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  • Denying Husbands Sex Is Abuse: Malaysian MP

    Denying Husbands Sex Is Abuse: Malaysian MP

    A Malaysian lawmaker came under fire on Wednesday (Jul 26) for saying that women who deny their husbands sex were subjecting them to “psychological and emotional abuse”.

    Che Mohamad Zulkifly Jusoh, an MP from the ruling coalition, said during a parliamentary debate on domestic violence that husbands often suffer emotional attacks rather than physical abuse.

    “Even though men are said to be physically stronger than women, there are cases where wives hurt or abuse their husbands in an extreme manner,” said the lawmaker, an UMNO member.

    “Usually, it involves wives cursing their husbands – this is emotional abuse. They insult their husbands and refuse his sexual needs. All these are types of psychological and emotional abuse.”

    Marina Mahathir, a prominent women’s rights activist and daughter of former Prime Minister Mahathir Mohamed, said the lawmaker’s view was “based on ignorance”.

    “Women have a right to say no to sex – this is an old notion that when you marry a women you own her body,” she told AFP. “It does not work that way. It is ridiculous to say men are abused if women say no to sex.”

    The 58-year-old lawmaker, from the state of Terengganu also said that denying a Muslim man the chance to marry a second wife amounted to abuse.

    It is legal for Muslim men in Malaysia to have as many as four wives. But they must obtain permission from a shariah court to marry more than one.

    The MP made the comments on Tuesday during a debate on amendments to domestic violence legislation.

     

    Source:http://www.channelnewsasia.com

  • Don’t Misuse Prophet Muhammad’s Name To Justify Rape And Marriage, Ex-mufti Says

    Don’t Misuse Prophet Muhammad’s Name To Justify Rape And Marriage, Ex-mufti Says

    Islam does not suggest that it is OK to have sex and then marry minors, the former mufti of Terengganu said today.

    At a public forum on child marriages here, Datuk Ismail Yahya chided Muslims who have been misusing the name of their last prophet, Muhammad, to justify their lust and as a form of “escapism”.

    “That is not right. The religion does not suggest that,” said Ismail who is also a former Terengganu Shariah court judge.

    He noted there were Muslims who had cited Prophet Muhammad’s marriage to Aisha, often portrayed as a nine-year old girl in the Quran, but said there have been many Islamic scholars who have questioned the calculation of her age.

    He then said there were other considerations for a Shariah judge before approving marriage applications to minors.

    “To me, how far the marriage can make the child happy is subjective. It’s to do with how she is treated and nafkah,” he said, using an Arabic word meaning subsistence for living.

    “But, just because he has raped the girl, that is not a reason for a Shariah Court judge to approve the marriage application,” he added.

    Ismail warned those seeking to legitimise statutory rape and marriage with their victims behind the cloak of religion that Islam had dire penalties for rapists.

    “For men like these, according to Islamic laws, it is the death penalty. Death by stoning. Not marriage.

    “So if we want to apply the law, we apply it together and not in parts,” he said.

    Also at the same forum was Parti Pribumi Bersatu Malaysia (PPBM) Youth leader Syed Saddiq Syed Abdul Rahman who said he shared the same view.

    “To the majority of Malay Muslims out there, you are not Prophet Muhammad. Stop pretending you are Prophet Muhammad,” the former national debater said to applause from the audience.

    Syed Saddiq urged religious leaders and those who propagate the idea of a moderate Islam to speak out against child marriages.

    “As of now, there is no legitimate religious voice to speak up against child marriages,” he said, claiming this to be the reason why many Muslims were afraid to voice their opinions.

    Both Ismail and Syed Saddiq were speaking at the forum titled “Child marriage: Setting our children up to fail”.

    The subject had sparked a national uproar last month after the Umno MP for Tasek Gelugor Datuk Shabudin Yahaya suggested in Parliament that marriage might be a solution for statutory rape.

     

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    Source: https://sg.news.yahoo.com