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  • Gay Malay Teacher Offer Guidance to Sexually Confused Student

     

     

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    Dear R1C,

    When I was in school, I had a major crush on my teacher. I didn’t tell anyone about it and kept it to myself. I wasn’t sure if that was the right thing to feel because I am a guy. Besides, I wasn’t sure if what I am feeling was wrong towards the society, my family and my religion. As a Muslim raised in a conservative family, I am torn in between my feelings and other people’s expectations.

    But what if this feeling is the right kind of wrong? What if it is not wrong after all?

    Because my actions were obvious and all gays have something called ‘gaydar’ or ‘gay-radar’, my secret feelings were exposed when my teacher confronted me one day. He confessed that he understood my needs and knew how sad it was to be perceived as ‘weird’. From that day onwards, there was no hiding between us because our feelings were mutual. He was my confidante, my good friend and a lover. Although we had a relationship for 3 years and broke up only when I left for poly, I am truly thankful for the guidance my ex-teacher had given me. I would not have been able to survive this harsh world if not for his emotional support.

    I am thankful to God because I found someone who truly cares about me and showed me the importance to love myself and be who I really am when faced with oppositions. My ex-teacher told me I deserved to be happy. When I turned 22, I left home to lead my own life and stayed with my partner. Occasionally, I would return home only to see my mom who was deeply disappointed by my ‘queer’ preference. My dad has disowned me.

    Now, I have become a teacher myself. A similar experience had happened to me as well. I spotted one student who had the same reaction whenever I looked at my ex-teacher. Instantaneously, I knew what I had to do.  Guidance and be a role model.

    To those who hate the PLUs, let it be known that everyone deserves to be happy. We live once and we have the right to choose the kind of life we want to lead for the rest of our lives. It doesn’t make me a lesser Muslim just because I prefer men. You simply can’t force anyone to eat something he don’t like.

     

    Sofian Ryan

     

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  • NTUC Beri Tumpuan Kepada Kaum Ibu

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    Patrick Tay dari NTUC telah memberikan satu hujah di Parlimen, menggesa masyarakat dan pemerintah untuk mengiktiraf dan memberikan ganjaran yang lebih kepada golongan suri rumah, atau “Stay-At-Home-Mothers. “

    Beliau mula dengan memberikan sedikit later belakang mengenai golongan tersebut:

    “Satu golongan yang sering kurang diberi perhatian dan bantuan adalah golongan ibu yang tinggal di rumah sepenuh masa. Pada 2013, terdapat sekurang-kurangnya 312,000 wanita yang tidak bekerja kerana menjaga anak dan juga menguruskan rumahtangga mereka. Namun, perhatian tentang peranan penting yang dimainkan golongan ini dalam menyokong sesebuah unit keluarga, yang juga kadang kala meliputi rangkaian keluarga yang lebih besar, masih agak berkurangan dari perintah dan juga masyarakat. 

    Selanjutnya, berikut adalah 10 isi kandungan dari ucapan beliau:

    10. Golongan SAHM tidak seharusnya dilihat sebagai golongan yang tidak produktif dan kurang menyumbang kepada masyarakat.

    9. Masyarakat dan pemerintah harus mengiktiraf, memberi ganjaran dan memberi jaminan kepada golongan SAHM.

    8. Dasar-dasar perlu disasarkan dikukuhkan agar bantuan dapat diberikan pada tahap-tahap penting sepanjang pembangunan anak-anak mereka.

    7. Kita perlu mencari jalan untuk membiayai usaha-usaha pro-keluarga , yang dapat meningkatkan lagi kefahaman serta pengiktirafan nilai ekonomi dan sosial yang ditunjukkan golongan ini.  

    6. Kini, masih belum ada subsidi pengangkutan bagi golongan SAHM. Mereka terpaksa membawa anak-anak mereka ketika melakukan pelbagai kerja-kerja rumah untuk keluarga. Subsidi harus disertakan dalam Pakej Perkahwinan dan Keibubapaan.

    5. Dasar-dasar kita harus memastikan yang setiap bantuan danfaedah yang telah dimanfaatkan golongan ibu yang bekerja, juga diberikan kepada ibu yang tinggal di rumah.

    4. Pelepasan cukai dan rebat bagi golongan SAHM boleh diperbaiki. Pelepasan bagi Ibu Bekerja dan Anak (WMCR) boleh dilanjutkan kepada golongan SAHM, dan pelepasan ini boleh dikongsi dengan pasangan mereka untuk meringankan beban bagi keluarga berpendapatan tunggal.   

    3. Keperluan perubatan pada masa depan harus dipertimbangkan. Ibu-ibu sepenuh masa tidak mempunyai sumbangan CPF dan Medisave yang tetap.Golongan SAHM perlu diberikan tokokan sumbangan pada akaun Medisave dan Akaun Khas mereka.

    2. Bagi wanita yang bergantung kepada sumbangan suami untuk sumbangan akaun CPF mereka, pemerintah harus memberikan sumbangan sepadan bagi setiap jumlah yang disalurkan kepada CPF mereka. 

    1. Syarikat-syarikat digalakkan untuk menimbangkan dan menawarkan pekerjaan separuh masa dan juga secara bebas bagi golongan SAHM,serta menyokong program-program kembali bekerja bagi golongan ini. Mereka perlu diberikan pelbagai pilihan yang ada untuk membantu menambah pendapatan keluarga mereka.

    Patrick mengakhiri ucapannya dengan kata-kata ini:

    “Golongan suri rumah mempunyai kerjaya utama yang unggul. Semua kerjaya lain wujud untuk satu tujuan sahaja – iaitu untuk menyokong kerjaya yang unggul “. Saya ingin memaklumi, mengiktiraf dan menyanjung semua ibu-ibu, terutamanya golongan ibu-ibu yang tinggal di rumah! Terima kasih kerana telah  membesarkan satu generasi rakyat Singapura! “

     

     

    Sumber: fivestarsandamoon, Athena Croft

  • Guy Wash Private Part Using Toilet Bowl Water

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    Dear R1C,

    Any expert can help me figure this out?

    I had to rush to the toilet (in a shopping mall) because I was having an upset stomach earlier this morning. While entering, another man (cannot write race if not people say I racist) took the other cubicle beside me. Both of us seems to be having a morning competition as there were lots of sound (farts and stuff) and sigh of relief coming out from both our cubicles.

    Once done, I cleaned myself with toilet paper when I heard the sound of flushing coming from the cubicle beside me. However, the guy flushed it a few times repeatedly and there were also sound as if he was using water to clean himself.

    The thought that immediately came to my mind was, where the hell did he get the water from? There was no bidet shower in the public toilet! Next I saw was water flowing from the other cubicle to my side. Lucky I had cleaned myself up and I lift up my feet to avoid the water.

    When I was washing my hands, he also exited his cubicle. He rinsed his hands and left promptly. I turned and noticed that his cubicle floor was totally wet and it was confirmed that there was no bidet shower. I pity the cleaning lady in-charge of the toilet as it was a mess left by the guy.

    I’m just wonder which way is cleaner, using toilet paper or water?

     

    Gordon T

     

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  • Filipinos Think They are Better than Singaporeans and Americans

     

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    We are the Pearl of the Orient, therefore we are precious.

    We are better than Americans, for it was by mere chance that their country is rich and ours is poor. Americans always rely on machines to do their work because they are lazy. They have machines to clean the floor, cut wood, cut grass, open tin cans, so many machines for lazy people. Filipinos are more industrious than Americans.

    We are better than the Chinese or Japanese or Koreans or Germans because we speak good English. English is the language of science, technology and commerce so we Filipinos have a better understanding of those fields. Just wait, very soon Filipinos will go to space and we will be more proud than before.

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    Sa Tagalog:
    Kami ang Perlas ng Silangan, kung gayon kami ay mamahálin.

    Daig namin ang mga Amerikano, dala lamang ng pagkakataon na mayaman ang bansa nila at mahirap ang sa amin. Ang mga Amerikano ay laging naka-asa sa mga makinarya sa kanilang mga gawain sapagkat sila ay tamad. Meron silang makina panglinis ng sahig, panglagare ng kahoy, pangputol ng damo, pangbukas ng delata, maraming mga makina para sa mga tamad na tao. Mas masipag ang Pilipino kesa Amerikano.

    Daig namin ang mga Intsik o Hapon o Koreano o Aleman sapagkat mahusay kami sa Ingles. Ingles ang salita ng syensa, teknolohiya at negosyo kaya mas naiintidahan namin ang mga bagay na yan. Maghintay ka ng konting panahon dahil malapit ng makarating sa kalawakan ang Pilipino at lalong meron kaming ipagyayabang.

    Source: FilipinoFailBlog

  • Indonesian SPG Wants to Find Rich Ang Moh Husband in SG

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    36 year old Indonesian Foreign Talent who identifies herself as ‘Lee’ is looking for a rich Ang Moh husband to fill up the void in her life.

    Lee who stays in Jurong, gave vivid expectations of future hubby with accompanying photos of herself. She dislikes Indian men and loves Ang Moh.

    Do you think her criteria and expectations of a life-partner is too high for her looks?

    Well, you’d be the judge.

    INTRO

    I love to learn cooking especially Asian and Western food (except indian dishes, I DON’T LIKE INDIAN MEN and not only me ).
    Scammers pls stay away.
    ~ If u said am not sexy/beautiful enough, pls make 100 % sure that u look like David Beckham / Tom Cruise / Ronaldo or my Italian FRIEND Federico Folcia (pls google him and see how good looking he is ! )

    LOOKING FOR PEOPLE WHO CAN INTRODUCE / MATCHMAKING ME WITH ANGMOH ( WHITE CAUCASIAN) who is looking for serious relationship.
    I like ANGMOH

    REQUIREMENT

    NOT FAT MAN , NON SMOKER , NOT MARRIED / SEPARATED MAN. Not cheapskate man.

    Beautiful Quote for guys : ~ Never look for a GOOD FACE, it will turn OLD one day ~ Never look for a GOOD SKIN, it will WRINKLE one day ~ Never look for a HOT BODY, it will CHANGE one day ~ Never look for NICE HAIR, it will turn WHITE one day Instead, look for a LOYAL HEART that will love you EVERYDAY

     

    Source: Gordon Tay, SingaporeLoveLinks.com

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