Category: Agama

  • Wearwhite: We Support The Expression Of Concern By Roman Catholic Archbishop William Goh Over The Upcoming Concert By Madonna

    Wearwhite: We Support The Expression Of Concern By Roman Catholic Archbishop William Goh Over The Upcoming Concert By Madonna

    All religions taught us to have a higher and deeper sense and taste of aesthetics and arts. To entertain with lust and immorality is easy, cheap & hollow.

    Wearwhite supports the statement of archbishop William Goh.

    Let us return to Fitrah.

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    Archbisop William Goh’s statement is available at https://sg.news.yahoo.com/singapore-archbishop-warns-flock-against-madonna-concert-063258861.html

    Singapore’s Roman Catholic archbishop has expressed concern at an upcoming concert by pop diva Madonna in the city-state and warned his flock against supporting those who “denigrate and insult religions”.

    Archbishop William Goh said in a statement posted on the diocese website on Saturday that he had met various government officials to express the church’s concerns about the February 28 concert, part of her global Rebel Heart Tour.

    The concert, at the 55,000-seat National Stadium, will be Madonna’s first-ever in largely conservative Singapore.

    She was barred from performing in Singapore in 1993 after police said her performances bordered on the obscene and were “objectionable to many on moral and religious grounds”.

    Goh said that in a multi-ethnic society like Singapore “we cannot afford to be overly permissive in favour of artistic expression at the expense of respect for one’s religion”.

    Authorities have assured the archbishop that restrictions have been placed to ensure that content deemed offensive to religious beliefs would not be allowed on stage, the church statement said.

    The Media Development Authority has restricted the concert to those aged 18 and above because of sexual references.

    Local media reports said Madonna would not be performing a controversial tour segment called Holy Water, which includes dancers dressed as scantily-clad nuns performing on cross-shaped stripper poles.

    The church statement said many Roman Catholics have voiced outrage at Madonna’s “disrespectful use of Catholic and other Christian symbols” in her performances.

    “There is no neutrality in faith; one is either for or against. Being present (at these events) in is itself a counter-witness,” the archbishop said.

    He warned his flock against supporting “the ‘pseudo arts’ that promote sensuality, rebellion, disrespect, pornography (and) contamination of the mind of the young”.

    Some Catholics said they supported the archbishop’s decision and would not attend the concert.

    Student Kevin Koh, 24, said he would not go but would not pass judgement on fellow Catholics who attend.

    “Singapore as a society has to start being open to these things because we can no longer live in our own shells,” he told AFP.

    Some online comments were critical, with one commentator saying the faithful should be allowed to make their own decisions.

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    Source: Wearwhite

  • Modern Montessori Preschool Disallows Hijab Wear With Ludicrous Claims Of Fearful Parents

    Modern Montessori Preschool Disallows Hijab Wear With Ludicrous Claims Of Fearful Parents

    I was discriminated because I was wearing a hijab, I like to share my unfortunate experience with you. I went for an interview today at one of the modern montessori preschool in Kovan and my interview went well until my interviewer Mdm Sheela, Director of MMI told me….

    Interviewer: Since you are wearing the hijab if you start working here you have to wear a bandanna to cover your just your hair.

    Me: what is the reason for this policy in your company?

    Interviewer: Because we have many incidents where Chinese parents are afraid to handover their kids to a staff who is wearing hijab. kids get scared too.

    This is the most ridiculous reason I have ever heard for not allowing hijab in workplace.

    Called ministry of manpower they refer to MUIS.

    Called MUIS, they refer somewhere else.

    MOM PUT ON HOLD……..

    MUIS PUT ON HOLD………….

    THIRD TRANSFER ——- SORRY OFFICE HOURS ARE CLOSED…

    CLAP CLAP WOW SINGAPORE SO MULTIRACIAL!

    Source: Sharifah Begum


  • What PAP Really Wants Is Assimilation, Not Multicultaralism

    What PAP Really Wants Is Assimilation, Not Multicultaralism

    The ban on hijab is part of the PAP’s attempt to remove Islamic identity among Malays in preference of a Chinese cultural hegemony.

    The last few weeks, the Muslim community has once again, been treated poorly by the PAP Ministers.

    K Shanmugam Sc] accused the community of being distant (even though the Malays are the most open and accommodating community in Singapura).

    Then Masagos Zulkili justified the ban on hijab and likened the ban to the law against gay sex.

    As stated in the other post, Assoc Prof Lily Zubaidah Rahim argued the hijab ban is due to a Secular Fundamentalist PAP government trying to control Islam.

    But why does the PAP, a party that claims to promote multiracalism…

    ban an Islamic obligation in the name of harmony?

    The answer is that what the PAP want is not multiracialism but assimilation.

    For a community to be assimilated into another, they need to change their values, behaviour, beliefs and anything that makes them different.

    And become the same as the community they assimilate with.

    Barr and Low observed:

    “the Singapore systems of meritocracy and multiracialism are no longer concerned primarily with intercommunal tolerance…

    but are aggressive programmes of assimilation of the racial minorities into a Chinese dominated society.”

    “Chinese values—or at least the government’s narrow, sectarian version of Chinese values—were promoted to the whole population…”

    “Where does that leave the minority races?… [To] prosper in this society, they need to internalise ‘Chinese virtues’ and become ‘like the Chinese’ in subtle but important ways.

    In short, they are expected to submit to a form of partial or incomplete assimilation into a Chinese generated, Chinese-dominated society.”

    The authors further argued that “the onus was thus placed on the Malay community to assimilate into the predominately Chinese Singapore, or risk continued marginalisation and discrimination.”

    While LKY’s and the PAP’s desire to privilege their race is understandable even though it is racist…

    Barr and Low assert that the Malay MP’s major function is to facilitate the Malay community’s assimilation into the Chinese community.

    They noted “the overwhelming evidence is that the public leadership of the Malay community across the board are keen to help their constituency to assimilate, since this seems to be the path to prosperity and peaceful coexistence.

    The PAP Malay MPs are obviously enthusiastic assimilationists, since this is a large measure of their raison d’etre…

    Indeed, this need to assimilate into the rest of society in the public sphere is recognised by Syed Haroon Aljunied, Secretary-General of MUIS.

    When asked if he thought ‘assimilation’ was necessary for the Malays to gain a higher representation in the civil service,

    he replied ‘Yeah that’s right. Then they don’t see any difference.”

    Reference:

    Barr, M. D., & Low, J. (2005). Assimilation as multiracialism: The case of Singapore’s Malays. Asian Ethnicity, 6(3), 161-182.

     

    Source: Almakhazin SG

  • Government’s stand on Tudung is untenable in this day and age

    Government’s stand on Tudung is untenable in this day and age

    Since my post rebutting the position of Minister Masagos Zulkifli on the Tudung issue, I have received much support from members of the public, majority of who are Muslims, indicative of the frustration within the community towards the continued disregard of the feelings of the community on the Muslim women being discriminated against. The Muslim community has for many years patiently expressed our collective disapproval of the discriminatory policies within the channels possible in the community as well as via national platforms whenever there was a chance to do so. Each time, the community is left disappointed by the government’s response.

    I have personally engaged on the issue even before I decided to join politics by directly being involved with individual efforts within the nursing professions as well as with undergraduate nursing students. These individuals suffered direct discrimination for not being allowed to don the Tudung as a Professional nurse or during practical exams in their Professional Nursing undergraduate program. They have resorted to communicate to the Institutions within the Nursing profession on the matter. These Institutions share the views of the Muslim women nurses on the fact that there is no Professional basis to disallow the Muslim nurses who wishes to put on the Tudung and that the policy that forbid the Muslim women should not continue as it is discriminatory. However their hands are tight to undo the policy.

    The government on the other hand has kept repeating the same mantra to justify prolonging the discriminatory policy. It uses the excuse of potential social agitation among races and communities should they change the policy. Each time they only offer anecdotal evidence that highlights the so-called social ramification that worries them. However, this reliance on social scenarios is not in anyway backed by analysis and studies, which interestingly are available on such, related intra-community relations and whose findings points otherwise. (I have referred to 2 such studies done in my earlier posting on the issue) In fact the corresponding implication should the government reason be true means there is a serious problem with the majority community for still maintaining an intolerant, biased and almost negative perception towards other minority communities. Thus a glaring failure of so-called community trust-building initiatives, which wrongly focused on the minority rather than the majority.

    Prior to the views of the Minister, which has angered the Muslim community, 3 other Muslim PAP MPs mentioned in their speeches in parliament directly or indirectly echoing the sentiments of the Muslim community on the Tudung issue. Those speeches by the 3 MPs were very much welcomed by the community and were in fact offering much hope that a policy shift seems to be on the card. However sadly, the recent statement made by the Minister directly addressing the community via national TV on the matter was a cruel denial of the desire of the community to see the overdue changes take place. What is most frustrating for the community is the clear reference to non-professional related reasons to justify the policy continuation. Thus it therefore becomes incumbent upon us to scrutinize the validity of the secondary reasons forwarded by the Minister as justification for the government’s position.

    The Minister mentioned too the need to ensure that the demands of the Malay/Muslim community on the Tudung be equitably responded in relation to “similar” demands by other communities. In particular he mentioned the LGBT group’s call to repeal the 377A penal code that criminalizes gay sex. Let us look at how accurate it is for the Minister to compare the 2 issues and call for the entire Malay/Muslim community to accept the tradeoff that he implied are a fair and equitable deal.

    The Malay/Muslim community call for lifting the Tudung ban on the nursing profession is primarily based on the lack of evidence to support its continuation from a Professional point of view. As mentioned earlier, the Professional nursing body as well as the Medical institutions found no legitimate grounds to justify any ban for nurses to put on the Tudung and perform their nursing role professionally. There are in fact many examples of other majority non-Muslim secular countries in the world that have already allowed Muslim nurses who desire to put on the Tudung to do so. This is simply done by making modification to the uniform of the nurses in hospital to have versions that suited the dressing requirements of Muslim women who wants to put on the Tudung.

    The other arguments that the Muslim community put forth to challenge the government is that contrary to what they claim, a women nurse wearing a Tudung and doing her professional role as a nurse in public or private hospital are not seen as undesirable by the majority that may require their nursing services in anyway. While no known surveys were done specifically to enquire about this so-called unhappiness by the majority who happened to encounter a women nurse in Tudung, it would suffice to draw some ideas about the most likely outcome of such a survey, by opening our eyes to observe what kind of social attitudes do the majority of people, especially non-Muslim have towards other Muslim women in Tudung that are currently employed in Medical facilities such as Nursing attendants and Doctors. To date, we are unaware of any untoward incidences or complaints made on any such Muslim women in Medical facilities already allowed to wear the Tudung, especially those that are professionally related.

    Thus based on the 2 reasons forwarded above, one on Professional grounds and the other on social grounds, the government’s position is untenable. Then we have the curious reason of the wider implication on harmony should the government be seen to be uneven-handed towards specifically the LGBT community if they agree to submit to the demands of the Muslim community by allowing the Muslim women to wear Tudung as nurses. Lets us analyze this strange logic. To impose an equitable clause would require the comparison to be of equal merit, which in the case of the Tudung and the LGBT are a real stretch.

    The Tudung ban for nursing are professionally and socially unjustified as they are, on both grounds invalid arguments as explained and evidenced clearly above. The demand by the Muslim community for a policy change on the Tudung ban for the nursing profession stands on its own merit. For the case of the LBGT, on both medical and social grounds there are reasons to keep the law even though the law essentially is irrelevant as gay sex can easily take place in the privacy of hotels and homes and it is only a criminal offense when it is reported which seems most unlikely as they would have mostly been done in private by consenting adults. The only likelihood of any possible penal case would be if a public arrest was made for such an act in public and that criminal offense applies to both gay and straight sex. Thus to compare the Tudung case to the LGBT case clearly shows that they are not similar. Before the LGBT group protest, let me state clearly that the above explanation in no way intended to disrespect the LGBT group, the example is used only because it was raised as a comparison by the learned Minister.

    Putting the 2 issues by the Minister as comparable cases worthy of tradeoff is clearly a bad call. A like and like analysis above goes to show how unlike and unlike the 2 issues are. Inevitably we have to wonder what other hidden reasons there is, which makes the government so reluctant to change and remain intransigent on the Tudung issue.

    For the Malay/Muslim community, this continued refusal to explain clearly and honestly inevitably could only imply that the government itself do not wish to allow Tudung to be worn by nurses or any other uniformed services for reasons that it continues to hide behind the notion of sensitivity. This prolonged silence and elusiveness are unhealthy as it only invites speculations on the part of the Malay/Muslim community as well as other communities as to what could be the probable reason. Worst of all it conveys a subtle but demeaning message of arrogance and distrust on the part of the government in dealing with a minority community. Above all, the continuation of this ban for Tudung on the nursing profession is ultimately discriminatory towards Muslim women and the Muslim community as a whole.

    The above suffice for now as additions to my earlier post in response to the Minister. I offer more clarity to my initial posting in order to avoid any potential misunderstanding from anyone who may instead of dealing with my arguments, once again chooses to adopt the conventional ‘we know better coz we are the government’ approach which is not in the spirit of openness that our President and the Prime Minister have clearly highlighted as their preferred ways for this newly elected government during their recent speeches in Parliament. Majulah Singapura!!!

    Source: Damanhuri Abas

  • Disapproving Family And Distance Could Not Stop This Malay Abang And Chinese Gf From Getting Married

    Disapproving Family And Distance Could Not Stop This Malay Abang And Chinese Gf From Getting Married

    Nizam encountered a lot of difficulties while dating his Chinese partner, Margaret. From her parents disapproving their relationship to Margaret being sent overseas, the couple have gone through multiple ups and downs together but are now married and have a 5-year-old daughter.

    This is his entry for the contest:

    “My name is Nizam and I’m 26 years old this year and I’m married to a Chinese girl, her name is Margaret Soh, she is 23 this year.

    “We have a daughter name Nurshiyumie and it sounds like Japanese name.

    “So our love story started in 2008. When I knew this girl (my wife) I was only 18 years old. She was chubby, innocent and full of fun. She always smiles.

    “We dated for couple of months. We were so happy. I never felt so much happiness before I knew this girl.

    “Her laughter brings hope in my life. But the good times did not last and we got a serious dose of parental disapproval and judgmental side-eyes from our relatives.

    “When her parents got to know that she was dating me, a Malay guy that had nothing, they sent her overseas to avoid me seeing her.

    “My heart broke into pieces. I called her every night when she was overseas to hear her voice.

    “I couldn’t eat and I couldn’t sleep. It was like the world was ending.

    “She tried to escape from there and wanted to come back here, but she failed.

    “Her relative kept away her passport and she actually tried to commit suicide.

    “My mind went blank, my heart was aching, it felt like millions of needle poking through my heart, I felt like dying.

    “After a month of being separated, she finally came back to Singapore.

    “She ran away from her family. She called me immediately and I told her to come to my office.

    “I was so happy. No words could describe how happy I was.

    “When I saw she came out from a car, we ran to each other and I gave her a tight hug.

    “Later as we predicted she was reported missing.

    “Eight months of wanted life. Nothing can describe how grateful I am to have a girlfriend like her staying by my side when I really had nothing.

    “She cried awake every night, having nightmares and was traumatized.

    “I didn’t know what to do. What I thought of is to have a family with her, to take care her for life.

    “Since her parents couldn’t do anything, I held her tight, held her and I made a vow to make her my wife and take care of her until the day I was gone.

    “We planned to have a kid. I ask her ‘Will you marry me and have a kid with me?’

    “She cried and held me tight. She was willing to marry me, give me her future and trust me.

    “Time flies and she finally got pregnant. We were so happy and excited.

    “We went back to look for our families. She converted to Islam.

    “Her willingness made the decision to convert to Islam easier, it’s not about race. It’s about initiative and finally we were married, she put her trust all on me.

    “She moved to my parents place. We had to sleep on the floor in the living room where there is no more room for us.

    “All was occupied by my sibling. But she did not even complain with her pregnant stomach.

    “Because she knew she chose this path with me.

    “Until she given birth to our previous baby girl, she was natural birth.

    “Looking at her enduring the pain alone, the pain, the look on her face and she sleeps on the floor when she need to stand up to go toilet.

    “Sometimes I even saw she cry in the middle of the night. I try my best take care my little sweetheart when she was about few months old.

    “I try my best to balance out NS and home. No family support.

    “Sometimes, we even have to share one packet of rice together.

    “At this point of time, I cannot afford luxury for her. But finally she achieved her dream as a makeup artist.

    “Things went smoothly, finally my baby girl is 5-years-old this year.

    “I have taken a course and work at a better benefit company.

    “I tell myself I am so happy and lucky to have this girl as my wife.

    “I want to give her everything, no matter what it takes, I will give her all that I can.

    “She deserves all the love from me, my daughter and my wife. No one can replace them.

    “We have gone through ups and downs. We love, we cry, we fight.

    “Now we celebrate Chinese New Year and Hari Raya together.

    “Our daughter look so cute wearing baju kurung and Chinese qi pao.

    “Just to share with you, love does not only mean the race or religion.

    “Don’t be judgmental toward inter racial love, its about compromising. We need to understand that true love takes time and effort to dismiss all obstacles among us. Race is just a race. Religion is religion.

    “All that matters is that those involved are willing to make the sacrifices necessary to be together.

    “Compromise each other. Time flies and we both know that we want to spend the rest of our lives together.

    “I love you my wife and I will take care of you and your family forever.

    “I don’t encourage people to follow us, but I hope in this world there will be more true love relationships, inter racial love because only love can hurt like this.”

     

    Source: http://singaporeseen.stomp.com.sg

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