Tag: Stupid

  • Commentary: Majority Superiority Complex Is Real, I’ve Personally Encountered Discrimination Against Malays

    Commentary: Majority Superiority Complex Is Real, I’ve Personally Encountered Discrimination Against Malays

    So, when there are Chinese SAP schools and no Malay SAP schools, we did not make any noise about being multicultural. When someone up there stated that we are not ready for a Malay PM, we did not make noise about being multicultural. When Channel 5 showcased so many Chinese adverts and gazette, and almost no Malay ones, we did not make noise about being multicultural. When so many SMEs chose to put up “only Mandarin-speaking candidates shall apply” on their recruitment ads (we know they simply don’t want to hire us), we did not make noise about being multicultural. When the cabinet typically consists of mainly Chinese, a few Indians and only 1 Malay at any point of time (until recently) despite several very capable Malay MS & SMS (and the nation’s racial ratio), we did not make noise about being multicultural.

    My point is, majority superiority complex is real. Many times I have encountered it personally.

    One incident which vividly triggered my memory was a mother of my primary school friend. If you know me enough, many of my close friends are Chinese. My friend, let’s name him A. A was a close friend of mine since Primary 2. We used to eat together (despite some old man saying that Muslims refuse to sit with non-Muslims to eat, which never was a problem) during recess and play together. One day, in Primary 4, I decided to play with him after school nearer to his residence. He had the permission of his mother, initially. After a while of playing at the basketball court, his mother came down to go to the minimart, if i do remember correctly. When she saw him playing with me, she walked towards us and told him in very stern atas English, “I told you not to mix around with Malays, you’ll become stupid” (along those lines, this happened almost 20 years ago, mind you.) Upon hearing that, my heart sank, I’ve never felt so humiliated. That was the last time I played with him, and we only hi-hi bye-bye in school since then. Well, it was probably because he mixed around with me that he dropped out half-way from JC and decided not to continue studying, sorry auntie.

    That didn’t deter me from making so many more close Chinese friends, though; I met my best friend Silas Yeo in P5.

    My race in my IC is always a factor, when I do well or don’t do well. I tutor maths well, suddenly, the comments are, I’m “not so Malay”, but when I failed Maths in Sec 1, that’s expected coz I’m Malay. When they see me (a young Malay man) drive a BMW, they ask whether I’m an Uber driver now. In fact, just the other day, my brother Muhammad Irshad’s BMW was reversed into by an MPV driven by a middle-aged man, the friend of the man asked my brother twice if it was a rental car (hinting that it may be a PHV). My aunt, Suriati who stays in a landed property house took a taxi home one day and the taxi driver’s comment when she was alighting was, “Here is cheap ha? So many Malays stay here”.

    It will never be a problem until a minority gets a little bit more. Anyway, a Malay president is not at the top of our wishlist, either.

    This is in no way a racist post. I posted this because I feel strongly about the discrimination against my race. I’m sorry if it had hurt anyone, but I’m just creating an awareness that such mentality exists and we need to work together to eliminate such thoughts, so that we can move forward as one Singapore.

     

    Source: Muhammad Syaheer Noorhalim

  • SPF Doing Their Job To Solve Double Robbery Cases Yet Singaporeans Give Stupid Comments

    SPF Doing Their Job To Solve Double Robbery Cases Yet Singaporeans Give Stupid Comments

    The Singapore Police Force are doing their work and are trying to apprehend the latest armed robber who took off with more than $2000 from a Western Union branch in Ubi.

    It was a surprise indeed when the country was hit with two cases of armed robbery in a short span of two days. As soon as the news broke, people have been talking about it specially about the second case where the photo of the robber was captured on cctv.

    On facebook, there were some people who apparently had more free time to say stupid things. When one person say something stupid, many others appeared to join in the fun.

    But are they even thinking clearly? Shooting their mouths off so naturally as if they don’t use their brains. Bodoh siol.

    They expecting police to apprehend offenders before they commit a crime ah? They think police officers same as fortune tellers? Can predict where crimes are going to happen?

    And when the photo of the armed robber wearing a white full face helmet and a black jacket was sent to the public in a bid to appeal for information, some say no point. So if only got that photo, what do you want the police to do? Exchange it with a more casual one where the culprit smiling and doing a cute pose?

    Hard to please? Even Straits Times replied to say that every little detail helps.

    Some people are really useless, not constructive and are just a hindrance to society. Macam-macam hal lah. Nak ketawa atau nak nangis pon tak tahu..

    Anyway, good luck to the Singapore Police Force.

     

    Rilek1Corner

  • Texas Man Tries In Vain To Save Infant Daughter Left In Hot Car For 4 Hours – By Placing Her In The Fridge

    Texas Man Tries In Vain To Save Infant Daughter Left In Hot Car For 4 Hours – By Placing Her In The Fridge

    When Michael Thedford arrived at the daycare centre on Tuesday (June 21) morning to drop off his three children, he found that the youngest, his six-month old daughter, was a little ill and running a fever.

    So he dropped off the five-year-old and the three-year-old and headed back home in his van with the infant, Fern.

    When he reached his house in Melissa, Texas, though, he decided he needed a nap. In his haste to get inside, he forgot Fern in the van while he slept for about four hours, according to the arrest warrant obtained by the media.

    The temperature in Melissa soared to 35 deg C that day.

    At 1pm, Thedford woke up and realised his daughter was in the car. Panicking, he ran to the front yard, according to the warrant.

    When he reached the van and flung open the door, he found his daughter “stiff” as a board and “hot as a brick”. She was unresponsive as he carried her little body into the house.

    Apparently in an attempt to cool her down, Thedford then did the unthinkable: He placed his daughter in the refrigerator, among the Thedfords’ groceries, and left her there for “an undetermined length of time”, the authorities said.

    After a while, he pulled her body from the fridge and attempted to perform CPR. Only then did he call his wife and the authorities, both of whom rushed to the house.

    According to a neighbour, the couple hugged and cried together.

    Fern was dead. Thedford has since been charged with manslaughter.

    The firefighters and paramedics left quickly after they arrived, but the detectives remained behind. They pointed cameras at Thedford and asked him to reenact what had happened.

    “They used a Mickey Mouse type of doll for him to show what happened,” Ms Fabiola Contreras, the Thedfords’ neighbour, told the media. “And now that I think about it, they also were measuring from the van to the door.”

    The Thedfords had always seemed like a loving family, the neighbour said. Thedford worked as a substitute teacher, and his wife was a well-known local veterinarian. In fact, Ms Contreras had witnessed the family laughing and joking around just a few days prior.

    “It’s kind of shocking how this happened because on Sunday we saw family members and them having a good time for Father’s Day,” Ms Contreras said.

    Mr Bill Hemby, the assistant superintendent of Celina High School, where Thedford taught introductory physics and chemistry last year, said Thedford deeply loved his children. “Michael is rocket-science smart,” Mr Hemby said. “He did a great job for us while he was here. We all had an understanding of how much he loved his children. We’re all in mourning, just like he is.”

    Thedford’s father Stan had a similar reaction, saying that his son was a doting and loving father.

    But as countless similar tragedies have demonstrated, loving your kids and being well-educated affords no protection from such tragic events, which are all too common.

    “Every year at this time it happens to people from all walks of life,” the older Mr Thedford said. “It’s something we should all be more aware of.”

    He is right. As of June 9, at least 11 children had died in 2016 after being left in hot cars, CNN reported.

    That is triple the number of deaths recorded in 2015. Since 1990, about 700 children have perished this way in the US, according to the nonprofit safety group Kids and Cars.

    The temperature in a car can rise rapidly, and children left inside – even for just a half hour, even on a relatively cool spring or summer day – are almost immediately in danger.

    Dr Christopher Haines, director of pediatric emergency medicine at St. Christopher’s Hospital for Children in Philadelphia, told WebMD that most parents don’t understand how quickly an innocuous errand can turn deadly.

    “On a day that is just 72 deg F, the temperature (inside a car) can increase by 30 to 40 degrees in an hour, and 70 per cent of this increase occurs the first 30 minutes,” Haines said.

    In addition, a child’s body heats up three to five times faster than an adult’s, according to the Seattle Children’s Hospital.

    It should be noted that if this does happen, a refrigerator is not the proper way to cool a child down. If you accidentally leave a child in a hot car, call the authorities immediately.

    Death can come quickly from heat stroke. While waiting for the proper authorities, cover the baby with cool damp clothes and get the child into the shade, according to advice from the Women’s and Children’s Health Network.

    As for how to remember one’s children, Safe Kids Worldwide chief executive Kate Carr said it’s best to leave a physical reminder of the child in the backseat.

    “A car can heat up about 19 degrees in as little as 10 minutes, and we’ve seen heat stroke deaths recorded when the temperature is in the 60s,” Ms Carr told CNN. “Put something in the back seat where a child seat is always located that you’re going to need at your final destination, something you know you’re going to look for, like your cell phone, your purse, a briefcase.”

    Added Ms Carr: “This, in fact, can happen to anyone, and we’ve seen it happen to anyone.”

    Thedford was booked in the Collin County Jail, and posted a US$20,000 bond late on Tuesday. Booking records list no attorney for Thedford, the Associated Press reported Wednesday morning. It was also unclear as of Wednesday morning whether Thedford had entered a plea, according to ABC News.

     

    Source: The Straits Times