Tag: trust

  • David Tan Tells Government To Trust Talented Malays

    David Tan Tells Government To Trust Talented Malays

    During my Raffles Institution (RI) teaching days, I had the privilege to have many Malay boys as my students. Many came from poor homes although they were bright, intelligent and very polite. Many of them loved to play soccer but after each game, were too poor to buy drinks to quench their thirst. I helped them out in small ways by forking out part of my meagre salary to buy bottles of syrup drinks so they could mix with tap water to drink. I took many photographs with them during those RI days. Most of them were very good looking and talented in soccer, music and art.

    I was extremely delighted when one of the boys, now a pilot with SIA invited me to one of his daughters’ wedding. Many of my ex-RI Malay students were invited too. I had a great time with them but it took me a while to recognize some of them. I was so proud of what they are today. Among them are senior government officials, diplomats, pilots, heads of organizations and other professionals. They have proven that race is never a part or component of one’s success.

    They are the evidence of a responsible minority group of Singaporeans who have succeeded and contributed to our nation. One of the feedback from them included their unhappiness over being ‘passed over’ for Officer Cadets’ courses when they were called up for national service. Most of them possessed the necessary physique, academic and moral qualities to be selected for the Officer Cadets’ course but ended up being clerks, storekeepers or performing other unimportant administrative tasks in the army. What a shame and a waste of talent! This lack of trust by our current government must be changed and rectified for our minority races.

    I am humbled by their remembrance and their respect for me. I am also extremely happy that many of them are in regular communication with me. Being a teacher has its rewards!

     

    *Article was written by David Tan and first appeared on http://singfirst.org/2014/11/16/david-tan-our-malay-students-are-under-utilised-and-under-nurtured/

    Source: www.therealsingapore.com

  • 28 Year Old Man Jailed For Having Sex With 14 Year Old Step-Daughter

    28 Year Old Man Jailed For Having Sex With 14 Year Old Step-Daughter

    A 28 year old man was sentenced to 6 years in jail for having a sexual relationship with his eldest step daughter and making her pregnant.

    The man had started having a sexual relationship with the girl when she was just 14 and he had sex with her about twice a month for 2 years.

    The offences first started in July 2011 and during the course of their consensual relationship, the girl also got pregnant and gave birth to a boy earlier this year.

    The court heard that the girl did not know that she was pregnant even though she had started to put on weight on her belly in August last year.

    The accused had noticed the swelling of the abdomen but the girl simply said that she didn’t have any other symptoms of pregnancy.​

    The court explained that the man was in a position of trust and influence over the young girl and he had abused that relationship for his own sexual gain.

    The man was charged with 45 charges but he pleaded guilty to 9.

     

    Source: www.therealsingapore.com

  • SG Malay Complain Noisy Chinese Funeral Lasted Several Days

    Not trying to be racist or rude here but what if this were to be a malay wedding?

    Confirm people will complain till the police come. I won’t talk about how bright was the light and people talking loudly last night and the other night.

    But hey, what if that was our “rewang”? Confirm you guys complain and police will come also. This is noisy but I don’t mind at all, I don’t mind since early in this morning till now about this noise.

    I don’t mind my son afternoon nap is being disturb. I don’t mind about my health problem due to this noise. Cause I respect your culture. Even if this noise will end for few days.

    But just imagine if this were to be a malay wedding …. I believe there will be alot of complaining. I’m gonna keep this and last night video in case on my wedding day there will be complains.

    All I asking is for everyone to respect each other culture and stop complaining!

    If I can respect yours why can’t you??

     

    Authored by Xiaoxiao Budaqqkecik

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    EDITOR’S NOTE

    This is the reality living in HDB.

    The principles of coexistence and tolerance are important as bases for building mutually acceptable relationships between highly diverse communities within a larger society.

    Singapore is a multi-racial and multi-religious society. Different racial and religious groups have their own beliefs and practices, understanding one and another can build networks of trust across different communities. Being mindful when speaking can also avoid clashes – a careless comment may ignite an argument which may in turn snowball into bigger-scale disputes.

    We would think that the strong bonds and trust between people was the key.

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