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  • 88-Year-Old Karang Guni Auntie Cannot Stop Smiling After Abang Melayu Helped Her

    88-Year-Old Karang Guni Auntie Cannot Stop Smiling After Abang Melayu Helped Her

    Happy Chinese New Year 2016.

    Was driving back home in Toa Payoh when suddenly i saw a trolley rolling down the road with full of unused items. I was puzzled and i look around for the owner of the trolley. Ended up i saw another trolley bigger than the first one with more items and behind all this huge items i saw a small old lady. She almost get hit by a car due to her pushing the trolleys in the middle of the road. And best part there were about 2 to 3 cars passing by and never did stop and help her. Manage to stop and push up the first trolley to the pavement followed by attending to her. While approaching her all u can see is her half face with her hands waving. Due to huge boxes covering most of her body. From far she shout ‘uncle boleh tolong saya uncle boleh tolong saya!’ Which is ‘help me help me!’

    Cut story short help her since i have a van. And she direct me to the place where she is going. HONESTLY if she push it on her own its gonna take her 1hr30mins or so But it was only a 5 min drive. While in the van. We talked. She was 88 years old live in toa payoh. She has kids but lost contact with her. (True or not i donno) She only drinks coffee and eat kueh pau. Spent the rest of the day serching for unused items.

    Best question and answer.

    Me: aunty you angkat barang kenapa banyak sangat? Satu orang dua trolley. You sudah tua makin sakit.
    Her reply moved me!

    Aunty: Chinese new year sudah mau datang. Saya harus kerja kuat kuat nanti dapat wang lebih boleh beli makan sedap. Boleh kasi wang sama budak budak.

    And seriously it moved me! She work so hard and earn so little and her thoughts for Chinese new year is so huge. I envy her spirits.

    And i never know hows a life of karang guni in Singapore till i met her. She directed me in someplace where she can sell it. And she teach me to put the items accordingly. Like papers with papers cupboards with cupboards metal with metal etc. And FYI i got scolded by her for messing it up. So have to redo everything balik. Not easy! Seriously not easy. And i got stop and questioned by Police Officer due to parking my van in the opposite direction. Which i didnt realise and the aunty directing to the place. And they left!

    After all is done. I have to make my move and go home. Aunty never stop saying thank you uncle thank you uncle. Tak ada orang tolong sama saya cuma you sahaja. I told her its okay. If people help you take it as a blessing. If people dont help you dont expect much. We owe no one a living. Aunty replied. Wahhh saya happy la ini hari. So cute i tell you the aunty.

    Before moving off handed a certain amount of money and all of a sudden she cried. And this is what she say. “I asked your help not for money. I asked your help to help carry the stuff cos im old and weak not for your money” translated thou.

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    My reply “no worries. Keep the money. Get yourself good food. Bak kut teh or whatever u wanna eat. Get yourself good drink like wheat grass or soya bean. I dont want you to eat kueh pau and drink coffee tmr. Have something good for yourself. Prepare yourself for Chinese New Year. Buy what is necessary.”

    Her face expression is priceless. Smiling with a lil tear dropping. And continue saying thank you Uncle! And i depart with good bye aunty and kong xi fa cai.

    And the smile on her face stuck on my mind. I guess this is the most wide smile she smiled before. I thank Allah for letting me meet this aunty and give me the chance to help her. Things happen for a reason. Kindness start with oneself. May we be different in colours but kindness show no difference in colours. And Alhamdullilah everything is smooth. Aunty reached her destination safely.

    Every happiness starts with you. To all my Chinese friend. Happy Chinese New year.

    Psst. The pictures is she request to take all because ” uncle amek gambar saya la jadi uncle boleh ingat saya. Nanti bila uncle rindu sama saya uncle boleh tengok gambar saya.” Translated “uncle take my picture so you can remember me. As and when you miss me just see the pictures and you will be remembered.”

    Thank you.
    Kong xi fa cai!

     

    Source: Syam Sj

  • Sangeetha Thanapal: Understand Georgraphy And History – Malays Always Indigenous To Singapore

    Sangeetha Thanapal: Understand Georgraphy And History – Malays Always Indigenous To Singapore

    In my work on racism and racial dynamics in Singapore, I have spent some time resolutely attacking what I believe to be harmful stereotypes of Malay people, and pointing out the myriad ways they are discriminated against in their own land. Racist Chinese people generally dislike it when I do this, and they often reply by stating that if Malay people do not like it here, they can move, (or go back to), Malaysia. Many Chinese Singaporeans tend to behave as if they have right and ownership over this land, and subsequently that they are entitled to decide who gets to live in it.

    This is all very odd to me, because it is almost as if these people never went through a single history class at Lower Secondary level.

    So let us begin with a simple but vital assertion: This land does belong to Malay people. Malay people have been living in Singapore and the area for thousands of years. In the third century, Chinese records refer to us at Pu Luo Chung, which is a transliteration from the Malay Pulau Ujong, meaning ‘island at the end’. The names given to this area are Malay, but apparently the people who speak this language are not considered indigenous to it? Who exactly are your indigenous people, if that term doesn’t include Malay people?

    There is a reason why it is Malay lore and myth in which references to the land happens. It is because they have been here long enough to produce literature about it. When you focus on the gap between our knowledge of the land and theirs, especially traditional knowledge, you start to see their relationship to the land. There is no way they are not indigenous to this land.

    Land, language, memory & history. These are all linked, and the rest of have do not possess this connection to the land. Somebody was living here before the British came, and it sure was not Chinese people.

    Denying this is ahistorical, and it constitutes an erasure of people’s histories. Denying their existence and that history is a colonial act in itself, and every colonial act is violent. It is not only an act of erasure but one of displacement as well.

    Singapore was not terra nullius, meaning it was not ‘nobody’s land’. Singapore belonged to the Johor Riau Sultanate, which means by definition it is Malay land.

    Indigeneity is not always defined by geography, but by people as well. What we think of as Malay includes indigenous people, Bugis, Minangkabau, etc. The idea of Malay does not just mean people from Malaya, but the people of the Nusantara. This entire archipelago is the Malay world. As Singapore existed within this world, it is undoubtedly Malay land.

    The Singapore government’s mistreatment of Malay people includes a focus on Malay people as diasporic, which states that Malay people came here from elsewhere, and this is an act of historical erasure. They didn’t come here, they were already here. The Singapore you think of now was never a country before, it was part of Malay land and the Malay world.

    If you cannot accept or understand this, that means you cannot understand geography and history. Why do people have so much difficulty accepting facts? Non-Malay minorities are also here on stolen land, and we need to accept and understand this. Even the rest of us, including Indians, don’t have a claim on this land. We can never truly find solidarity if we insist on acting as if Indian people and Malay people have the same claim to Singapore.

    This does not erase our contributions or our generations that have grown up here, or our own attachment to the land. But it simply not equivalent to Malay people’s claim over it. No one is asking for reparations and no one is asking you to leave their land. So why do so many people find it difficult to accept facts and the truth?

    In Singapore, Malay people are targeted for legal and cultural extinction. The percentage of Malay people in Singapore is decreasing, despite the maintenance of total fertility rate for the community. Population policies seek to bring in Indian and PRC migrants, but not Malay. They are slowly being phased out as immigration policies are making Malay people extinct in their own land. This is Malay land, and they have become second class citizens on their own land. That is simply unacceptable.

    So, who gains from the denial of Malay indigineity to Singapore? Who gains from erasure of this past? What do they gain? At what point can we admit that this “debate” over how long Malay people have been here and where their ancestors came from is just a rhetorical exercise aimed specifically to cast aspersions on indigenous birthright?

    I have my theories but I’m going to leave this here for people to think about.

    In our anti-racism work in Singapore, aboriginality must be foundational. As minorities, we need to examine our own complicity in the ongoing project of colonisation, whether it be White or Chinese in nature. During the time I have been engaged in doing this work, I have come to believe that anti-racism for the Malay community has to begin with assertions of indigeneity and ownership of land. Regardless of where you are and where you come from, you have a responsibility to know the names of the territories you are on and the people who have called those places home.

    Update: My dear friend @POZboySG pointed out what he felt was the lack of attention to Orang Asli people in this piece. He is completely correct. I did not address it because I felt I knew very little about it and that means I am not the right person to do so. I cannot speak about Orang Asli forced assimilation into mainstream Malaysian culture as I am simply not qualified. I did talk about indigenous people AND Malay people as being indigenous to the land, because that is how I see it. For the purposes of talking specifically about Singapore, I feel speaking of Malay people as indigenous to the land is the best political way to approach it, especially when faced with Chinese hegemonic claims. This is of course my opinion, and up for debate.

    Source: https://medium.com

  • My Malay Neighbour Unhappy With My 2 Year Old Child Crying And Playing, Harassed Us Frequently

    My Malay Neighbour Unhappy With My 2 Year Old Child Crying And Playing, Harassed Us Frequently

    Jiran i pun sama…diapun melayu juga..anak saya umur baru masuk tiga tahun..baik budak ni nanggis atau tengah bermainpun dia marah..call police lah…call HDB lah..

    pekik sana pekik sini..tendang kita punya gate la..tapi herannya dia ta na cakap face to face dgn kita…

    dia taruh letter kat semua letter box jiran..mengatakan kita ta lih didik anak…

    nasib baik jiran yg lain semua paham and side kita…semua letter kita taruh balik ke letter box dia…padam muka dia…kita ta layan dia….

    merekapun ada anak tp da besar..

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    My neighbours also the same….they are fellow Malays…My child is 2 years plus…whether the baby is crying or playing, they will be angry..they called the police and HDB

    They screamed and shout…kicked our gate…but the funny thing is they have never complained to us face to face

    They put a letter in all the neighbours’ letter box saying that we are not teaching our child.

    Luckily the rest of our neighbours are understanding and side with us. All the letters they put back in their letter box.  Serve them right. Everyone ignored them.

    They also have a child but is already grown up.

     

    Editor’s Note: Endang Leatari was commenting on an All Singapore Stuff article, www.allsingaporestuff.com/article/neighbor-slips-angry-note-flat-over-babys-crying-gets-trolled-big-time

    Source: Endang Leatari

  • Khilaf Tanpa Ilmu Punca Perpecahan Kalangan Umat Islam

    Khilaf Tanpa Ilmu Punca Perpecahan Kalangan Umat Islam

    KUALA LUMPUR, 28 Jan (Bernama) — Perbezaan pendapat atau khilaf yang dibahaskan tanpa ilmu dilihat menjadi punca kepada perpecahan dalam kalangan umat Islam.

    Felo Kanan Pusat Kajian Syariah dan Undang-undang Institut Kefahaman Islam Malaysia (IKIM) Dr Mohd Farid Mohd Shahran berkata ketika ini, terdapat ulama Ahli Sunnah Wal Jamaah yang tidak menepati prinsip dan kaedah perbezaan pandangan semasa mengemukakan sesuatu pendapat.

    “Kadang-kala yang dipertikai dan diperdebatkan hanyalah perkara cabang (perkara kecil) tetapi diangkat menjadi isu besar,” katanya.

    Beliau berkata demikian dalam sesi perbahasan pada Persidangan Meja Bulat Prinsip dan Kaedah Perbezaan Pandangan Dalam Kerangka Ahli Sunnah Wal Jamaah anjuran IKIM di sini, hari ini.

    Beliau berkata perbezaan pendapat itu sepatutnya membawa kepada kebaikan tetapi sebaliknya telah membawa kepada perselisihan dalam kalangan umat Islam.

    Katanya perbezaan pendapat yang diutarakan juga bersandarkan kepada kepentingan kelompok dan individu tertentu sahaja.

    Justeru dalam menangani masalah itu, beliau menyeru ulama kembali kepada prinsip dan adab dalam menyelesaikan perbezaan pendapat, antaranya mengutamakan dalil dan hujah, memahami keutamaan dalam pebezaan pandangan serta mencari ruang keharmonian atas sesuatu pertentangan.

    Persidangan yang menghimpunkan kira-kira 100 ulama termasuk mufti dan hakim syarie itu, menjadi platform kepada usaha menyatukan kembali ulama dalam memahami konsep sebenar perbezaan pendapat.

     

    Source: http://www.bernama.com

  • Young Entrepreneur @teebyzeids Raises Funds For “From Singapore To Palestine”

    Young Entrepreneur @teebyzeids Raises Funds For “From Singapore To Palestine”

    Bro maybe you guys missed this on instagram

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    Recently these young entrepreneurs with huge ambitions and even bigger hearts from @teebyzeids raised funds for the people of “From Singapore to Palestine”. (FS2P)

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    For every purchase made, these guys donated $2 to the people of “From Singapore to Palestine” (FS2P).

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    Simple and effective way to raise donations for a worthy cause that is close to the hearts of us Muslims.

    Check out their designs…they have some very cool stuff.

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    When the next round comes around, don’t hesitate to do your part because Muslim lives matter too!

    Muslim Lives Matter Too

     

    #MuslimLivesMattersToo

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