Melayu yang susah tapi anak ramai are usually from the alim tak alim type. It is also the same group that perpetuate that handout mentality.
Beranak more than they can afford (besarkan anak bukan setakat bela bagi makan minum, there are college and uni fees to consider which most Malays dont) then expect the government to tanggung all their offsprings studies.
Menyusahkan orang.
Have what you can afford and not beyond that.
Plan and think long term.
Kalau asyik pikir berapa ramai nak baca doa depan kubur kitalah mentaliti bangang yang memperabihkan khazanah negara untuk nak dibela.
Masih dlm syawal masih lagi kita beraya. Selain majlis raya sana sini masih terdapat juga kunjung mengunjung yg tak habis2.
Terdongar rintihan sorang kawan kerana beberapa anggota keluarga dan juga kekawan yg dah janji nak dtg beraya, tetiba las menet tak jadi datang. Ambo pon turut merasa bingit.
Ya tak ya, boleh ambo tanyo sikit, pat mano letak palo hotak korang ni?? Bukan nya org tu yg panggil korang datang rumah dia. Tapi korang yg kasi tau yg korang nak dtg beraya. Doh tu tuan rumah tentunya berusaha susah payah menyiapkan juadah2 lauk pauk untuk korang2 mentakedaghah lah kan. Kalau satu dua org tak pe lah, tapi bayangkan lah yg kata nak datang tu mungkin berbelas org jumlahnya, lalu disiapkan lah makanan untuk sebanyak itu.
Ehhh aleh2 tiba harinya, mcm tak bersalah lah pulak telepon org tu korang kasi tau tak jadi datang lah, ada hal lah, tak sempat lah, itu lah ini lah, kepala hotak ko LAH!!
Ok mungkin ada yg marah ambo ckp cenggini, teruskan baco lah.
Kalau tak boleh datang akibat dari perkara2 yg betul2 tak dapat elak tu, ok tuan rumah pasti akan mengerti, contoh: kemalangan ke, kematian ke, masuk spital ke, dan alasan2 yg sekontener dgn nya.
TAPI ko kasi alasan apa pon, lopas tu jgn lah apdet satus pat pesbuk ko beraya rumah lain pulok. Pos gambor tulis kepsyen “Best ah filem tadi, worth the ticket price”, Ada yg aplod gambor “enjoying our deghian Kong D24 at lor 24 geylang” huakakakakaka
So tell me, give me one good reason not to call you Stupid Dumb Ass!!!
Moral op der setori :- kalau tak mau ini terjadi pd diri sendiri, jangan lakukan pd orang lain.
p.s. Kesian kak jey, terpaksalah makan lauk sama tiap hari 3-4 hari ni kankankan.
Her own experience gave her the drive to help others.
In 2003, Madam Faraliza Zainal’s firstborn was diagnosed with Asperger syndrome, a form of autism.
Her son Mohd Ashraf Mohd Ali was three.
For Madam Faraliza, as with the many other caregivers in her shoes, it was the start of a journey of ups and downs, especially when it came to her son interacting with other people.
Madam Faraliza told The New Paper of a hurtful incident when her son was six.
The Cast of Redha Visit MIJ Education Hub
He had disturbed another child during a visit to the zoo.
Madam Faraliza, 45, recalled: “The father told me angrily, ‘Can you teach your son some manners?’
“That was extremely upsetting.”
Madam Faraliza admitted that the early days were tough for her and her husband.
During an MP home visit in 2006, Mohd Ashraf spat at the MP.
But raising a child with autism led Madam Faraliza to realise the importance of education specifically tailored for children with special needs.
She left her high-flying job with Dow Jones in 2011 to set up My Islamic Journey Education Hub (MIJ).
It started as a weekend madrasah for students with special needs, aged between five and 30.
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The school proved popular and it began a full-time English-language holistic programme last year, combining religious education with numeracy, literacy and life skills.
The weekday programme is endorsed by the Singapore Islamic Scholars & Religious Teachers Association, and it caters to students aged between 17 and 30.
Before founding MIJ, Madam Faraliza earned an advanced diploma in special needs education, became a certified play therapist, and researched other methods of therapy.
“Being a mother of an autistic child helps because you need hands-on experience,” said Madam Faraliza, who also provides on-the-job training fir her five full-time teachers and 19 part-time teachers.
Her son is among those enrolled. They include students with Down syndrome, dyslexia, and attention deficit hyperactivity disorder.
The school now has 180 students.
Lessons at MIJ take a more practical approach.
“We take them to the supermarket and give them a list of things to purchase. They also carry calculators with them to calculate the price,” said Madam Faraliza.
Other activities include baking, gardening and even self-defence lessons, courtesy of a mixed martial arts studio.
For MIJ’s special educators, such as Miss Nur Faezah Misngadi, 25, shaping the minds of the students every day is not an easy feat and requires plenty of patience.
“We need support from all facets of society. There is always talk of help for those with special needs, but how exactly are you helping them? You need to walk the talk,” she said.
INDONESIA: Jika anda melancong ke Bandung, Indonesia dan perut anda sedang ‘berkeroncong’ hebat, mungkin anda perlu mencuba bakso di gerai ini.
Ini bukan sembarangan bakso.
Dengan saiznya yang luar biasa, sebesar bola sepak, bakso ini diberi nama ‘Bakso Astaghfirullah Aladzim’.
Cabarannya adalah untuk menghabiskan sebiji daging bakso itu sendirian.
Untung nasib badan, anda mungkin akan mendapat hadiah dari pemilik gerai. Menarik bukan?
“Kalau yang bersaiz besar ini boleh dihabiskan seorang satu, mereka tidak perlu membayarnya. Malah, akan diberikan sebiji bakso lagi untuk dibawa pulang,” pemilik gerai, Laman, memberitahu wartawan stesen TV NET News.
Laman sudah memulakan perniagaan menjual bakso sejak tahun 1985, namun setahun setengah yang lalu beliau memutuskan untuk cuba menjual ‘Bakso Astaghfirullah Aladzim’, lapor NET News.
“Bakso yang besar ini asli daging sapi. Tidak ada campuran daging-daging lain,” jelas Laman.
Dengan harga 150,000 Rupiah (S$15), bakso raksasa itu berjaya mencuri perhatian pelanggan.
“Bukan hanya tepung semata-mata. Dagingnya memang terasa. Pada awalnya kami ingatkan mahu membeli dua. Tetapi ternyata saiznya lebih besar daripada gambar. Memang Astaghfirullah Aladzim!” kata salah seorang pelanggan, Sandi Taufik dengan gelak ketawa.
Bagi mereka yang khuatir tidak mampu menghabiskan bakso sebesar itu pula, terdapat juga bakso lebih kecil bersaiz bola tenis, menurut laporan NET News.
To be fair, i am under the same ustaz as him and in some of his posts, i see him as a v sensible person. Idky though, the media picked up some of the worst/misleading of his posts and screenshot them. My ustaz was v analytical, but he’s one of the wisest ppl i know who’s opened my eyes a lot abt the state of Muslims in singapore and our tests living in a secular nation. And i always came home from classes feeling sad abt the situation here, because really we’re tested. There’s some truth to what this guy stands up for, but that said, i dont ever stand up for violence or retaliation. Its absurd though to me that he would. It’d be real sad if he was slandered. Smetimes too, ppl get tested when they speak the truth.
But then again, Allahu a’lam.
I just pray that we’re given wisdom, to know that we don’t know first. These ppl have invested time into knowledge and history that are not shared in secular schls, and thus the rest of us have lost a lot. I hate to say how i can only pray for justice, like how we all do only that for the ppl ard the world. I pray that Allah protects the truthful and makes us see the wrong from right.
