeatedly call me to enquire about the things she had left behind at my place. Hence frankly I have lost faith with the ability of MOM or spf to protect Singaporeans when it’s against the foreigners.

Because of this my boys had to go through a thorough medical examination and then later a psychological examination and don’t know hat else but that’s okay as Long as This helper will be put away .

Anyway do beware of this helper as the spf had informed me that at times the helper can appeal to find a new employer even though they are under investigation and for those families who have fdw taking care of their children, do place CCTVs but seriously if they are of preschool age do send them To child care Centres instead where you have professionals taking care of your children.

Please do make Doa and remember us in your prayers and we are hoping this ordeal will end soon and we believe Allah swt is just and there is always a HikmAh behind whatever has happened. In Shaa Allah.

Source: Shahidah Angullia Basrawi

November 5, 2016
MHA: Foreign Companies Need Permit To Sponsor, Promote Or Participate In Speakers’ Corner Events

Foreign companies will need a permit to sponsor, publicly promote or get its employees to participate in events at the Speakers’ Corner, stated the Ministry of Home Affairs (MHA) on Friday afternoon (Oct 21).

For the first time, the ministry made clear what a Singapore entity was: those incorporated or registered in Singapore and controlled by a majority of Singapore citizens.

The entity’s directors must be mostly Singaporean, and the majority of its ownership must be held by Singaporeans or one or more Singapore companies.

Meanwhile, the ministry is loosening rules for local entities organising events at the Speakers’ Corner. From next month, Singapore companies or non-government organisations no longer need permits to hold events at the Speakers’ Corner. Now, only Singapore citizens are exempted.

In its news release on the amendments to the rules, the ministry reiterated that the Speakers’ Corner was set up in 2000 for Singaporeans to express their views on issues that concern them.

“The Government’s position has always been that foreign entities should not interfere in our domestic issues, especially those of a political or controversial nature,” said the MHA. “The amendments reinforce the key principle that the Speakers’ Corner was set up primarily for Singaporeans.”

MHA is also extending the rules to those who participate at Speakers’ Corner events through remote means. So foreign entities will also need a permit if they speak through teleconferecing or pre-recorded messages at the Speakers’ Corner.

These changes come on the back of reviews to Speakers’ Corner rules which the MHA started in June. The ministry had wanted to “make it clear that foreign entities should not fund, support or influence” events held at Speakers’ Corner, such as June 4’s Pink Dot – the annual lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender rally.

This year’s Pink Dot – the eighth such – attracted 18 sponsors including multinational companies such as Google, JP Morgan, Goldman Sachs, Apple, Facebook, Microsoft, Visa and General Electric.

Source: www.straitstimes.com

October 22, 2016
Mother Of Baby With Congenital Heart Disease: Help Us Give My Little Angel Noor A Shot At Life

Hello Everyone Out there

I am Baby Noor’s Mummy Lena, Baby Noor Was born on the 1st of March 2016 @ NUH.

These donations are going to help my family and I on our hospital bills/check-ups/pampers/medications for baby Noor. Baby Noor Was Diagnosed with Tricuspid atresia is a form of congenital heart disease whereby there is a complete absence of the tricuspid valve. Therefore, there is an absence of right atrioventricular connection. This leads to a hypoplastic (undersized) or absent right ventricle when she was still in my tummy at 24 weeks. I was in shock. I did not know what to do. I was given the choice to keep the pregnancy or abort it. I was given 2 weeks to choose. I sat myself down got myself thinking what would be the best for my family and I. Will I be able to cope. Having 3 other kids whom one of them is an asthmatic. Can I handle this? will I give up? Am I emotionally prepared? Well I stuck to my Decision to Keep Her. When She was born via an emergency c sec the nurse brought her to me I kissed her forehead and she was wisped away to Neonatal ICU. On the 2nd day of my stay in hospital I pushed myself to get up and walk down to see her. I cried in happiness thinking if I were to abort her would I ever get to see this beautiful angel

On the 4th of March baby noor would go through her First major op to insert The Blalock–Thomas–Taussig shunt (commonly called the Blalock–Taussig shunt) is a surgical procedure used to increase pulmonary blood flow for palliation in duct dependent cyanotic heart defects like pulmonary atresia, which are common causes of blue baby syndrome. She took a month or so to recover and be discharged. She came home to us she has been living life to the fullest without any complications till yesterday 29/9/2016 she went for a ct scan as well as 2d scan to dertermine if she should go for another BT SHUNT or go for her 2nd stage major operation. The docs came and spoke to me about this they was talking about reconstructing the LEFT artery which was now small and giving problem. So they decided to do another shunt.

She is currently in ICU under sedation and morphine to ease her pain. As Well as she is on the breathing tube with abt 80% of oxygen helping her. My husband has given up his job. To help me out running up and down to the hospital as well as looking after our other 3 kids.

I am appealing to the public to help us ease our financially tight situation. As well as help cover some of the coming bills and as well as for up coming appointments for baby noor. We are aiming for $5k. Once we have reached that amount we will stop the drive. We will also keep a close update on baby noor’s condition over here as well keep an update on bills and appointments over here. We Also need donations of Pampers as rations if anyone do have spare at home. Visiting for baby noor is welcome only during visiting hours and when we the parents are there.

Baby noors face has been blured out to protect her. Do hope you guys understand for those whom wish to contact me do drop me an email @ [email protected]

Your prayers are also greatly needed.

if there are any donations to go directly or personally please bank in to

248-85690-4 POSB Savings
Bank Holder Wan

Source: https://give.asia

October 20, 2016
Meet Anisa Hassan – Great Women Of Our Time 2016 Finance & Commerce Nominee

The premature birth of Anisa’s eldest daughter prompted her career switch. “The ungodly hours of shiftwork destabilised my life,” shares the former Channel NewsAsia broadcast journalist turned award-winning entrepreneur. “Becoming a mother changed my perspective about what’s really important to me,” adds the mum-of-two, who took a two-year hiatus to focus on family and to think things through. In March 2004, Anisa gave birth to her second child, then flew off to US to complete a month-long training in preparation for the franchise business she had decided to embark on. It’s Just Lunch Asia, an upscale match-making agency for busy professionals, was launched in July 2004. Now 12 years on, her company has matched thousands of singles worldwide, and arranged over two million dates. Not one to rest on her laurels, the business-savvy Anisa has also authoured two e-books about dating, and has recently launched Oobat, a range of doctor-developed health supplements which use traditional jamu as the key ingredient.

“Entrepreneurs are creators…
We create solutions for problems that have not been overcome or effectively addressed. The entrepreneurial journey is long, winding, and very interesting. Be prepared to play full out, even when success is not apparent.”

“Writing a book allows me to synthesise my ideas…
And express them in a manner that can reach and benefit more people. I write to give people hope and optimism, and help create possibilities where all they see is the end of the rope.”

“I look up to a lot of people, especially the self-made women…
I love to read about success stories, and how these women overcome odds to get to the pinnacle of their careers or chosen businesses. One day, I hope to become an inspiration to the world. It’ll be exciting to see how this kampong girl emerges on the other side.”

The Great Women Of Our Time 2016 is presented by Skin Inc and co-sponsored bySwarovski.

Source: www.womensweekly.com.sg

August 23, 2016
Mother Desperate For Financial Help Got Cheated, Stuck With Monthly $220 Phone Bill

Hi Gilbert

I’m 23 this year. A mother of one. I’ve just gotten myself a full time job last week.

Due to long period of unemployment, I have used up my savings for my daily expenses and for my child. My hubby is working too but he’s not earning much.

Basically, we split the cost of our child’s expenses. I was really in need of loan last week and couldn’t find any friends to help me. I even turned to family/relatives for help but I got turned down too.

I tried going to licensed money lenders but were rejected due to my unstable monthly income for the past 6 months.

Yesterday I came across this post on gumtree saying this guy is able to help with urgent loan, no income proof, no minimum monthly income needed.

Here’s the real shit, he needed me to get a new mobile plan and in return, he’ll compensate me $800. This guy took the high end plan at StarHub because the handset was free, so he just had to pay $35 for the SIM card activation.

After promising me to compensate me at 11pm yesterday, he went missing. Blocked my numbers etc and I’m stuck with the $220 bill monthly which I’ve to cover for him.

If I were to terminate the plan, I have to pay a termination fee of $1200.

Anonymous

Editor’s note: the victim has made a police report already. She makes $1700 a month.

Source: www.transitioning.org

September 28, 2015