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  • Walid J. Abdullah: Racism Is No Laughing Matter

    Walid J. Abdullah: Racism Is No Laughing Matter

    A lot of us like to share feel-good stories about seeming cooperation and tolerance, or acts of goodwill, involving people from various races. Of course, there is nothing wrong with that. In fact, it can be an extremely positive thing: if we are too mired in negativity , we may forget that there are genuinely nice and kind human beings all around us, and that we experience these acts on a regular basis.

    At the same time, some of those who wish to believe that their societies are harmonious and tolerant find it difficult to accept that racism does indeed exist, or even, that they themselves are racists. Too many times I have seen people justifying their palpably chauvinistic stances via what they think is “reasoned” argumentation.

    “Calling an Indian apuneneh is not racist, it is just a term of endearment.”

    “Saying ‘keling’ is not wrong, it has historical roots.”

    “It was just a joke, don’t be so sensitive.”

    “How is saying that Malays make good barbers and security guards racist; I joke like that with my Malay friends all the time.”

    “Believing that Malays are lazy is not necessarily racist; that is just stating a fact.”

    Next time, I hear some smart alec making a racist comment, I may just be tempted to slap the person and then say:

    ‘Don’t be so sensitive, i am just playing.’
    ‘This is my way of showing endearment to you.’
    ‘I do this to my friends all the time!’

    Racism will continue to exist, as long as we allow it to, and as long as it remains unchallenged. Whether mainfested in ‘jokes’, words or actions.

     

    Source: Walid J. Abdullah

  • Pushy Parents Could Lead To Children With Depression Or Anxiety: NUS Study

    Pushy Parents Could Lead To Children With Depression Or Anxiety: NUS Study

    Push your child too hard and he or she could suffer from depression or anxiety, and may even lead to suicide.

    This was the finding of a five-year study on primary school children in Singapore by researches from the National University of Singapore (NUS). It involved 7-year-olds from 10 schools and the parent that was more familiar with the child. The study found that children with intrusive parents had a higher tendency to be overly critical of themselves, which got worse over the years.

    The children who demonstrated high or increased levels of self-criticalness also reported having elevated depression or anxiety symptoms.

    Assistant Professor Ryan Hong, who led the study which was conducted by a team of researchers from the Department of Psychology at the NUS Faculty of Arts and Social Sciences, said: “When parents become intrusive in their children’s lives, it may signal to the children that what they do is never good enough. As a result, the child may become afraid of making the slightest mistake and will blame himself or herself for not being ‘perfect’.”

    Asst Prof Hong added that over time, such behaviour, known as maladaptive perfectionism – commonly known as the ‘bad’ form of perfectionism – develops and may be detrimental to the child’s well-being as it increases the risk of the child developing symptoms of depression, anxiety and even suicide in very serious cases.

    In the first year of the study, Asst Prof Hong and his team assessed parental intrusiveness using a puzzle played by the child, then 7, with the parent accompanying the child. The puzzle had a time limit, and the parent was told that he or she could help the child whenever necessary.

    An example of a highly intrusive parental behaviour would be when the parent took over the game to retract a move made by the child. The purpose of this task was to observe whether the parent interfered with the child’s problem-solving attempts, regardless of the child’s actual needs.

    Subsequent assessments on the children were carried out at ages eight, nine and 11.

    Of the 263 parent-child pairs studied from 2010 to 2014, 60 per cent of the children were classified as high and/or increasing in self-criticalness, while 78 per cent of them demonstrated socially prescribed perfectionism – characterised by the perception of others having unrealistic high expectations of oneself.

    59 per cent of the children demonstrated both self-criticalness and socially prescribed perfectionism.

    “Our findings indicate that in a society that emphasises academic excellence, which is the situation in Singapore, parents may set unrealistically high expectations on their children. As a result, a sizable segment of children may become fearful of making mistakes,” Asst Prof Hong said.

    “Also, because they are supposed to be ‘perfect’, they can become disinclined to admit failures and inadequacies and seek help when needed, further exacerbating their risk for emotional problems,” he added.

    The findings of study were published online in the Journal of Personality in March 2016. This study is funded by the Singapore Children’s Society, as well as the Social and Family Research Fund awarded by the Ministry of Social and Family Development.

     

    Source: TODAY Online

  • NSmen To Get $150,000 Life And Personal Insurance Coverage From Mindef, MHA

    NSmen To Get $150,000 Life And Personal Insurance Coverage From Mindef, MHA

    Both full-time and operationally ready national servicemen will be provided life and personal insurance coverage by the Ministry of Defence (Mindef) and Ministry of Home Affairs (MHA).

    This applies to servicemen in the Singapore Armed Forces (SAF), Singapore Police Force (SPF) and Singapore Civil Defence Force and it will take effect on July 1. It was one of the recommendations by the Committee to Strengthen National Service to better recognise the contributions of national servicemen.

    Mindef and MHA will provide $150,000 group term life and $150,000 group personal accident insurance coverage during the servicemen’s full-time national service or reservist duties. The appointed insurance company for this scheme is Aviva Ltd.

    The same insurance coverage will also be extended to regulars in Mindef/SAF and the Home Team (Uniformed Officer) during their period of employment. National Service (NS) volunteers from the SAF Volunteer Corps, SPF Voluntary Special Constabulary and Civil Defence Auxiliary Unit will also be granted the same insurance coverage during their official duties.

    National servicemen, regulars and NS volunteers who want to further insure themselves outside these periods, or insure their dependants, can purchase additional coverage. This scheme will be available on July 1 for MHA personnel and Oct 1 for Mindef personnel.

    “The provision of this group term life and group personal accident insurance, which is on top of our current welfare and compensation frameworks, is our way to thank (our national servicemen) for their contributions to national defence,” said Mindef’s director for National Service Affairs Colonel (NS) Simon Lim.

    MHA director of NS Affairs Directorate Colonel (Ret) Rupert Gwee said: “This group insurance is one of the many ways in which we look after the well-being of our officers, whether they are regulars, national servicemen or volunteers, as they go about their duties to keep Singapore safe and secure.”

     

    Source: The Straits Times

  • Elfaeza Ulhaq: Kurang Tawaran Berlakon Selepas Berhijab, Kini Luangkan Masa Kepada Kerja Amal

    Elfaeza Ulhaq: Kurang Tawaran Berlakon Selepas Berhijab, Kini Luangkan Masa Kepada Kerja Amal

    PETALING JAYA: Pelakon Singapura Elfaeza Ulhaq mengakui sejak berimej muslimah pada Januari lalu beliau berhadapan dengan ujian apabila sering ditawarkan pelbagai watak yang memerlukannya membuka hijab.

    Menurut mStar Online, Elfaeza yang berusia 31 tahun sering ditawarkan pelbagai watak yang memerlukan beliau membuka hijab tetapi beliau reda dan menolak dengan baik walaupun pendapatan beliau dalam bidang lakonan semakin berkurangan.

    “Saya akui saya kurang muncul di televisyen sejak bertudung kerana tawaran semakin berkurangan. Ada yang buat tawaran tetapi kebanyakan untuk drama berbahasa Inggeris yang memerlukan saya membuka hijab.

    “Ia satu dugaan dan ujian buat saya di saat saya tiada pekerjaan. Saya terpaksa tolak tawaran yang perlukan saya buka tudung. Saya reda dan anggapnya satu ujian Allah kepada saya,” ujar beliau kepada mStar Online.

    mStar Online juga melaporkan Elfaezah kini sibuk sepanjang Ramadan melakukan kerja amal seperti mencuci permaidani surau-surau di sekitar Kuala Lumpur dan Selangor.

    Beliau melakukan kerja amal itu bersama beberapa rakan bagi menjaga kebersihan dan keselesaan surau untuk beribadah.

    “Apabila surau bersih, orang akan selesa untuk sembahyang dan buat kegiatan di surau, namun kami juga memerlukan dana untuk melakukan aktiviti tersebut bagi yang bermurah hati untuk menderma,” kata beliau lagi.

    Source: http://berita.mediacorp.sg

  • Saving For Retirement

    Saving For Retirement

    Most Singaporeans hope to live comfortably after retiring, seeing friends and doing activities they enjoy. For many, however, that hope can be shattered by financial concerns.

    More than half of residents here feel their financial preparations for a comfortable retirement are inadequate, according to the latest HSBC Future of Retirement Survey, with many saying they haven’t saved enough or have too much debt. The Blackrock Investor Pulse similarly found that 72 per cent of Singaporeans are concerned about not being able to retire comfortably, while research by NTUC Income showed that 33 per cent of non-retirees haven’t even started planning for retirement.

    Yet life doesn’t need to be this bleak. By taking small steps today, you can start on your way towards saving enough to retire comfortably.

    HOW MUCH YOU NEED

    The first step is to figure out how much you actually need. As national financial education program MoneySense puts it, “first things first – identify your retirement needs and goals so you know what you are planning for.” A good way to do this is to visualise your retirement and ask yourself what you want to do when you retire.

    Once you know your goals, you can use simple estimates or more sophisticated financial calculators to determine how much you need. Many experts estimate that retirees will need 60-to-70 per cent of their pre-retirement income to live comfortably. For example, a person with the average household income here of $2,500 per month would need $1,500-$1,750 per month.

    Financial calculators can help you determine even more precise amounts. A calculator from insurance company Aviva estimates that a 50-year-old who plans to live a simple lifestyle after retiring at age 65 would need to save about $499,000 so that they have $2,775 per month, for example, while a 25-year-old would need to save about $977,000 because inflation will result in their needing $5,482 per month. The calculator asks about the lifestyle you prefer and then gives details about how much you’ll need for food, transport, clothing and other expenses.

    While these amounts might seem daunting, investment management company Vanguard says that “getting to a million might not be that hard if you know the secret: time. If you give your savings enough time to grow, you’ll only need relatively small investments of money to wind up with a pretty big balance.” Vanguard calculated that you can have $1 million by age 65 if you save $4,500 each year starting at age 20. You’ll need to save $9,000 per year if you start at age 30, though, and a hefty $18,000 per year if you start at age 40.

    START SAVING

    The key to a comfortable retirement, then, is to start saving early. Yet saving is often much easier said than done.

    The NTUC Income survey also showed that although two-thirds of non-retirees between 25 and 59 years old have started financial planning for retirement, prioritising saving amongst the young is impeded by short and mid-term financial commitments as well as a lack of knowledge. Tips from experts can overcome the inertia.

    Vanguard, for example, suggests setting up automatic transfers from your salary or bank account every month to ensure that you save consistently, and then looking at your account only once or twice a year to make sure you are sufficiently diversified.

    NTUC Income suggests avoiding debt, saying that “debts are one of the biggest threats to your retirement plan. The more you spend on repaying your debts, the less you have to save up for retirement.”

    INVEST YOUR MONEY


    Making the most of your money is important too. If you save $500 per month starting at age 25, for example, you would have about $295,000 by the time you’re 65 if you earn 1 per cent per year on your money or about $766,000 if you earn 5 per cent per year.

    Rather than just putting money into a time deposit that may earn less than 1 per cent, then, DBS Bank suggests that a wiser way of investing is to divide your money among a variety of safe and risky assets. “Safer assets (like our CPF and bonds) can help to offset losses from the riskier assets like stocks.” Putting at least part of your retirement funds into higher-yielding investments can indeed help you earn higher returns and have enough money for retirement.

    Investment management firm Blackrock similarly suggests considering different fund products to diversify your assets. “Singaporeans demonstrate a preference for purchasing equities and bonds directly but could be missing out opportunities to easily achieve a diverse portfolio through exchange-traded funds (ETFs) and mutual funds.”

    An easy way to invest is to put a fixed amount each month into several ETFs, such as the ABF Singapore Bond Index Fund or the Nikko AM Singapore STI ETF, which you can easily do through banks or brokerage firms here.

    By starting to save early and consistently investing some of your funds in assets with higher returns, you can overcome the concerns about not having enough and start on your way to a retirement you’ll truly enjoy.

     

    Source: TODAY Online

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