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  • Make Childcare Services Affordable

    Make Childcare Services Affordable

    Shin Min recently reported that a father of three, aged 8, 3 and 2, griped about a 20% increase in the monthly full-day childcare fees next year.

    With two younger children requiring full-day childcare services, it will cost Mr Wong, 40, who is working in the financial sector, more than $2,000 per month next year. He feels that it is financially unbearable.

    Currently, two of his children are under the care of KiddiWinkie childcare centre, at $840 per month each.

    Mr Wong told Shin Min that he was recently informed of the 20% increase in the monthly full-day childcare fees when he picked up his kids.

    From January 2015, he will have to fork out $2,016 per month for childcare expenses alone. This is a 20% increase over the current $1,680 he is paying for his 2 younger kids.

    “It’s unbearable!” Mr Wong cried out.

    Mr Wong said he considered switching to another childcare centre, but there were not many near his home and work place. Furthermore, the childcare centres that he had approached also planned to raise their fees.

    He opined that the cost of raising kids in Singapore has increased steeply. Lower income families may have higher subsidies, but the government should also pay attention to the sandwiched class like him who are in the middle income bracket.

    Eso Masood, Director of Policy and Corporate Development, Early Childhood Development Agency (ECDA), responded to Mr Wong’s story thus:

    Childcare fees are expected to be raised regularly by childcare centres. This is necessary for them to match the operational costs and to recruit and retain teachers to provide quality programs.

    Early Childhood Development Agency provides a standard guidelines for childcare fees to ensure that changes are made in a transparent manner. It has also mandated that all childcare centres need to inform parents three months in advance for any changes in fees.

    In addition, childcare centres are advised to explain the changes in fees to parents and to work together with those that have financial difficulties to resolve the matter.

    KiddiWinkie is part of the Nurture Education Group which runs a number of childcare centres. Nurture co-chief executive Matthias Koh in his response to media queries, confirmed that fees will be increased from January next year and parents have been notified by letters sent out in October 2014, in tune with ECDA’s guideline of informing parents 3 months in advance for fee changes.

    Mr Koh justified the increase by saying there had not been any fee adjustments for more than 2 years since March 2012, and the key factor this time is a 100% hike in rent. In fact, the fee of $1,008 per month per kid after the increase, is already a preferential rate for existing kids in the centre. New applicants will be charged $1,500 per month. Mr Koh claimed that compared with other childcare centres the fees charged by KiddiWinkie are in the lower range.

    Indeed, this is a reality check on the cost of living in Singapore especially for the sandwiched class of middle income Singaporeans.

     

    Source: www.tremeritus.com

  • 4 Ways Students React To Their Poor PSLE Results

    4 Ways Students React To Their Poor PSLE Results

    1) Shocked “AIYO”

    Aiyo! That Alvin never study get 3 As, I do 20 years worth of PSLE practice papers never even get 1 A…

    2) Facepalm

    Siao liao… Go back confirm kena from my father… I think I should just go apply to work at Macs sua…

    3) Cry Baby

    My results is like shit… How am I gonna go to same school with bae? OMG bae is gonna find a new girl who is smarter than me, prettier than me. NOOOOOOOOO….

    4) Screw This Shit

    Gather one group of friends who did like shit and burn the PSLE result slips together. BURN BITCH BURN!!!!!!!

     

    Source: http://beta.sgag.sg

  • Parents Should Often Listen and Communicate With Their Children

    ian Johari monteiro
    Ian Johari Monteiro

    My mind is buzzing at the moment … I just had a very heart-warming moment with one of my weaker lot of pupils. During his ceramics class, he’d asked me if he needed to glaze the side of the base of his soap dish and I said yes but just a touch for otherwise the glaze would melt and stick to the kiln shelf and would have to be smashed to be removed. Later on, the external instructor came up and said he needed to remove the glaze from the side of the base. He insisted that I had instructed him to do so indignantly. He threw his glaze brush in a tantrum and kept repeating that I had asked him to do so. Had I not stepped in, he would have probably proceeded to smash the bisque wares on the table.

    What happened next could only be done with the years of experience I have under my belt. Had I been 10 years younger, I would have flared up right back in his face.

    I took him out of the classroom and calmed him down and asked him to relate to me what would transpired. The only thing he could tell me was (with tears streaming down his face) “Why is it no teacher ever believes me? I know I’m from the last class! I know I’m stupid but when ever I try to explain myself, no one ever believes me! I’m always at fault! But I’m not always wrong, you know!”

    I could only feel one thing … that this was an emotion suppressed over a long time. He had been taking it and taking it and taking it and he finally snapped.

    I looked right at him and told him, “You’re NOT stupid and never let anyone tell you otherwise. Yes, you have difficulties with your studies but I know your past, I was your form teacher for 2 years, remember? I’ve been your Art teacher for 5 years now! You told me nobody cares about your studies at home and you never get any kind of help with your work.

    You just had a bad start but that doesn’t always mean you have to finish last!

    Look at me. I teach Art, only Art. Other teachers look at me like I’m some kind of joke, a waste of breathable air in school. They forget that I have been a Form Teacher for 12 years before this. They think I’m stupid too, that’s why I don’t teach any major subjects.”

    He blurted, “But you’re very good at what you do! You’re talented!”

    “And so are you! You just haven’t found your passion yet … Art and teaching children have always been mine. I’m lucky.” I added.

    What happened next was totally unexpected. He threw himself against me and hugged me tight, sobbing into my dirty apron. “Sir, you’re one of the few teachers who ever listens to me before answering. You’re not a joke, you’re very talented. I always try to do my best in your class. I’m not the best artist but you’ve never put me down about my work. I wish more adults were like you …”

    I patted his shoulder, took a step back and looked him right in the face. “Sometimes, being an adult can also be very difficult. Promise me whatever difficulty you face in life, it will never make you a bad person but a better person. Now, enough already. Wash your face, freshen up and apologize to the instructor because firstly, she didn’t know of my instructions to you. Secondly, she’s not from the school and doesn’t know you very well and thirdly, be big enough to know that she is an adult and deserves your respect just as one day, you will deserve it from someone as well.” I stood there as everything I had asked him to do was carried out with a smile.

    A few things ran through my head at that moment.

    How many times have we, as adults, lost our temper because we had a bad day, at someone younger or even a child? Do we know what a child in Singapore has to go through these days? How many times have be brushed off a child JUST because he is a child? Have we ever listened to a child’s side of the story? Or do we immediately assume that a child is not capable of being honest or giving a true account of things? How many adults do we know of who would NOT embellish the truth to protect their own skin?

    I’m just glad one child now know someone who will listen to him if he needs someone to do so.

    Authored by Ian Johari Monteiro

     

    EDITOR’S NOTE

    This is such a moving story that we just have to share it. Kudos to Ian Johari Monteiro for writing this beautiful piece.

    Parents should often listen to their child, pay attention to every detail, and offer your support, instead of screaming because not every child has the tendency to deal with yelling. The more you listen to your child, you will help your child to established a sense of connections with you, they will feel comfortable to express their feelings to you at anytime with no hesitation. Not saying it’s an easy process but it can be done if you only take a minute to just listen and you’ll be amaze to see how soon this child will start to have a closer relationship with you as a parent. 

    To those parents who are obsessed with success, here’s something you should think about from today onwards. Success can never be thought of as more important than moral values. The journey is actually more important than the destination and if no ethics were involved in the journey then the destination has no value at all. A person has to feel good about how they achieved their success in order to feel good about it.