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  • Stop Telling Muslim Women to Have Children

    Stop Telling Muslim Women to Have Children

    I just like to advise the public especially fellow Muslims that people should stop telling us women to have kids. I for one have decided on this a long time ago.

    The endless cycle of family members, relatives, long-distance aunties and uncles, masjid aunties and even strangers asking mede me feel as though i am obligated to produce an offspring for them to look at and adore, as if they invested money in me and waiting for their returns. I tell you i am going to explode anytime soon and it just make me so frustrated. Honestly i am tired of saying InsyaAllah just to please them, when i actually dont even want to settle down and have kids.

    I dont hate men or any Malay man. I dont dislike children too. But i hate the fact that people’s mindset of women it for that very purpose.

    So now i fight my case and hope these reasons will give confidence to other women facing the same dilemma and give them the confidence they need.

    1. You don’t need any reason to not have children.
    2. No one has the right to dictate whether or not you reproduce. Simply put, no obligation to give your parents grandchildren.

    Lastly, please stop asking such question like “Don’t you feel incomplete? Like something is missing?” or “Adik tak sunyi ke?” or “I will pray for you to get married and have children.” or “Adik tidak memenuhi pegangan Islam adik” because this is what i want, that’s why.

     

    Nadirah

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  • “Sepatutnya ibu ikat anak ibu. Biarlah apa orang nak cakap,” luah Siti Sarah setelah anaknya hilang

    “Sepatutnya ibu ikat anak ibu. Biarlah apa orang nak cakap,” luah Siti Sarah setelah anaknya hilang

    KUALA LUMPUR: Penyanyi kecil molek, Siti Sarah Raissuddin akui salah dirinya sendiri setelah melalui detik cemas kehilangan anak perempuan beliau di sebuah pusat beli-belah.

    Menceritakan insiden yang berlaku semalam (4 Jan) di laman Instagram beliau, Sarah berkata ia satu pengajaran buat dirinya.

    Anak perempuan beliau, Zakira Talita Zahra, hilang di sebuah kompleks beli-belah di Kuala Lumpur dan ia hanya mengambil masa lima saat untuk terjadi.

    Menerusi laman Instagram, Sarah meluahkan isi hatinya yang berbunyi:

    “Cinta hati ibu. Semalam satu pengajaran dalam hidup saya. Zakira Talita Zahra hilang di sebuah kompleks membeli belah di Kuala Lumpur. Ia hanya perlukan lima saat untuk terjadi.

    “Salah ibu ya, saya akui, patutnya ibu ikat anak ibu. Biarlah apa orang nak cakap. Nak kata ikat kucing ke, ikat …… ke, janji anak ibu tak hilang.

    “Bila saya tanya Talita cakap, ‘Talita ikut orang baik’. Walaupun sebelum ni puas saya ingatkan anak-anak supaya jangan ikut orang yang tidak dikenali, tapi mereka hanyalah anak kecil.

    “Siapalah saya untuk beri peringatan, tapi bermula dari kes inilah saya akan mengikat anak saya tanpa saya peduli apa orang nak kata.

    “Janji anak-anak saya selamat. Kalau ada yang jual ‘harnes’s tu tolong beritahu di sini. Terima kasih kepada Puan Aisyah kakitangan monorel yang menjaga Talita.”

    Source: BERITAMediacorp

  • Dr. Ustaz Rozaimi Ramle: Jangan Salah Gunakan Hadith Untuk Lariskan Perniagaan

    Dr. Ustaz Rozaimi Ramle: Jangan Salah Gunakan Hadith Untuk Lariskan Perniagaan

    Lasagne adalah makanan orang eropah. Ia bukan makanan di semenanjung arab sekadar kajian saya. Manakala al-Thareed pula ialah makanan arab yang mengandungi roti yang dicelup dengan kuah dan daging.

    Mungkin kita boleh lariskan jualan barang dengan mendakwa sesuatu itu berdasarkan hadith secara tidak berhati-hati. Tapi perlu diingat bahawa ancaman azab dari Nabi sallallah alaih wasallam bagi pendusta atas nama baginda sangat dahsyat.

    Beringatlah.

     

    Source: Dr. Ustaz Rozaimi Ramle – Hadith

  • Muslims has obviously been suppressed.

    Muslims has obviously been suppressed.

    I just want to share an opinion which i think maybe i think too much or deep. Just recently, a viral video about cruelty of police officers towards the Rohingyas was captured on tape. To make it worst, a Myanmar police was the one filming their activities without showing any sign of guilt. The officers abused and kicked the Rohingyas who were seated on the ground in a line. After some investigating the Myanmar government have come out to say that 4 officers have been caught for the incident and will be taking action against them. This is good right?? But actually it is really not so let me explain. A few weeks back in the news, a man claimed to be Islam and purposely crashed a lorry in an act of terrorism. He drove the lorry into a Christmas market and killed several people. The police in Germany end up catching the wrong person and because the runaway is a muslim, the case became even bigger and is all over the news. So what is my point? I don’t know how to make comparison of one muslim guy with a entire muslim community (rohingya) anyway but if you look properly how come the one single guy gets more attention instead of the Rohingyas?? Then also what if the video was never captured, will we ever get to hear the Myanmar government admitting to abusing their community because this is rare. Senang cakap, orang melayu sudah kene tindas. Can’t you see that we Muslims have been suppressed?

     

    Siti

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  • Tricky, but necessary, to build resilience against security threats

    Tricky, but necessary, to build resilience against security threats

    Terrorism and radicalisation will be an inescapable part of our lives from here on, and the main threats for 2017 and beyond should be divided into two parts.

    The first is the foreign fighter blowback. With the so-called Islamic State (IS) suffering reverses on the battlefield in Iraq and Syria, many South-east Asian fighters will return home to Indonesia and Malaysia. They may also seek new safe havens such as in the southern Philippines.

    In addition, they will seek to leverage issues which give them propaganda mileage that can reinvigorate their social media campaigns — such as the plight of the Rohingya.

    And we should not be so quick to assume that it is simply South-east Asian fighters we will need to reckon with. One cannot discount the possibility of a wider movement of battle-hardened Uighur veterans who, for various reasons, cannot return to their home countries elsewhere.

    For some sense of what is likely to happen with these returnees, we can look to Europe, where Western fighters have been trickling home for some time now.

    Many are embittered by their experiences and disillusioned by the depravity of the IS; but some have come back even more determined to wreak havoc, and even more radicalised.

    There is no reason to suppose that a similarly mixed scenario should not play out in South-east Asia.

    RADICALS OF ANY FAITH

    The second threat is radicalisation in general. We have to accept that this is not simply an issue of Islamist radicalisation. Religious revivalism is increasingly present in other major faiths.

    Radicals inhabit the fringes of all these. And the sobering fact is that we live in a future where all sorts of individuals are going to be “radicalised” in some form or other — even those without strong religious convictions.

    We should not forget that we have had an individual, a Singapore citizen, who has tried to join Kurdish militia to fight IS. Whatever his motivations — and there is some suggestion of alienation and wanting to do good — we need to understand that, in future, all sorts of people are going to want to fight for causes, or else take up some form of muscular activism.

    This will be a rising trend and these impulses, if not managed, will lead to schisms within societies.

    Terror networks can be interdicted and taken down. Security services are actually pretty good at this sort of thing. However, what all of us need to get our heads around is the rising tide of intolerance and, more precisely, tolerance for intolerance.

    This is the second big issue we need to face. It is a phenomenon that did not start in South-east Asia, but it is creeping in. Traditional forms of syncretistic religious practice that have existed here for centuries (if not longer) are being replaced by a more hardline, less inclusive type of observance.

    This type of feeling is fuelled by social media. As Foreign Affairs Minister Vivian Balakrishnan said last year: “We now live in a world of fragmented echo chambers — we hear what we want to hear, we ignore what we don’t want to hear, or inconvenient truths are not heard.

    “And in fact, from an academic point of view, this leads to a ‘shallowing’ of discourse, a world in which there is a dearth of deep thought and cogent discussion across diverse perspectives. You get a more monochromatic world and a narrowing of minds.”

    Singapore will have to maintain its values of multiculturalism and tolerance. These will be increasingly valued in an era where these are becoming rare commodities (and, indeed, in an era where these qualities are persecuted in some quarters).

    It is my view that Singapore will increasingly come to be seen as a beacon, not simply on account of good policymaking, which we have, but because parts of the world and our immediate environment are becoming increasingly insalubrious.

    A POST-TRUTH WORLD

    The echo chambers that Dr Balakrishnan and other leaders have talked about suggest a milieu in which people can choose simply to hear what they want to hear. This is especially problematic for a number of reasons.

    One is that state and non-state actors are increasingly taking advantage of various mechanisms to subvert the truth and to peddle their own information, which may actually be quite distant from the facts. These may all the more easily be lapped up by groups of people within society who, for some reason or the other, might be susceptible to this kind of subversion.

    Consider, for example, the masterful information-operations campaign that Russia has waged in Ukraine. There was a cyber takedown of the power grid, but more importantly was the media (including social media) manipulation and distortion of information which led many to believe the Russian point of view.

    Seen from that point of view, what Russia had done was an entirely legitimate protection of Russian minorities living under persecution. The real point is, of course, that information had been bent and twisted to a level where no one was sure where fact ended and fiction began.

    As commentators have increasingly observed, we live in a post-truth world. One could also argue that Russia did something very similar in the United States election. Why not? A state can nowadays accomplish aims allied to its self-interest that promise outcomes that are much more certain than diplomacy and much less costly than warfare.

    BEWARE THE SLOW-BURN ATTACK

    The people of Singapore, therefore, should not assume that the “attack”, when it does come, will be a mass-casualty terror incident. This is what our agencies routinely hold drills for.

    But the attack might equally be a cyber takedown — either a hacking attempt (and at least one government ministry, the Foreign Affairs Ministry, has suffered a major cyber hack) or some seemingly low-level but nonetheless persistent and insidious cyber effort to chip away at the resilience of our people.

    The basic point is that, while keeping a wary lookout for Black Swans, we need to be aware of slow-burn issues too — particularly the kind that amount to attempts to sap away at the will of a people until the nation is itself shrivelled from within.

    How do we counter this? Part of the answer lies in critical thinking — the ability to ruthlessly interrogate source material that comes before us. In this, the post-truth era, those digital natives who grow up knowing — either instinctively or through some form of instruction — the difference between the objective facts and fake news will have an intrinsic advantage over others.

    A great deal will also boil down to resilience. This could be divided into two kinds. The Government has succeeded in hardening the obvious targets in Singapore and, over the past 10 years or so, focusing some attention on the “bounce-backability” of society.

    The second part is more tricky but achievable. This has to do with how our society coheres and prevents fissures from forming after an event. This next leg is about a certain toughness and resolve that we need to develop more of.

    Consider, for example, what happened after terror incidents and attacks worldwide. The Sydney hostage-taking in December 2014 was followed by a dignified viral campaign, “I’ll Ride with You”, to show solidarity with Australian Muslims. The Charlie Hebdo attacks in Paris in January 2015 saw the ground-up viral campaign “Je Suis Charlie”, while the Jakarta attacks in January 2016 saw the hashtag #KamiTidakTakut (Bahasa Indonesia for “We are not afraid”) go viral.

    Each of these was seen to be a grassroots event and response. Do the people of Singapore have the wherewithal and gumption to rise up, to come together with dignity, resilience and resolve, and with minimal government intervention? Whether and how we can we can do this will be a telling indicator of the shape or form in which we make it to SG100.

    ABOUT THE AUTHOR:

    Dr Shashi Jayakumar is a Senior Fellow and head of the Centre of Excellence for National Security at the S Rajaratnam School of International Studies, Nanyang Technological University.

     

    Source: Today