Tag: Gay

  • The Gender Challenged Are Blessed With Opportunity To Prove Love For Allah SWT

    The Gender Challenged Are Blessed With Opportunity To Prove Love For Allah SWT

    “I am born like this and like that, therefore I have the right to behave in such and such manner.”

    We are all born with the carnal self, so what do we do with that? Yes, we have the right, and that right is to direct that carnal self to goodness.

    We all are born as God’s servant, therefore we have the responsibility to make sure that the rights that we think we posses are not wrongs to Him. All of us are tested with different feelings and inclinations, it is a challenge, but it is also an opportunity for us to prove our Love for Him. We should be free to Love Him by unshackling ourselves from the control of our carnal selves.

    If we take care of our responsibilities (Waajibaat), rights will be fulfilled. If we focus only on rights (Huquq), is there guarentee that responsibilities will be fulfilled? Rights are demands while responsibilities are services. A community of service (Khidmah) is what we want. Service to God, One’ self, Fellow Human Beings & The rest of the Creations.

    Let us all Return to Fitrah.

    ‪#‎wearwhite‬

     

    Source: Wearwhite

  • Last Year, Mosques Urged Not To Adopt Confrontational Approach With LGBT Lifestyle

    Last Year, Mosques Urged Not To Adopt Confrontational Approach With LGBT Lifestyle

    The Republic’s highest Islamic authority has called on mosques “not to adopt a confrontational approach or vilify those who are involved in LGBT lifestyles or in events such as Pink Dot”, referring to the annual event that will be held next Saturday at the Speakers’ Corner in support of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender community.

    In an internal advisory issued to the mosques, the Islamic Religious Council of Singapore (MUIS) said it was against the promotion of the LBGT lifestyle, but that “support and help” must be given to those who have been leading the lifestyle or have inclinations towards it.

    It said: “We do not agree (or) approve (of) the pervasiveness of the LGBT lifestyle and we cannot agree to the efforts in promoting such a lifestyle. Nevertheless, we have to plan for something which will not only strengthen the resilience of our community to the LGBT lifestyle, but also help those who have been leading this lifestyle abstain from it and, at the same time, help those who have inclinations towards this lifestyle overcome those inclinations by providing support to them.”

    Programmes conducted in the mosques must also not be seen as a movement to oppose these people, said the advisory which was dated yesterday and signed off by the council’s director of religious development, Mr Mohd Murat Aris. The advisory was circulated on social media by Facebook users and MUIS verified its contents when contacted by TODAY.

    It also highlighted key points from a pre-Ramadan discussion held by the Office of the Mufti on June 12 for mosque religious officers, social development officers and youth development officers. The session was intended for Mufti Mohamed Fatris Bakaram to provide guidelines on the issue of “building (the Muslim community’s) resilience towards the LGBT lifestyle”.

    For example, the mosques should stress in their Ramadan programmes the pro-family message and the importance of educating family members, so they would not be involved in LGBT-related activities. Nevertheless, the issue should not be the sole focus throughout Ramadan, the Mufti said.

    On the non-confrontational approach, MUIS said: “This is first and foremost to avoid them distancing themselves from the religion and the mosque. Secondly, this is to avoid being involved in unnecessary arguments with them, which will impede our long-term efforts (on the issue). At the same time, we also do not want them to get unwanted publicity.”

    The advisory also asked the mosques “not to be seen as being involved in the crossfire” between the Pink Dot and the Wear White campaign, which was started online by Mr Noor Deros, a 28-year-old Islamic religious teacher.

    Mr Noor is calling on Muslims to wear white next Saturday to protest against homosexuality and defend traditional family values. Ramadan begins next Sunday and the first evening prayer to mark the fasting month will be held on the previous day.

    Yesterday, Mr Noor reiterated his call for Muslims to wear white to the evening prayer. In a press statement put up on the movement’s website, he said it hopes to continue promoting “family-focused” campaigns throughout the year. He reiterated that the “informal grassroots” movement has “no membership or institutionalised committee”.

    The Wear White Facebook page has attracted almost 3,000 likes so far. However, it has also attracted criticism from some social media users for being divisive, especially during Ramadan.

    Earlier this week, findings from a survey conducted by the Institute of Policy Studies showed that Muslims and Protestant Christians feel most strongly about moral issues such as homosexual sex, sex before marriage, adoption of children by gay couples and gambling.

    Yesterday, Faith Community Baptist Church (FCBC) senior pastor Lawrence Khong declared his support for the Wear White campaign. He said the FCBC and LoveSingapore network of churches will also encourage their members to wear white next weekend as a show of support. “I’m so happy Singapore’s Muslim community is making a vocal and visual stand for morality and family,” he said.

    Last month, the Ministry of Social and Family Development rejected an application by an affiliate of TOUCH Community Services — which was founded by Mr Khong — to hold a pro-family event at the Padang. Participants had been asked to wear red to the event, which was to be held on June 28, the same day as Pink Dot.

     

    Source: www.todayonline.com

  • Hirzi: I Will Remain Ferarless For The Voiceless, Unconventional Young

    Hirzi: I Will Remain Ferarless For The Voiceless, Unconventional Young

    Last year same month, Youtube Fanfest granted us a wonderful opportunity to have a meet and greet with our fans and followers. I just graduated. I remember turning up in my graduation gown. Most that turned up were teens between the age of 12 to 17. At the meet and greet, we opened the floor just for a casual chat with the kiddos. What came out of it was surprising. Instead, the kids chose to confide in us, their darkest moments.

    A 12 year old boy told me he was a victim of sexual assault in school by a group of boys because he was effeminate.

    A 14 year old hijabi girl asked me how can she overcome self-mutiliation. When I asked her why she do it. She said because she does not know how to come to terms with her feelings for girls.

    Cameras from the event were rolling. I told them to shut it down. Heart heavy, I didn’t tell them what was right or wrong. We all had our own perception of what values and morals are. But I knew we all know what is human. My answer to them all stemmed from ‘support’. I said to them I won’t be the person today without Munah and she would not be the person she is today without me. I told them, they needed to find ‘their person’. I realise then my channel was more than just two weirdos attempting comedy, it was two comical persons representing weirdos… No, ‘Different people’. Unconventional people. I left that event packing up my bags to leave Singapore for a good 5 months for America.

    This year I came back and their voices and faces still etched in my memory. This year I came back and I said, if I told them they needed their person… I’ll gladly use my voice to be their person.

    Growing up we had no social media to turn to, to find representation for how different we are. I’m glad that in my lifetime I am able to reach out for every different persons. Gay, Straight, Fat, Weird, Special, Loud.

    And to my fellow peers in the industry, if you are afraid to show your support… You must remember these kids are more afraid than you. And for all the support they have showed in our work. Voicing up is the least of our fears and is fearless at the same time too. We all have different ideas of what is right and wrong, but we should all have the same idea of what is human.

    What I choose to do this year, is not my glory. It’s for these kids. It’s not to sensationalise that a brown person is standing up for a course as controversial as this. It’s not my moment. Fear is what some voices want me to feel at this point. And fear is the last thing I will show. Because these kids, need my fearlessness. And since I am Beyonce level bad ass… I want you kids to know. I am here for you. For I am your Minah.

    Smart people are not afraid of intellectual discussions. They won’t shut you down too quickly.

    Yours Sincerely,
    Hirzi Zulkiflie.
    Sometimes Syasya. Sometimes Corporal Hassan. Sometimes Ang Mo Kio Aunty.

     

    Source: MunahHirziOfficial

  • Bishan Gay Gets 12 Months Jail for Molesting 12 Year Old Boy In Mall Toilet

    Bishan Gay Gets 12 Months Jail for Molesting 12 Year Old Boy In Mall Toilet

    A part-time tutor who sometimes refers to himself as “the Bishan gay” was sentenced to 12 months’ jail on Friday for molesting a 12-year-old boy in a mall toilet.

    Cheng Hoe Huat was found guilty after a two-day trial of touching the student’s private parts in the male toilet of Bishan Junction 8 shopping centre on Nov 13, 2013.

    The 52-year-old, who was unrepresented, is appealing. Bail of $30,000 was allowed.

    During the trial, the prosecution called 13 witnesses, including the victim, his four friends, a child psychologist and teacher.

    Cheng had approached a group of boys, including the victim, to “conduct a survey on sex education”.

    The victim accompanied him to the toilet as he thought Cheng, who was using a walking stick, needed help.

    Deputy Public Prosecutor Amanda Chong argued that the victim was an “unusually convincing witness”. The only discrepancy was in his memory of the exact toilet cubicle where the incident happened.

    She said Cheng’s defence was unsupported by any corroboration.

    District Judge Lee Poh Choo said that although the CCTV footage from the mall was not clear, images of the victim and Cheng walking together could be made out.

    Although Cheng denied knowing the victim and his friends, the judge said the boys, who were then 11 or 12, had positively identified him as the “old man” or “old uncle” who befriended them at Bishan Junction 8 and molested the victim.

    “These are young and resourceful boys as together, they secretly videoed the accused. This video clip was important evidence establishing the accused’s presence at the location on that day,” she said.

    Judge Lee said she found that the four boys had been “honest and frank”, and did not embellish their evidence.

    She agreed with the DPP that they had no motive to lie against Cheng, and convicted him of the charge.

    The maximum penalty for molesting any person under 14 years old is five years’ jail, fine and caning.

     

    Source: www.straitstimes.com

  • Something Fishy At Clementi MRT Toilet

    Something Fishy At Clementi MRT Toilet

    On my way to and from school, I always alight and board MRT at Clementi MRT. As a result, sometimes when I want to use the toilet, I will use the Clementi MRT station toilet, which is located near the MRT control station.

    But for the guys, if you’re going to use this toilet, beware! There is a lot of funny business going on there.

    Once, when I was entering the toilet, I saw a young man allowing an old uncle to enter into the same cubicle together. I don’t think they noticed that I saw them because they went in quite fast and shut the door. Of course I didn’t want to stand by to find out what they did inside and quickly finished my business to get out of there.

    Another time, I noticed that a middle aged man was lurking around the toilet suspiciously. I suspect he must have been peeking through the holes of one of the cubicles because when I went in, he was standing around the cubicles but quickly pretended to wash his hands. Even after I finished and came out of my cubicle, he was still washing his hands!

    Sometimes I see these weird stains on the floor and I can’t help but feel a bit grossed out. Maybe I am thinking too much but this whitish-yellowish stains on the floor could be semen?

    Admin, could you help me spread this story as a warning to all other people using this toilet please?

    Source: www.allsingaporestuff.com