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  • Aku Solat 5 Waktu Tak Lawan Mak Ayah, Kenapa Aku Yang Kena?

    Aku Solat 5 Waktu Tak Lawan Mak Ayah, Kenapa Aku Yang Kena?

    Nak dijadikan cerita, aku tengah berkepit dengan doktor bedah di dalam bilik doktor, menanti pesakit datang. Selepas beberapa ketika, datang seorang perempuan kurus lingkungan umur 30’an dengan seorang lelaki, suami dia, masuk ke bilik.

    Temah (nama samaran), datang ke hospital sebab asyik sesak nafas dan batuk tak berhenti-henti. Lambat juga dia datang ke hospital. Katanya sebelum ini dia hanya mengambil ubat batuk yang dibeli dari farmasi sahaja. Dia juga telah pergi ke bahagian general medicine, tetapi tiada perubahan. Oleh itu, dia dirujuk ke bahagian Surgery.

    Doktor periksa akak ini, ambil sample sana sini dan suruh pergi ambil x-ray. Aku perhatikan kakak ini, seriously sangat kurus.

    Sambil menunggu keputusan laporan dari lab pesume, Temah berceritalah tentang cuti sekolah nanti, inshaAllah mereka sekeluarga nak bercuti. Dia cerita tentang anak-anak dia. Suami dia yang nampak kebosanan, tiba-tiba keluarkan rokok dari poket dan meminta izin untuk keluar sekejap.

    Sampai saja laporan lengkap dari semua jabatan, aku tengok fail pesakit itu. Tertulis, Small Lung Cell Cancer Stage IIIB.

    “Ya Allah! Kanser dia dah advanced!”

    Doktor cuba sampaikan berita yang dia menghidap kanser tersebut. Kakak itu terdiam seketika dan kemudian terus menangis di depan kami. Aku terkedu pada masa itu, tak tahu nak buat apa. Doktor cuba tenangkan dia tetapi dia tidak berhenti menangis.

    “Apa salah saya sampai kena macam ni?”

    Sebak hati ini melihat dia menangis. Ikutkan hati, aku pun mahu menangis sama.

    “Saya solat 5 waktu seperti muslim yang lain, tak pernah lawan cakap mak ayah dan suami. Kenapa saya yang kena? Anak-anak saya nanti macam mana?”

    Bunyi dia macam terus hilang harapan walaupun belum mula treatment lagi. Doktor hanya mendengar saja luahan hati dia sampailah dia habis meraung dalam bilik itu. Suami dia? Masih merokok di parking lot hospital gamaknya.

    Bila dia dah balik dengan mata bengkak, doktor terus pusing pada aku dan kata, dia kasihan dengan orang baik seperti itu.

    “Dia tak buat salah tetapi dia terkena tempias penyakit atas perbuatan orang lain. Memang makin berat ujian kita sebenarnya, Allah semakin sayang pada kita. Tetapi tak semua orang perasan perkara itu. Ada orang bila dapat tahu berita buruk, memang tak boleh fikir positif dan waras pada masa itu. Biasalah manusia,” katanya.

    “Suami dia smoker. Kalau dia duduk rumah terperap tak terdedah dengan udara luar yang tercemar, macam mana pun, suami dia masih dedahkan dia dengan asap rokok dalam rumah,” sambung doktor sementara menunggu pesakit yagn seterusnya.

    Aku terdiam.

    “Suami dia light smoker. Merokok untuk mengisi masa lapang sahaja. Itu yang buat saya rasa bertambah kasihan dengan akak tadi.

    “Sebab light smoker ini bukan ketagih dengan rokok pun. Mereka cuma nyalakan puntung rokok itu

    sebagai habit. Habit sebenarnya senang nak dibuang. Disebabkan dia tak buang habit itu, dia tingkatkan risiko dan isterinya terkena kanser,” jelas doktor.

    Seriously!?

    “Yes, habit. Habit menyalakan puntung rokok. Bila tengah stress, nyalakan rokok. Bila tengah tunggu bas, nyalakan rokok. Bila tengah tunggu lunch, nyalakan rokok. It’s a habit. Habit that might kill someone,” katanya.

    Aku menjadi marah bila dengar tentang facts habit ini. Kalau addicted aku boleh tolerate lagi sebab aku tahu memang susah nak berhenti dari ambil nikotin. Tetapi habit, habit kills people that you love.
    Guys, aku dulu pun smoking. Heavy smoker pula tu. Tetapi aku sudah berhenti. Kalau heavy smoker boleh berhenti, why not you guys? Ah, kau nak cakap nanti bila tak merokok, kawan-kawan ejek sebab tak nampak cool? Weh, seriously lembiklah kalau kau rasa inferior kawan-kawan ejek. Lantaklah kawan nak ejek ke apa.

    Nak kata sebab susah nak stop? Ingat sikit, aku heavy smoker pun survive stop merokok okay.

    Heavy smoker lagilah siap ada withdrawal syndrome bagai. Seksa! Tetapi aku survive.

    Dalam Al Quran pun dah kata, jangan memudaratkan diri.

    “Dan janganlah kamu membunuh diri kamu sendiri (dan membunuh orang lain). Sesungguhnya Allah Maha Pengasih terhadap kamu” – Surah An-Nisaa, ayat 29.

    Sila rajinkanlah buka Al Quran dan baca surah Al-Baqarah ayat 195 pun menerangkan tentang jangan membinasakan diri. Aku bukanlah ahli ulama nak mengharamkan rokok, tetapi aku pesan dari segi agama janganlah kau nak memudaratkan diri. Mungkin kau tak kena, tetapi orang lain boleh kena.

    Kepada Kak Temah, please be strong. Dear smoker on habit, please stop smoking and chew a gum instead. – Said the Surgeon incharge.

    Jangan ada yang komen kata sakit, penyakit, ajal maut itu semua takdir Allah. Mahu ada yang kena terajang dengan aku.

     

    Source: OhMyMedia TV

  • Law Grads Hit The Barriers

    Law Grads Hit The Barriers

    The dream of becoming a lawyer helped her persevere through law school’s tough curriculum.

    Miss Meryl (not her real name), with her eyes set on a future in the legal industry, has been applying to as many law firms as she could for the past year. She started doing so even before graduating.

    But she might now have to shelve that dream.

    The 24-year-old fresh graduate told The New Paper that all her applications were unsuccessful.

    Miss Meryl, who graduated from the UK’s University of Bristol in June, said: “I can only keep searching and if I find a training contract, then it is an opportunity to train.

    “But if I don’t, I will need to tread another path.”

    She has been unemployed since graduation, but she is not alone.

    Law school graduates are finding it hard to land a training contract these days, resulting in what some are calling an “oversupply” of new lawyers.

    Like the other law graduates and students we spoke to for this story, Miss Meryl declined to be identified as she was afraid that speaking out about her situation might jeopardise her chances at landing a job.

    Training contracts, which typically last for six months, are an entry requirement to the Bar.

    Some law students are awarded these contracts when they apply for jobs at law firms after graduation, while others receive one during an internship.

    Another recent law graduate, who wanted to be known only as Mr Lim, said: “There just are not many jobs for us to go around. The number of law students keeps on increasing but the number of training contracts does not.”

    In the last five years, the number of new lawyers who have been called to the Bar has almost doubled.

    In 2011, 257 law graduates were called to the Bar. During this year’s Mass Call, which was held late last month, the number was 509.

    At the event, Chief Justice Sundaresh Menon said this oversupply meant that of the 650 fresh law graduates here last year, around 100 did not receive training contracts.

    Some firms retain only about one-third or half of their original intake of trainees, he added.

    This challenge in securing training contracts – and consequentially, jobs in the legal industry – has prompted some law graduates to tweak their plans.

    One such graduate is Mr Dennis, who declined to reveal his full name.

    Mr Dennis, who graduated from the National University of Singapore (NUS) with a law degree last year, waited nearly 14 months before he was offered a job “with the right prospects and in the right company”.

    He turned to yoga, which he has been practising for eight years, in the meantime.

    He said: “I worked as a yoga teacher for about 11 months because I needed to survive.

    APPLICATIONS

    “Even then, I sent out a good 20 applications but none returned with a positive offer. The only one or two firms I heard from could not offer me a decent salary.”

    Not everyone will be as lucky as Mr Dennis, and the fear of not securing training contracts has prompted many law students to take up multiple internships.

    A second-year NUS law student, who declined to be named, said: “I will be applying to as many firms as I can during the holidays.”

    But he added that there is a limit to how many internships one can go through. “It is only feasible to do two or three internships as it usually lasts four weeks.”

    In a bid to solve the problem, it was announced at the Mass Call that a new committee will be set up to review the system by which new lawyers start their careers.

    The committee will examine how law firms offer training contracts to fresh law graduates, make decisions to retain them, and later nurture them.

    But it might be too late for Miss Meryl, who said she is getting increasingly discouraged by her failure to land a training contract.

    “If I fail to do so, then I will have to choose an alternative path.”

  • Phone Makers Could Cut Off Drivers — Why Don’t They?

    Phone Makers Could Cut Off Drivers — Why Don’t They?

    The court filings paint a grisly picture: As Ashley Kubiak sped down a Texas highway in her Dodge Ram truck, she checked her iPhone for messages. Distracted, she crashed into a sport utility vehicle, killing its driver and a passenger, and leaving a child paralysed.

    With driving fatalities rising at levels not seen in 50 years, the growing incidence of distracted driving is getting part of the blame. Now a lawsuit related to that 2013 Texas crash is raising a question: Does Apple — or any mobile phone maker or wireless company — have a responsibility to prevent devices from being used by drivers in illegal and dangerous ways?

    The product liability lawsuit, filed against Apple by families of the victims, contends that Apple knew its phones would be used for texting and did not prevent Kubiak from texting dangerously. The suit is unlikely to succeed, said legal experts, and a Texas magistrate in August preliminarily recommended the case’s dismissal on grounds that it was unlikely that lawyers could prove that the use of the iPhone caused the accident.

    Kubiak was convicted of negligent homicide and sentenced to five years on probation.

    The product liability case has brought to light a piece of evidence that legal and safety experts say puts Apple in a quandary — one it shares with other wireless companies. In Apple’s case, the evidence shows, the company has a patent for technology designed to prevent texting while driving, but it has not deployed it.

    Apple, Verizon, AT&T and other companies caution about the risks of distracted driving — and they acknowledge that laws and public education aimed at curbing the behaviour are not working. It suggests to legal experts that they can foresee that their product can be used for illegal, dangerous and sometimes deadly activity.

    AT&T even suggests that the behaviour has addictive qualities, meaning drivers cannot help themselves. But the companies — although they offer manual ways to shut down texting on the road — do not deploy technology that takes the decision out of drivers’ hands altogether.

    “The technology exists; we just don’t have the stomach to implement it,” said Ms Deborah Hersman, the president of the National Safety Council and the former chairwoman of the National Transportation Safety Board.

    Generally, companies have taken the position that text-blocking technology is embryonic and unreliable. They argue that they cannot shut down a driver’s service without the potential of mistakenly shutting off a passenger’s phone or that of someone riding on a train or bus.

    Instead, companies have taken the approach of simultaneously warning and enabling, a mixed message that underscores a complex swirl of economic, technological and social factors. Perhaps the most pointed question is this: Even if the technology worked to perfection, would people accept having their service blocked? After all, the idea of mobile phone service is to let people communicate on the go.

    Mr David Teater, formerly of the National Safety Council and now a private consultant on road safety, who lost his own son to a distracted driver, said companies clearly feared the consequences of cutting off service for their paying customers. It is an industry, he said, in which one of the most frightening words is “churn” — meaning the loss of a customer to a competitor.

    “If you’re at Apple or you’re at Samsung, do you want to be the first to block texting and driving?” he said. “A customer might say, ‘If Apple does it, then my next phone is a Samsung’.”

    But to Mr Teater, that is just an excuse. “If Apple had deployed this technology 10 years ago, there would be more people alive today,” he said. “Think about it from a parent’s perspective: How would you feel knowing Apple had the ability to prevent your teen from ever texting and driving, and they chose not to?”

    APPLE’S LOCKOUT PATENT

    In the Apple case in Texas, lawyers who brought the suit had unearthed a fascinating document: A patent filing that Apple made in 2008, which the lawyers said was granted in 2014, for technology that would “lock out” a driver’s phone by using sensors to determine if the phone was moving and in use by a driver. If so, it would prevent certain functions, such as texting.

    In the patent, Apple says such technology is necessary because: “Texting while driving has become so widespread that it is doubtful that law enforcement will have any significant effect on stopping the practice,” and, “Teens understand that texting while driving is dangerous, but this is often not enough motivation to end the practice.”

    It is unclear whether Apple has developed the lockout technology.

    While texting is on the rise, people are increasingly driving and using Snapchat and Instagram, or taking selfies, or playing Pokemon GO. The phone is at the centre of all the activity.

    Apple says it has taken other steps to address distracted driving. Its CarPlay integrates with some cars so drivers can use voice commands to control some functions of the car and the phone, including letting them orally compose text messages and listen to incoming ones. The technology, Apple says: “Allows you to stay focused on the road”.

    “We discourage anyone from allowing their iPhone to distract them by typing, reading or interacting with the display while driving,” said Apple in response to questions. The company did not directly address whether it could or should shut down phone functions. Rather, it indicated that the responsibility was with the driver.

    “For those customers who do not wish to turn off their iPhones or switch into Aeroplane Mode while driving to avoid distractions, we recommend the easy-to-use Do Not Disturb and Silent Mode features,” said the statement.

    These approaches put the onus on drivers to make decisions each time they enter a car or receive a message. In addition, voice-activated systems raise other concerns, said Dr David Strayer, an expert on driver attention at the University of Utah, who said he had studied CarPlay and the feature allowed drivers to perform some functions that could take their attention off the road. “It does not eliminate driver distraction — not even close,” he said.

    Technology is on the market that can block a driver from having to make a decision. One company, Cellcontrol, sells a device that mounts on the dash and uses high-frequency sound waves to identify a phone’s location. If the phone’s user is in the driver’s seat, the device can lock out prohibited services. The US$129 (S$175) device, which looks like a small turtle shell, “is very accurate”, said Cellcontrol’s chief technology officer Joe Breaux. The hiccup is that the technology can sometimes turn off the phone of a passenger behind the driver.

    Apple, in its patent, said it was developing “a process in which hand-held computing devices can provide a lockout mechanism without requiring any modifications or additions to the vehicle”. It would use motion and scenery sensors to determine if the phone was moving, and its location.

    By not putting the technology in place, Apple has “failed in their social responsibility”, said Mr Christopher Kutz, a professor at the University of California, School of Law, who specialises in the moral and legal principles of liability. “They should’ve done it, and even done it at a market risk.”

    Apple, as one of the great cultural influencers, might have the power to make it fashionable to choose safety over the rush of an incoming text, said Mr Kutz. “They’ve made themselves a norm maker,” he said. “With great power comes great responsibility.” The New York Times

     

    Source: TODAY Online

  • 18-Year-Old Uber Passenger Dies After Accident On Seletar Expressway

    18-Year-Old Uber Passenger Dies After Accident On Seletar Expressway

    A teenage girl has died after the private-hire car she was riding in ran into a lorry on the Seletar Expressway (SLE).

    Police said that the accident happened along the SLE towards the Bukit Timah Expressway, and involved a car, a lorry and a van.

    They collided near the Woodlands Avenue 2 exit at about 3.40am on Sunday (Sept 25). None were trapped in the vehicles, said the Singapore Civil Defence Force.

    The van driver and two car passengers were conveyed to Khoo Teck Puat hospital, police said.

    The Straits Times understands that the van’s driver, a 22-year-old man, was conveyed unconscious.

    One of the car passengers, Ms Goh Pei Ling, 18, has died of her injuries.

    The other passenger was her sister-in-law, who just held her wedding with Ms Goh’s brother last Friday, Lianhe Wanbao reported.

    They were returning to Chua Chu Kang from Pasir Ris in a Uber vehicle, the Chinese evening daily said.

    Her sister-in-law, 20, has taken to social media to express her grief and guilt at not being able to help save Ms Goh.

    Police investigation are ongoing.

     

    Source: The Straits Times

  • SMRT Tubuhkan Panel Bagi Semak Rayuan 2 Pekerja Yang Dipecat Susuli Nahas

    SMRT Tubuhkan Panel Bagi Semak Rayuan 2 Pekerja Yang Dipecat Susuli Nahas

    SMRT sudah menubuhkan sebuah panel untuk menyemak rayuan yang dibuat dua kakitangan SMRT yang diberhentikan kerja menyusuli nahas maut di stesen MRT Pasir Ris pada Mac lalu.

    Kedua-dua kakitangan SMRT itu mendapat bantuan daripada Kesatuan Pekerja Pengangkutan Kebangsaan (NTWU) dalam membuat rayuan tersebut.

    SMRT hari ini (26 Sep) menyatakan: “Sebagai respons kepada rayuan NTWU mengenai pemecatan dua kakitangan berhubung nahas maut kereta api pada 22 Mac, SMRT sudah menubuhkan satu panel rayuan terdiri daripada pengurusan kanan dari unit-unit perniagaan bukan dari Kumpulan Kereta Api. Panel itu akan menyemak rayuan ini, dan memastikan proses yang adil.”

    SMRT menambah bahawa dapatan-dapatan panel itu tidak akan mempengaruhi siasatan yang sedang dijalankan oleh pelbagai pihak berkuasa.

    Pengendali kereta api itu menambah: “SMRT mengongsi keprihatinan NTWU tentang kebajikan para pekerja dan keluarga mereka. SMRT akan bekerjasama dengan NTWU untuk mendapatkan pekerjaan bagi kedua-dua pekerja itu secepat mungkin sementara panel menyemak kes itu.”

    SMRT menambah bahawa kedua-dua pihaknya dan NTWU “bersetuju akan perlunya memperkukuhkan proses-proses keselamatan dan budaya tenaga kerja di syarikat itu. NTWU akan menyokong usaha SMRT untuk menggalak sekitaran kerja lebih selamat untuk semua pekerjanya.”

    Source: Berita MediaCorp

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