Tag: weddings

  • Man Rants About ‘Noisy’ Void Deck Funeral, Curses Grieving Family

    Man Rants About ‘Noisy’ Void Deck Funeral, Curses Grieving Family

    Dear Editors,

    This man Apai Izal Kaizoku made insensitive racist remarks about a chinese funeral procession at night. He complain on fb that these “m*therfuc*ers still make noise at this hour”. He said that he wasn’t interested in their nonsense and claimed that if malays did this, they would be called terrorists.

    I don’t understand why this man is so upset over a funeral procession. This has been the way things are in Singapore for many years, each race group have their own processions which cause inconvenience to others but we endure and understand because this is life in Singapore. This is how we live in harmony with one another.

    Does this joker live in a cave? Is he Singaporean? Why make a fuss over a funeral and make such hurtful remarks when people are already grieving their dead? Shame on you, you need to reflect on your poor behaviour abang! You are downright rude!

    Hashim

    A.S.S. Contributor

     

    Source: www.allsingaporestuff.com

  • Disgruntled Customer: Home Baker Messed Up Order, Spoiled Wedding

    Disgruntled Customer: Home Baker Messed Up Order, Spoiled Wedding

    Here I am with this post not to aibkan orang but to create awareness. Early 2015 I ordered my wedding cake, followed by my berkat & gift cake to my husband from custom cake (FB: Fazslin Sualey or known as Linda), everything was smooth during order, she asked from me few times for advanced payment, I did proceed with the advanced as per requested. Because I understood her as a baker & seller.

    2500 berkat its not easy for her to handle herself, therefore I believed that she has to pay her manpower charges as she deployed 4 helper. 30/09/2016, I was supposed to collect 2500 berkat from her as well the gift cake, unfortunately, she texted me at 10.15 a.m. telling me that her oven broke down and jam for 5 hours and negotiated with me if she could deliver half of the balance next day.

    Again, I am being helpful that I give her some allowance time and negotiate if I could collect 500 of it at 7 p.m. & another 500 at 12 midnight & she agreed to it. 7 p.m., my family collected the berkat, guess what? I only received 266 of it instead of 500?! So she told my family that she already started baking 2 days back, so tell me 266 for 3 days?! She promised my family that she’s going to complete another 700+ it by 11 p.m. Reached home and the berkat was so unpleasant.

    Requested photos from her about my wedding cake, only Allah know how i felt at that point of time. She called me at 10.50 p.m. crying and told me that she unable to do it! Event is on 01 oct & 02 oct. Tell me about it what I am supposed to do? I have requested for full refund because I have to find and pay people to find my new berkats. Because of her I have to literally troubled my family & friends.

    Please share this around.

    Source: www.allsingaporestuff.com

  • Wedding Planner Goes Missing With Wedding Gifts One Week Before Wedding Day

    Wedding Planner Goes Missing With Wedding Gifts One Week Before Wedding Day

    After dating for three years and saving for a year, they were finally ready to get married.

    But a week before their big day, their wedding planner allegedly fled with a deposit of $17,000 and a tray full of wedding gifts which included shoes, wallets and watches.

    Madam Syafiqah Salleh, 23, and Mr Jumali Majuri, 25, weren’t the only ones allegedly cheated by the wedding planner – three other couples were also left in the lurch.

    Newlyweds Syafiqah and Jumali engaged the services of Urbane Wedding Concept in September 2014 after visiting a bridal fair at the Singapore Expo.

    The wedding planners, Madam Noorsidah A. Rahim and her husband, had suggested a package with a combined reception for about $22,000.

    The couple agreed.

    Madam Syafiqah, a process technician, told The New Paper that the first sign of trouble came when the invitation cards were sent out late.

    She said: “It was scheduled to be out by last November but it was ready only on Dec 26, less than a month before our wedding.

    “After they sent out the invitation cards, they also took the wedding gifts we bought for each other for gift-wrapping.”

    The wedding gifts, worth more than $1,000, were supposed to be ceremoniously exchanged between the bride and the groom.

    On Jan 8, the couple were scheduled for their final fitting but their wedding planners didn’t turn up.

    Madam Syafiqah said: “One day before the fitting, I texted them to ask about the details of the fitting but I didn’t receive any reply. I tried calling but no one picked up.

    “At that point, I knew something was wrong. My husband called, texted, sent them Facebook messages and e-mailed them but they were gone without a trace.”

    In an attempt to retrieve their wedding gifts and deposit, Mr Jumali, a production technician, also went to the bridal company’s registered address at 66, Tannery Lane.

    It was vacant.

    “I broke down. I worked a lot of overtime just to get the money and it was all gone,” said Madam Syafiqah.

    With a week left to the wedding, the couple’s family contributed money and food to help out with last-minute preparations. They also engaged the services of A.R Ruhana Creations to help out with the food catering and decorations.

    Mr Jumali said: “I left most of the decision making for the wedding to my wife. But when (this happened), I quickly engaged another bridal company because we didn’t have time to waste.”

    The wedding ceremony was held at the void deck of Block 745, Jurong West Street 73, on Jan 17.

    “I was so happy that the wedding turned out better than I expected. I am utterly grateful to my family and my husband,” said Madam Syafiqah.

    Another couple who were supposed to wed on the same day suffered the same fate.

    Berita Harian reported on Feb 1 that Mr Husni Mubarak Kamaruddin, 27, and Madam Nurshila Mansoor, 26, had paid Urbane Wedding Concept $33,000 and handed over wedding gifts worth $2,800.

    Like Madam Syafiqah, Mr Husni was also scheduled for a fitting on Jan 5 but the wedding planner did not show up.

    The couple engaged another bridal company just a week before their big day to help out with final preparations.

    LESSON

    Madam Syafiqah hopes the incident will be a lesson for other couples.

    “It’s hard to differentiate wedding planners whom you cannot trust from the ones you can,” she said.

    “But just be wary of the ones who are not punctual in fulfilling their promises.”

    Both couples have reported the matter to the police and the Consumers Association of Singapore (Case).

    Case told TNP it received three complaints – including from the two couples – about the company last month.

    An online search with the Accounting and Corporate Regulatory Authority revealed that Urbane Wedding Concept was registered on Jan 9, 2012.

    But its licence expired on Jan 9 this year. The status of the business was listed as “live”.

    When TNP visited the company’s registered address at Sindo industrial building on Feb 2, the unit had already been occupied by another tenant. Other tenants occupying units on the same floor were not even aware that there was a bridal company in the building.

    A security guard, who declined to be named, said the couple who ran the business had moved out from the unit about six months ago for unknown reasons.

    Madam Noorsidah’s flat at Bedok South also appeared to be vacant as flyers littered the gate.

    A neighbour, who declined to be named, said he had not seen the couple for about two months.

    “Just two weeks ago, there were four people knocking on my door, looking for them,” he said.

    “The couple don’t usually mingle with the neighbours, so none of us know where they went.”


    I broke down. I worked a lot of overtime just to get the money and it was all gone.

    – Madam Syafiqah Salleh, 23

     

    Source: www.tnp.sg

  • Colossal Weddings: No Need To Cheat And Pretend To Be Us, We Welcome You To Join Us

    Colossal Weddings: No Need To Cheat And Pretend To Be Us, We Welcome You To Join Us

    I always tell my photographers to be loyal, sincere and honest in their craft. Sure it is not always the easiest way, but it is the most fulfilling way to live a life doing what you love. Photography for us, all 20 of us, is an escape. An escape from the day jobs, the part time jobs, the family dramas, the financial woes, the stresses of society, the workload from school & the constant struggle to keep up with peers. If we were in this for the money, we would’ve gone on to do something a lot more lucrative. But instead, we all chose photography.

    And that’s the thing. We’re not here to sue other photographers. What benefit do I get from a lawsuit against a 17 year old kid? The whole reason Colossal Photos & Colossal Weddings was set up was to create a support network & protect the rights of photographers who were being taken advantaged of. And we’ve done exactly that and will continue to do so. We’ve managed to create an environment that bears no hierarchy, no envy, no malice, and have managed to put together individuals from the most unlikely of backgrounds. We’re truly a family unit, and I love every single one of the guys on my team. And we, in turn, hold the brand close to our hearts.

    So when we get word of people outside of Colossal using the brand for their own selfish purposes, the knee jerk reaction is protect the brand first and claim ownership of it. We’ve always kept quiet about it even though it has happened a few times in the past. However tonight was different, and I guess we couldn’t keep quiet anymore. We shared, shamed, wrote our opinions and lashed out on these people. However, these are very same people that we have worked day in and day out to protect. Yes, it is wrong to blatantly disregard etiquette just for a few bucks, but how we approach these problems must change. I felt we truly lost sight of what we’re fighting for for a couple of moments tonight.

    From now onwards, we’re going to take a different approach. If you’re truly passionate, honest, and sincere about learning photography and being part of Colossal, our doors are always open. There is no need to lie, deceive, manipulate clients just to get the job. It’s a small world, a smaller industry, and an even smaller community, so naturally, word gets around quickly. We can help you get that job with honesty & integrity, and you can most definitely help us out as well.

    A 17 year old, claiming to be part of the Weddings team just to get ahead. The damage to Colossal? Probably minimal. But I think the damage we did to her tonight might end up being a lot worse than expected. I would hate for someone to quit photography just because of what happened tonight. To a lot of people, photography is just a hobby, a fad, a phase, a risk, a kid’s job. But to some, it is the only language we know. And I wouldn’t know what to do if someone took that away from me.

    I understand from the people I’ve spoken to today that this is not the first time that she’s done this to other photographers. I’d like to reach out to whoever you are, to give me a call on my mobile or message me on Facebook, and I’d like to invite you to see what the team at Colossal truly stand for. And maybe, just maybe, in the future you’ll be an amazing photographer with great intentions, integrity and dignity to hold your own.

     

    Source: Afiq Omar

  • 10 F*****-Up Trends Of Modern Malay Weddings

    10 F*****-Up Trends Of Modern Malay Weddings

    I am sure, like for  f sure, some people cringe at my posts in facebook or even twitter. F it. I find it exciting at the rate of  transformation to the malay cultures  (I have no locus standi to say about other cultures non?) especially post Pinterest, Oncewed, Tumblr, Etsy (hereafter shall be refereed as POTE syndrome) . Major transformation can be seen in marriage customs i.e basic requirements to a proper wedding ala hipster. To make my life easier and your reading more enjoyable, let me put my observations in tabulated form, I shall call it 10 fucked-up trends in modern malay weddings.

    1. Pre-engagement and Post-engagement This consists of (1) selection of bridemaids and bestma(e)n which I don’t f understand till today, an engagement in malay culture is called bertandang/merisik, a very small ceremony between families, why do you need 7 twins sisters and brothers to sit next to you?  (2) pre-engagement, katanya to immortalize the moment, probably the state of masih virgin lah tu. Usually taken place in Palace of Justice, don’t forget the awkward handsignage “Hitched” “soon to fuck halal way” so sweet like nutella.  (3) ceremony – normal style (4)  post-engagement photoshoot [refer to point 2]
    2. Bachelorette party/Bridal shower – malay men for some good reason are not affected with POTE syndrome, its more to meleis ladies.  Apparently once must celebrate pre f-halal-way before a wedding, the rich kids would throw  it at  Flora Terrace, Sekeping or the tres chic once would have it in Harrods KLCC, superficially sipping dajeeling tea while savouring scones and biscuits (whilst calculating the bills that about to be divided amongst themselves) . Don’t forget make it a theme party, pay RM 500 (go dutch) and make it a party ala Chanel. Black & White, CC symbol printed on A3 papers as table mats, get free samples vials, products, condoms throw it in a chanel like paper bag, and  called it survival kit for brides. The climax of the party, Novelty Cake katanya, selections of black, Asian, arab, Caucasian penises erected as a centerpiece.  Snap a photo, Instagram it,  caption, Wild night for ladies! Sad she is getting married in 2 weeks time! tag : #(hername)gothitched #sistersforlife.
    3.  Bridemaids & bestmen – First of all, no malay wedding requires 14 oompaloompa sitting next to the brides or grooms at any time. Well even if you must do it, make it tasteful, to drop the idea.  (p/s at least if you want to oompaloompa-ed your bestfriends, please pay for the clothes, people have commitments too, not just to POTE weddings.
    4.  RSVP cards – This is the failure part, RSVP card or respondez-sil-vous-plait is actually a courtesy card to tell the bride/groom that I am attending your ceremony/reception, usually for small wedding, or reception that are booked  per head bases, well who wants to pay for people who don’t attend right? So you would have this card to reconfirm your attendance. Well it is ridiculous to have it in malay wedding that are held in Flat Pekeliling/Khemah depan rumah jiran tetangga kan? Or in simple language, buffet reception. When I get these kind of cards, I die a little inside, blame it on Pinterest.
    5. Candybar & Guestbook – It looks awesome, if you have a barn theme wedding, and you have a controled amount of crowd, if your wedding is as per point (4), congrats mate, you are just stupid, especially if your candies are selection of candies from Giant, the RM1.00 per packet ones. Pack it in doorgift bag. As to  the guestbook, I once attended a wedding where they had this table before the entrance door and all guests must right something, and imagine the Pak Cik and Mak Cik from Meru with WTF-look not knowing what to write in the book, ended up writting bismillah, and sign.
    6. Photobooth – This is the best. Apparently it’s a must, to make your wedding more modern and chic to have a photobooth. It look even more ridiculous when your reception is not in Dewan Felda, but small dewan, like Dewan Section  19 Shah Alam. No proper lighting, must be a atrocious view. Don’t forget the hand sign “I’m next” “Hitched” “Fucked” “I’m gay” “Virgin mary” “Kak Odah dara” .  A big signage at the entrance “sudi tag kami di #TukiminWedsEton” ridiculous.
    7. Post-wedding Photograph – Refer to Point (1). Ridiciculous. Thank god,  they don’t have post Halal-fuck photoshoot. I would die.
    8. Baby Shower – Babe, what you need is a proper doa selamat, call tok imam, have a prayer. Not a baby shower, eat chocolate cake from diapers, wrap the preggie with tissue rolls game. Things get even more ridiculous here.
    9. Baby 1st Photshoot – Chunk your baby in your best bag, (Cik Ta had her’s in her Birkin, probably at your level, Longchamp/ faux Chanel bag would be the options),  take photo, official photos please, edit it, post it on Instagram and suddenly you are a power couple, now you are known in abbreviation emblem like, TE for Tukimin Eton, and your baby gets one too, like baby WL, baby KK, baby B.
    10.  1st year anniversary – Throw a big party, and since you survive your 1st year, automatically you have to license to throw a show ala Oprah to give wedding advice, katanya when 1st I saw him in “usually hipster places, like Wedvrtsjfday”, I know our relation ship will last till Jannah #Tilljannah. begitu…

    Jazakallah Sisters.

    (Pardon me if there is typo errors or gramaticall errors, I just don’t give a F, its not like its a PHD Dissertation))

    Please comment, nicely.

     

    Source: http://rizalyaakub.blogspot.sg