Tag: autistic

  • Mother: Help! My 12 Year Old Autistic Son Is Missing

    Mother: Help! My 12 Year Old Autistic Son Is Missing

    Calder disappeared when I came out of the flat this morning. He probably took the lift down to go wait for his school bus. But he didn’t get up the school bus.

    If you see him (esp around Hougang St 51 area), please stay with him and call me at 98367814 (please do not contact me otherwise).

    Calder Kam, 12, missing since 7.30am. Wearing light blue school shirt (see pix) with his name on it and beige bermudas. Carrying dark blue haversack. Calder is autistic and cannot talk well.

     

    Source: Brenda Tan

  • Desperate Father: Will My Son Ever Get A Place In Autism SPED School When Even My Own MP Cannot Help?

    Desperate Father: Will My Son Ever Get A Place In Autism SPED School When Even My Own MP Cannot Help?

    NOT ASKING FOR THE MOON…Just A Place For My Son In Autism Sped School…!!!

    I rarely post on social media. But today is an exception. Today I can’t help but to post this.

    After much persuasion from my wife… today after work, I accompanied both my wife and son to Eden School / Eden Centres for Adults / Eden Children’s Centres / AAS for Autism, in hopes to plead for a slot this year for Nabil in there.

    After meeting with the in charge for enrollment, to our disappointment we were told that the earliest most possible intake for Nabil is next year in January 2018.

    He’s of a P2 age this year…it’s been 2 lengthy years already..how long more do you expect my son to wait… I can’t help feeling the negative vibes that Nabil is like not being considered for a place at all when being told to go and try for other sped schools or private schools…..this is easier said than done.

    It is beyond my understanding why distance between school and home is not being considered during a sped school enrollment just like how it is being applied in mainstream primary schools.

    Really could not comprehend the system how a student who resides in as far as pasir ris and tampines are prioritized and get a slot in Eden (Bt Batok) while we the apparent west residents (CCK) are left hanging precariously by the hook.

    We as parents are truly exhausted. Have tried numerous means of help…even to the extend of approaching the Member of Parliament of our area Mr Zaqy Mohamad in hopes to expedite the enrollment but till today..we have yet to receive even a reply from him regarding the matter regrettably.

    It is just emotionally tiring and draining to say the least…as a husband, seeing your wife shedding her tears helplessly in public as we step out of Eden School earlier on while hugging my son was the last straw for me!

    Seek help from Ministry of Education, Singapore you say?? How could we when in the first place, they couldn’t even help to issue a student ezlink card for Nabil just because he has yet to get enrolled into a school. Yes. My son all this while has been paying adult fare whenever he took the train since he turns 7. How justifying is this…?! You see how my son has been tossed back and forth all these while….

    The system got to change…someone has got to look into the cases which falls through the cracks…that’s where our unheard voices are being suppressed unfairly….?

     

    Source: Aqil Alid

  • Owners Of T Bob’s Corner Donating Some Earnings To Help Autistic 11 Year Old Boy

    Owners Of T Bob’s Corner Donating Some Earnings To Help Autistic 11 Year Old Boy

    The owners of a Western food restaurant are donating part of its proceeds to help an 11-year-old boy who has autism.

    Miss Nurul Jannah Saharuddin, 23, and Miss Indah Nabielah Zulkarnain, 24, who run T Bob’s Corner in Bedok, are giving up 30 per cent of the eatery’s takings from Oct 18 to 23 to help the boy, Akid, after hearing about his plight from a musician who performed at their restaurant recently.

    Earlier this year, The New Paper reported on how Akid had become more aggressive and violent because of his condition. (See report below.)

    The women bought over the business at Block 527, Bedok North Street 3, two months ago with the help of their fathers.

    Miss Indah said that donating a sizeable chunk of their week-long revenue would hit their take-home income, but both of them shrugged it off.

    Miss Jannah told The New Paper: “We thought 30 per cent was a good number. If you want to help, it has to be a substantial amount, even if it hurts a little.”

    Miss Indah said: “Well, businesses come with risks, right?”

    Miss Indah Nabielah Zulkarnain TNP PHOTOS: AHMAD FARUQ ROZALI

     

    Only their income will be affected as their staff of two chefs and three part-time waiters will continue to draw their full wages.

    Miss Jannah, an RMIT University business management graduate, said: “It would demoralise them otherwise. So we both decided we would make the sacrifice so Akid can benefit from it.”

    They estimate that they will lose about 15 to 20 per cent of their take-home income for that week.

    It’s their way of giving back, they said.

    VOLUNTEER WORK

    Miss Indah, a life sciences graduate, became involved in fund-raising activities while studying at the National University of Singapore.

    Her experience in volunteering at an orphanage in Indonesia five years ago also played a part in making her want to help Akid.

    “Five years later, the children (at the orphanage) are still messaging me on Facebook, asking me when I’m returning to visit. The fact that these kids remember us means that they treasure every little bit we do, even if we didn’t do much,” she said.

    Agreeing, Miss Jannah said: “My parents told me, ‘You don’t need money to be nice’.

    “(Indah) didn’t have to fork out a million dollars to have the kids remember her. It’s just the things we do that matter.”

    Miss Jannah’s path to volunteering was more personal.

    A decade ago, she was a beneficiary of a South East Community Development Programme financial aid programme.

    Her mother, who has fought thyroid cancer for close to two decades, was also a source of inspiration.

    “She never saw her condition as something to hold her back. She still gave back by volunteering on weekends,” Miss Jannah said.

    She plans to ask her musician father, Mr Saharuddin Jalil, to invite some bands to perform at the restaurant next week in the hope of attracting more customers.

    Asked if they are worried about coping with the expected crowd, Miss Indah said with a smile: “That will be a good problem.”

     

    Source: www.tnp.sg