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Desperate Mother: We Have Video Evidence Of Maid Physically Abusing Our Children But She Remains Free

I think it’s time to share this as I feel that it’s good to let others know as a deterrent and to be more careful when choosing a helper.

Sri wahyuni ( wp number 007726961 ) has been with us for about 6 months when we discovered this. We saw this video of she scolding my 3rd child Ilyas and then punching the side of my last Son Ilham’s head casually. When we spoke to our children, we later found out that she had been violent to all our kids except Auni. She had punched the tummy of ilham, slapped ilyas’s hand but was especially rough with Ilhan whom she had pushed against the door and even slapped his face. Hence we showed her this video and she said that she is sorry and would change.

We waited for a while deciding what to do but shortly after she ran away and went to MOM instead and reported we had abused her. I Guess she thought if she alleged we abused her then we can’t possibly report she has abused our kids but of course we reported the abuse and showed the police this video and now investigation is taking place. The worst was she purposely ran away on the day we were gg to Australia and had bought visa and tickets for her to go with us .

Unfortunately though our government lean towards foreigners and once a fdw alleged abuse automatically the employer will be bared from getting a helper until the investigation ends even though there is zero evidence of this – yeah wow to our govt on this ) MOM and SPF even has the cheek To repeatedly call me to enquire about the things she had left behind at my place. Hence frankly I have lost faith with the ability of MOM or spf to protect Singaporeans when it’s against the foreigners.

Because of this my boys had to go through a thorough medical examination and then later a psychological examination and don’t know hat else but that’s okay as Long as This helper will be put away .

Anyway do beware of this helper as the spf had informed me that at times the helper can appeal to find a new employer even though they are under investigation and for those families who have fdw taking care of their children, do place CCTVs but seriously if they are of preschool age do send them To child care Centres instead where you have professionals taking care of your children.

Please do make Doa and remember us in your prayers and we are hoping this ordeal will end soon and we believe Allah swt is just and there is always a HikmAh behind whatever has happened. In Shaa Allah.

Source: Shahidah Angullia Basrawi

November 5, 2016
Peserta Ms Singapore Indonesian 2016 Kumpul Dana Bagi Mangsa Banjir Di Garut

Pada tanggal 25 September keluarga besar Ms Singapore Indonesian (MSSI) berjaya mengumpul dana bantuan untuk mangsa-mangsa banjir di Garut. Segala usaha dan penat lelah mereka berjalan berjualan makanan, baju, aksesoris, merias dan mengumpul baju-baju dan barangan untuk di dermakan ke GARUT.

Rasa terharu dan bangga sekali kerana anak-didik Ibu Dyah Novita Sari selaku founder for MSSI telah melakukan suatu usaha yang murni yang tiada nilai nya dan hanya Allah swt yang akan memberi kebaikan kepada kalian semua.

Walaupun penat tapi tetap riang gembira dan terpancar rasa kepuasan dan bahagia yang mendalam dari lubuk sanubari dan amat sukar dilafazkan hanya masing-masing yang dapat merasakan nya.

Moga istiqomah dan menjadikan satu semangat dan ikutan untuk yang lain-lain.

Source: LiNda Ma’aRof

September 30, 2016
Maid Too Busy Playing Pokémon Go To Take Care Of Employer’s Daughter

Kindly Read and Share

Anyone staying at Jurong West ST 52 mummies, who know this maid employer’s. Kindly let the employer know what happen today that I witness with my own eye at the playground.

The maid in the picture below was suppose to take care of her employer kids, but she was playing “Pokémon Go” with 1 of the kid at the bench. One of the maid (onlooker) which was also taking care of her employer kids happen to saw the little girl (sitting at the maid lap) in the picture roaming around the playground without anybody taking care of her. The little girl was picking up food from the ground and she ate the food that she pick up, the maid (onlooker) called the maid in the pic but she ignore her. While I kindly approach her and let her know that the little girl is eating the food she pick from the ground. But the maid reply was : ” why you so kpo (busybody)” and my reply was :” what kpo stomach is not yours (referring to the little girl) what happen if she fall sick.” Yet the maid in the pic keep saying :” kpo kpo kpo” ” you are not my boss”

My reply was ” I’m not your boss, you are a human being but the little girl is not a human being is it?” But all the maid keep saying was “kpo kpo” and she didn’t do anything but just sitting at the bench playing Pokémon Go with the little boy and keep talking without bothering the little girl.

After that she vent her anger on the little girl by pulling her arm harshly forcing the little girl to sit on her lap.

After a while she left with her employer kids and walk to the HDB block and the little girl started to cry.

Kindly all kind soul help to share to let everyone know how this maid treat a poor little girl.

Source: Kimchi Chris Yukiko

August 17, 2016
Man Found Hidden Under Maid’s Bed, He Wasn’t An Intruder

A 78-year-old female employer of a maid from Myanmar, got the shock of her life when she discovered a man hiding under her maid’s bed.

Her dog had woken her up at midnight and led her to the maid’s room. She opened the door and was startled to find a man hiding under her maid’s bed and her maid not in the room.

She quickly called her son-in-law for assistance as she had been home alone with her 86-year-old bedridden husband. Her daughter and son-in-law rushed over. Finding the man under the bed, the son-in-law kept the man in the room and called the police.

The man struggled to get out of the room and the son-in-law had to use his weight to keep the door of the maid’s room shut. He heard the man inside make a call on his mobile phone, possibly for assistance from his friends. In the meantime, his father-in-law, who had already suffered from two strokes, went into shock. Thankfully his wife, a doctor, was able to stabilise him.

When the police arrived, they got the man out of the room and he knelt on the living room floor crying and saying he was sorry. The police questioned him and then let him go as no offence had been committed.

It turned out that the maid from Myanmar who had been with the family for six weeks had invited the man into the house.The maid denied knowing the man who is thought to be working near Bukit Timah. However, the police determined that the man had been invited into the house and had not broken in.

The family have employed maids for over 20 years and have never experienced anything like this before. They have sent the maid back to the agency. As his father-in-law is bedridden and his elderly mother-in-law is unable to care for him alone, they will be hiring another maid soon. However, not before installing further security in the house.

Source: http://sg.theasianparent.com

August 13, 2016
Non-Muslim Employer: Thanks To Random Stranger, My Indonesian-Muslim Maid Can Taste Aidilfitri

Almost afraid to post this but it has been a very interesting start to Hari Raya for me.

My helper is from Indonesia. She’s my age, alone in a foreign land, with no friends, no family and barely any way to contact her home. For whatever reason, she had chosen not to take the holiday off, and instead opting to be paid for it.

My family sat down today for a steamboat lunch. It was a pork-based soup, so she couldn’t have any. Saw her seated in the kitchen huddled over a bowl of maggi (granted it had all the halal ingredients we had for the steamboat) and my heart broke.

Stepped out of the house in an attempt to buy a few bits of food to make her day better, and realised I had NO idea what constituted Hari Raya food. Had to stop and ask random Malay strangers for their suggestions. I was so embarrassed and flushed that my specs were fogging up.

Bumped into this guy in traditional garb and asked him for suggestions as well, and was so humbled and amazed when he offered for me to go to his house and collect food. Took his number, and half an hour later was walking home with a giant bag of food. Gave it to my helper and could see her choking back tears.

This has been such a humbling and heartwarming experience. I do love Singapore so much. Here’s thanking the random stranger for his big heart. (I found his profile on FB using his number, but I think tagging him is a bit too creepy haha!)

Source: Justinian Liew

July 9, 2016