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  • Pritam Singh: Football Association Of Singapore Needs Industry Transportation Roadmap, Plan To Help Players For Career After Football

    Pritam Singh: Football Association Of Singapore Needs Industry Transportation Roadmap, Plan To Help Players For Career After Football

    A shorter night of house visits this evening meeting many friendly residents. Ran into two S-League footballers after house visits who were shooting the breeze at the void deck of Blk 619 with whom I had a wonderful conversation about post-S-League careers.

    Jalil still plays for Tampines Rovers Football Club while Basit had four years with Hougang United Football Club (HGFC) and now works for Singapore Airlines.

    It is well known that every well-meaning soccer fan in Singapore has an opinion about the game and the S-League.

    The new team or any team in future at the Football Association of Singapore, who I wish all the success in the world, needs to consider post-playing careers for our professionals and create a system which rewards dedicated and disciplined players. In fact, like certain economic sectors, the Football Association of Singapore could do with an Industry Transformation Roadmap or ITM too! Ok, that’s my two cents about local football for today!

     

    Source: Pritam Singh

  • Denying Husbands Sex Is Abuse: Malaysian MP

    Denying Husbands Sex Is Abuse: Malaysian MP

    A Malaysian lawmaker came under fire on Wednesday (Jul 26) for saying that women who deny their husbands sex were subjecting them to “psychological and emotional abuse”.

    Che Mohamad Zulkifly Jusoh, an MP from the ruling coalition, said during a parliamentary debate on domestic violence that husbands often suffer emotional attacks rather than physical abuse.

    “Even though men are said to be physically stronger than women, there are cases where wives hurt or abuse their husbands in an extreme manner,” said the lawmaker, an UMNO member.

    “Usually, it involves wives cursing their husbands – this is emotional abuse. They insult their husbands and refuse his sexual needs. All these are types of psychological and emotional abuse.”

    Marina Mahathir, a prominent women’s rights activist and daughter of former Prime Minister Mahathir Mohamed, said the lawmaker’s view was “based on ignorance”.

    “Women have a right to say no to sex – this is an old notion that when you marry a women you own her body,” she told AFP. “It does not work that way. It is ridiculous to say men are abused if women say no to sex.”

    The 58-year-old lawmaker, from the state of Terengganu also said that denying a Muslim man the chance to marry a second wife amounted to abuse.

    It is legal for Muslim men in Malaysia to have as many as four wives. But they must obtain permission from a shariah court to marry more than one.

    The MP made the comments on Tuesday during a debate on amendments to domestic violence legislation.

     

    Source:http://www.channelnewsasia.com

  • Indonesian Maid Jailed For Abusing And Stealing From Sick, Elderly Employer

    Indonesian Maid Jailed For Abusing And Stealing From Sick, Elderly Employer

    An Indonesian maid threatened to kill her employer’s bedridden husband if he did not reveal the personal identification number (PIN) of his DBS ATM card to her, a district court heard.

    Eko Alviah, 30, held a pair of scissors to Mr Chew Seng Mun’s neck and also threatened to cut his nipple when she demanded the 60-year-old’s PIN.

    The victim, who was in his flat in Woodlands when the incident occurred on Sept 23 last year (2016), gave her a false PIN number. She then bound his hands and sealed his mouth with duct tape to stop him from shouting for help. She knew that Mr Chew, who had Parkinson’s disease and could only move around slowly, could still shout for help.

    Eko, who had been working here for about a year at the time of the incident, then forced open a drawer in the master bedroom that contained her passport, said Deputy Public Prosecutor Jaime Pang.

    When she found a box inside the drawer with 25 pieces of jewellery worth a total of $2,648, she took them together with her passport.

    She also stole $100 that was on the living room table before leaving the flat.

    She went to Woodlands North Plaza and tried to withdraw money from the ATM using Mr Chew’s ATM card. Realising she could not withdraw any money, she threw the card away.

    She then boarded a ferry for Batam, Indonesia, where she sold the stolen jewellery to a makeshift stall for about $140.

    Meanwhile, Mr Chew’s son found his father taped and bound after unlocking the bedroom door with a spare key.

    Mr Chew died on Dec 30, 2016.

    DPP Pang said Eko remained in Indonesia for the next seven months. In April this year, she applied for a new passport and made private arrangements to work for an employer in Singapore. She was screened at immigration and when she tried to return here on May 9, she was arrested.

    Investigations further revealed that Eko had stolen $700 from Mr Chew’s wallet sometime in December 2015 when she was taking care of him.

    The day before, Mr Chew asked Eko to count the money in his wallet. She told him there was $1,300 instead of the actual amount of $2,000, as she intended to steal $700.

    She hid the money in her cupboard, and later transferred the cash to one of her shoes. She spent the money on a mobile phone and other personal items.

    On Wednesday (July 26), Eko pleaded guilty to three charges. She was given four years’ jail for robbery; six months for criminal intimidation; and two months for theft as a servant.

    District Judge Chay Yuen Fatt ordered two of the sentences to run consecutively, making her sentence a total of 50 months. He also imposed an additional 12 weeks’ jail in lieu of caning and backdated her sentence to May 11.

    Eko, who had four other charges taken into consideration, could have been jailed for up to 10 years for robbery but was spared the six strokes because she cannot be caned. She could have been sentenced to seven years or more for criminal intimidation; and for theft as a servant, seven years and a fine.

     

    Source: www.straitstimes.com

  • I Boyan Also Cannot Get Financial Assistance From Mendaki

    I Boyan Also Cannot Get Financial Assistance From Mendaki

    Never like Mendaki since last time. All my financial application was decline due to my race is Boyanese and not Malay. Bleargh! Still deduct my pay. Take my pay for free uh? Aku kerja bukan untuk kasi korang free free k.

    Dont comment and say ‘ sedekah dengan ikhlas” NO this is not sedekah this is mencuri!

    Whether i donate or not, its between me and ALLAH SWT. how much i donate its between me and HIM. There’s a no need for people to know or proud abt it.

     

    Source: Jiliah Jimahat

  • Mengapa Susah Nak Dapat Bantuan Dari Mendaki Atau MUIS?

    Mengapa Susah Nak Dapat Bantuan Dari Mendaki Atau MUIS?

    Nak register anak masuk madrasah mingguan, registration fee satu pelajar berharga $110, 2 anak dah $220. Itu belum termasuk buku dan uniform. Pancit juga. Isteri bilang boleh minta subsidise dari Mendaki atau Muis. Aku bilang dia jangan buang masa minta bantuan dgn 2 badan ni.

    Selagi ada tv kat rumah, application bantuan kewangan akan fail. Dah 4 tahun aku sorang cari rezeki untuk keluarga. Memang penat, itu pun ada yg hutang tak bayar2 termasuk duit penat bekam.

    Ya aku sindir keras gila vavi ni. Pelajaran dunia dan ukhrawi mahal mana pun, aku tetap akan usaha untuk pendidikan pelajaran anak2. Yg penting aku tak hutang siapa2 melainkan hutang rumah, kenderaan, dan hutang budi pada Allah.

    Yg kuat hutang tu, tak kiralah dgn siapa, hidupnya tak akan tenang, hidupnya akan makin susah. Ni bukan aku doakan tapi kata2 dari kalam ulama. Saje nak bersuara. Kalau tak bersuara orang tak tahu kepeee…kepala pistol tembak satu. 😂🔫

    Atok Bekam
    Atok Khairuddin

     

    Source: Ahmad Khairuddin