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  • Parents Cium Mulut Anak-Anak, Permissible?

    Parents Cium Mulut Anak-Anak, Permissible?

    Bila aku kata aku tak agree parents cium mulut anak2, ada parents yang ngamuk ngan aku. Kata aku takde anak, takyah pandai2 nasihat orang tentang anak. Kata aku sexualized an act of love. Love kebabai.

    When I was studying, I read on pedophiles, studied the effects of pornography, why what and how.. So kalau aku share apa yang aku blaja.. aku pak pandir. Okay fine. Bibir anak2 bukan tempat cium untuk show kasih sayang. Ajar anak2 dari kecik mana tempat boleh kiss.. mana tak boleh. Mana tempat boleh touch, mana tak boleh. Anak2 tak faham. Tapi orang tua faham. Ada kepala otak. Jaga anak2 sendiri.

    Kita kiss mulut anak. Si pakcik otak pedophile tengok, dia pon nak buat. Anak2 think its okay, so budak2 ni biarkan si pakcik ni cium mulut diorang. Nak tunggu benda jadi baru nak menyesal ke? Jangan dress up kan anak2 macam mini adults. They dont need to be sexy. Jangan pakaikan make up. Jangan bagi diorang hug and kiss any strangers.

    And… If they tell you that someone touched them inappropriately, believe them. Take care of your kids. Reading all these sexual assault stories makes me sick to my stomach. Patutla victim jaga anak2 diorang melampau2. Tak boleh dekat ngan sesiapa. Sebab they have been molested at a fragile age of 5.. Some were raped at the age of 6. Mana mak? Mana bapak? “Pak usu buat apa ni? Kenapa bukak seluar?”

     

     

    Source: Khainis Tahir

  • Philippines Arrest Top Female IS Recruiter, Ex-Wife Of Radicalised Singaporean

    Philippines Arrest Top Female IS Recruiter, Ex-Wife Of Radicalised Singaporean

    MANILA: Philippine security forces have arrested a 36-year-old Filipino woman suspected of recruiting, via social media, fighters from around the world for the ultra-radical Islamic State (IS). Karen Aizha Hamidon was arrested in Taguig city, an hour east of the capital Manila, on Oct 11, Justice Secretary Vitaliano Aguirre announced at a news conference on Wednesday. Aguirre said Haidon was formerly the wife of Singaporean Muhammad Shamin Mohamed Sidek, a security guard detained in Singapore in August 2015 for planning to join IS and using social media to incite violence.

    Hamidon later married Mohammad Jaafar Maguid, a Filipino, who led ISIS-linked Ansar al-Khilafah Philippines till he was killed by police in January this year, according to Mr Aguirre. Aguirre said Hamidon was also a close associate of Musa Cerantonio, an Australian Islamist preacher who was purportedly recruiting fighters for IS. Rebellion charges are being readied against Hamidon in relation to 296 social media posts linked to her seeking to recruit reinforcements for besieged Muslim militants in the war-torn southern city of Marawi.

    “It is very clear that her actions are in conspiracy, or in sync, with actions of the rebels. While her companions are fighting in Marawi, her part is to further recruit fighters to assist in the Marawi siege by the IS and Maute groups,” said Aguirre. Hundreds of Muslim militants stormed Marawi on May 23 in an audacious bid to turn it into an IS “province”. They have held on to parts of the city for nearly five months. News of Hamidon’s arrest comes two days after security forces in Marawi battled and killed Isnilon Hapilon, designated by IS as its top man in South-east Asia; and Omarkhayam Maute, co-leader of a group that provided the bulk of fighters that attacked Marawi.

    On Tuesday (Oct 17), President Rodrigo Duterte declared that Marawi had been “liberated from terrorists’ influence” following the deaths of Hapilon and Maute, though the army has yet to dislodge a pocket of militants entrenched in the heart of the city. More than 1,000 militants, government troops and civilians have been killed and about 400,000 people displaced. Half of Marawi lies in ruins, levelled by air raids, artillery barrages and fierce urban fighting. Indian intelligence officials last year sought help from Philippine authorities, after Hamidon’s name cropped up as administrator of Facebook, Telegram and WhatsApp groups that sought to recruit Muslims in India to fight for IS in Iraq and Syria.

    Mohammad Sirajuddin, 33, a marketing manager with the Indian Oil Corporation arrested in December 2015, said it was Hamidon who first contacted him on Facebook and WhatsApp and convinced him to join IS in Syria. A profile provided by India’s National Investigation Agency said Hamidon’s father was a Muslim. He died when she was 20 years old. Her mother was a Christian, and brought her up as a Christian. But she and her two sisters converted to Islam about 10 years ago.

     

     

    Source: The Star

  • Niqab Ladies Are Better Than Hijab Ladies, And Both Are Better Than Non-Niqab/Hijab Ladies?

    Niqab Ladies Are Better Than Hijab Ladies, And Both Are Better Than Non-Niqab/Hijab Ladies?

    Bila kita berhijab, kita da pakai uniform Islam. We are the ambassadors of Islam especially to the group of people we are hanging out every day. Like it or not, people will judge us based on our character and dressing. Aku pernah “tervulgar” at work one day and a colleague jaw dropped and immediately tanya aku, “Muslims can swear ar? My friends swear la.. but u in that scarf and swear.. like not appropriate sia..”

    Allah..

    Like it or not, orang akan have the impression that ladies yang berhijab have better character than ladies yang belum berhijab and ladies yang berniqab have better character than ladies yang berhijab. Aku pernah dapat a PM where a lady not in hijab asking me about a particular person in niqab, “Sis kenapa apa dia cakap semua macam lucah. dia kan pakai niqab. Tak paiseh ke?”

    Islam is simple. Kalau ibadah kita on the right track, in shaa Allah, with increased imaan and taqwa, hayaa’ akan menyusul dalam jiwa kita. Kita yang beragama Islam, tau that, tak semestinya someone yang berniqab, they have better akhlak and adab dari a lady yang tak berhijab. Everyone ada their own personal struggle.
    Ada da settle hijrah luaran, but dalaman masih work in progress.  Ada yang da adjust dalaman, luaran masih no progress. Recently, aku had a discussion with a friend about niqab and how some niqabis jadian ruined the image of those yang berniqab lillahi ta’ala.

    Mulut tak jaga.
    Adab tak jaga.
    Suka sindir2 orang.
    Suka cakap pasal orang.
    Suka rasa that pandangan dia better dari everyone else.
    Suka cakap berbaur lucah.
    Jokes double meaning.
    Suka mengata orang
    Tak boleh ditegur..
    Tegur je naik hantu..
    Mana akhlak kita?
    Mana hijab sebenar kita?

    Tak cukup tutup satu badan but kita tak jaga akhlak in public.

    Of course, every single one of us is a work in progress. Wallahi I dont deny that. And as muslims, kita kena berlapang dada bila anyone tegur kita demi kebaikan. We should never look down upon anyone, no matter what stage we are in our hijrah journey, continue to keep on reminding each other that we are in this together. Niqabis should mix around with rugged ladies and break that mentality barrier of “Im better than you”.

    Rugged ladies should be open minded that walaupon kita mungkin kena attack dengan one, two or 3 niqabis, there are still ladies who don the niqab for the sake of Allah SWT. They are nice and humble as the rest of the struggling muslimah. Kadang2 kita rasa diri kita da perfect dalam segala aspect, pakaian.. ibadah, but imagine hari mati kita, first day masuk kubur and kita dapat tau that satu pon amalan kita, Allah tak terima. Every single deed was rejected. Takut kan..?

    Why? Sebab mulut kata lillahi ta’ala. Hati penuh perasaan sombong. Nauzubillah min dzalik. May Allah SWT protect kita semua dari perasaan sombong.

     

     

    Source: Khainis Tahir

  • Cara Membezakan Restoran India Muslim Atau Tidak

    Cara Membezakan Restoran India Muslim Atau Tidak

    1. Hari Deepavali sebegini adalah waktu paling sesuai utk membezakan antara restoran mamak ori atau tidak.
    Restoran mamak tiruan semestinya akan bercuti di waktu-waktu sebegini.
    Cuma cara ini hanya boleh dibuat setahun sekali.

    2. Ada lagi cara lain yg boleh dilakukan waktu biasa. Periksa sama ada makanan mereka ada masakan lembu atau tidak.
    Restoran mamak Muslim akan ada masakan daging lembu. Jika mamak tiruan, selalunya tidak menghidangkan masakan daripada haiwan suci mereka. Saya pernah test satu restoran “mamak”.

    Pelanggan: “Mamak, daging ada?”

    Pekerja: “Kambing ada. Lembu tak ada”

    Pelanggan: “Kenapa lembu tak ada?”

    Jika dia jawab tergagap-gagap, berhati-hati.

    3. Cara paling ampuh, berikan salam dgn lafaz “Assalamualaikum”.
    Jika jawab salam tergagap-gagap, lari jauh-jauh. Cara ini boleh diuji kpd tauke dan pekerja mereka. Ada juga kadang-kadang tauke Muslim tapi pekerja non-Muslim.

    4. Restoran mamak Muslim akan ditutup waktu solat Jumaat.
    Malah ada yg menyediakan tempat solat atau surau utk pelanggan. Jika restoran Mamak palsu tidak ada.

    5. Jangan mudah terpengaruh dengan poster-poster dan frame gambar tulisan-tulisan jawi yg nampak seperti ayat-ayat suci Al-Quran, gambar masjid, gambar Mekah dan sebagainya. Ia selalunya dijadikan hiasan utk menarik pelanggan Muslim dtg ke restoran.

     

     

    Source: A.M.R.

  • Haram For Muslims To Get Haircut From Non-Muslims, Says Religious Teacher

    Haram For Muslims To Get Haircut From Non-Muslims, Says Religious Teacher

    A RELIGIOUS teacher, who previously courted controversy by urging Muslims to boycott curry powder made by Hindus, says it is haram for Muslims to receive a haircut from non-Muslims.

    Ustaz Shahul Hamid Seeni Muhammad, headmaster of Maahad Tahfiz Darul Tahzhib, said in a video uploaded two years ago, which has since gone viral, that getting a haircut from non-Muslims was haram.

    “From the time I started studying in a pondok school to Form 1 and up until now, I have not allowed any non-believers to touch my head. It is better for us to go to Muslim shops because at least this way, we can help Muslim businesses,” Shahul Hamid said.

    Three years ago, also through a video a clip that went viral, Shahul Hamid urged Muslims not to buy curry powder products from “Hindu” companies like Baba’s and Alagappa’s. He also poked fun at a dishti bomma, a square metal plate with the face of a “fearsome demon” on it, at the entrance of the Alagappa’s flour mill near Permatang Pauh.

    In the haircut video clip, which has been viewed more than 9,000 times, Shahul Hamid also said it was haram for Muslim women to go to a non-Muslim salon, as a woman’s hair was considered aurat and should not be exposed to non-Muslims, even if they are women.

    Shahul Hamid also made a jab at transgenders working at salons by mimicking their voices, which he said sounded like frogs.

    Shahul Hamid, who has uploaded a series of video clips on YouTube, also said it was haram to send Muslim children to Chinese schools, unless there were no other options.

    “But when your child comes back, he must be taught properly. Why? Because Chinese children don’t follow the Islamic way of life.”

    He said it was also haram to wish Happy Birthday or Sanah Helwah in Arabic and that Muslims should use “assalamualaikum” when answering calls instead of “hello” and “goodbye”.

     

     

    Source: Malaysian Insight